Communication Skills
Communication Skills
Definition:
Communication is defined as “the process by which
information is exchanged between individuals or groups
through a common system of symbols, signs, or behavior.”
Communication Basics:
1. *Sender*: The person who initiates the communication
process.
2. *Message*: The information or idea being conveyed.
3. *Channel*: The medium through which the message is
transmitted (e.g., verbal, nonverbal, written).
4. *Receiver*: The person who receives the message.
5. *Feedback*: The response or reaction of the receiver to
the message.
6. *Context*: The situation, culture, and environment in
which the communication takes place.
Importance of Communication:
1. *Builds Relationships*: Communication helps build
trust, understanding, and rapport with others.
2. *Conveys Information*: Communication enables the
exchange of information, ideas, and knowledge.
3. *Resolves Conflicts*: Effective communication can
resolve conflicts and prevent misunderstandings.
4. *Enhances Collaboration*: Communication facilitates
teamwork, cooperation, and collaboration.
5. *Supports Decision-Making*: Communication provides
the necessary information for informed decision-making.
6. *Promotes Understanding*: Communication helps to
understand different perspectives, cultures, and beliefs.
3. Completeness:
- Communicate all necessary information.
- Avoid omitting important details.
- Ensure the audience has all the information they need to
understand the message.
4. Correctness:
- Communicate accurately and truthfully.
- Avoid errors or inaccuracies.
- Verify information before communicating it.
5. Consideration:
- Communicate with empathy and understanding.
- Consider the audience’s feelings, needs, and
perspectives.
- Show respect and courtesy in communication.
6. Concreteness:
- Communicate using specific examples and details.
- Avoid vague or abstract language.
- Use concrete language to convey complex ideas.
7. Courtesy:
- Communicate with politeness and respect.
- Use formal or informal language as appropriate.
- Avoid using language that may be perceived as rude or
insensitive.
8. Feedback:
- Encourage feedback from the audience.
- Listen actively and respond thoughtfully.
- Use feedback to improve communication.
9. Awareness of Audience:
- Understand the audience’s needs, interests, and level of
understanding.
- Tailor communication to the audience.
- Avoid using language or terminology that may be
unfamiliar to the audience.
Types of communication
1. Verbal Communication:
Verbal communication involves using words to convey
meaning. It can be further divided into:
2. Nonverbal Communication:
Nonverbal communication involves conveying meaning
without using words. It includes:
3. Written Communication:
Written communication involves conveying meaning
through written words. It includes:
4. Visual Communication:
Visual communication involves conveying meaning
through images, graphics, or videos. It includes:
6. Informal Communication:
Informal communication involves unofficial, unstructured
communication within an organization. It includes:
8. Downward Communication:
Downward communication involves communication from
superiors to subordinates within an organization. It
includes:
9. Lateral Communication:
Lateral communication involves communication between
colleagues or peers within an organization. It includes:
- *Collaboration*: Working together to achieve a common
goal.
- *Information Sharing*: Exchanging information or
resources with colleagues.
- *Problem-Solving*: Working together to resolve a
problem or issue.
characteristics of nonverbal
communication:
1. Body Language:
- *Posture*: The way you stand or sit, conveying
confidence, relaxation, or tension.
- *Facial Expressions*: Smiling, frowning, or neutral
expressions that convey emotions.
- *Eye Contact*: Direct or indirect gaze that conveys
interest, attention, or avoidance.
- *Hand and Arm Movements*: Gestures, waves, or
pointing that convey emphasis or direction.
2. Proximity and Personal Space:
- *Physical Distance*: The distance between
communicators, influencing intimacy, comfort, or
formality.
- *Touch*: Physical contact, such as handshakes, hugs, or
pats on the back, conveying affection, comfort, or
reassurance.
3. Paralinguistic Cues:
- *Tone of Voice*: The pitch, volume, and inflection of the
voice, conveying emotions, attitude, or emphasis.
- *Pitch*: The highness or lowness of the voice, influencing
perceptions of confidence, authority, or friendliness.
- *Volume*: The loudness or softness of the voice,
conveying intensity, enthusiasm, or subtlety.
- *Rate*: The speed or slowness of speech, influencing
perceptions of urgency, excitement, or boredom.
6. Chronemics:
- *Punctuality*: The timeliness or tardiness of arrival,
influencing perceptions of respect, responsibility, or
reliability.
- *Time Management*: The allocation, prioritization, or
efficiency of time, conveying organizational skills,
productivity, or procrastination.
7. Olfactics:
- *Smell*: The presence, intensity, or pleasantness of
odors, influencing emotions, memories, or perceptions.
- *Fragrances*: The use of perfumes, colognes, or scented
products, conveying personal style, confidence, or
attractiveness.
8. Kinesics:
- *Body Movement*: The way people move their bodies,
conveying energy, enthusiasm, or lethargy.
