Lesson 5 Attachment Theory
Lesson 5 Attachment Theory
INTRODUCTION:
A deep emotional connection that an infant forms with his primary caregiver is
called infant attachment. It is a bond that ties an infant with the caregiver often the
mother, endures over time and leads the infant to feel pleasure, comfort and safety
while in the caregiver’s company. If the person is absent, the baby feels distress.
Soothing, comforting and providing pleasure are the elements of relationships that
enable an infant to feel secure in the presence of the caregiver
What is Attachment Theory?
Attachment Theory was developed by John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth in the
early 1950’s studied the realms of attachment and bonding between an infant and his or
her primary caregivers. The theory gives emphasis on the crucial and influential effect of
attachment in an infant's development as the basis for his or her coping mechanism,
establishing relationships, and the formation of personality. In this theory, attachment
refers to a relationship that surfaced over time from a history of caregiver-infant
interaction. As adults nurture and interact with infants during the first year of life, infants
organize their behaviour around their caregivers.
What is attachment?
Attachment is a phenomenon which involves physiological, emotional, cognitive
and social processes. Since the baby manifests instinctual attachment attitudes through
giving signals from the caregiver, the process of attachment is defined as a mutual
regulatory system in which the baby and the caregiver have a significant impact on one
another over time. The presence of the caregiver gives the feeling of safety and security
for the infant. Upon building this relationship, the preference tends to remain stable and
turn to attachment behaviour to a new strange person becomes more difficult.
Some theorists claim that the attachment system progressed to make sure that
infant and caregivers remain physically close and to protect the infant. Caregiver who is
stronger and wiser has the capability to keep the infant safe, comfort him or her and to
provide security. Research has shown that infants instinctively reach out for safety and
security while caregivers instinctively protect and nurture their children. Children who
begin their lives with the important basis of secure attachment are better in all aspects
of functioning as they develop.
Attachment is the development of a mutual tie in which through interaction and
relationship established, the primary caregiver influences infant development. Infants
find it difficult to regulate themselves and are overwhelmed by different emotions
without the presence of their caregivers. In the absence of the caregivers, they are
unable to keep themselves in balance as they lack the skills to control their emotions.
They solely rely on the primary caregivers to help them navigate the world. The primary
caregivers act as the secure base while the infants form essential skills of self-
protection and intimacy. There are important functions that can help to secure
attachment between infant and his or her caregiver
Children will manifest different attachment styles which can determine their
feeling of security or insecurities. A child who possesses a secure style shows
consistent connection with the caregivers, established sense of trust and nurturing
response while insecure styles of attachment have features of instability.
Infancy
During the infancy stage, several milestones occur as infants establish
relationships with their primary caregiver. These milestones include the following:
0-2 months: Infants show little observable preferences towards their caregivers,
however the warm, sensitive and reliable responses of the caregiver set the stage for
the developing attachment relationship.
2-7 months: Infants still do not display solid preferences. However, they interact in
different ways with the primary caregiver than they do with the strangers.
7- 12 months: Infants are capable of displaying definite preference for their primary
caregiver. They begin to exhibit a wariness of strangers and symptoms of separation
anxiety.
Toddlers 12- 18 months: Children use their attachment figure in order to go out and
discover the world. The secure histories of children allow them to be enthusiastic and
competent in using their problem-solving skills.
Insecure attachment develops when the primary caregiver does not consistently
respond in a warm and affectionate way to meet the needs of the infant. The three
primary insecure types are the following:
1. Resistant Attachment
3. Disorganized Attachment
There are times that certain circumstances that cause attachment problems are
inevitable, but the child is too young to realize the reasons behind. For a child, it just
feels that no one cares that leads to losing trust in others and the world becomes an
unsafe place.