• alottachairs@beehaw.org
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      3 years ago

      You can not, and should not, strive to change people. People can only change themselves. I think what you add here is spot on, people want to mimic those they admire, so the best we can do is be a positive example. Of course, speak the truth, we must be kind and accountable. The result will also lead you to being the best version of yourself, so its a win for us too.

    • will stedden@slrpnk.netOP
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      3 years ago

      I’m a pretty visible positive example I’d say. My objective is to provide reminders to reframe carnism as socially stigmatized. I think this mostly works because a lot of my friends are vegan, but there are a few “bros” who rationalize why they don’t need to change.

  • desivegan@lemmy.one
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    3 years ago

    I also feel the same way. But some of them understand, why I am telling them but they never take action eventhough they know the truth behind it.