- *Proximity*: The physical distance between people,
influencing intimacy, comfort, or formality.
9. Paraverbal Cues:
- *Vocal Qualities*: The tone, pitch, volume, or rate of
speech, conveying emotions, attitude, or emphasis.
- *Verbal Fillers*: The use of filler words, such as “um” or
“ah,” influencing perceptions of confidence, nervousness,
or hesitation.
10. Silence:
- *Pauses*: The strategic use of silence, conveying
emphasis, drama, or anticipation.
- *Comfortable Silence*: The ability to tolerate silence,
influencing perceptions of confidence, comfort, or
intimacy.
paralanguage
Definition:
Paralanguage refers to the nonverbal aspects of spoken
communication, excluding the actual words themselves. It
encompasses the vocal cues, tone, pitch, volume, rate,
and pauses that convey emotions, attitudes, and
emphasis.
Components:
1. *Tone of Voice*: The emotional tone conveyed through
the voice, such as warmth, sarcasm, or anger.
2. *Pitch*: The highness or lowness of the voice,
influencing perceptions of confidence, authority, or
friendliness.
3. *Volume*: The loudness or softness of the voice,
conveying intensity, enthusiasm, or subtlety.
4. *Rate*: The speed or slowness of speech, influencing
perceptions of urgency, excitement, or boredom.
5. *Pauses*: The strategic use of silence, conveying
emphasis, drama, or anticipation.
6. *Inflections*: The rise or fall of pitch when speaking,
conveying emotions, attitudes, or emphasis.
7. *Accent*: The unique sound or pronunciation of words,
influenced by regional or cultural background.
8. *Articulation*: The clarity or precision of speech,
influencing perceptions of confidence, authority, or
expertise.
Functions:
1. *Emotional Expression*: Paralanguage conveys
emotions, attitudes, and feelings, adding depth and
nuance to spoken communication.
2. *Emphasis and Stress*: Paralanguage helps emphasize
key points, convey importance, and add emphasis to
spoken messages.
3. *Social Cues*: Paralanguage provides social cues, such
as friendliness, approachability, or authority, influencing
relationships and interactions.
4. *Contextualization*: Paralanguage helps contextualize
spoken communication, providing clues about the
speaker’s intentions, tone, and attitude.
Impact:
1. *Influences Perception*: Paralanguage influences how
listeners perceive the speaker, their message, and their
intentions.
2. *Conveys Authority*: Paralanguage can convey
authority, confidence, or expertise, influencing listeners’
trust and credibility.
3. *Builds Relationships*: Paralanguage helps build
relationships, establish rapport, and create a sense of
connection or community.
4. *Enhances Communication*: Paralanguage enhances
communication by adding depth, nuance, and emotional
resonance to spoken messages.
Barriers of Communication:
1. *Language Barriers*: Differences in language, dialect,
or accent can hinder effective communication.
2. *Cultural Barriers*: Cultural differences in values,
norms, and customs can lead to misunderstandings.
3. *Physical Barriers*: Environmental factors like noise,
distance, or physical obstacles can impede
communication.
4. *Psychological Barriers*: Emotional states like stress,
anxiety, or bias can affect communication.
5. *Technological Barriers*: Technical issues like poor
internet connectivity or outdated software can hinder
communication.
6. *Organizational Barriers*: Hierarchical structures,
bureaucracy, or lack of transparency can create
communication barriers.
7. *Personal Barriers*: Individual differences in
personality, attitude, or motivation can affect
communication.
Additional Tips:
1. *Practice Active Listening*: Listen attentively to others,
ask clarifying questions, and paraphrase to ensure
understanding.
2. *Be Aware of Nonverbal Cues*: Recognize and adapt to
nonverbal cues like body language, tone of voice, and
facial expressions.
3. *Foster a Positive Communication Culture*: Encourage
open, transparent, and respectful communication
throughout the organization.
Pre-Situation Strategies:
1. *Prepare Thoroughly*: Research, rehearse, and prepare
as much as possible to boost confidence.
2. *Visualize Success*: Imagine yourself handling the
situation with ease and confidence.
3. *Positive Self-Talk*: Encourage yourself with positive
affirmations, focusing on strengths and capabilities.
Post-Situation Reflection:
1. *Reflect on the Experience*: Analyze what went well
and what didn’t, identifying areas for improvement.
2. *Celebrate Successes*: Acknowledge and celebrate your
successes, no matter how small they may seem.
3. *Learn from Mistakes*: Use mistakes as opportunities
for growth, learning, and improvement.
Long-Term Strategies:
1. *Develop a Growth Mindset*: Cultivate a growth
mindset, embracing challenges and viewing failures as
opportunities for growth.
2. *Build Self-Awareness*: Develop self-awareness,
recognizing your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for
improvement.
3. *Practice Mindfulness*: Regularly practice mindfulness,
meditation, or yoga to reduce stress and increase
confidence.