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growing through participation, and our rate enthusiasm. Lewis D. Mutty, DTM
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Each of us has seen Toastmasters so Learning and Growing Through Participation. Carxida V7H 1P8
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an important event. Conversely, we have enjoyable and rewarding journey. Have you Marcia L. Peters. DTM
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Clancy was a man who lived for 40 years
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OCTOBER 1982
\ Vol. 48, No. 10
Pages
feobres
5 Get Hooked on Books For Success in Speaking
k by Thomas Montolbo, DTM
10 Lecdersiiip Magic
iLji
by Hope Tenhoeff
11 Exercises to Deveiop Managers
by Thomas A. Newburg
13 Polish Your Speech With Image Analysis!
by George Nelson
16 Magic Moments in Philadelphia
23 Make Faces and Speak Clearly
by Mark Bruce
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25 How to Use Your Phone Better
by Leon Fletcher
Page 26
dCi parlmenb
4 Letters
29 Hall of Fame
31 Footnotes
cover
Top speakers, learning experiences,feiiowship and fun — Toastmasters'51st
Annual International Convention ottered ali ot these to the more than 1500
Toastmasters who attended the event this year in Philadeiphia. For tour days
Toastmasters heard great speakers and shared ideas with teilow Toastmasters
from around the world. They also saw the sights and experienced lite in the
birthplace ot America. Live — or relive — these magic moments tor yourseit in
the speciai convention report on page 16.
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themselves clearly and concisely, develop and strengthen their leadership and executive potential and achieve vyhatever self-development goals they may have
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OCTOBER 1982
Letters'
Another Speech techniques of questioning. The only Locating Recordings
mention of Barbara Walters I found in
Publication the entire article was in this sentence: Of Famous Speeches
The July issue was terrific. Also in "Look at Johnny Carson, Dick Cavett, Regarding Michael Ditkoff's letter in
cluded in this issue was an article, Barbara Walters and Phil Donahue, who the July issue requesting that reprints of
"Newsletters for Speakers," that de is the absolute master of the technique." famous speeches appear in the magazine,
scribed nine newsletters on professional Wait a minute! What about Barbara? I suggest that he and other Toastmasters
speaking. I was surprised that you omit Maybe Phil Donahue's picture should visit their city library.
ted a very important speech publication. have appeared on the cover! Or maybe The better libraries have records of
Vital Speeches of the Day.It is published your magazine should not have resorted great speeches,either recorded by actors
24 times annually and prides itself in to the old "bait and switch" technique. or the original speaker.
being"the best thought of the best minds It is a shame a magazine for profes The recordings capture the speeches'
on current national questions." Each sionals has to resort to such unprofes full flavor and effectiveness much more
issue contains about eight recent sional techniques to attract readers. You than the reading does.
speeches by politicians, university pro not only owe your readers an apology, I have found this method immensely
fessors, and industrial and government Barbara Walters deserves one, too! helpful in studying the masters.
executives. jean Lawyer Jeff Young, ATM
For subscription information, write Heyworth, Illinois Los Angeles, California
to: City News Publishing Co., Box 606,
Southold, NY 11971. Jeff Young was the winner of the 1980 Inter
national Speech Contest and placed second in the
joy Erdman The Shortest Distance 1979 International Speech Contest. —Ed.
Oxnard, Califorttw
Between Points
You have no doubt received a multi Offering Help to
Poor Judgment? tude of letters on this subject, and here Those Who Need It
is another. The shortest surface distance
I am writing about the cover of the In one of her recent advice columns,
in the sample problem described by
June issue. The article on the use of Ann Landers published a letter from a
questions to communicate clearly and Wendy Craig in her article in the June
issue is 34.176 feet, not 42 feet or 40 woman whose husband had just been
effectively is good. The author, Foster promoted. His new job required him to
feet.
Davidoff, has contributed to improved give speeches before groups,chair meet
dialogue. Peter L. Cooper
ings, and interview salesmen and pros
However,I object to the use of Barbara Boston, Massachusetts
pective new employees. She wrote that
Walters as an example for Toastmasters her husband was scared to death to speak
or others who are interested in improv before groups. Ms. Landers advised the
ing their communication skills. She may My initial reading of Wendy Craig's
otherwise fine article in the June issue
husband to hire a speech teacher, enroll
be very good at interrogating and inter in a class at a high school or college or
viewing, but her poor enunciation dis left me suspect of the accuracy of her
answer to the room problem. buy a book to help improve his speaking
qualifies her as a high-quality speaker. skills.
