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WHO WILL CRY WHEN YOU DIE?

-ROBIN SHARMA

• Name : Jaykumar M. Soni

• Roll No : 16MCL007

• Mobile No. : 9924286390,


8485978416

• Presented to: Akshay Jain


Sir
ABOUT THE BOOK….
 As we all know, life is slipping by so fast that we might never get the chance to live
with the meaning. We all are human beings and there’s a reason behind our
existence.
 The real meaning of life not only lies in running being false happiness. The real
happiness lies in enjoying every moment with full heartedly, without being
regretted for the past and finding happiness in small incidents.
 The author of the book ROBIN SHARMA is well-known motivator and has written
many books related to leadership like THE MONK WHO SOLD HIS FERRARI,
THE SECRET LETTERS, MEGALIVING etc.
 I have read many books but I found this book more special as it includes 101 life
lessons which will really make us all feel the real meaning of life and will
guide us to live life more deliberately. Unlike other books, it doesn’t contain
any UNREALISTIC PHYLOSOPHICAL TALKS, but it contains 101 life guiding
solutions to make our life free from DAILY CONFUSIONS and COMPLEXITIES.
OBJECTIVE TO READ…
 When I read the title of this book “ WHO WILL CRY WHEN YOU DIE?”, I was really
not in a mood to purchase it at all as the name suggested me that the book would
contain some UNREALISTIC TALKS related to PHYLOSOPHY and all, and from very
before I find such kind of books very DEPRESSIVE and never get influenced by.
 But after turning the CONTENTS of this book, I was little bit excited after reading
such kind of titles like, “DISCOVER YOUR CALLING”,”PRACTICE TOUGH
LOVE”,”HONOUR YOUR PAST”,”Maintain Your Perspective”,” Practice
Tough Love “,” Develop an Honesty Philosophy “, Honor Your Past “,”
Learn to Say No Gracefully “,”” Talk to Yourself” etc.
 I purchased it with a feeling of not being fool customer and my expectations were
never turned wrong at all.
 The main motto of reading this book was to APPLY AS MAXIMUM AS POSSIBLE
SOLUTIONS FOR COMPLEXITIES OF LIFE. And it is being happening with
me for last few days till I started reading it…
MAIN IDEA OF THE BOOK…
 As I started reading this book, the TITLES of the lesson were like “DISCOVER YOUR
CALLING”,”EVERYDAY,BE KIND TO A STRANGER”,”MAINTAIN YOUR
PERSPECTIVE”,”PRACTICE TOUGH LOVE”,”KEEP A JOURNAL”,”DEVELOP AN HONEST
PHILOSOPHY”,”HONOUR YOUR PAST”,”START YOUR DAY WELL”,”LEARN TO SAY NO
GRACEFULLY”,”TAKE A WEEKLY SABBATICAL”,”TALK TO YOURSELF”,”SCHEDULE WORRK
BREAKS”,”MODEL A CHILD”,”REMEMBER,GENIOUS IS 99 PERCENT INSPIRATION”,”CARE
FOR THE TEMPLE”,”LEARN TO BE SILENT”,”THINK ABOUT YOUR IDEAL
NEIGHBOURHOOD”,””GETUP EARLY”,”SEE YOUR TROUBLES AS BLESSINGS”,”LAUGH
MORE”,”SPEND A DAY WITHOUT YOUR WATCH”,”TAKE MORE RISKS”,”LIVE A LIFE” etc.

 The title of the chapter itself was so interesting and excited that anyone will resist
himself hard to not read.

 “Son, when you were born, you cried while the world rejoiced. Live your life
such in a way that when you die the world cries while you rejoice.” These are
the first few lines I learned from the chapter 1 st itself.
 “We believe that in order to live a truly fulfiling life we must achieve
some great act or grand feat that will put us on the front covers of the
megazines and newspapers. But a meaningful life is made up of a series
of daily acts of decency and kindness, which, ironically, add up to
something truly great over the course of a lifetime.”

 “If you make even one person smile during your day or brighten the
mood of any stranger, your day has been a worthwhile once.” These are
the lessons I found very touchy and got thrilled after reading it.
 “TOUGH LOVE…: Because getting tough with yourself is actually a very
loving gesture. By being stricter with yourself, you will begin to live life
more deliberately, on your terms and conditions rather then simply
reacting to life the way a leaf floating in a stream drifts according to the
flow of the current on a particular day.”

 “Making a daily journal is one of the best personal habits you can
develop. It will develop self-awareness and make fewer mistakes.”
 “Saying things we don’t mean becomes a habit when we practice It long
enough. The real problem is that when you don’t keep your words, you loose
credibility. When you loose credibility we loose the bonds of trust and
ultimately leads to breaking strings of relations.

