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first. Once you've succeeded, then add to them or revise them. Don't set
yourself up for failure by making your intentions too big at first.
#3: Get a Success Buddy
Ok, you may have a clear idea of what you need to do. You may have even
written down your intentions as I described above. But when YOU are the only
source of motivation, what may happen is that you won't take it seriously
enough and won't FOLLOW THROUGH.
So the next secret is you need to be accountable to somebody for following
through on your intentions. You need a success buddy, or a coach, or both!
A success buddy is a person with whom you share your intentions and who
shares his or her intentions with you.
That way you are accountable to somebody. Your success buddy can be your
best friend, your spouse, or just an Internet buddy. But what's important is that
you check with her on a regular basis.
In your meetings, either in person, by phone or by e-mail, you'll check in with
each other to find out how you followed through with your intentions, and what
you intend to do to improve before your next meeting.
NOTE: My upcoming program Raw Health Mastermind, will feature a service
that will allow you to find your own success buddy to help you succeed with
your goals.
#4: Get Ongoing Support
You may be thinking to yourself, Wow, this makes a lot of sense, and then do
nothing about it. Why? You need more support. You need ongoing support.
The best athletes in the world have coaches. The best artists in the world have
teachers. Even the best trainers in the world have their own trainers.
Even if you're not a top-athlete, you also need ongoing support. There are
several sources of support available, such as:
- Coaching programs, such as the upcoming Raw Health Mastermind.
- E-Zines and publications such as Pure Health & Nutrition
(www.purehealthandnutrition.com)
- Live seminars or teleseminars.
- Internet forums.
- Online programs that offer support.
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The beauty of coaching is that your coach will not only help you succeed with
your goals and intentions, but will also help you *celebrate* all the progress
you've made already, which we often tend to forget! Whenever you can, get
the support you need to help you succeed, in your health or in your life. You
will be surprised by how far you can go.
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Make a Commitment!
---> Please take a moment to decide what your intentions are going to
be, and write them down below.
I also want you to sign this below, as if it were an important contract. It
is!
MY NAME__________________________________
DATE________________________________________
MY THREE POSITIVE HABITS, for my 21-Day Challenge, starting on
______________ (decide a date, and mark it in your calendar)
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Week 1
Commitment
The first step to succeed in any endeavor is to make a commitment. If you are
to get anything accomplished you must first make a commitment to the task.
Have you ever really achieved anything without first deciding to put in the time
and effort to get it done?
This is true whether you are talking about learning the alphabet or learning to
ski. You must first make up your mind to do it and then go through the steps
necessary to achieve that particular goal.
Having an interest in improving your health and well-being is not the same as
making a commitment to the changes necessary to bring about the changes you
desire. There's a difference between interest and commitment.
When you are interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstances
permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only
results.
A true commitment is a heart felt promise to yourself, from which you will not
back down, no matter what the circumstances may be!
So when you set out, implement a new positive habit, ask yourself what is your
level of commitment. On a scale of 1 to 10, where do you range?
Does that sound hard to do? Read on, as Ill give you some suggestions as how
to generate that kind of level of commitment.
When it comes to health and wellness in general, and physical exercise in
particular, many people have good intentions and dreams. But, only a few are
willing to commit to what is necessary to achieve them.
Are you ready to make a commitment to live a healthier lifestyle? If you
answer is yes, I want to ask you a few questions to test your commitment level.
I need you to be honest with your answers. In fact, why dont you write down
your answers? Here it goes.
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How badly do you want to achieve your health and fitness goals?
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Do you believe you can make the necessary changes to improve your life?
If you had a hard time finding answers to these questions, then it means you
need to ask yourself more questions.
The ability to achieve your goals and dreams will be determined by the level to
which you are willing to commit. To generate that kind of commitment, you
first must open yourself to the idea of change.
Its hard to come up with a high level of commitment out of the blue. This is
the result of a process which starts by saying, Im open to change! As your
level of inspiration grows, your potential for commitment will also grow.