The attention given her in the cover and Allowing that many other readers
How ridiculous! The solution to the
the headline picture for the article far who are familiar with the Pythagorean
theorem would also write in suggesting man's problem is waiting for him all
exceeds that which our organization over the country, even the world —
should pay to anyone with such an im the more accurate conventional answer
Toastmasters.
portant gap in basic speaking skills. of 37.336 feet, I prepared a sketch to
I have written at least three times to
illustrate the problem and solution for
/. Rodger Adams my children. It was only then that I was Ms. Landers about our organization,
Champaign, Illinois able to "break out of traditional, tried-
hoping to help the man and get our
and-true ways of thinking" and spot a organization some wonderful free pub
wrap-around solution utilizing one-half licity. She has ignored me.I have started
The Toaslmaster magazine has demon a letter-writing campaign from my club,
strated questionable journalistic judg the length of the long wall, then one-
half the length of the ceiling which, with ■ also to no avail. I propose a national
ment in the June 1982 issue. I am refer letter-writing campaign. If each of our
ring to the photo of Barbara Walters on Pythagoras' help, I computed to be just
members would write Ms. Landers a
34.176 feet!
the cover, with the outline "Barbara letter, we could really put on the heat. We
Walters, A Master of Questioning. See
By the way, the clothesline measure
between the two points (as opposed to could help thousands of needy people
Page 9."On page nine there was another and double our membership overnight!
photo of Barbara Walters,this time with the requested shortest surface distance)
Jimmy and Rosalyn Carter. The photo would be a mere 30.822 feet(per Pytha Al Neal
occupied the top half of page nine. goras again!). Riverside, California
I eagerly began reading the article, John ]. McKinnon, ATM Ann Landers' address is P.O. Box 11995,
hoping to find some of Barbara Walters' Neio Bedford, Massachusetts Chicago, IL 60611. —Ed.
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EXERaSES
TO DEVELOP
MANAGERS
by Thomas A. Newburg
Many companies have experi
enced a high rate of managerial
• Don't be afraid to recommend after-
hours speech training. Your employee
failures even after soliciting the must be effective in verbal and written
costly services of professional management communications to assume further man
development specialists. Those that have agement responsibilities.
internal training programs, meanwhile, Teamwork. A much used and often
tend to focus on the development of tech abused term, but it simply means a man
nical and job skills, to the neglect of other, ager's ability to work with, through and
equally important aspects of management. for other employees in a cooperative,"get
A management development program that results" environment.
can be implemented concurrently with • Have your employee personally inter
technical training covers communications, view all management and staff employees
teamwork, leadership and personnel with whom he or she must work to better
management. understand their duties and problems and
Communications. This area includes the set the direction for future working rela
employee's ability to communicate clearly, tionships.
concisely and effectively, whether writing
or speaking. Effective listening and atten
tive, silent observation are also part of
communications training. The following Make certain the
exercises should prove useful:
• Give the employee an opportunity to employee develops
prepare written communications, both for
internal and external dissemination. These
milestones of
should include instructive and informative accomplishment.
memorandums within and outside the
organization. Have a dictionary and the
saurus available to assist the employee in
preparing correct, businesslike correspon • Arrange to have your employee re
dence, ceive specified written assignments on a
• Have the employee prepare depart project. This will develop the employee's
mental reports, including a written weekly understanding of the departmental team
status report on tasks performed during concept among superiors, peers and sub
the week. ordinates.
• Have scheduled sessions with the • Have the employee represent an
employee for the purpose of receiving experienced manager in a general manage
verbal reports on assignments completed. ment meeting, with full accountability for
Help the employee separate important and problems, decisions and "rapport." Only in
unimportant data. Don't be embarrassed this manner can the employee experience
to correct speech or presentation skills. the give and take and pressure deadlines
This will give the employee confidence in inherent in a management position.
