5 Types of Conflict Styles
5 Types of Conflict Styles
5 Types of Conflict Styles
CONFLICT
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Intragroup
Intrapersonal
Interpersonal
Intrapersonal
● The intrapersonal conflict is conflict experienced by a single individual, when his or
her own goals, values or roles diverge.
● For example: A lawyer may experience a conflict of values when he represents a
defendant he knows to be guilty of the charges brought against him.
● A police officer might experience an intrapersonal conflict when she/she is offered a
position in another state.
● A conflict where you promised your wife, husband, gf, bf, for a dinner, when
suddenly there is an urgent meeting with the boss.
Interpersonal
ASSERTIVENESS
the degree to
which you try to
satisfy your own
concerns during
conflict
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict
Mode Instrument
ASSERTIVENESS COOPERATIVENESS
the degree to the degree to
which you try to which you try to
satisfy your own satisfy the other
concerns during individuals’
conflict concerns during
conflict
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict
Mode Instrument
ASSERTIVENESS COOPERATIVENESS
the degree to the degree to
which you try to which you try to
satisfy your own satisfy the other
concerns during individuals’
conflict concerns during
conflict
Intrapersonal
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Interpersonal
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COMPETING
“Might makes right”
• Assertive & uncooperative, power-oriented
mode to win his/her position
• Standing up for your rights, defending a
position you believe is correct, or simply
trying to win
COLLABORATING
“Two heads are better than one”
• Works to find a solution that fully satisfies
the concerns of both
• Learns from the other’s insights and tries to
find a creative solution
COMPROMISING
“Split the difference”
• Find an expedient, mutually acceptable
solution that partially satisfies both parties
• Best suited for issues of intermediate
importance
AVOIDING
“Leave well enough alone”
• Individual does not pursue his/her own
concerns OR those of the other person
• Does not address the conflict (sidestepping,
postponing, withdrawing)
ACCOMMODATING
“Kill your enemies with kindness”
• Individual neglects his/her concerns to satisfy
the concerns of the other person
• Self-sacrifice or yielding to another’s point of
view
5 Types of Conflict Styles
1. What is your primary conflict
style and why?
2. Which conflict style would you
like to grow in? Why and how?
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