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Module 2

The module focuses on understanding the self in relation to society, culture, and family, emphasizing concepts like social comparison and the looking-glass self. Students will explore their own identities through activities and discussions, examining how external influences shape their self-concept. The course aims to foster a deeper understanding of the dynamic relationship between the self and social contexts.
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Module 2

The module focuses on understanding the self in relation to society, culture, and family, emphasizing concepts like social comparison and the looking-glass self. Students will explore their own identities through activities and discussions, examining how external influences shape their self-concept. The course aims to foster a deeper understanding of the dynamic relationship between the self and social contexts.
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Republic of the Philippines

UNIVERSITY OF EASTERN PHILIPPINES


University Town, Catarman, Northern Samar

COLLEGE OF EDUCATION
Secondary Teacher Education Department
2nd Semester, SY: 2024-2025

Module in GE 3
UNDERSTANDING THE SELF

This module is prepared by:

CHRISTINE M. ADLAWAN, JD, PhD (CAR)


Subject Professor
Module in GE 3 Prof. Christine M. Adlawan

MODULE 2:
THE SELF, SOCIETY, AND CULTURE

OVERVIEW

This module focuses on the different notions of the self in relationship with
the society, culture, community, and family. It will cover concepts about social
comparison, gender, and the looking-glass self as to how it affects self-concept.

LEARNING OUTCOMES

Upon completion of this module, the student will have reliably identified new
ways and paradigms to re-examine the true nature of self, and explain the
relationship between external reality and the self.

At the end of the lesson, students should be able to:


a) explain the relationship between and among the self, society, and
culture;
b) describe and discuss the different by which society and culture shape
the
c) compare and contrast how the self can be influenced by the different
institutions in the society; and
d) examine one’s self against the different views of self that were
discussed in class.

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ACTIVITY 1
MEVOLUTION

Instruction:

Create a collage using your own picture to show how you developed from
the time you were born up to present. For each picture, write a caption to tell a
story about your own evolution. Focus on the physical challenges manifested
while you were growing up.

Use the space below to plan or outline your collage. Share it to the class.

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ANALYSIS 1
Answer the following questions briefly:

1. What beliefs, values, and behaviors do you consider to be helpful to


your social self? Why?
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
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_____________________________ _______________________

2. What beliefs, values, and behavior do you consider as detrimental to


your social self? Why?
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
__________________ ______________________________________

3. What new insights about your social self do you have at this point?
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________

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ACTIVITY 2

Watch the video clip about “The Real-Life Mowgli” using this link:
https://youtu.be/oqSsFsPYH4A.

Questions:

1. What can you infer from the case of Tarzan and Mowgli?

2. How much of who are you are now a product of your society, community,
and family?

3. Has your choice of school affected yourself now?

4. Had you been born into a different family and schooled in a different
college, how much of who you are now would change?

Case Analysis for Discussion:

Jon is a Math professor in a Catholic university for more than a decade now.
Jon has a beautiful wife named Joan, which he met in college. Joan was Jon’s first
and last girlfriend. Apart from being a husband, Jon is also blessed with two doting
kids, a son and daughter. He also sometimes serves in the church too as a lector
and a commentator. As a man of different roles, one can expect Jon to change and
adjust his behaviors, ways, and even language depending on his social situation.
When Jon is in the university, he conducts himself in a matter that befits his title as
a professor. As a husband, Jon can be intimate and touchy. Joan considers him
sweet, something that his students will never conceive him to be. His kids fear him.
As a father, Jon can be stern. As a lector and commentator, on the other hand, his
church mates knew him as a guy who is calm, all-smiles, and always ready to lend
a helping hand to anyone in need.

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Questions:

a. Are we being hypocritical in doing so?

b. Are we even conscious of our shifting selves?

c. Is the behavior of Jon acceptable and expected?

NOTE: This will be recorded as your recitation. Hence, in this part you are
encouraged to be factual with what you perceive. You may cite theories, prominent
people and terms to support your thoughts.

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ABSTRACTION

What is the Self?


The self, in contemporary literature and even common sense, is commonly
defined by the following characteristics: “separate, self-contained, independent,
consistent, unitary, and private” (Stevens 1996). By separate, it is meant that the
self is distinct from other selves. The self is always unique and has its own identity.
One cannot be another person. Even twins are distinct from each other. Second,
self is also self-contained and independent because in itself it can exist. Its
distinctness allows it to be self-contained with its own thoughts, characteristics, and
volition. It does not require any other self for it to exist. It is consistent because it
has a personality that is enduring and therefore can be expected to persist for quite
some time. Its consistency allows it to be studied, described, and measured.

