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Pamela Stephenson Connolly

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is patron of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) corst.org.uk

August 2024

  • A man and woman in bed

    Sexual healing
    My partner and I only have sex three times a year – and I am frustrated

    She denies being anxious and doesn’t want to seek counselling, but the situation is starting to feel unsustainable
  • A graphic of a man sitting on the side of a bed

    Sexual healing
    I need oral sex to stay erect – but my girlfriend doesn’t like giving it

    I find her very attractive and we love each other, so why is this happening during penetration?
  • An image of a man and woman lying side by side

    Sexual healing
    My wife has no libido. Should I sleep with other people, as she suggests?

    Her sex drive started to disappear after an operation, but I think an open relationship will lead to disaster. How do we reach a compromise?

July 2024

  • ‘Presently he is off porn but is still not sexually interested in me.’

    Sexual healing
    I crave sex with my husband – but his porn addiction gets in the way

    My friends are disgusted that I haven’t left him, but he is otherwise a kind and loving man. How can we fix our relationship?
  • Sexual healing illustration composite showing an image of a young man (a model) sitting up in bed

    Sexual healing
    I have anxiety and body image issues. How can I stop being so frightened of sex?

    In sexual situations, I freeze and panic, when all I want is to enjoy stress-free physical and romantic relationships
  • Composite of an older woman resting her head on an older man’s bare chest

    Sexual healing
    I’m struggling to enjoy foreplay – but I want more from sex than just penetration

    As a young woman, I had a powerful libido. A lot of inhibitions have surfaced since the menopause

June 2024

  • A woman wearing a towel and looking towards the floor

    Sexual healing
    My partner wants me to ejaculate – and I’m not sure it’s possible

  • ‘Even with this freedom I feel lost'.

    Sexual healing
    I want love and intimacy – but I am struggling with my sexual identity

  • Illustration of two pairs of male legs in bed

    Sexual healing
    I used to be a top, but it no longer works for me. How do I tell my partner I’ve become a side?

  • Composite illustration of a man clutching the back of his head, with first aid signs

    Sexual healing
    My husband and I haven’t had sex for months. I feel undesirable and ugly

May 2024

  • sexual healing composite image

    Sexual healing
    I lose interest in sex at the moment of penetration – and it’s puzzling my husband

  • ‘Intimacy is difficult.’

    Sexual healing
    My wife and I used to love sex – but now I’m out of shape and she has painful knees

  • ‘I long to get back the dominant top that I married.’

    Sexual healing
    I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom

  • Man looking despondently at his watch

    Sexual healing
    My wife rarely instigates sex – and always wants to schedule it. Why can’t she be more spontaneous?

April 2024

  • Sexual Healing composite image – my partner won’t go down on me because I refuse to make concessions

    Sexual healing
    My partner hates my pubic hair but I refuse to shave. What now?

    He’s ashamed and embarrassed at his reaction – but he seems unable to get past it. And I am not going to change
  • ‘I feel so much more sexually confident with him and have a happiness I’ve never felt before.’

    Sexual healing
    The stress of cheating on my wife is making me ill – but I can no longer suppress who I am

    I love her and my children, but have fallen for another man. What can I do? I’m now suffering from gastrointestinal problems and using alcohol to get to sleep
    • Sexual healing
      I used to love sex. But my boyfriend’s premature ejaculation is turning me off it – and him

    • Sexual healing
      My fiance fears intimacy – and we’ve only had sex twice

    • Sexual healing
      My husband has suggested we both go on Tinder for fun – but will this open a can of worms?

March 2024

  • ‘I don’t know how to get the spark back.’

    Sexual healing
    Motherhood has changed my wife’s body – and I’m no longer attracted to her

    I love her very much, and think she is beautiful, but I sometimes struggle to get an erection when we’re making love. What can I do? I worry for our marriage
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