presenting verbal information, speaking • Be sure to get the employee involved
before groups, instructing others, inter in the organization's management prob
viewing personnel, and being businesslike lems as much as possible. This is an ex
and professional on the phone. tremely important part of teamwork and
OCTOBER 1982 11
successful direction and control. Without
an organized plan, direction, control and
PoIlUi S^pjeeoU
Wiili jmcufe.AnoAAf^i
by George Nelson
^ t just wasn't right! these images ? They are the pictures you
M My speech had been good enough to suggest in the mind of each person in
A win the club contest. Now I faced the your audience throughout your speech.
area competition. But as I rehearsed to And how these pictures can vary! You
polish and improve, I knew something can "show" Winston Churchill rising in
was deadly wrong. Parliament to denounce the spread of
The words were carefully chosen. The Nazism, or your son stranded on a deso
ideas were powerful. The message was late highway because he forgot to check
there. The opening had impact, and the the car's fuel gauge, or the wedding of a
close was memorable. But each time I happy couple.
rehearsed I felt I was "pushing" myself. Each of these brief sets of words forms
Though the speech was well within seven a picture in the mind. A skillful Toastmas-
minutes, 1 seemed to hurry through it. ter reveals, shifts and moves these images
My voice became strained — on the verge
of being shrill. Something was just not
working!
I had fallen prey to a problem many Your listeners want
other Toastmasters have faced. With a
speech that had all the "right" elements,
to agree. Don't lead
something was amiss. 1 could see the out ttiem down a rood
come: facing the audience on contest night
with the sinking feeling 1 wasn't going to
you won't be following.
connect.
In desperation I took stock of everything,
and that's when I hit upon my problem. for his audience, almost like a film director.
My speech had been developed with every Too often, though, the film needs edit
thing in mind except the one element that ing. The images work against both speaker
can give any speech winning appeal — a and audience. And the problem always
flow of images that worked for, not against begins at that exact moment when the
me. speaker begins to prepare his or her talk.
The idea behind image flow is simple. From then on, the images either flow or
A speech is made up of a beginning, body fly apart.
and close, but within those there's a fur Suppose your speech is on self-reliance.
ther division — the images you create for Many ideas and quotations can form the
the audience. They're the scaffolding on images that will inspire your audience. But
which the ideas of your speech are sup what is your strategy for fitting them
ported. And if the parts of the scaffold together ?
won't fit, the speech won't hang together. Will you speak of courage in the face of
What are these bits of scaffolding — great odds ? Or will you speak about the
OCTOBER 1982 13
dogged determination that helps someone speech, either in narrative or notes. Either
to win in the end ? You could draw an approach is fine, because the next step in
analogy of the eagle as our national symbol image analysis happens not while you're
and cite the proud and independent life of composing the speech, but when you're
LISTEN TO SUCCESS! that beautiful creature. You could quote ready to rehearse.
LISTEN TO anecdotes of poor college students who How does it work? It takes two things.
spurned handouts, worked 60 hours a First, your commitment to look at your
week, and struggled to attain their degree beautiful speech as coldly and objectively
goals. as you can, with a willingness to change
But you better be careful if you mix all it. Second, you need guidelines.
those together in seven minutes! Four guidelines have worked well for
Knowing Right From Wrong me. They are distraction, consistency, dis
Right now,some of you may feel polish cord and time. Let's now see how each
ing a speech around images is hard. After applies to a speech.
all, isn't the meshing of ideas through Distraction. Each image you use should
DR. MARK VICTOR HANSEN build toward some point. It should be clear
images a matter of taste and talent? Yes,
Speaking live on to some degree, but by using a technique I to your listeners where you are going, for
YOUR TOTAL PROSPERITY call image analysis you can assemble an only then will they come along with you
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what the speech is about and what it's
trying to do.
For instance, the theme of that speech After all, Isn't
on self-reliance might be the following:
Winston Churchill's place in history was mestiing ideas tlirougt^
assured, not so much by his leadership in
World War II, as by his quality of self-
images a matter
club, sales and reliance — a quality each of us can attain. of taste and talent?
Suddenly the speech has a framework!
political meetings Churchill's life can be the thread on which
the speech will be built. Instances and anec its point is the opposite of the one you're
SURE NEED HUMOR! dotes from the well-documented career of trying to make. Why throw a curve?
this famous statesman can be used to At the beginning of a speech your lis
brighten the speech and illustrate self- teners are on your side. They want to
reliance. And everything in the talk will be agree. So don't let them down by distract
aimed at telling how you and I can develop ing them — leading them down a road
the same quality that made Churchill great! you won't be following.
