Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal Communication
What is nonverbal
communication?
• “Oral and non-oral messages expressed by other than
linguistic means.”
• Messages transmitted by vocal means that do not
involve language
• Sign language and written words are not considered
nonverbal communication
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PROXEMICS (distance)
• Different cultures have different comfort levels
of distance
• As children grow older and become less
dependent on parents they require more space
• Men tend to take up more space than women
Example: When you go to the movies with
someone of the opposite sex who usually gets
the armrest?
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HAPTICS (touch)
The power of touch:
• A (1997) study found that strangers that were
touched were more likely to return change left in a
phone booth(Klienke)
• A (1992) study found that food servers who used
touch received larger tips (Hornick)
• Library study (1976) found that students who were
slightly touched by clerk while checking out library
books evaluated the library much more favorably
than those who were not touched.
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CHRONEMICS (time)
How is time used to communicate?
What does it mean to you when someone is always
late?
A study conducted by Burgoon (1989) found that
people who arrive 15 minutes late are considered
dynamic, but much less competent, composed and
sociable than those that arrive on time.
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KINESICS (behavior)
• Facial expressions
• Eye contact
• Body language
• Gestures
• Physical appearance
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Facial expressions
• The face is capable of conveying 250,000
expressions (Birdwhistle, 1970)
• Smiling increases sociability, likeability, and
attraction(LaFrance & Hecht, 1995)
• Food servers who smile more often earn
increased tips (Heslin & Patterson, 1982)
• Studies conducted on students caught cheating
found that students who smiled were treated
with more leniency (LaFrance & Hecht, 1995)
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Eye contact
• Successful pan handlers establish eye contact (Beebe,
1974)
• People are more likely to comply when more eye
contact is used
• Eye contact conveys a sense of sincerity
• Eye contact establishes a connection between persons
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Body language
• Mirroring – building rapport with others by
mimicking their nonverbal cues
• People like those who are similar or equal to them
• “Mirroring” body language facilitates compliance
• Many self-help books suggest mirroring techniques
to get people to like them
Example: The book Unlimited Power by, Anthony
Robbins
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Gestures
• Gestures can be seen as subtle or not so
subtle cues
• We use gestures to take the place of words,
or help us to increase understanding of what
is being said
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Physical Appearance
• More attractive people are judged to be happier, more
intelligent, friendlier, stronger, and kinder and are
thought to have better personalities, better jobs, and
greater marital competence (Knapp, 1992)
• Attractive people get more dates, higher grades,
higher tips, and lighter court sentences than
unattractive people (Dunn, 2000)
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• Example:
• In a 1980 study 73 defendants who had been rated on physical
attractiveness went to trial. Results showed that the more
attractive defendants received significantly lighter sentences
(Stewart).
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VOLCALICS (Paralanguage)
• Use of voice to communicate includes elements
such as pitch, rate, pauses, volume, tone of
voice, silences, laughs, screams, sighs, etc.
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ENVIRONMENT
Functions of Nonverbal
Communication
• Repeating
• Substituting
• Complementing
• Accenting
• Regulating
• Contradicting
• Deceiving
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Repeating
• The use of nonverbal behavior to say what you are saying in
words
• Emblems- are the nonverbal behaviors that we use to display
what we mean
• Example: head nods at the same time as someone saying
“yes”
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Substituting
• The use of nonverbal behaviors to say things rather than
words
• We often answer questions others ask by responding
nonverbally rather than verbally
Example: Nodding your head to answer a question rather than
saying “yes”
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Complementing
• The use of nonverbal behaviors to strengthen what
is being said with words.
Accenting
• The way we emphasize certain words in order to clarify what
we mean.
Regulating
• Nonverbal behaviors that control the flow of the conversation,
and tell us when it is our turn to talk, or when the other
person is finished talking.
Example: while telling a story to a friend, one may pause to
allow room for comments
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Contradicting
• When people are saying one thing yet their nonverbal
behavior is telling us something completely different.
In conclusion
• A knowledge of the several factors involved with nonverbal
communication, and an awareness of its power will improve
our ability to communicate with others.
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