7habits of Highly Effective People
7habits of Highly Effective People
7habits of Highly Effective People
Interdependence
Seek First to Synergize
Understand, Public
Then be Understood Victory
Think Win-Win
Independence
Put First Things First
Private
Victory
Be Proactive Begin with the
Dependence End in Mind
Stimulus and Response
Freedom to Choose
Stimulus Response
Personal Level
(Muscle Development)
Stimulus Response
Relationship Level
(Skill Development)
Stimulus Response
Organizational Level
(Team / System Development)
Stimulus Response
Human Need Level
(Competitive Play)
(Home Place/Work Place/Marketplace/Community/etc.)
Habit One:
Be Proactive (Contd.)
Proactive
Focus
Circle of
Influence
Wait Until
Told
Do it
Do it and report periodically
Do it and report immediately
“I intend to”
Ask
Habit One:
Be Proactive (Contd.)
Listen to your language
• Reactive Persons • Proactive Persons
Friend Possession
PRINCIPLES
Pleasure
Spouse
Self Work
• Conclusions:
– Know yourself, know your center
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Quadrant II Time Management™
III IV
Habit Four
Think Win/Win
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Habit Four:
Consideration Think Win/Win
Lose/Win Win/Win
Lose/Lose Win/Lose
16 Courage
Habit Five:
Seek first to understand
then to be understood
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Listening
Continuum
5. Empathic WITHIN THE OTHER’S
Listening FRAME OF REFERENC
4. Attentive Listening
3. Selective Listening
WITHIN ONE’S OWN
FRAME OF
2. Pretend Listening REFERENCE
(Patronizing)
1. Ignoring
Habit Five:
Seek first to understand….
• Conclusions:
– Empathic listening is the essence of human
communication.
– If you do your best to understand people, indeed they
will understand you.
– Do not jump to conclusions
– More understanding more trust more influence
Habit Six:
Synergize
Habit Six:
Synergize Synergize
LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION
(Win/Win)
TRUST
Respectful (Compromise)
COOPERATION
Habit Seven
Sharpen Your Saw
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Habit seven:
Sharpen your saw
Physical
Exercise, nutrition
Stress management
Mental Social/Emotional
Reading, RENEWAL Synergy, empathy
Planning, Family activities,
Visualizing Social activities
Spiritual
Religious activities,
Prayers
BALANCE Effectiveness
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The Level 5 Hierarchy
Jim Collins
Good to Great
Level 5 Executive
LEVEL 5 Builds enduring greatness through a
paradoxical combination of
personal humility plus professional will.
Effective Leader
LEVEL 4Catalyzes commitment to and vigorous pursuit of
a clear and compelling vision; stimulates the
group to high performance standards.
Competent Manager
LEVEL 3 Organizes people and resources toward effective
and efficient pursuit of predetermined objectives.
Contributing Team Member
LEVEL 2Contributes to the achievement of group objectives;
works effectively with others in a group setting.
Highly Capable Individual
LEVEL
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1 Makes productive contributions through talent,
knowledge,skills, and good work habits.
The Roots of the Execution Gap
Lack of Clarity
Lack of Commitment
No Enabling
No Synergy
Lack of Accountability
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Four Needs of
People
Mind/
To Learn
Talent Need
(Mind) (Body
)
VOICE
Passion Conscience
(Heart) (Spirit)
OLD INDUSTRIAL AGE NEW KNOWLEDGE WORKER AGE
ISSUE
CONTROL MODEL RELEASE/EMPOWERMENT MODEL
Leadership A position (formal authority) A choice (moral authority)
Management Control things and people Control things, release (empower) people