Module 3
Module 3
Module 3
BSME - 1B
Course, Year & Section: ____________________ 02-07-25
Date Submitted: ______________
Activity 1: Self-examination
List down your salient characteristics that you remember about yourself.
My Elementary Self
Curious and playful. I loved exploring the world around me and asking endless
questions. I was very imaginative and spent hours playing pretend. I was also quite
shy and reserved around new people.
Independent and driven. I was focused on my studies and achieving my goals. I was
also involved in extracurricular activities, such as sports and clubs, which helped me
develop my social skills and build friendships. I became more confident and outgoing
during this time.
My College Self
Analysis:
After having examined your “self” in its different stages, fill out the following table:
Similarities in all Stages Differences in “Self” Possible reasons for the
of my Life across the Three Stages differences in Me
of my Life
Maintain a strong sense of Elementary: Shy, Maturation and life
curiosity and a desire to imaginative, playful. experiences.
learn
High School: More Changes in social
Value close relationships independent, focused on environment and
with friends and family. academics and social expectations.
activities.
Striving for personal Increased self-awareness
growth and improvement. College: Confident, self- and personal growth.
assured, focused on
career goals and balancing
personal life with
academics.
Abstraction:
Please read Lesson 2: The Self, Society and Culture (Pages 12-36)
(References stated below)
Sociologist George Mead argued that the self is not biological but social. Self is
something that is developed through social interaction. The self is developed as one
grows and ages. Self, therefore, is constructed by directly engaging in the world
through interaction and through reflections on those interactions.
Mead explained that self has two parts: (1) self-awareness and, (2) self-image. He
proposed the idea that the self develops through social interaction; that social
interaction involves the exchange of symbols (i.e., language): and that understanding of
symbols involves being able to take the role of another. This can be demonstrated
through role playing. Role playing is the process in which one takes on the role of
another by putting oneself in the position of the person with whom he or she interacts.
For Mead, self is not inborn. Babies cannot interpret the meaning of other people’s
behavior. It is usually learned during childhood which comes in three stages of
development
1. Imitation or preparatory stage. A child imitates the behavior of his or her parents
like sweeping the floor.
2. Play Stage. A child plays the role of others. He learns the difference between
himself and the role he is playing.
3. Game Stage. The child sees himself in terms of the collective viewpoints of other
people and the attitude generalized by others.
People are the way they are at least partly because of other people’s reactions to them
and to what they do. The self, which is essentially an individual’s awareness of one’s
social or personal identity is, for Cooley, a social development.
The self is built through social interaction which involves three steps: first, people
imagine how they must appear to others; second, they imagine the judgment on that
appearance; and finally, they develop themselves through the judgment of others.
For Cooley, the social self is the central element of society. The imaginations which
people have of one another are the solid facts of society.
Private Self, Public Self and Collective Self
Private self, or individual self, is the cognition that involves traits, states and behaviors.
It is assessment of the self by the self.
Public self is the cognition concerning the generalized other’s view of self. It
corresponds to an assessment of the self by the generalized others.
Collective self is the cognition concerning a view of the self that is found in
memberships in social groups (e.g. family, coworkers, tribe, and professional
organizations).
The social identity theory was conceived by Henri Tajfel. Social identity has been
defined as the person’s sense of who he or she is according to his or her membership
to a certain group. Group membership, according to the social identity theory, is an
important source of pride and self-esteem. It gives a sense of social identity – a sense
of belongingness to the social world.
The world is divided into “us” and “them” through the process of social categorization
forming the social groups. These social groups developed by William Graham Sumner
is further divided into two. An in-group is an esteemed social group commanding a
member’s loyalty. It is a group to which a person belongs. An out-group is a scorned
social group to which one feels competition or opposition. It is a group to which one
does not belong. Social identity theory states that the in-group will discriminate against
the out-group to enhance its self-image. A person has an inherent feeling of enhancing
the status of their group.
Tajfel and Turner (1986) identified three mental processes involved in evaluating others
as “us” or “them”
1. Social categorization. This is similar with how people categorize things in order to
understand and identify them. People also categorize other people in order to
understand the social environment. (Christian/non-Christian, first world
countries/developing countries, capitalists/socialist, etc.)
