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Maximised Manhood
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Dr. Edwin Louis Cole
Lessons 7 to 9
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Primary Syllabus
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Dr. Edwin Louis Cole
Build Men - Raise Sons
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Maximised Manhood
Chapter Nine
Lesson 7
Changing Heads
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Changing Heads
Lesson 7 - Chapter 9
I. "Changing Heads"
A. Change always comes from the _____.
(page 99)
1. If change doesn't come from the top,
revolution will come from the bottom.
(page 99)
____ True ___ False
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I. "Changing Heads"
A. Change always comes from the top.
(page 99)
1. If change doesn't come from the top,
revolution will come from the bottom.
(page 99)
__ True ___ False
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2. In business, what is always the problem
and always the solution? (circle one)
(page 100)
a. money
b. time
c. personnel
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2. In business, what is always the problem
and always the solution? (circle one)
(page 100)
a. money
b. time
c. personnel
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3. Read Proverbs 29:2 (KJV) out loud.
"When the righteous are in authority, the
people rejoice: but when the wicked
beareth rule, the people mourn."
4. Change isn't change, until it's _____.
(page 101)
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3. Read Proverbs 29:2 (KJV) out loud.
"When the righteous are in authority, the
people rejoice: but when the wicked
beareth rule, the people mourn."
4. Change isn't change, until it's change.
(page 101)
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B. Intention to change is not change.
(page 101)
1. Who must change in the home?
(page 101)
_____
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B. Intention to change is not change.
(page 101)
1. Who must change in the home?
(page 101)
the head of the house
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2. Most people judge others by their actions
and themselves by their intentions.
(page 101)
Name three times recently that you have
seen this occur, through personal
experience, media, or conveyed to you
through conversation.
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3. Talking about changing, pledging it,
making resolutions, considering it-none of
these are change. In your own words,
what would show that change has
occurred?
_____
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3. Talking about changing, pledging it,
making resolutions, considering it-none of
these are change. In your own words,
what would show that change has
occurred?
When talking has ceased and
action is taken to make these
things a reality. When we become
doers and not so much talkers.
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C. God says to men: Let go of all your own
ways and depend on Me in the totality of
your life. (page 103)
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D. An ounce of obedience is worth a ton of
prayer.
1. Look up 1 Samuel 15:22 (KJV). "...
Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice,
and to hearken than the fat of rams."
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2. Read out loud Proverbs 28:9 (KJV). "He
that turneth away his ear from hearing the
law, even his prayer shall be
abomination."
3. If you don't obey after praying, what
happens with your prayers? (page 105)
_____.
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2. Read out loud Proverbs 28:9 (KJV). "He
that turneth away his ear from hearing the
law, even his prayer shall be
abomination."
3. If you don't obey after praying, what
happens with your prayers? (page 105)
You nullify all the praying.
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E. Change is not change until it is
change. (page 106)
Giving is not giving, until it's _____.
(page 106)
Faith isn't faith, until it's _____.
(page 106)
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E. Change is not change until it is
change. (page 106)
Giving is not giving, until it's given.
(page 106)
Faith isn't faith, until it's action.
(page 106)
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F. Courage is a requirement of leadership.
(page 107)
1. Read out loud 2 Samuel 10:12 (KJV).
"Be of good courage, and let us play the
men for our people, and for the cities of
our God: and the LORD do that which
seemeth him good."
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What in your own words is meant by the
phrase "play the men?"
_____
2. "Be of good _____" is a scriptural refrain.
(page 107)
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What in your own words is meant by the
phrase "play the men?"
Let us be strong for our people.
2. "Be of good courage" is a scriptural
refrain. (page 107)
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G. Write out the definition of courage.
(page 108)
Courage is the _____
that enables a man to face
_____
with a real manliness.
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G. Write out the definition of courage. (page
108)
Courage is the virtue, quality or
attribute of life that enables a man to
face disapproval, persecution, fear,
failure and even death with a real
manliness.
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Read out loud Deuteronomy 31:6 (KJV).
"Be strong and of a good courage, fear
not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD
thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he
will not fail thee, nor forsake thee."
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H. Some things in life are more important
than life itself. (page 109)
1. Joseph saw the honor of God as the
criteria for his life. Read Joseph's
statement from Genesis 39:7-9 (KJV).
