Mediation
Mediation
Mediation
ME D I A
AT I O N
N C I L I
CO
Mediation
X Compromising
(low)
X Avoiding X Competitive
Goodwill
Reputation
Relationships
Security
Economic well-being
Recognition
A sense of belongingness
Techniques for generating options
1. Brainstorm (problem-solving)
2. Focus on interests, not positions
3. Search for mutual gains
4. Invent a number of options
5. Propose package deals in which
several issues being negotiated become
part of the agreement
Objective Criteria (Mutually Acceptable Yardsticks)
No longer a contest of
wills
BATNA
1. Introduction
2. Welcome
3. Mediation Overview
4. Role of Mediator
5. Role of Parties
6. Voluntary
7. Confidential
8. Stages of Mediation
9. Ground Rules
10.Authority to Settle
11.Questions
12.Permission to Proceed
1. Introduction
Introduce Yourself
• Greetings
• I am _________________
• I am pleased to have been selected as your
mediator (member of the pangkat)
Parties’ Names and Position (Correct Names
and Positions
• On my left is ________________________
• On my right is _______________________
2. Welcome
Welcome Statement
• I commend you for choosing Mediation as a
means to resolve your disputes
• By doing so, you have given yourselves the
opportunity to solve issues in a non-
adversarial atmosphere with greater speed
and at less cost
3. Mediation Overview
Background
• Mediation is a voluntary process for resolving
disputes in which an impartial and neutral
third party, who has no power to make
decisions, assist in a face to face meeting of
parties with the basic aim of reaching a
mutually beneficial agreement
Goals and Expectations
• To resolve issues in a cooperative and non-
adversarial way (find a win-win formula
for all)
• What is needed is SINCERITY of the parties
4. Role of Mediator
Training
• I have been trained to handle issues such as
yours
Role
• I have no authority to decide
• I have no authority to suggest solutions
• I am task to help the parties facilitate
communication and negotiation in reaching a
voluntary agreement
5. Role of Parties
General Rule
• The mediation proceedings and all its
incidents are strictly confidential
• All admissions and statements made
during the proceedings are inadmissible as
evidence for any purpose
Mediator’s Notes & Transcripts
• The mediation proceedings shall not be
recorded and no transcripts shall be made
• Any notes made by me shall be destroyed
at the end of mediation proceedings
• It is only the result of the mediation
proceedings that will be recorded
• If successful, the amicable settlement will be
made which is not confidential
• Unless given the permission to do so, I will
not tell the other party of any statement said
to me in confidence or during any private
caucus
Party’s statements
• Neither can I be required by the court to
inform it of the admissions and statements
made by either party during mediation
8. Stages of Mediation
Rules
• Here are the ground rules on how we shall
conduct ourselves during the Mediation
sessions (Get the parties to agree to each
ground rule)
• 1st, let’s agree not to interrupt while one
party is speaking
• 2nd, while one party speaks, the other
shall attempt to respect and listen to the
views of the other
• 3rd, common courtesy shall be observed.
As much as possible, let’s avoid name-
calling or disrespectful language. No
swearing please.
• 4th, only one person speaks at a time
• 5th, each party shall be allowed to talk for no
more than 3 minutes at each instance
• 6th, the next rule is to keep comments
relevant. Focus more on the issues and not
on the personalities
• 7th, derogatory language or attacks on other
party’s values or culture are not permitted
• 8th, let us keep our voices within reasonable
limits and not to shout at the other party
• And most importantly, do you promise to give
your full and sincere cooperation with the
view of successfully resolving the disputes?
• Is there any other ground rule you may want
to add?
10. Authority to Settle
Clarifications
• At this point, I would like to know if you
have any question or clarification
regarding Mediation or any of the rules
and procedures?
12. Permission to Proceed
Commitment to Mediate
• Before we proceed, are you willing to
submit your case/dispute to Mediation
Go ahead
• Ok, then let’s proceed. Let’s begin with
you ...
Ethical Conduct of Mediator
Rule III, IRR of RA 9285
Competence
Impartiality
Confidentiality
Consent and Self-determination
Separation of Mediation from Counseling
and Legal Advice
Competence