Consistency also means that a particular self’s traits, characteristics,


tendencies, and potentialities are more or less the same. Self is unitary in that it is
the center of all experiences and thoughts that run through a certain person. It is
like the chief command post in an individual where all processes, emotions, and
thoughts converge. Finally, the self is private. Each person sorts out information,
feelings and emotions, and thought processes within the self. This whole process
is never accessible to anyone but the self.

The last characteristic of the self being private suggests that the self is
isolated from the external world. It lives within its own world. However, we also see
that this potential clash between the self and the external reality is the reason for
the self to have a clear understanding of what it might be, what it can be, and what
it will be. From this perspective then, one can see that the self s always at the mercy
of external circumstances that bump and collide with it. It is ever-changing and
dynamic, allowing external influences to take part in its shaping. The concern then
of this lesson is in understanding the vibrant relationship between the self and
external reality. This perspective is known as the social constructionist perspective.
"Social constructionists argue for a merged view of “the person” and “their social
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context” where the boundaries of one cannot easily be separated from the
boundaries of the other"(Stevens 1996).

Social constructivists argue that the self should not be seen as a static entity
that stays constant through and through. Rather, the self has to be seen as
something that is in unceasing flux, in a constant struggle with external reality and
is malleable in its dealings with society. The self is always in participation with social
life and its identity subjected to influences here and there. Having these
perspectives considered should draw one into concluding that the self is truly
multifaceted.

The Self and Culture


Remaining the same person and turning chameleon by adding to one’s
context seems paradoxical. However, the French Anthropologist Marcel Mauss has
an explanation for this phenomenon. According to Mauss, every self has two faces:
personne and moi. Moi refers to person’s sense of who he is, his body, and his
basic identity, his biological givenness. Moi is a person’s basic identity. Personne,
on the other hand, is composed of the social concepts of what it means to be who
he is. Personne has much to do with what it means to live in a particular institution,
a particular family, a particular religion, a particular nationality, and how to behave
given expectations and influences from others.

The dynamics and capacity for different personne can be illustrated better
cross-culturally. An overseas Filipino worker (OFW) adjusting to life in another
country is a very good case study. In the Philippines, many people unabashedly
violate jaywalking rules. A common Filipino treats road, even national ones, as
basically his and so he just merely crosses whenever and wherever. When the
same Filipino visits another country with strict traffic rules, say Singapore, you will
notice how suddenly law-abiding the said Filipino becomes. A lot of Filipinos has
anecdotally confirmed this observation.

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The same malleability can be seen in how some men easily transform into
sweet, docile guys when trying to woe and court a particular woman and suddenly
just change rapidly after hearing a sweet “yes.” This cannot be considered a
conscious change on the part of the guy, or on the part of the law-abiding Filipino
in the first example. The self simply morphed according to the circumstances and
contexts.

In the Philippines, Filipinos tend to consider their territory as a part of who


they are. This includes considering their immediate surrounding as part of them,
thus the perennial “tapat ko, linis ko.” Filipinos most probably do not consider
national roads as something external to who they are. It is a part of them and they
are a part of it, thus crossing the road whenever and wherever becomes no-brainer.
In another country, however, the Filipino recognizes that he is in a foreign territory
where nothing technically belongs to him. He has to follow the rules or else he will
be apprehended.

Language is another interesting aspect of this social constructivism. The


Filipino language is incredibly interesting to talk about. The way by which we
articulate our love is denoted by the phrase, “Mahal kita.” This, of course, is the
Filipino translation of “I love you.” The Filipino brand of this articulation of love,
unlike in English, does not specify the subject and the object of love, mahal, and
the pronoun kita, which is second person pronoun that refers to the speaker and
the one being talked to. In the Filipino language, unlike in English, there is no
distinction between the lover and the beloved. They are one.

Interesting too is the word, mahal. In Filipino, the word can mean both “love”
and “expensive.” In our language, love is intimately bound with value, with being
expensive, being precious. Something expensive is valuable. Someone whom we
love is valuable to us. The Sanskrit origin of the word is “lubh,” which means desire.
Technically, love is a desire. The Filipino word for it has another intonation apart
from mere desire, valuable.

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Another interesting facet of our language is its being gender-neutral. In


English, Spanish, and other languages, the distinction is clear between a third
person male and third person female pronoun. He and she; el and ella. In Filipino,
it is plain, “siya.” There is no specification of gender. Our language does not specify
between male and female. We both call it “siya.”

In these varied examples, we have seen how language has something to do


with culture. It is a salient part of culture and ultimately, has a tremendous effect in
our crafting of the self. This might be also one of the reasons why cultural divide
spells out differences in how one regards oneself.

In one research, it was found that North Americans are more likely to attribute
being unique to themselves and claim that they are better than most people in doing
what they love doing. Japanese people, on the other hand, have been seen to
display a degree of modesty. If one finds himself born and reared in a particular
culture, one definitely tries to fit in a particular mold. If a self is born into a particular
society or culture, the self will have to adjust according to its exposure.