"... how then can I do this great
wickedness, and sin against God?"
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H. Some things in life are more important
than life itself. (page 109)
1. Joseph saw the honour of God as the
criteria for his life. Read Joseph's
statement from Genesis 39:7-9 (KJV).
"... how then can I do this great
wickedness, and sin against God?"
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2. Name some Biblical heroes who
courageously gave their lives for a Godly
purpose.
1. _____
2. _____
3. _____
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2. Name some Biblical heroes who
courageously gave their lives for a Godly
purpose.
1. John the Baptist
2. Paul
3. Stephen
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I. Courage is necessary in a man's life to
_____. (page 109)
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I. Courage is necessary in a man's life to
change. (page 109)
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Practical:
1. A man is seeking God and prays, "God,
please help my wife to have a good
attitude toward me, and please make my
boss recognize what a good job I'm
doing." His prayer is admirable, but who
is he praying will change? In your words,
what would be a better way to pray?
_____
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2. Courage is sometimes necessary to run
away from something, and sometimes
needed to run toward something.
What do you need courage to run from?
_____
What do you need courage to run
toward?
_____
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3. What can you change in your life today?
_____
How will you go about changing it?
_____
How will you follow up to ensure you've
changed?
_____
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Prayer: Father, in Jesus' Name, I ask You to
change me as You have changed so many
other men. Help me to accept responsibility
for the changes that need to be made and
forgive me for blaming others. I will be
courageous to change in each area You show
me. I will be seen as Your man above all else.
Thank You, in Jesus' Name, for walking with
me through every step. Amen.
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Changing Heads
Lesson 7 - Self Test
1. If change doesn't come from the top,
what will come from the bottom?
_____
2. _____ is always the problem; _____ is
always the solution
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1. If change doesn't come from the top,
what will come from the bottom?
revolution
2. Personnel is always the problem;
personnel is always the solution
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3. Men often judge others by their _____,
and themselves by their _____.
4. Give a personal definition of what it
means to have courage.
_____
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3. Men often judge others by their actions,
and themselves by their intentions.
4. Give a personal definition of what it
means to have courage.
Courage is a virtue that a man needs
to face real life situations-even the
unpleasant. In order to change,
courage must be exhibited.
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Lesson 7 - Self Test
5. A ton of prayer will always produce more
than obedience.
___ True ____ False
6. Name the number one virtue that men
need to face reality.
_____
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5. A ton of prayer will always produce more
than obedience.
___ True __ False
6. Name the number one virtue that men
need to face reality.
courage
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Maximised Manhood
Chapter Ten
Lesson 8
The Buck Stops Here
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The Buck Stops Here
Lesson 8 - Chapter 10
I. "The Buck Stops Here"
A. The man is to be the head of the house.
1. Look up Ephesians 5:23 (NIV). "For the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ
is the head of the church, his body, of
which he is the Saviour."
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2. Christ provides _____ to the _____ of the
members of the church.
The man prayerfully provides _____ to
the _____ of his family. (page 111)
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2. Christ provides solutions to the
problems of the members of the
church.
The man prayerfully provides solutions
to the problems of his family. (page
111)
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B. Men cannot leave the ministry of
_____
to their wives.
It is their responsibility as well.
(page 117)
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B. Men cannot leave the ministry of
listening to the children to their
wives.
It is their responsibility as well.
(page 117)
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C. One of the marks of a true leader is not to
pass the _____. (page 117)
1. "Justification" theologically means _____.
(page 117)
2. Self-justification is the term for what we
call _____. (page 117)
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C. One of the marks of a true leader is not to
pass the proverbial buck. (page 117)
1. "Justification" theologically means being
made right. (page 117)
2. Self-justification is the term for what we
call buck passing. (page 117)
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D. Read Genesis 3:1-10
Now the serpent was more cunning than any
beast of the field which the Lord God had made.
And he said to the woman, Has God indeed
said, You shall not eat of every tree of the
garden? And the woman said to the serpent,
We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden;
but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of
the garden, God has said, You shall not eat it,
nor shall you touch it, lest you die.
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Then the serpent said to the woman, You will
not surely die. For God knows that in the day
you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and
you will be like God, knowing good and evil.
So when the woman saw that the tree was
good for food, that it was pleasant to the
eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise,
she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to
her husband with her, and he ate.
