TEN RULES FOR FINDING LOVE AND
CREATING LONG-LASTING AUTHENTIC
RELATIONSHIPS
WHAT IS LOVE???
•1. YOU MUST LOVE
YOURSELF FIRST
Your relationship with yourself is the
central template from which all others are
formed. Loving yourself is a prerequisite
to creating a successful and authentic
union with another
• 2. PARTNERING IS A CHOICE
The choice to be in a relationship is
up to you. You have the ability to
attract your beloved and cause the
relationship you desire to happen.
• 3. CREATING LOVE IS A
PROCESS
Moving from “I” to “we” requires a
shift in perspective and energy. Being
an authentic couple is an evolution.
• 4. RELATIONSHIPS PROVIDE
OPPORTUNITIES TO GROW
Your relationship will serve as an
unofficial “lifeshop” in which you will
learn about yourself and how you can
grow on your personal path.
5. COMMUNICATION IS
ESSENTIAL
The open exchange of
thoughts and feelings is the
lifeblood of your
relationship.
• 6. NEGOTIATION WILL BE
REQUIRED
There will be times when you and your
partner must work through impasses.
If you do this consciously and with
respect, you will learn to create win-
win outcomes.
7. YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WILL BE CHALLENGED BY
CHANGE
LIFE WILL PRESENT TURNS IN THE
ROAD. HOW YOU MANEUVER THOSE
TWISTS AND TURNS DETERMINES
THE SUCCESS OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP.
8. YOU MUST NURTURE THE
RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO
THRIVE
Treasure your beloved and your
relationship will flourish.
• 9. RENEWAL IS THE
KEY TO
LONGEVITY
• Happily ever after means
the ability to keep the
relationship fresh and
vital.
10. YOU WILL
FORGET ALL THIS
THE MOMENT YOU
FALL IN LOVE
You know all these rules
inherently. The challenge
is to remember them when
you fall under the
enchanting spell of love.