2. Social identification. People adopt the identity of the group to which they have
categorized themselves. (If you categorized yourself as Christian, you will adopt
the identity of Christian)
3. Social comparison. They tend to compare that group with other groups. Hence,
they might begin to discriminate and criticize the other groups.
Postmodern View of the Self
Anderson (1997) gives, four basic postmodernist ideas about the self, which addresses
the issues of change and multiple identities.
1. Multiphrenia refers to the many different voices speaking about “who we are and
what we are”. In the postmodern world, you just do not get to be a single and
consistent somebody. An individual plays so many roles.
3. De-centered is a belief that there is no self at all. The self is constantly being
redefined or constantly undergoing change. We are what we are described to be.
4. Self in relation means that humans do not live their lives in isolation but in
relation to people and certain cultural context In this view, the person has no
center, but is drawn in many directions and is constantly changing and being
defined externally by his or her various relations with other people.
The postmodern social condition is dominated by two realities: the rise of new media
technologies and the dominance of consumerism. Lyon (1997) argued that the
predicament of the self in postmodern societies is complicated by the advent pf
electronic-mediated virtual interactions of cyber selves and the spread of information
technology. This phenomenon disrupts the self from the traditional constraints of time
and space.
For postmodernists, there is no “I” as Mead maintained. The self is shaped by outside
forces. The self is socially constructed. What defines a person are the norms, values,
languages, arts, and culture of society.
Erving Goffman, one of the most influential American sociologists of the 20th century
introduced a theory, which referred to as a dramaturgical model of social life. For him,
social interaction may be compared to a theater and people to actors on a stage where
each plays a variety of roles. In this theory, he posited that the idea that as people
interact with one another they are constantly engaged in impression management – a
process in which people regulate and control information in social interaction.
Do you live your life in accordance with other people’s expectations of you or in
accordance with your expectations of yourself?
I strive to live my life in accordance with my own expectations and values. While I
respect and consider the opinions of others, I ultimately make decisions based on
what I believe is best for me and aligns with my personal goals. There are times
when I may compromise to maintain healthy relationships, but I prioritize aligning my
actions with my personal values and aspirations.
My Facebook profile offers a curated glimpse into my life, but it doesn't fully represent
who I am. It showcases the highlights and positive aspects, omitting the complexities
and less glamorous parts of my daily life. It's a representation of myself that I choose
to present to the world, rather than a completely accurate reflection of my inner self.
Yes, my cyber self is somewhat different from my real self. Online, I tend to present a
more polished and positive version of myself, focusing on aspects I want to share
publicly. In real life, I am more multifaceted and complex, with experiences and
emotions that I don't always share online. This difference is partly due to the nature
of social media, which encourages a curated presentation of self, and partly due to
my own desire for privacy and control over my online image.
What aspects of yourself do you think may be changed or you would like to change?
Why?
I would like to improve my ability to manage stress and anxiety. I sometimes let these
emotions overwhelm me, impacting my productivity and well-being. By developing
better coping mechanisms and self-care practices, I aim to become more resilient and
emotionally balanced. I also want to be more assertive in expressing my needs and
opinions. In the past, I've been hesitant to speak up, which has sometimes led to
missed opportunities and unmet needs. By becoming more confident in my ability to
express myself, I hope to build stronger relationships and achieve my goals more
effectively.
Reflection:
Self is a member of a society; a society is the shared understanding of its citizens and
the personality of this shared understanding is the culture of the society.
There are different sociological perspectives on the self. One can rely on a single
concept to support one’s idea of self in relation to the society but it is also significant to
consider the different viewpoints that explain how one displays the self in a society and
how the society and culture affects one’s view of the self.
How should you develop your self-image? Is it based on your own evaluation of
yourself or is it based on how you believe others perceive you? Explain your
answer in five to ten sentences.
References:
Alata, Eden Joy P. et al, (2019), Understanding the Self, 1st Ed. Manila, Rex Book Store
Brawner, Dalisay G., Arcega, Analiza F. (2018), Understanding the Self, Quezon City,
C & E Publishing Inc.