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What is Commitment?
Think for a moment about athletes or performers in any field. Think of the
endless hours of practice and training day after day, week after week, month
after month, and year after year. Think of the sacrifices the best athletes and
performers make; the lack of a social life; the defeats and sometimes setbacks.
It is their commitment that enables them to make the sacrifices and meet the
challenges to achieve success. They remain committed and over time they are
rewarded with success.
You could make a commitment to your physical well-being today. Physical
fitness may be the ultimate investment opportunity. Think of it this way. If you
are willing to make the commitment you will feel and look healthier. You will
have an abundance of energy and be more self-confident. You will become
more productive and discover a more joyous and fulfilling life.
These are rewards that money cannot buy they are the rewards of your
commitment. The commitment to exercise becomes even more attractive when
you consider there is absolutely no downside. You have everything to gain and
nothing to lose.
But anything you try to achieve that is worthwhile, will meet with resistance.
This resistance can take the form of family friends, advisers, self-doubt, selfdefeating habits, lack of money, peer-pressure and many other unforeseen
circumstances. When resistance comes, hold fast to your commitment.
Here are a few situations that sometimes inhibit a persons willingness to "step
out" and make a change or take a chance:
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Sometimes you lose track of what is really important. Forget about the less
important activities that tend to clutter your daily routine and focus on
exactly what needs to be accomplished to reach your goal.
Looking at the "big" picture can seem overwhelming. And the bigger the
task, the more overwhelming it can seem. Break the task apart into smaller
pieces. If you want to lose 50 pounds try losing 10 pounds and repeat the
process five times! Do you need to start an exercise program? Begin with
short, simple exercises and then slowly expand your routine. Don't exercise
too hard when first starting-out or you will become stiff, tired, disillusioned
and soon quit.
Take the first step; acknowledge the fear and the next step will come
easier. Once fears are acknowledged, they usually quiet down.
There are days when we just plain lack the enthusiasm and motivation to
continue. It's part of human nature. On days like these focus on 'why' you are
doing it. What do you want your life to be like in the future? There are many
tasks or chores we do, that we may not like, but are necessary to live a
happy and productive life. Stay committed.
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To reap the benefits of healthy eating, exercise or any other health related
endeavor, you must agree to become a willing participant. You must commit
yourself. This will require diligence and commitment on your part.
Keep in mind as you embark on your mission that you are investing in
something near and dear to your own heart - your life and a future of healthy
living.
To give you an idea of the level of commitment I am talking about I will tell
you about Kevin, a 34-year-old technician for a large corporation. Kevin always
dreamed of being an athlete and following in the footsteps of his older brother
who was a champion athlete.
But Kevin had a problem: He had severe cerebral palsy. In spite of that, he
could ride a tricycle by using his left arm to grip the handlebar and his left leg
to peddle.
One day Kevin learned about an around the world bike trip, he signed up to
ride the final 3,000 miles. During the 50-day ride from Los Angeles to
Washington, D.C., Kevin fell two, three, and sometimes four times a day. Each
time, he picked himself up and kept going. He had made a commitment to
complete the ride.
By the time he got to St. Louis, Kevin could hardly walk. Two days before the
end of the trip, Kevin slammed into the back of another bike and went flying
through the air and hit the ground. He sustained a severe injury.
Blood gushed from his forehead and the medical team wanted to take him out
of the ride, but he refused. Kevin struggled through the last three miles of the
day and that night received 12 stitches. He had already received 30 or 40
stitches over the course of the trip.
On the final day, Kevin rode triumphantly into Washington, D.C., with his
teammates and his brother. Now Kevin circles the state of Michigan every
summer to raise funds and awareness for individuals with cerebral palsy. Thats
commitment.
Commitment means that what you thought was impossible is now possible for
you. It means that frustration and failure become building blocks instead of
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stumbling blocks. Commitment means you will do what you set out to do,
whether the odds are in your favor or not.
