2 Samuel 13:22
New International Version
And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad; he hated Amnon because he had disgraced his sister Tamar.

New Living Translation
And though Absalom never spoke to Amnon about this, he hated Amnon deeply because of what he had done to his sister.

English Standard Version
But Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad, for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Berean Standard Bible
And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for violating his sister Tamar.

King James Bible
And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

New King James Version
And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad. For Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

New American Standard Bible
But Absalom did not speak with Amnon either good or bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

NASB 1995
But Absalom did not speak to Amnon either good or bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

NASB 1977
But Absalom did not speak to Amnon either good or bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Legacy Standard Bible
But Absalom did not speak to Amnon either good or bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Amplified Bible
But Absalom did not speak to Amnon either good or bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Christian Standard Bible
Absalom didn’t say anything to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon since he disgraced his sister Tamar.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
Absalom didn’t say anything to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon since he disgraced his sister Tamar.

American Standard Version
And Absalom spake unto Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

Contemporary English Version
Absalom treated Amnon as though nothing had happened, but he hated Amnon for what he had done to his sister Tamar.

English Revised Version
And Absalom spake unto Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
Absalom wouldn't speak at all to Amnon. He hated Amnon for raping his sister Tamar.

Good News Translation
And Absalom hated Amnon so much for having raped his sister Tamar that he would no longer even speak to him.

International Standard Version
But Absalom never said a word, either good or bad, to Amnon. Nevertheless, he hated Amnon because he had humiliated his sister Tamar.

Majority Standard Bible
And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for violating his sister Tamar.

NET Bible
But Absalom said nothing to Amnon, either bad or good, yet Absalom hated Amnon because he had humiliated his sister Tamar.

New Heart English Bible
Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had violated his sister Tamar.

Webster's Bible Translation
And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

World English Bible
Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
and Absalom has not spoken with Amnon either evil or good, for Absalom is hating Amnon, because that he humbled his sister Tamar.

Young's Literal Translation
and Absalom hath not spoken with Amnon either evil or good, for Absalom is hating Amnon, because that he humbled Tamar his sister.

Smith's Literal Translation
And Absalom spake not with Amnon, from evil and even to good: for Absalom hated Amnon for the word that he humbled Tamar his sister.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
But Absalom spoke not to Amnon neither good nor evil: for Absalom hated Amnon because he had ravished his sister Thamar.

Catholic Public Domain Version
Yet Absalom did not speak to Amnon, neither good nor evil. For Absalom hated Amnon because he had violated his sister Tamar.

New American Bible
And Absalom said nothing, good or bad, to Amnon; but Absalom hated Amnon for having humiliated his sister Tamar.

New Revised Standard Version
But Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had raped his sister Tamar.
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon because he had forced his sister Tamar.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
And Abishlum did not speak good or evil to Khamnun, for Abishlum hated Khamnun, because he had disgraced Tamar his sister
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
And Absalom spoke unto Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
And Abessalom spoke not to Amnon, good or bad, because Abessalom hated Amnon, on account of his humbling his sister Themar.

Additional Translations ...
Audio Bible



Context
Amnon and Tamar
21When King David heard all this, he was furious. 22And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad, because he hated Amnon for disgracing his sister Tamar.

Cross References
Genesis 34:7
When Jacob’s sons heard what had happened, they returned from the field. They were filled with grief and fury, because Shechem had committed an outrage in Israel by lying with Jacob’s daughter—a thing that should not be done.

Genesis 37:4
When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father loved him more than any of them, they hated him and could not speak a kind word to him.

Genesis 49:5-7
Simeon and Levi are brothers; their swords are weapons of violence. / May I never enter their council; may I never join their assembly. For they kill men in their anger, and hamstring oxen on a whim. / Cursed be their anger, for it is strong, and their wrath, for it is cruel! I will disperse them in Jacob and scatter them in Israel.

Leviticus 19:17-18
You must not harbor hatred against your brother in your heart. Directly rebuke your neighbor, so that you will not incur guilt on account of him. / Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against any of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.

Proverbs 10:12
Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers all transgressions.

Proverbs 17:9
Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but he who brings it up separates friends.

Proverbs 24:29
Do not say, “I will do to him as he has done to me; I will repay the man according to his work.”

Matthew 5:22
But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, ‘Raca,’ will be subject to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be subject to the fire of hell.

Matthew 18:15
If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.

Mark 11:25
And when you stand to pray, if you hold anything against another, forgive it, so that your Father in heaven will forgive your trespasses as well.”

Luke 17:3-4
Watch yourselves. If your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. / Even if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times returns to say, ‘I repent,’ you must forgive him.”

Romans 12:17-19
Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody. / If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone. / Do not avenge yourselves, beloved, but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written: “Vengeance is Mine; I will repay, says the Lord.”

1 Corinthians 13:4-5
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. / It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no account of wrongs.

Galatians 5:19-21
The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, and debauchery; / idolatry and sorcery; hatred, discord, jealousy, and rage; rivalries, divisions, factions, / and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Ephesians 4:26-27
“Be angry, yet do not sin.” Do not let the sun set upon your anger, / and do not give the devil a foothold.


Treasury of Scripture

And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

spake

Leviticus 19:17,18
Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him…

Proverbs 25:9
Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:

Matthew 18:15
Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.

neither good

Genesis 24:50
Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, The thing proceedeth from the LORD: we cannot speak unto thee bad or good.

Genesis 31:24,29
And God came to Laban the Syrian in a dream by night, and said unto him, Take heed that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad…

hated

Leviticus 19:17,18
Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him…

Proverbs 10:18
He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool.

