ASSERTION
ASSERTION
WHAT IS AN ASSERTION?
• An assertion is a statement or declaration made regarding an
idea, a topic, or an issue. It expresses a person’s opinion,
feelings, or belief.
• Assertion involves expressing beliefs, feelings and
preferences in a way which is direct, honest, appropriate and
shows a high degree of respect for yourself and for others.
EXAMPLE:
• "When you talk, I can't hear the movie. Please keep it
down."
• "I really like it when you wear that shirt. You look
great!"
Some types of assertions:
• Basic assertion – This is a simple and direct expression of one’s opinion,
feelings, or belief.
Example:
“I wish I had more time to read and analyze this book.”
When being interrupted, "Excuse me, I'd like to finish what I'm saying.“
• Empathic assertion- This shows sympathy to another person. It is an
acknowledgment of the other person’s feelings or situation and at the same
time a show of support to the rights of the person.
Example:
“As the son of an OFW, I feel for those children who are growing up without
their parents beside them. The best advice I can offer them is to stay in the
company of caring relatives and true friends.”
• Positive assertion – This expresses positive feelings or emotions. To make
this assertion, one gives a reason or an explanation for a good feeling or
opinion.
Example:
"I'm glad you came back to see me." "I did a good job working with that upset
student."
• Confrontive assertion – This states three closely related actions: an action
that was supposed to be done, the actual action, and the action that the
speaker wants done.
Example:
“In her e-mail, Ms. Cindy Ramos said she would call me last night. I waited,
but there was no call. I will send her a message to ask her about the phone
call, and I hope she sends a prompt reply.”
• Escalating assertion– This is a firm but respectful statement made by a
person who is expecting another person’s response to his or her earlier
assertion. However, the other person has not given any response.
Earlier assertion: Our group understands the situation, and we are willing to
wait for your decision.
Escalating assertions: Though a few of us are still willing to wait for you, most
of us really want to know your decision now. If you cannot give us your
decision tomorrow, we will consider other options.