The Self and the Development of the Social World

So how do people actively produce their social worlds? How do children


growing up become social beings? How can a boy turn out to just be like an ape?
How do twins coming out from the same mother turn out to be terribly different when
given up for adoption? More than his givenness (personality, tendencies, and
propensities, among others), one is believed to be in active participation in the
shaping of the self. Most often, we think the human persons are just passive actors
in the whole process of the shaping of selves. That men and women are born with
particularities that they can no longer change. Recent studies, however, indicate
that men and women in their growth and development engage actively in the
shaping of the self. The unending terrain of metamorphosis of the self is mediated
by language. “Language as both a publicly shared and privately utilized symbol
system is the site where the individual and the social make and remake each other”

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(Schwartz, White, and Lutz 1993).

Mead and Vygotsky

For Mead and Vygotsky, the way that human persons develop is with the use
of language acquisition and interaction with others. The way that we process
information is normally a form of an internal dialogue in our head. Those who
deliberate about moral dilemmas undergo this internal dialog. “Should I do this or
that?” “But if I do this, it will be like this.” “Don’t I want the other option?” and so
cognitive and emotional development of child is always a mimicry of how it is done
in the social world, in the external reality where he is in.

Both Vygotsky and Mead treat the human mind as something that is made,
constituted through language as experienced in the external world and as
encountered in dialogs with others. A young child internalizes values, norms,
practices, and social beliefs and more through exposure to these dialogs that will
eventually become part of his individual world. For Mead, this takes place as a child
assumes the “other” through language and role-play. A child conceptualizes his
notion of “self” through this. Can you notice how little children are fond of playing
role-play with their toys? How they make scripts and dialogs for their toys as they
play with them? According to Mead, it is through this that a child delineates the “I”
from the rest. Vygotsky, for his part, a child internalizes real-life dialogs that he has
had with others, with his family, his primary caregiver, or his playmates. They apply
this to their mental and practical problems along with the social and cultural
infusions brought about by the said dialogs. Can you notice how children eventually
become what they watch? How children can easily adapt ways of cartoon
characters they are exposed to?

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Mead’s Three Stages of Development of Self

STAGE 1: The Preparatory Stage


The preparatory stage starts from the time we are born until we are about
age two. In this stage, children mimic those around them. This is why parents of
young children typically do not want you to use foul language around them (Rath,
2016). Do children have idea of what they are saying or doing? No. They are just
mimicking.

STAGE 2: The Play Stage


From about age two to six, children are in the play stage. During the play
stage, children play pretend and do not adhere to the rules in an organized games
like patintero or hide n’ seek and others.

STAGE 3: The Game Stage


In this stage, from age seven onwards, children can begin to understand and
adhere to the rules of the games. They can begin to play more formalized games
because they begin to understand other people’s perspective-or the perspective of
the generalized other.

The Looking-Glass Self: Our Sense of Self is Influenced by Others’ Views of


Us
The concept of the looking-glass self-states that part of how we see ourselves
comes from our perception of how others see us (Cooley, 1902).

According to the American sociologist Charles Horton Cooley (1864-1929),


the degree of personal insecurity you display in social situations is determined by
what you believe other people think of you. Cooley’s concept of the looking-glass
self states that a person’s self grows out of a person’s social interaction with others.
The view of ourselves comes from the contemplation of personal qualities and
impressions of how others perceive us. Actually, how we see ourselves does not
come from who we really are, but rather from how we believe others see us

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(Isaksen, 2013).

Self in Families

Apart from the anthropological and psychological basis for the relationship
between the self and the social world, the sociological likewise struggled to
understand the real connection between the two concepts. In doing so, sociologists
focus on the different institutions and powers at play in the society. Among these,
the most prominent is the family.

While every child is born with certain givenness, disposition coming from his
parents’ genes and general condition of life, the impact of one’s family is still
deemed as a given in understanding the self. The kind of family that we are born
in, the resources available to us (human, spiritual, economic), and the kind of
development that we will have will certainly affect us as we go through life. As a
matter of evolutionary fact, human persons are one of those beings whose
importance of family cannot be denied. Human beings are born virtually helpless
and the dependency period of a human baby to its parents for nurturing is relatively
longer than most other animals. Learning therefore is critical in capacity to actualize
our potential of becoming humans. In trying to achieve the goal of becoming a fully
realized human, a child enters a system of relationships, most important of which
is the family.

