Finding Your Way Back to YOU: A self-help book for women who want to regain their Mojo and realise their dreams!
By Lynne Saint
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About this ebook
Are you at a crossroads in life, lacking in motivation, looking for a new direction, or just plain ‘stuck’?
Finding your Way back to YOU is a practical resource written specifically for women who have found themselves in any of these positions.
Written by Lynne Saint - experienced Life Coach, NLP Practitioner and Hypnotherapist – this is a hands-on book with an accompanying downloadable journal and weblinked exercises.
Lynne’s straight-talking guidance, drawn from Coaching, Neuro Linguistic Programming and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, will help you to change your behaviour, and motivate and support you throughout your personal journey of self-discovery. This book will help you to develop and achieve the goals that you have dreamed of.
Full book details are available on the Bennion Kearny website.
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Finding Your Way Back to YOU - Lynne Saint
Finding Your Way Back to YOU: A self-help guide for women who want to regain their Mojo and realise their dreams!
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Lynne Saint
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[Smashwords Edition]
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Published in 2012 by Bennion Kearny Limited.
Copyright © Bennion Kearny Ltd 2012
ISBN: 978-1-909125-11-7
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Table of Contents
Title Page
Dedication
About Lynne Saint
Introduction
Workbook [to download]
1: Getting Motivated Towards YOU
Your commitment to yourself
Self-Belief
Motivation
Self-Discipline
Willingness to challenge yourself
Your attitude – positive or negative?
Are you currently at cause or effect?
Adopt a Positive Attitude
How motivated am I?
Daily Workout
The Ring of Motivation and Energy
Daily Visualisation
Dreaming yourself to the future YOU
The Future Me
Me Time
Time to look back… but only for a while!
Reflections / Changes I have noticed already
Daily Checklist towards YOU
Summary
2: Getting Rid of the Old Stuff
Limiting Beliefs
Why should I change my self-limiting beliefs?
The Power of having a Positive Outlook
Turning Down the Volume of Your Inner Critic or Wimp!
Daily Workout
Daily Visualisation
New Belief Generator
Moodhoovers and Energy Vampires
Energy Radiators versus Moodhoovers and Energy Vampires
Me Time
Time to Reflect and celebrate your progress so far
Reflections / Changes I have noticed
Daily Checklist towards YOU
Summary
3: Reality Check (where are you now?)
Auditing Your Life
Your personal CV – Now
Your personal CV – Future Skills I want to Develop
The Wheel of Life
My Life Wheel
Regaining Balance
My Life Action Plan
Daily Workout
Creating More Resources for Yourself
Daily Visualisation
New Behaviour Generator
Me Time
Time to Reflect and Celebrate your progress so far
Reflections / Changes I have noticed since starting this chapter
Daily Checklist towards YOU
Summary
4: Getting to YOU
Goal Setting
SMART
Daily Workout
Your Ideal Week
Daily Visualisation
Creating Your Future Vision Today
Me Time
Time to Reflect and to Celebrate your progress
Reflections / Changes I have noticed already
Daily Checklist towards YOU
Summary
5: Creating the Real YOU
What is Self-Image?
What does self-image have to do with self-esteem?
Daily Workout
Why does looking after your Self-image and Self-esteem matter?
Mirror, Mirror....
Body Image
Top to Toe Image Audit
First Impressions
First Meetings
Individuality
A Winning Smile!
Be Positive
Daily Visualisation
Bringing it all Together
Me Time Maximisers
Reflections / Changes I have noticed
Daily Checklist towards YOU
Summary
6: Keeping it Real – YOU Maintenance
Keeping it Real – What Next?
Keeping the Weeds Out of your Future
Maintaining Momentum
Reflecting on Techniques that worked for you... and techniques that didn’t!
Daily Workouts and Visualisations I liked
Daily Workouts and Visualisations that did not work for me
Daily Workout
Tic Toc Exercise
Daily Visualisation
Me Time Meditation
Having a Go…
Motivational Quotes
Be Happy... NOW!
Time to Look Back… briefly
Looking Backwards and Moving Forwards
Daily Checklist - YOU
Summary
Other Self-Help Books from Bennion Kearny
Dedication
For Jack
About Lynne Saint
Lynne Saint is a professional life coach, author, trainer, hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner. She runs her coaching practice - The Change Coach UK - in Watford, UK.
Lynne is a winner of a National Training Award for her own inspirational self-development, and continues to develop and support others to change their ways of thinking and behaviour - to be the best that they can be.
Introduction
Do you feel that you have been side-tracked from the real YOU either by your career, taking time to bring up a family, or being in a relationship? Are you tired of putting others first and always accepting second best? Or do you feel that you have reached a stage in your life where you have become ‘stuck’, or are at a crossroads, and need some direction.
This book is a practical guide for women of all ages and walks of life, to provide you with the focus, motivation, and new skills and techniques to get you what you really want. It is a resource that you can dip into for reference or strength when you have become the person that you really aspire to be.
It introduces you to new skills that, at first, may seem a bit strange or unfamiliar, but you have already taken the first step to learning new things about yourself - so just go with the flow and enjoy the experience. Each chapter has a similar structure and includes techniques and exercises that will help you to relax and become really focused and motivated on what you want to achieve.
Once you have achieved what you set out to do, this book will be full of your own notes, pictures, reflections and anything else you want to put in it – it’s your own personal resource bank and toolkit. You may wish to keep your thoughts and reflections throughout your journey to yourself, and to keep this book in a private place, if that works for you. This is your personal journey to the YOU that you want to be - your own treasure box that will become really special to you as you make progress towards your life goals.
Your journey will not always be an easy ride and I will challenge you to step outside your comfort zone along the way. This represents a serious investment in your time and energy and I will encourage you to reflect regularly and to learn from what challenges you. But don’t worry - we will also have a lot of fun and ‘a-hah’ moments along the way on your journey towards self-discovery!
Once you start to make progress in changing your behaviour and developing your self-confidence, you may find that some individuals around you will try to railroad you from your path, for a variety of reasons. You might come across ‘moodhoovers’ or ‘energy vampires’ who either dismiss or make fun of what you are doing. Steer clear of them and mix with people who encourage, energise and support you, and who will celebrate your successes with you as you make progress towards your new reality.
Alternatively, as you make progress, you may want to share your vision and goals with your partner, friends or family. The choice is yours – remember this is your future, so go with your intuition and do what feels right and best for you as you progress and become more confident and self-assured.
Finally, remember that I will be your coach and your biggest supporter and will work with you and guide you to the YOU that you really aspire to be. So wherever you are at in your life right now, let’s begin the journey!
Lynne.
[Stop Press May 2017: This book is now available as an audiobook too]
Workbook [to download]
This eBook contains a number of figures and tables to fill in… but that will be rather challenging on an eReader!
Therefore, please feel free to download the accompanying workbook to Finding Your Way Back to You.
It contains all the relevant boxes and tables to be filled in.
You can download the PDF file from the Publisher’s website:
www.BennionKearny.com/workbook
1: Getting Motivated Towards YOU
In this chapter we will begin