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Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and
they knew that they were naked; and they sewed
fig leaves together and made themselves
coverings.
And they heard the sound of the Lord God
walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and
Adam and his wife hid themselves from the
presence of the Lord God among the trees of the
garden.
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Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to
him, Where are you?
So he said, I heard Your voice in the garden,
and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid
myself.
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1. What are the three results of sin?
(pages 117-118)
a. _____
b. _____
c. _____
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1. What are the three results of sin?
(pages 117-118)
a. guilt
b. fear
c. hiding
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2. Guilt is a killer. (page 118) Give a
Biblical example of someone who
was plagued by guilt. ]
_____
3. Guilt leads to _____. (page 118)
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2. Guilt is a killer. (page 118) Give a
Biblical example of someone who
was plagued by guilt. ]
Adam
3. Guilt leads to fear. (page 118)
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4. Fear leads to hiding. Name some
ways in which you have tried to hide
from or escape guilt and
fear in your life. (page 118)
_____
_____
_____
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E. The devil made you do it!
___ True ___ False
1. Whom did Adam blame? (page 118)
_____
2. Whom did Eve blame in the Garden of
Eden? (page 118) _____
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E. The devil made you do it!
___ True __ False
1. Whom did Adam blame? (page 118)
Eve
2. Whom did Eve blame in the Garden of
Eden? (page 118) the devil
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F. Every man must answer for his
actions to _____. (page 120)
1. Some men would rather cover up
their _____ than save their
marriage. (page 120)
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F. Every man must answer for his
actions to God alone. (page 120)
1. Some men would rather cover up
their sins than save their marriage.
(page 120)
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2. Others would rather cover up their
_____ than save their
business. (page 120)
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2. Others would rather cover up their
failure and let their business
collapse than save their
business. (page 120)
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G. There are times when silence is golden;
other times it is just plain _____. (page
120)
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G. There are times when silence is golden;
other times it is just plain yellow. (page
120)
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H. Some men think they are punishing their
child for correction, when they are really
punishing for _____. (pages 121-122)
The result is that it _____ a child, not
changes him. (page 122)
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H. Some men think they are punishing their
child for correction, when they are really
punishing for revenge. (pages 121-122)
The result is that it hardens a child, not
changes him. (page 122)
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I. God is not indifferent to your _____.
(page 124)
1. God can do nothing for men who say they
have no _____. (page 124)
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I. God is not indifferent to your needs.
(page 124)
1. God can do nothing for men who say they
have no needs. (page 124)
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2. Read Revelation 3:17 (KJV). "Because
thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with
goods, and have need of nothing;
and knowest not that thou art wretched,
and miserable, and poor, and blind and
naked."
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J. God loves you personally. He has given
you _____ and wisdom. (page 125)
To reach your family, God looks to: (circle
one)
1. your wife
2. your church
3. you
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J. God loves you personally. He has given
you His Word and wisdom. (page 125)
To reach your family, God looks to: (circle
one)
1. your wife
2. your church
3. you
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Practical:
1. Take a sheet of paper and start listing all
the things you are guilty of, or feel guilty
about. Spend some time in prayer for God to
remind you of sins, mistakes, and errors.
After writing as many as you can think of,
take a red pen or marker and begin to ask for
forgiveness for each one. As you mark over
the item, say aloud, "God forgives me and I
now forgive myself as well."
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2. Name the last thing you did that
you blamed someone else for. Then
think of the one before that. Go back as
far as you can. Then, using the red
marker again, ask God to forgive you
and forgive yourself. Where
appropriate, contact the person you
blamed and ask them to forgive you.
What I did ____ Who I blamed___
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Repeat this prayer out loud: Father, in the
Name of Jesus, I admit the mistakes and sins
that this last lesson has shown me and I ask
for Your forgiveness. Having asked for and
received Your forgiveness, I refuse to wallow
in self-pity for making them, I refuse to be put
down by Satan or others for doing them, I
thank You that they are covered with the
blood of Jesus and behind me forever.
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I accept responsibility for myself, for my
situation, for my family and for the way we are
today, and I commit to becoming the one who
solves the problems, not the one who is part
of the problem. For those things I cannot
solve, I ask You to cover them with Your
grace and mercy and deliver me and my
family. I give You praise in advance for a
complete change in my life. Amen.