Make the commitment today that will lead you on the path to the healthy
lifestyle you deserve. Take the challenge now.
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DAY 1
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 2
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Excellence is to do a common
thing in an uncommon way.
Bo o ke r T. W as hin gto n
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 5
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
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2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 7
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
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2- _____________________________________________________________
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4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Week 2
Pushing Your Limits
I am always impressed and inspired by those who push the limits and achieve
their dreams. These people tend to reach or go well beyond their goals because
they see limits as opportunities.
One thing these people have in common is an adamant belief in themselves and
an indestructible ability to always think positively and find a way around
obstacles. These are the people who have learned to push the limits by
challenging themselves to keep going, especially when the going gets tough.
They are always open to change and are willing to go beyond what is
comfortable.
Are you willing to push the limits? Are you ready to know the joy of setting,
reaching and going beyond your health and fitness goals? Will you commit
yourself to do what is necessary to succeed? This, of course involves going
beyond your comfort zone and being willing to keep going, keep pushing, keep
on following the path you know will ultimately lead to success.
Think FIT
When it comes to physical fitness I suggest that you think FIT.
FIT - F.I.T. is an acronym for Frequency, Intensity, and Time. Frequency
means you must put yourself on a set schedule of physical exercise. After you
have adjusted to the schedule it is time to Intensify, which means you must
push yourself to step up your routine. Time involves increasing the amount of
time you engage in a particular aspect of your routine. In taking these steps
you are beginning to Push Your Limits.
Let me share with you some proven techniques to help you set and go beyond
your goals. These
methods will enable you to push the limits in every area of your life. Here
goes.
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Continue working on your positive habits. Use this workbook, and join a
support-coaching group such as the Raw Health Mastermind (coming in April).
Each night make a list of the things you want to accomplish the following
day before you go to bed. This helps your subconscious mind to start
working on the list, and it will also clear your mind for the night. This list
gives you a starting point for the day and will keep you from becoming
overwhelmed because you know what you need to accomplish.
Exercise daily. It will make you feel more energized throughout my day.
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Plan your meals. This is probably the most overlooked area in most peoples
fitness and daily routines. You may include this plan on your night before
to do list. At the very least, make a quick mental note of what youll be
eating and make sure you have sufficient quantities of fruits and vegetables
in your house. If not, plan to go buy more.
Jot down 5 things that went well over the course of each day and 5 things
you would have done differently. I suggest you do this immediately before
writing your list of to do items for the next day. Reflect on each item
mentally. Only write down the things you really need to take from any
experience. This will show you what you have accomplished each day. Also,
it shows you the things that did not go so well and gives you time to think of
how to correct them.
Pushing your limits involves expanding into new areas in your life, making
changes, and making progress towards your dreams and goals. To do this you
have to move out of our comfort zone. It is normal to experience fear and
insecurity. We grow and see success as we face the fear and do what we
committed to anyway.
The Comfort Zone
The greatest growth in life comes from pushing through your present comfort
zone. Let me give you an example of what Im saying.
A baby feels safe, warm and secure in the mothers womb. But to stay there
much longer than the gestation period would mean certain death for both the
mother and child. Life began for all of us as we left the comfort and security of
the womb and faced the strange and unfamiliar world outside.
Our first breath is often a painful experience, a cry of protest and perhaps
even temporary discomfort. Yet without this experience, our lives would have
ended minutes after birth.
Every milestone of growth and accomplishment for a young child involves
leaving an existing comfort zone. It starts with learning to roll over, to crawl,
the first step, many new, first experiences that push from the familiar into the
unknown. For the child the process of pushing through their area of comfort
leads to increasing independence and the formation of their unique personality
and character.
The same principle applies to adult life. In order to enrich your life, it is
necessary to push the limits and step out of your present comfort zone.
Personal growth occurs when a person moves out of their area of comfort and
into the unknown and accepts the challenge of a fresh experience.
