Lesson 3 & 4
Lesson 3 & 4
(1) achieving new and more mature relations with age mates of both sexes;
(2) achieving a masculine or feminine social role;
(3) accepting one's physique and using one's body effectively;
(4) achieving emotional independence from parents and other adults;
(5) preparing for marriage and family life;
(6) preparing for an economic career;
(7) acquiring a set of values and an ethical system as a guide to behavior-developing
ideology; and
(8) desiring, accepting, and achieving socially responsible behavior.
Three stages in the
Adolescence Period
1. Early Adolescence
2. Middle Adolescence
3. Late Adolescence
I. Early Adolescence
(happens when you are 12-13 years old)
Your primary developmental task at this stage involves: adapting to
biological and mental development.
• You have to accept that you are already capable of reproduction. This acceptance will
help you start to think more responsibly of your body.
B. Adapting to Mental Development
Further, another task during the middle adolescence stage is becoming more adept
in social settings and more capable of establishing intimate relationships.
At this stage, rejection and peer pressure may be inevitable.
One of the exciting features of teenage years is the attraction that you feel to
another person. You tend to have crushes, and you discover that dating is usually
a fun activity.
At this stage, you are also more concerned with knowing who you are, not only
as a person who can do things independently but also as a person who is
interdependent.
III. Late Adolescence (17-20 years old)
At this stage, you should have already formed attitudes, learned
skills, and established relationships that will give you the bases of
what kind of person you are and what kind of life you want to lead.
Late Adolescents focused on:
• You are accustomed to having what you want right away. Thus, you
sometimes feel bad when you do not get what has been promised to you.
• As a results of advancements in telecommunications today’s Romeos and
Juliets do not anymore write love letters; instead, they merely text, “I luv u.
Tayo na ba?”. This implies that entering into romantic relationship is easy.
• Materialism characterizes the youth today. These material
possessions become status symbols for adolescents nowadays.
Status Symbols, according to Hurlock (1982), are prestige
symbols that tell others that the owner is of higher status than
other people. These symbols become the bases of their security,
of being accepted, and of their personality.
Modern teenagers are described as digital natives, who are
tech savvy, capable of easily accessing information, and capable
of multitasking.
An equally important factor that contributed to the shaping of the
personality of today’s adolescents is family structure.
Are you a Responsible Person?
Taking charge or assuming responsibility is the ability
to choose your own responses (Covey, 2004) to
encountered circumstances. It is taking ownership or
accountability of your behaviors, without making
excuses or blaming others for your mistakes.