Impasse
Impasse
TECHNIQUES:
TABLE OF CONTENTS
I. TIME-OUT 2
III. DEADLINES 3
V. EMPHASIZING RELATIONSHIPS 4
VI. BRAINSTORMING 5
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I. TIME-OUT
Call a break - A brief respite, a coffee break, some fresh air and time to gather
thoughts - all these can refresh parties and the mediator, and help generate new
ideas.
Slow and fast. It is often seen that progress is slow in the initial stages. The
momentum picks up during the course of the mediation when the parties are
brought into the right frame of mind, and they begin to engage in negotiating
the framework of an agreement. That is when it may be possible to speed it
along. The mediator should not be worried about more time being spent in the
initial phase, and should not let it tag lag at the later stages.
Ask for movement now. This is particularly useful strategy if the parties feel
that the discussions have been going around in circles. The mediator can put it
to the parties that something must be accomplished within the next star or the
mediation will be terminated. Of course, once a movement is made the deadline
can be forgotten.
III. DEADLINES
Working against a deadline can help. In most mediations, parties will start by
talking a lot about the history and background of the dispute . It takes them time
too engage in the process of searching for solutions. If time is open ended many
will remain unfocused for as long as they can. But when they are racing against
a deadline, bodies get marvellously more focused, tossing up and debating
options seriously. Mediators can make use of such factors. When parties are
fully engaged in the process, mediations can go on beyond normal working
hours. Sometimes when settlement is near at hand, the mediation can extend to
the late hours of the evening.
A caveat here. Where mediation sessions extend for prolonged periods the
mediator should be watch full to avoid a party dropping out citing tiredness or
complaining about excessive pressure. In one instance, the council for a party
complained that the mediator kept the session going till after midnight and his
exhausted client signed the agreement. The lawyer promptly moved to have it
annulled. The mediator must therefore use his discretion, refrain from forcing
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parties to continue and should not allow something which is manifestly unfair
like a party signing the settlement agreement which he is clearly unfocused on
account of tiredness.
For example, in the dispute over the bond given by the employee to the
company, both the employee and the Managing Director got enmeshed on the
difference between the amount to be paid by the former to the latter. It was
difficult to move them, until the mediator reminded them about what was at
stake outside and apart from what they were haggling over. The employee
realised that his new job and his marriage were dependent on ending the
stalemate; the Managing Director realised that his forthcoming huge contract
could be at risk if the stalemate was not ended. Suddenly both became very
reasonable.
V. EMPHASIZING RELATIONSHIPS
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One important way to get around impasse is to take the focus on to relationships
and show parties that in every dispute the relationship between the parties
suffers, and often does not recover from the beating it has taken. Getting parties
to think and talk about how it was before all this trouble started and how it can
be better in future, is an excellent way to get them to focus on the importance of
relationships in general, and this one in particular. This could help them to see
the dispute in a perspective that contains the background and features of the
good relationship that existed between them, and move them that one crucial
step closer to reaching out for agreement.
There are many significant relationships other than family ones- neighbours,
fellow workers, corporate directors and shareholders, to name a few. The
mediator should not make the mistake of thinking that because it is not a family
dispute, the relationship aspect is non-existent or not important. When it comes
to relationships, it will call for the meditor to be attentive and aware of factors
such as age, hierarchy, position, etc.- not to defer to these but to know how they
work, and to handle and balance them with sensitivity and subtleness.
VI. BRAINSTORMING
If the impasse is over the value of an item or property- for instance if parties
have agreed to sell and buy a piece of land and have a dispute about the price-
an expert valuator can be appointed to give a figure. It may be cast as
recommendatory, in which case the parties will be guided by it, but reserve the
right to bargain some more. Even when non-binding, the experts view,
especially if accompanied by reasons, will provide the benchmark for
discussion leading to positive outcome. Parties have the option of agreeing that
the opinion off the export will be accepted by both of them. A variation of this
is for the parties to agree on a band beyond which the expert cannot go higher or
lower, and to accept his figure.