 To develop an honesty philosophy, begin to monitor how many small untruths


you tell over the course of a week…”

 “Every second you dwell on the past you steal from your future. Every minute
you spend focusing on your problems you take away from finding your
solutions. And thinking about all those things that you wish never happened
to you is actually blocking all the things you want to happen to entering in
your life.”

 “The Platinum 30-First thirty minutes of your day are truly most valuable
moments of your day and have a profound effect on the quality of every
minute of your day, so during this time you can think only the purest thoughts
and finest of the actions and can make your day marvelous.”
 To be clear about your life’s objectives, learn to say NO gracefully.

 “Too many people are spending the best years of their lives stuck in
a state of constant worry. They worry about their jobs, their kids and
their environment and yet we know deep in our heart that MOST OF
THE THINGS WE WORRY ABOUT NEVER EVER HAPPEN. So, one of the
simple habits I learned to conquer the worry habit was to schedule
specific times to worry what I now call “worry breaks”.

 As so called GROWN-UPS, we spend too much time focusing on the


“crust of life” rather than all the good things that flow in and out of
our days. We focus on our challenges at work, the lack of time to do
all those things we need t do. So rather than we must start focusing
on the good stuff.”
 One chapter I loved the most from this book was “See Your Troubles as
Blessings”. Once I read the title, it made me thrilled and amazed that what
this chapter would deliver.

 “We learn the most form our most difficult experiences in life, but I
often wonder why we, as human beings, spend so much of our lives
focusing on the negative aspects of our most difficult experiences
rather than seeing them for what they truly are: our greatest
teachers”… The lined that took away my heart and it developed a new
approach to life.

 I came to realize that pain is a teacher and failure is the highway to


success. You cannot learn how to play the guitar without hitting a
few wrong notes and you will never learn how to sail if you are not
willing to tip the boat over a few times.

 Begin to see your troubles as blessings, resolve to transform your stumbling


blocks into stepping stones and vow to turn your wounds into wisdom.
 The most advantageous chapter I found in this book was “Remember the Rule of
21 “.

 It taught me that it takes about 21 days to develop a new habit. Yet most
people give up on creating a positive life change after only the first few
days when they experience the stress and pain that is always associated
with replacing old behaviors with new ones.

 New habits are much like a new pair of shoes: for the first few days, they will feel
uncomfortable. But if you break them in for about three weeks, they will fit a second
skin.

 As human beings, we are genetically programmed to resist change and


maintain a state of equilibrium. The condition, known as homeostasis,
evolved naturally over time as a means by which our ancestors could
survive constantly changing conditions. The problem is that the mechanism
works to keep things as they are even when more favorable possibilities
exist. And that is why we have such difficulty adopting new habits and
overcoming the gravitational forces that prevent us from moving to higher
levels of living.
 As I have been trying to be a MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER and my keen
desire to be AN ENTERPRENOUR lies in me for last many years, one
chapter I found that made me awake from my bed while I was reading this
book lying in it was “Become a Volunteer”.

 The line “I wept because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had
no feet.” captured my sight and heart both at the same time.
 It is so easy to magnify our problems and lose sight of the many
blessings we all have to be so very grateful for. Giving the gift of your
time by volunteering to serve those who have less than you is an excellent
way to remind yourself on a regular basis of the abundance that exists in
your life.
 “Seeing what others don’t have keeps me awake to all the good
things I do have. It prevents me from taking things for granted
and, even more importantly, helps me make a difference in the
lives of people who really need me.”
LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST…
“LIVE FULLY SO YOU CAN DIE
HAPPY”
 Most people don’t discover what life is all about until just before they die.
While we are young, we spend our days striving and keeping up with social
expectations.

 We are so busy chasing life’s big pleasures that we miss out on the little ones,
like dancing barefoot in a park on a rainy day with our kids or planting a rose
garden or watching the sun come up. We live in an age where we have
conquered the highest of mountains but have yet to master our selves.

 We have taller buildings but shorter tempers, more possessions but less
happiness, fuller minds but emptier lives.
 Do not wait until you are on your deathbed to realize the meaning of life and
the precious role you have to play within it. All too often, people attempt
to live their lives backwards: they spend their days striving to get
the things that will make them happy rather than having the
wisdom to realize that happiness is not a place you reach but a
state you create.

 Happiness and a life of deep fulfillment come when you commit


yourself, from the very core of your soul, to spending your highest
human talents on a purpose that makes a difference in others’ lives.

 As this is the last of the life lessons I learned from this book, I wish
you all of us great life filled with wisdom, happiness and fulfillment.
May our days be spent in work that is engaging, on pursuits that are
inspiriting and with people who are loving.

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