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Lesson 8 - Self Test
1. As the husband, I am responsible to lead
the home. Therefore, as Christ takes care
of the members of His church, I must
_____ for the problems in my home and
family.
2. Buck passing is the common term for
_____.
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Lesson 8 - Self Test
1. As the husband, I am responsible to lead
the home. Therefore, as Christ takes care
of the members of His church, I must
provide solutions for the problems in
my home and family.
2. Buck passing is the common term for
self-justification.
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Lesson 8 - Self Test
3. The sequentially ordered result of sin is:
a. _____
b. _____
c. _____
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3. The sequentially ordered result of sin is:
a. guilt
b. fear
c. hiding
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4. Name some major ways men try to
escape or hide from responsibility.
a. _____
b. _____
c. _____
d. _____
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4. Name some major ways men try to
escape or hide from responsibility.
a. philosophy
b. drugs
c. alcohol
d. pleasure
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5. In your own words, write the definition for
self-justification.
_____
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Chapter Eleven
Lesson 9
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I. "The Video Daddy"
A. The most powerful thing that can be done
in life is to create an _____; the next most
powerful thing is to destroy an _____.
(page 127)
1. Men have been victimized by forces and
images they could have _____. (page
127)
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I. "The Video Daddy"
A. The most powerful thing that can be done
in life is to create an image; the next
most powerful thing is to destroy an
image. (page 127)
1. Men have been victimized by forces and
images they could have controlled.
(page 127)
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2. Read Titus 1:15-16 (TLB). "...but a
person whose own heart is evil and
untrusting finds evil in everything, for his
dirty mind and rebellious heart color all he
sees and hears. Such persons claim
they know God, but from seeing the way
they act, one knows they don't."
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Images in our mind influence the way we
act, dress, speak and influence the
way we: (add more in your own words)
_____
_____
_____
_____
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3. Young men and women are motivated
greatly by the _____ they have in life.
(page 129)
Read Proverbs 23:7 (KJV). "For as a
man thinketh in his heart, so is he ..."
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3. Young men and women are motivated
greatly by the hero image they have in
life. (page 129)
Read Proverbs 23:7 (KJV). "For as a
man thinketh in his heart, so is he ..."
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Read Numbers 13:33 (KJV). (Spies at
the border of Canaan) "And there we
saw the giants ... and we were in our own
sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in
their sight."
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B. The degree of disappointment is found in
the difference between the _____ and the
_____. (page 129)
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B. The degree of disappointment is found in
the difference between the ideal and the
real. (page 129)
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C. Without Jesus men are unable to be
restored in the _____. (page 130)
When we become new creations we have
new _____. (page 130)
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C. Without Jesus men are unable to be
restored in the image of God. (page
130)
When we become new creations we have
new motivations. (page 130)
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D. Form a _____ in your home. (page 132)
Read Psalms 101:6-7 (TLB). "I will make
the godly of the land my heroes, and
invite them to my home. Only those who
are truly good shall be my servants. But I
will not allow those who deceive and lie to
stay in my house."
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D. Form a committee of one in your
home. (page 132)
Read Psalms 101:6-7 (TLB). "I will make
the godly of the land my heroes, and
invite them to my home. Only those who
are truly good shall be my servants. But I
will not allow those who deceive and lie to
stay in my house."
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What does this have to do with the "video
daddy?"
_____
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The man can become addicted to television
and force his wife and children into
unnatural responsibilities and roles. He is
supposed to guide, guard and govern.
When he gratifies his own selfish desires at
the expense of his wife and children and
allows the filth of the world to come into his
house by way of video, he has made the
ungodly his heroes and rescinded the
responsibility of guiding, guarding and
governing his family.
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Read Deuteronomy 6:7 (KJV). "And thou
shalt teach them diligently unto thy
children, and shalt talk of them when thou
sittest in thine house, and when thou
walkest by the way, and when thou liest
down, and when thou risest up."
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What does it mean you should do for your
children?
_____
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What does it mean you should do for your
children?
We should not only teach our
children the Word of God, but
make it practical by living it every
day-in every situation-continually.
We must be doers of the Word.
