Negotiation - Students Handout
Negotiation - Students Handout
Negotiation is an art which you learn at every stage of life. You negotiate
with people every day on various personal and professional issues.
Professionally, the focus of your negotiations could be: resolving
employees’ issues, team work, improving business relationships, etc.
Young children also negotiate with their parents to get things of their
choice. They may put conditions like ‘If I study, would you buy me the
Firefox?’ And most of the parents end up responding positively to this
condition. Some people term negotiations as bargaining or haggling.
However, negotiations are a means through which you can resolve your
differences with people at the workplace or with your family without
getting into a dispute or by resorting to heated arguments. At the
workplace you negotiate because there is disagreement between you
and your colleagues regarding the solution of a problem or goals of a
project. If two parties conduct negotiations by keeping their ego aside, it
can be beneficial to both. They also need to follow the principle of
fairness to safeguard their mutual benefits and relationships. Good
communication and interpersonal skills are essential to conduct
effective negotiations. For successful negotiations, two parties sit across
the table and discuss all possible ways to resolve some issues or finalise
a business agreement. They accept the way that is most suitable to both
the parties. For conducting fruitful negotiations, the following points
must be taken care of.
With all planning and preparation, a decision may go wrong but a true
leader is one who emerges from such occasions and still manages the
situation.
Negotiation is a more precise and calculative work. It is highly desirable
to be armed with right information supported by strong research and
credible facts and figures.
‘I win, you win’ is the negotiation.
There are three basic negotiation styles a negotiator can adopt. These
styles are explained below.
The Purple Style negotiators represent a fusion of Red and Blue Style
negotiators. They believe in Give/Get principle, that is having a trading
behaviour where they gain something of their choice and give something
of others’ choice. They are called principled negotiators as they use a
strict tit-for-tat strategy. They are open, learnable, cautious and decent.
The following concepts help both the sides make informed decisions
about possible options for a deal. With these concepts, they explore
what are their ‘best’ and ‘worst’ points and how are they going to
negotiate them along any alternative deal.
The term WATNA defines the leverage the other party has over you in
the negotiation process. It works positively for your counterpart in
negotiations than you.
Summary
Decision making and problem solving abilities are the key skills for
doing good in business and life. How we explore a problem and come to
a solution exhibit our managerial acumen and leadership vision.
Decision making is the process of weighing our choices, comparing them
and taking the right call. For making a good decision, a leader must have
clear thinking, strong conviction and effective implementation of
decision. His/her ability to take right decisions has an important bearing
on the future and growth of his/her organisation. Every organisation
emphasises on right and timely decision making and effective
negotiations as they are vital for its progress and productivity. Effective
and successful decision making requires following a systematic process:
identifying and analysing a problem, gathering all the facts, pondering
over available choices, choosing the best option and taking action for
implementation of the chosen. There are many techniques that leaders
can use, like brainstorming, multi-voting, decision matrix and nominal
group, to assess their alternatives before coming to the final choice.
Negotiation is the organised process through which two parties try to
settle a dispute or reach an agreement. The negotiation process
demands that we listen to our counterparts in negotiations, respect
them and treat every issue seriously. Negotiation ability is a skills that
we use all our life time. It is not about winning every time but
succeeding while collaborating with others. It is exploring a common
link between two or more groups to resolve a dispute and reach an
agreement.