The Negotiation Process Steps and Stages
The Negotiation Process Steps and Stages
Objectives:
The session is designed to:
Identify and discuss individual
sources of negotiating strength
Practice skills that can influence the
outcome of the negotiation
Develop an awareness of the
importance of personality traits,
trust and self-awareness in effective
negotiating
What is negotiation?
Soft:
Participants are friends.
The goal is agreement.
Hard:
Participants are adversaries.
The goal is victory
Negotiation
Principled =Negotiating on the merits or
principles or interest based negotiation
Develop multiple options to choose from;
decide later.
Avoid premature judgment.
Avoid searching for the single answer.
Avoid assuming the pie is fixed.
Avoid thinking that “solving their problem
IS their problem”.
From Fisher and Ury: Getting to Yes, 1981
When and where do we negotiate?
At Work
Salary and job responsibilities, space etc
With Patients
Compliance
At Home
Other ??
Negotiation
Includes:
Listening
Diplomacy
Be prepared to
walk away if an
agreement is not
reached.
Write a note or
memo if contract
or agreement is
required.
(e.g., “If I don’t hear
by x, will assume
that it stands”)
Common Errors
Assuming shared values
Assuming similar communication
preferences
Big picture thinking or detailed analyses?
Stories or facts?
Time to process or get decisions over
with?
Expect reciprocity
Avoiding conflict
Trying to prove how smart or “right” you
are by talking
Not listening carefully
Negotiation: Planning
REF: Shell, Bargaining for Advantage
Reach consensus.
Negotiation of new position/$
Salaries
Learn about the “market” regionally,
nationally and the range at the institution
www.aamc.org/ publications
Postpone until position is offered
Let the other side made the first offer
“well, so far the position is attractive, and I’m
sure you pay a fair salary, don’t you..”
Tie requests for resources to the
mission of the institution and other
party’s needs
REM: The salary offer is not fixed!
Other features to negotiate:
Benefits
Parking, vacation, retirement, insurance
Promotion criteria, track
Space and equipment
Expectations/ time commitments
Protected time
Professional development opportunities
memberships, meetings
Administrative support
Gender and Negotiation
Mythical Perceptions
Good behavior is justly rewarded
Corporate or academic family will take
care all members
One’s unique abilities naturally lead to
advancement
Reality
Unwillingness to ask for desired reward
and then to negotiate to mutual agreement
Barriers to Negotiation
Self-perception
It is more important to be liked than
anything else
Tend to feel more empowered to
negotiate for colleagues than for self
(extension of protecting children)
More likely to experience work opposition
as harmful to friendship
Too rule-oriented
When anxious, tend to talk too much!
Barriers to Negotiation
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Remember…
Don’t dwell on people or gains. Stick to
the interests at hand.
Don’t close doors. Be fair. You may wish
to enter into negotiations again.
The end result should be acceptable to
both parties.
Your BATNA establishes the reality of
how important the agreement is to
you and what you are willing to accept.
Remember…
If you don’t ask, don’t expect…
Negotiations with high expectations do
better.
The pie is almost never “fixed”.
Don’t be afraid to offend: “it’s only
business.”
Most negotiations are as much about
emotion as they are money.
Remember…
Pay attention to both levels of process:
Discussion of the issue about which decision
must be made
Development of a relationship that leads
often to win/win solution
Don’t give too much credit to the other
side
You are an asset and present from
strength