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E. Man has three functions in the
home and community. (page 132)
1. Guide
2. Guard
3. govern
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E. Man has three functions in the
home and community. (page 132)
1. Guide
2. Guard
3. govern
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Look up John 17:12
While I was with them in the world, I kept
them in Your name. Those whom You
gave Me I have kept; and none of them is
lost except the son of perdition, that the
Scripture might be fulfilled
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Look up 2 Corinthians 10:4-5
For the weapons of our warfare are not
carnal but mighty in God for pulling down
strongholds, casting down arguments and
every high thing that exalts itself against
the knowledge of God, bringing every
thought into captivity to the obedience of
Christ,
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Look up 1 Timothy 3:4
one who rules his own house well, having
his children in submission with all
reverence
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What points can you learn from these
verses?
_____
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What points can you learn from these verses?
Just as Jesus kept the disciples and is
responsible to keep the church, men should
keep the family from the world and keep the filth
of the world from the family. The husband and
father must guard the family from evil, by being
compliant to the Lord and His Word, destroying
the weakness of the flesh (keeping pure in his
thoughts) by His Word and walking in obedience
to His Word.
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F. The greatest addiction in today's society
is: (circle one) (page 133)
a. drugs
b. food
c. Alcohol
d. television
e. gambling
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F. The greatest addiction in today's society
is: (circle one) (page 133)
a. drugs
b. food
c. alcohol
d. television
e. gambling
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Lesson 9 - Chapter 11
1. Read Romans 12:2 (KJV).
"And be not conformed to this world: but
be ye transformed by the renewing of
your mind, that ye may prove what is
that good, and acceptable, and perfect,
will of God."
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2. The absentee father in front of the
television forces the wife and children into
unnatural roles and responsibilities.
(page 133)
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2. The absentee father in front of the
television forces the wife and children
into unnatural roles and responsibilities.
(page 133)
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G. Men, families and nations are made great
by the _____ of their virtues, not by virtue
of their _____. (page 134)
Men are God's _____. While men look
for better _____, God looks for better
_____. (pages 135-136)
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G. Men, families and nations are made great
by the wealth of their virtues, not by
virtue of their wealth. (page 134)
Men are God's methods. While men
look for better methods, God looks for
better men. (pages 135-136)
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Practical:
1. Start a television log book. HONESTLY
keep a record of how much time you
spend watching television. Once you've
controlled your own television habits,
work to control the habits of the rest of
the family, making yourself available to fill
their time with other activities.
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2. Read 1 Corinthians 16:13 (KJV).
"Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you
like men [or act like a man], be strong.
Break it into four parts and write what you
can do to fulfill each one.
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Watch ye: _____
Stand fast in the faith: _____
Act like a man: _____
Be strong: _____
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Repeat this prayer out loud:
Father, Your word says to set no wicked thing
before my eyes. This day I make the decision to
make a covenant with my eyes, to not look upon
images that will grieve Your Spirit, and to not
glorify the way of evil and violent men. I choose
instead to make my home a welcome place for
Your Spirit to dwell and abide. I choose to guard
well my family whom You have entrusted to my
care. In Jesus Name, Amen.
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Lesson 9 - Self Test
1. What is the most powerful thing that can
be done in a life?
_____
2. What is the second most powerful thing
that can be done?
_____
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1. What is the most powerful thing that can
be done in a life?
to create an image
2. What is the second most powerful thing
that can be done?
to destroy an image
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3. Name some popular "anti-heroes" of
today.
a. _____
b. _____
c. _____
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3. Name some popular "anti-heroes" of
today.
a. Archie Bunker
b. Ed Bundy
c. Homer Simpson
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4. Throughout life, there is a constant
adjustment of the _____ and the _____.
The distance between the _____ and the
_____ is the degree of disappointment in
life.
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4. Throughout life, there is a constant
adjustment of the ideal and the real.
The distance between the real and the
ideal is the degree of disappointment in
life.
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5. Every man has three major functions in
the home. What are they?
a. _____
b. _____
c. _____
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5. Every man has three major functions in
the home. What are they?
a. guide
b. guard
c. govern
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6. What is the greatest addiction in America
today?
_____
7. Men are truly great when measured by
the wealth of their _____, not the _____
of their wealth.
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6. What is the greatest addiction in America
today?
television
7. Men are truly great when measured by
the wealth of their virtue, not the virtue
of their wealth.
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End of Part Three
