Lesson 4 Coordinated Management of Meaning
Lesson 4 Coordinated Management of Meaning
MANAGEMENT OF
MEANING
Lesson 6
INTRODUCTION
Ben: We need to be straightforward with the girls now. I don’t see any
problem with sleeping in the same tent and letting the kids sleep in their
tent. Patrick can sleep with us if he gets upset.
Jessie: My girls will not like that. Are you trying to say that our feelings
are more important than our kids’ feelings?
Ben: I didn’t say that…
Jessie: Why would you even think that? Our first trip together shouldn’t be
spent trying to explain why Mom and Dad want their privacy.
Ben: All I was trying to do was to let the kids know that Mom and Dad need
to have their own space.
Jessie: And that they need to deal with their own problems? Look I may be
overacting here, but…
Ben: I’m sorry that I ever brought up the issue.
COORDINATION
Examples of some degree of coordination
Ben: We need to be straightforward with the girls now. I don’t see any
problem with sleeping in the same tent and letting the kids sleep in
their tent. Patrick can sleep with us if he get upset.
Jessie: It is more complicated than that. This is the first time that
we’re all going to be together for a weekend.
Ben: honey, if we don’t try this right away, it’ll be more difficult when
we all move in together.
Jessie: but the kids are still trying to get this situation all figured out.
Separating things out this way may be more of a pain than we thought.
Ben: How about if we bought a larger tent and let the kids sleep on one
side and we’ll be on the other?
Jessie: That should work.
RULES
1. One way that individuals manage and coordinate
is through the use of rules.
Strange loops
Rules of meaning change due to
inconsistent episodes
It usually align with intrapersonal
communication in that individuals
engage in a sort of internal dialogue
about their self destructive behavior's
Can lead to Unwanted Repetitive
Patterns – sequential and recurring
conflictual episodes
STRANGE LOOP – UNWANTED
REPETITIVE PATTERN
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CRITIQUE OF CMM
Areas
Scope (breath and Some scholars argue that the theory is too
limitations) abstract
Parsimony If the theory is too broad, it may not be
(simplicity of parsimonious. Too many terms. Difficulty to
explanation) interpret what is important in communication.
Utility (usefulness It is applicable and practical – childhood
& clear) obesity, child and adolescent health, refugees
families, consumer research technology and
Chinese culture.
Heurism (new CMM covers many content areas
thinking &
additional
research)