Stress and Conflict
Stress and Conflict
Stress and Conflict
• Classification of Conflict
• When we think of the different types of conflict, we might
instantly think of the ones referred to in literature,
especially in fiction. They can be applied to real life, of
course. However, in contemporary times, types of conflict
which are easily identifiable are classified into four different
types −
• Intrapersonal
• Intragroup
• Interpersonal
• Intergroup
Intrapersonal Conflict
• Intragroup Conflict
• Intragroup conflict occurs among individuals within a
team. The incompatibilities and misunderstandings
between team members leads to intragroup conflict.
It starts from interpersonal disagreements like team
members have different personalities which may lead
to tension or differences in views and ideas. Say for
example, during a presentation, members of the team
might find the notions presented by the one presiding
to be erroneous due to their differences in opinion.
Interpersonal Conflict
• We get into a conflict when the person opposite to us has a different mindset. It
is very common in a workplace to get into differences of opinion. Sometimes
there is a conflict between two or more employees, sometimes employees have
a conflict with their managers and so on. Now the question is, how can we
manage disagreements in ways that build personal and collegial relationships?
• Here are five strategies from conflict management theory for managing stressful
situations. None of them is a "one-size-fits-all" answer. Which one is the best in
a given situation depends on variety of factors, including an appraisal of the
levels of conflict.
• Collaborating − win/win
• Compromising − win some/lose some
• Accommodating − lose/win
• Competing − win/lose
• Avoiding − no winners/no losers
Collaborating
• This technique follows the rule "I win, you win". Collaborating means working
together by integrating ideas set out by multiple people. The objective here is to
find a creative solution acceptable to everyone. It calls for a significant time
commitment but is not appropriate for all conflicts.
• This technique is used in situations where −
• There is a high level of trust
• We don't want to take complete responsibility
• We want others to also have "ownership" of solutions
• People involved are willing to change their thinking
• We need to work through animosity and hard feelings
• However, this process takes a lot of time and energy and some may take
advantage of other people's trust and openness.
• Example − A businessman should work collaboratively with the manager to
establish policies, but collaborative decision-making regarding office supplies
wastes time better spent on other activities.
Compromising
• This technique follows the rule "I lose, you win". Accommodating
means giving up of ideas and thoughts so that the other party wins
and the conflict ends. This technique can be used when −
• An issue is not that important to us as it is to the other person
• We realize we are wrong
• We are willing to let others learn by mistake
• We know we cannot win
• It is not the right time and we would prefer to simply build credit
for the future
• Harmony is extremely important
• What the parties have in common is a good deal more important
than their differences
Competing