Module 4
Module 4
Week 4 Challenge
He’d attend, sit through a few panels, shake some hands, collect business cards…
and leave with zero real business opportunities.
“Honestly,” he told me, “I feel like I just burn two days and a couple grand every
time I go.”
At his next event, he booked $120,000 in consulting work. That was from a
conversations inside the conference. Then there were follow-ups afterwards.
What changed? He stopped attending like a spectator. And started attending like
dealmakers.
❌ They play passive mode. Sit through sessions, take notes, maybe chat with a
few people at lunch—then go home.
❌ They spray-and-pray. Meet as many people as possible, hand out business
cards like free candy - then can't remember who was who and get ignored when
they follow up.
❌ They rely on luck. No plan, no strategy. Just “maybe I’ll meet someone useful.”
Real business happens at conferences and events. But only if you treat them as
opportunities to be worked at, not educational eld trips.
Here’s how.
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Step 1: Pre-Event Power Moves (Because Winning Happens Before You Walk In)
🔹 The Move: Identify and Target the Right People
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Instead of showing up blind, do pre-event research. Identify key players before
stepping into the room.
✅ Dream 10 List – The most valuable people (potential clients, partners, referrers)
attending.
✅ 5 Power Players – Speakers, industry leaders, or key decision-makers.
✅ 50 Valuable Connections – Partners, referral sources, and in uencers in your
industry.
💡 Pro Tip: The most valuable networking often happens at invite-only pre-event
dinners or VIP sessions. Get in those rooms.
Step 2: The Art of Working the Room (Without Feeling Like a Sleaze)
🔹 The Move: Use Power Openers to Spark Real Conversations
Want to kill a conversation instantly? Start with: “So, what do you do?”
Instead, try: “What’s been the most interesting conversation you’ve had today?”
💡 Pro Tip: The best networkers don’t start conversations. They start relationships.
Step 3: How to Connect with Speakers and VIPs (The Hidden Goldmine)
Most attendees focus on networking with each other. Smart consultants network
with speakers, panelists, and hosts.
🔹 How to Connect with Speakers (Inspired by Keith Ferrazzi, Never Eat Alone)
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1⃣ Engage with them before the event (comment on their posts, share their
content).
2⃣ Sit front row. Ask a smart question during Q&A (not a ex, a real question).
3⃣ After their talk, go up and say:
👉 “Loved your point on [speci c topic]. Have you seen [related insight]?”
👉 “That reminded me of [useful resource]—I’ll send it to you!”
💡 Pro Tip: Most people never follow up properly. If you do, you win.
✔ 1 Week Later
“Hey, I came across this and thought it tied into what we discussed—hope it’s
helpful!”
✔ 1 Month Later
“We should keep the conversation going—let’s grab 20 minutes next week. How’s
your schedule?”
💡 Pro Tip: The best networkers don’t just connect—they deepen relationships
over time.
🎯 Action Step:
1⃣ Reach out to ve Dream 10 contacts before the event.
2⃣ Use the Power Opener at your next networking event—skip the small talk.
3⃣ Follow up with three key connections using the Three-Touch System.
Most consultants attend conferences. The smart ones turn them into revenue.
"How to reach the people who seem hard to reach because they’re "out of your
league."
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