Proverbs 26:24
He that hateth dissembleth with his lips, and layeth up deceit within him;

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2 Samuel 13
1. Amnon loving Tamar, by Jonadab's counsel feigning himself sick, ravishes her.
15. He hates her, and shamefully turns her away
19. Absalom entertains her, and conceals his purpose
23. At a sheep-shearing among all the king's sons, he kills Amnon
31. David grieving at the news, is comforted by Jonadab
37. Absalom flies to Talmai at Geshur














And Absalom never said a word to Amnon, either good or bad
This phrase highlights Absalom's silence, which can be interpreted as a strategic choice rather than mere passivity. In the cultural context of ancient Israel, family honor and reputation were paramount, and Absalom's silence may have been a way to avoid public scandal while he plotted his revenge. The lack of communication between Absalom and Amnon suggests a deep-seated animosity and a calculated restraint. This silence is reminiscent of other biblical instances where silence precedes significant action, such as Jesus before His accusers (Matthew 27:12-14).

because he hated Amnon
Hatred in biblical terms often leads to severe consequences, as seen in the stories of Cain and Abel (Genesis 4:8) and Joseph and his brothers (Genesis 37:4). Absalom's hatred is rooted in a sense of justice and familial duty, as Amnon's actions brought disgrace upon their family. This hatred foreshadows the eventual violent outcome, aligning with the biblical principle that unchecked hatred can lead to sin (1 John 3:15).

for violating his sister Tamar
The violation of Tamar is a pivotal event that sets off a chain reaction of familial discord and tragedy. In the historical and cultural context, Tamar's violation was not only a personal affront but also a severe breach of social and religious norms. The law of Moses explicitly condemned such acts (Leviticus 18:9, Deuteronomy 22:25-27), and the lack of immediate justice for Tamar reflects the complexities of royal family dynamics. This event also serves as a type of the suffering of the innocent, paralleling the suffering of Christ, who bore the injustices of the world.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Absalom
The third son of King David, known for his striking appearance and later rebellion against his father. In this context, he is Tamar's brother, harboring hatred for Amnon due to the violation of his sister.

2. Amnon
The firstborn son of King David, who committed a grievous sin by raping his half-sister Tamar, leading to familial discord and his eventual murder by Absalom.

3. Tamar
The daughter of King David and sister to Absalom, who suffered the trauma of being raped by her half-brother Amnon, leading to her desolation and Absalom's vengeful hatred.

4. King David
The father of Absalom, Amnon, and Tamar, who is notably passive in dealing with the sin and its aftermath within his family.

5. Hatred and Silence
The event of Absalom's silent hatred towards Amnon, which festers over time, leading to further tragedy within David's family.
Teaching Points
The Danger of Unresolved Anger
Absalom's silence and hatred towards Amnon illustrate the destructive power of unresolved anger. Christians are called to address anger promptly to prevent sin from taking root.

The Consequences of Sin
Amnon's sin against Tamar sets off a chain of events leading to further sin and tragedy. This highlights the ripple effect of sin and the importance of repentance and reconciliation.

The Importance of Justice and Righteous Leadership
King David's failure to address Amnon's sin demonstrates the need for righteous leadership and justice. Leaders are called to act justly and uphold righteousness within their spheres of influence.

The Power of Forgiveness
While Absalom's response is one of hatred, Christians are called to forgive as Christ forgave, breaking the cycle of vengeance and hatred.

Family Dynamics and God's Design
The dysfunction in David's family serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of adhering to God's design for family relationships, promoting love, respect, and protection.Verse 22. - Absalom spake...neither good nor bad. (On this phrase, see Genesis 24:50; Genesis 31:24.) Absalom's outward demeanour was one of utter indifference, concealing a cruel determination. It is strange how unlike the son was to the father.

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
And Absalom
אַבְשָׁל֛וֹם (’aḇ·šā·lō·wm)
Noun - proper - masculine singular
Strong's 53: Absalom -- 'my father is peace', two Israelites

never
וְלֹֽא־ (wə·lō-)
Conjunctive waw | Adverb - Negative particle
Strong's 3808: Not, no

said a word
דִבֶּ֧ר (ḏib·ber)
Verb - Piel - Perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 1696: To arrange, to speak, to subdue

to
עִם־ (‘im-)
Preposition
Strong's 5973: With, equally with

Amnon,
אַמְנ֖וֹן (’am·nō·wn)
Noun - proper - masculine singular
Strong's 550: Amnon -- 'faithful', two Israelites

either good
ט֑וֹב (ṭō·wḇ)
Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 2896: Pleasant, agreeable, good

or bad,
לְמֵרָ֣ע (lə·mê·rā‘)
Preposition-l, Preposition-m | Adjective - masculine singular
Strong's 7451: Bad, evil

because
כִּֽי־ (kî-)
Conjunction
Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction

he
אַבְשָׁלוֹם֙ (’aḇ·šā·lō·wm)
Noun - proper - masculine singular
Strong's 53: Absalom -- 'my father is peace', two Israelites

hated
שָׂנֵ֤א (śā·nê)
Verb - Qal - Perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 8130: To hate

Amnon
אַמְנ֔וֹן (’am·nō·wn)
Noun - proper - masculine singular
Strong's 550: Amnon -- 'faithful', two Israelites

for
עַל־ (‘al-)
Preposition
Strong's 5921: Above, over, upon, against

disgracing
עִנָּ֔ה (‘in·nāh)
Verb - Piel - Perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 6031: To be bowed down or afflicted

his sister
אֲחֹתֽוֹ׃ (’ă·ḥō·ṯōw)
Noun - feminine singular construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 269: Sister -- a sister

Tamar.
תָּמָ֥ר (tā·mār)
Noun - proper - feminine singular
Strong's 8559: Tamar -- daughter-in-law of Judah, also two Israelite women, also a place South of the Dead Sea


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