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Cake day: December 16th, 2023

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  • I don’t know if it’s something you need to force on someone. From what I’ve seen it takes a lot of casual exposure to socialization to get someone to become “less shy.”

    Especially kids, you have to get them to do something they think is fun that also has people there so they kind of make the connection that socializing with people can also be fun.

    I think trying a bunch of different hobbies to see what works is definitely the right approach though! That 5-10 age range is when they’re figuring out what they even like, so it’s prime exposure time for all kinds of stuff! If you can manage it try everything for like 2-4 meetups to see how she reacts and if she hooks onto something then boom you’ve found your socializing catalyst!












  • For a lot of people for a long time your insurance card (that didn’t have a photo) was the only “identification” you had. Otherwise you had to bring your school ID, work ID etc.

    Most people don’t have drivers licenses cause they take the train. When you sign up for banks etc you usually have to get a bunch of official documentation from the local ward office with your information.

    Proof of identity in Japan has always been a bit of a hazy problem. You sign most documents still with a family stamp, so the idea of what legally is defined as identifying is kind of vague.

    Most local offices aren’t networked up, so when you move you have to register with your local ward office and the japanese beauricratic army goes and gets the previous ward office to fax over your info.

    “My Number” is the japanese governments attempt to get all that stuff wired together in one database.