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Harmony in the family

Relationship IS and it exists between the self (I) and the othe self (I). The self (I) has feelings in a relationship. These feelings are between I and I. These feelings in the self (I) are definite, i.e they can be identified with definitences. Recognising and fulfilling the feelings leads to mutual happiness in relationship.

Values in human relationships


1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. Trust ( vishvas) Respect(samman) Affection(sneha) Care(mamata) Guidance(vatsalya) Reverence(shraddha) Glory(guarava) Gratitude(kritgayata) Love(prem)

Trust (vishvas)
To be assured that each human being inherently wants oneself and other to be happy and prosporous. In all relationships , trust is the foundation . A relationship without trust results in opposition, the relationship itself gets shaken up.

Respect(samman)
Means right evaluation, to be evaluated as I am. 3 mistakes in our evaluation in the following ways:

1) Over evalutaion (adhi-mulyana)-to evaluate more than what it is. Eg: if you are wrongly flattered you feel uncomfortable.
2) Under evaluation( ava-mulyana)- to evaluate less than what it is. Eg: if you are condemmed , you feel uncomfortable. 3) Otherwise evaluation(a-mulyana)- to evaluate otherwise than what its is. Eg: if you are evaluated as something else, you feel uncomfortable.

Affection(sneha)
Feeling of being related to other. Affection comes when I recognize that we both want to make each other happy and both of us are similar. This feeling of acceptance of the other , as oness relative is the feeling of affection or sneha in relationship.

Care(mamata)
The feeling of care is the feeling to nurture and protect the body of our relative. We understand a human being as a co-existence of the self (I) and the body and the body is an instrument ofI.

Guidance(vatsalya)
Feeling of ensuring right understanding and feelings in the other. Right understanding and feelings is also a need of the other and the other is related to me. As a result I have the responsibility to help the other . Based upon this I am able to recognize this feeling of ensuring right understanding and feelings in my relative.

Reverence(shraddha)
Feeling of acceptance of excellence in the other . we aspire for continuous happiness and to realize it, we have to understand harmony at all the levels of our living , and live accordindgly. When we see that the other has achieved this excellence which means to understand and to live in harmony at all levels of living ensuring continuty of happiness , we have a feeling of reverence for him/her.

Glory(guarva)
Feeling for someone who has made efforts for excellence. We find that there have been people in the history , or even around us , who are investing their time , energy and their belongings to achieve excellence, to make others excellent. This gives the feeling of glory.

Gratitude(kritayagta)
Feeling of acceptance for those who have made effort for my excellence. We understand that each one of us has the same goal of continuous happiness and prosperity . Each one of us has to work towards increasing our competence to realize our intention and in this process, we are helped and guided by others that have the right understanding . When we understand this and begin to recognize the feeling in ourselves, we feel the gratitude in our relationship.

Love(prem)
Feeling of being related to all is love. The feeling of love leads to an undivided society, it starts from a family and slowly expands to the world family . Every human being has natural acceptance for relatedness up to the world family in the form of love. We start with trust , which becomes foundation for being related to one(affection) , and we reach the state of being related to evryone.

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