Human persons learn the ways of living and therefore their selfhood by being
in a family. It is what a family initiates a person to become that serves as the basis
for this person’s progress. Babies internalize ways and styles that they observe
from their family. By imitating, for example, the language of its primary agents of
rearing its family, babies learn the language. The same is true for ways of behaving.
Notice how kids reared in a respectful environment become respectful as well and
the converse if raised in a converse family. Internalizing behavior may either
conscious or unconscious. Table manners or ways of speaking to elders are things
that are impossible to teach and therefore, are consciously learned by kids. Some

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behaviors and attitudes, on the other hand, may be indirectly taught through
rewards and punishments. Others, such as sexual behavior or how to confront
emotions, are learned through subtle means, like the tone of the voice or intonation
of the models. It is then clear at this point that those who develop and eventually
grow to become adult who still did not learn a simple matters like basic manners of
conduct failed in internalizing due to parental or familial failure to initiate them into
the world.

Without a family, biologically and sociologically, a person may not even


survive or become human person. Like that of the case of Tarzan, in more ways
than one, his survival in the midst of the forest is already a miracle. His being a fully
human person with a sense of selfhood is a different story though. The usual
teleserye plot of kids getting swapped in the hospital and getting reared by a
different family gives an obvious manifestation of the point being made in this
section. One who he is because of his family for the most part.

Gender and the Self

Another important aspect of the self is gender. Gender is one of those loci of
the self that is subject to alteration, change, and development. We have seen in the
past years how people fought hard for the right to express, validate, and assert their
gender expression. Many controversies may frown upon this and insist on the
biological. However, from the point-of-view of the social sciences and the self, it is
important to give one the leeway to find, express, and live his identity. This forms
part of selfhood that one cannot just dismiss. One maneuvers into the society and
identifies himself as who he is by also taking note of gender identities. A wonderful
anecdote about Leo Tolstoy’s wife that can solidify this point is narrated below:

Sonia Tolstoy, the wife of the famous Russian novelist Leo Tolstoy, wrote
when she was twenty-one, “I am nothing but a miserable crushed worm, whom no
one wants, whom no one loves, a useless creature with morning sickness, and a
big belly, two rotten teeth, and a bad temper, a battered sense of dignity, and a love

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which nobody wants and which nearly drives me insane.” A few years later she
wrote, “It make me laugh to read over this diary. It’s so full of contradictions, and
one would think that I was such an unhappy woman. Yet is there a happier woman
than I?” (Tolstoy 1975)

This account illustrates that our gender partly determines how we see
ourselves in the world. Often times, society forces a particular identity unto us
depending on our sex and/or gender. In the Philippines, husbands for the most part
are expected to provide for the family and hold it in. Slight modifications have been
on the way due to feminism and lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBTQ+)
activism but for the most part, patriarchy has remained to be at work.

Nancy Chodorow, a feminist, argues that because mothers take the role of
taking care of children, there is a tendency for girls to imitate the same and
reproduce the same kind of mentality of women as care providers in the family. The
way that little girls given dolls instead of guns or any other toys or are encouraged
to play with makeshift kitchen also reinforces the notion of what roles they should
take and the selves they should develop. In boarding schools for girls, young
women are encouraged to act like fine ladies, are trained to behave in a fashion
that befits their status as women in society.

Men on the other hand, in the periphery of their own family, are taught early
on how to behave like a man. This normally includes holding in one’s emotion,
being tough, fatalistic, not to worry about danger, and admiration for hard physical
labor. Masculinity is learned by integrating a young boy in a society. In the
Philippines, young boys had to undergo circumcision not just for the original, clinical
purpose of hygiene but also to assert their manliness in the society. Circumcision
plays another social role by initiating young boys into manhood.

The gendered self is then shaped within a particular context of time and
space. The sense of self that is being taught makes sure that an individual fits in a
particular environment. This dangerous and detrimental in the goal of truly finding

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one’s self, self-determination, and growth of the self. Gender has to be personally
discovered and asserted and not dictated by culture and the society.

APPLICATION

Paste a picture of you when you were in elementary, in high school, and
now that you are in college. Below the picture, list down your salient characteristics
that you remember.

After having examined your “self” in different stages, write your thoughts on
the following:
A. Similarities in all stages of my “self”
B. Differences in my “self” across the three stages of my life
C. Possible reasons for the differences in D. Aspects of yourself you think
may be changed or would you like to change Take a clear shot/picture
of your output. Submission shall be made through Google classroom.

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REFERENCES

➢ Alata, Eden Joy, et. al., (2020) Understanding the Self. Rex
Bookstore, Inc.

➢ Ang, Jaime G. (2018). Understanding the Self. Manila Mindshapers


Co. Inc.

➢ Ariola, Marioano (2018). Understanding the Self. Manila: Unlimited


Books, Library Services & Publishing Inc.

➢ Otig, V. S., Gallinero, W. B., Bataga, N. U., Salado, F. B., & Visande, J.
C. (2018). A Holistic Approach in Understanding the Self. Malabon City,
Philippines: Mutya Publishing

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