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DAY 8
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 9
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 10
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
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2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 14
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
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4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
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2-_____________________________________________________________
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Week 3
Keeping the Momentum
After you have implemented some positive habits and maybe you have even
impressed yourself by what you can do you must keep the momentum. It is
possible that even after you have pushed the limits there is the chance you
could go back to your old habits.
Keep your commitment so that you will steadily grow. Fight off discouragement
and the temptation to give up. Let me share with you some strategies to help
you keep the momentum.
Keep in mind that your new lifestyle is a process. Along the way with regular
exercise you start to feel good, get energized and your self-esteem will rise
along with your self-confidence. You will start to lose weight and begin to look
better than ever.
But watch out, there are roadblocks along the way. Things that are unforeseen
in life may pop up and throw you off the new healthy road youre traveling.
Many of these things are unavoidable and are just a part of how life is.
However, you can begin now to prepare for some of the challenges that will
come your way.
One thing you could do right now is make a list of different things or
circumstances that might get in the way of your new habits and motivation.
Prepare yourself with a backup plan.
For example, if you plan to workout at 4:30 p.m. on Monday, Wednesday. and
Friday and you want to walk, jog or ride a bike on the other days you can also
switch up if the weather prevents one or the other.
You can also switch up if you have to work late or if an emergency comes up.
Set up an alternate schedule and stick to it. Also, when you are going out of
town plan in advance for your meals and exercise schedule. This will help you
stay in rhythm and keep the momentum going.
Keep in mind there are many other factors that can cause you to lose your
momentum besides scheduling issues. Stop and think about it: What is it,
really, that gets in your way? What things typically distract you, dampen your
spirits or throw you off track? Is there anything you can identify that prevents
you from staying the course?
Perhaps you struggle with unrealistic goals, work addiction, or self- defeating
beliefs. All of these are familiar and powerful momentum killers. Here are
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Run on the beach or along a river at sunset or sunrise with your friend or
dog.
Learn to golf, or Rollerblade, ice skate, rock climb or cross-country ski.
Join a baseball, hockey, soccer or basketball league for adults.
Train to enter a road race or to improve your performance in a particular
sport.
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However you do it, keep the momentum going. Find those every day very doable things that help you stay motivated. Remember the role that positive
personal relationships play in your overall health and well-being. Ask you
significant others to help you maintain your positive habits. Remember, this is
a process. A day by day, week by week, month by month, ongoing process to
improve the quality of the rest of your life.
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DAY 15
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
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List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 16
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 17
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 18
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 19
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 20
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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DAY 21
Date______________
My 3 Positive Habits
! Diet & Nutrition:___________________________________________
! Exercise & Fitness:_________________________________________
! Other Lifestyle Factors:_____________________________________
Priorities for Today
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
! ____________________________________________________________
List 5 Successes for the Day
1- _____________________________________________________________
2- _____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
4-_____________________________________________________________
5-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things I Would Have Done Differently Today
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3-_____________________________________________________________
3 Things Im Grateful for:
1- _____________________________________________________________
2-_____________________________________________________________
3- _____________________________________________________________
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Congratulations!
Youve made it!
Please fill out the following questionnaire:
Were you able to implement at least one positive habit:
! Yes ! No
What would you have done differently?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
List 5 main successes youve experienced in the last 21 days:
! _____________________________________________________________
! _____________________________________________________________
! _____________________________________________________________
! _____________________________________________________________
! _____________________________________________________________
What have you learned about yourself in the last 21 days?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Thank you for your efforts! Look back at what youve accomplished, and
acknowledge yourself for what youve done, no matter how big or small!
Id love to hear from you. Would you care to leave me your feedback on this
workbook and how it has helped you?
Just go to: www.fredericpatenaude.com/testimonial.html
Also, my membership program, Raw Health Mastermind, should be available in
April, 2006. Look for it at this website (should be operational in mid-March, or
April):
www.rawhealthmastermind.com
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