IF YOU'RE A theme is vital because it puts the Whenever you find yourself doing that
INVOLVED, speech in a disciplined framework that in a speech, cross out that image. Be espe
SEND FOR
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strongly encourage putting it in black and the point, lamely assuring the audience
white — you see exactly where you're "the exception proves the rule." It may,
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there. listeners into their own instant analysis of
Without a theme statement you could how valid the exception is, as opposed to
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had wide public support, you've strayed
from the mark. Each speech should use
consistency to set a dominant tone that's
carried by all the images. By departing
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as the ideas moved in a steady stream to seven-minute segments. Apply image And so with a speech. When the content
toward the conclusion. It made the differ analysis to each segment. Then concentrate is right and you're confident it won't leave
ence in a competitive speech and a win on transitional phrases to pull the talk you stranded, your focus can shift to fit
ning one. together around one central theme. and finish to brighten and enhance the
Discord is especially dangerous when Extra Effort delivery — and the overall product.
we use humor. Take a great story and plug All this means work. Sure. It's hard to And image analysis can bring you to a
it in a speech where it doesn't quite belong construct a good speech. But at each Toast- point where the product will shine like a
and you have a discordant note. Sure,you masters meeting we all see examples of classic! i
ill
like the story. Yes, it's funny. But save it speeches not subjected to tough appraisal
for another speech if it isn't totally in tune l)y the speaker — speeches that have a George Nelson is a member
with the one on which you're working. good, basic theme, but are delivered as if of jessee L. Arnold Toast-
Time. It's everybody's nemesis. Face it — the speaker were winging it. The time for masters Club 4-2-11 in
in a five- to seven-minute speech there are winging it is in table topics, not your pre Indianapolis, Indiana, and
only so many images you can display with pared speech. Downtown Toastmasters
out imposing a serious overload on your Just think how your speeches would Club 2853-56 in San
listeners. How many is too many? I find improve if you imposed on them a disci Antonio, Texas. He is a
that 10 to 15 separate images work well. pline like image analysis! Not only would management development
Fewer than 10 can make the speech a bit the content improve, but I tielieve your consultant based in San Antonio and is working
barren and seemingly unprepared. More delivery would E)e enhanced. With a well- on a book on communications in organizations.
OCTOBER 1982 15
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Ty Boyd paused briefly during his
presentation and looked out at his
reach the top from the people who have
already made it.
audience — the more than 1500 And they had ample opportunity to do
Toastmasters who gathered to hear his so with the impressive lineup of speakers
keynote address at Toastmasters' 51st at the four-day event. Every speaker on
International Convention at the Franklin the program offered inspirational mes
Plaza Hotel in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. sages and sound advice on becoming the
His silence aroused the attention of his best communicator and person possible.
listeners, who leaned forward in their Toastmasters also had the opportunity to
chairs in anticipation of his next words. hear our organization's leaders plan for
"Excellence has no limitations. There developing new educational programs that
aren't any benchmarks we won't exceed,"
Boyd said quietly."The question is not
whether we can get better at what we do,
but whether we're willing to pay the "I'm proud of this
price." post year. I'm even more
His words had special significance to
the members of his audience, each of excited about ttie year
whom was familiar with the hard work
atiead of us."
V involved in achieving his or her potential
— in becoming a better communicator,
leader and human being. As Toastmasters,
these people had already decided to pay the will help them even more in their self-
price; they attended this year's convention development efforts, and they heard our
to learn even more about what it takes to leaders reflect on our organization's
accomplishments of the past year.
GOOD TIMES —A bagpiper (top, center) was "This has been our greatest year in
just one of the promotional gimmicks candidates history!" President William Hamilton told
used to attract attention (and votes) during the the crowd that jammed the ballroom
"Proxy Prowl." The Mummers Parade (top, right) during the opening ceremonies. "This has
highlighted Thursday's "Block Party" festivities. been our greatest year for educational
Many Toastmasters dressed in colorful colonial growth — there were more Communica
costumes for the night of dancing and entertainment tion and Leadership Manual completions,
(top, left). More traditional clothes, however, were more ATMs and DTMs than ever before.
worn for the "President's Dinner Dance" the next This was our third-best year in club and
evening (bottom, right). The Franklin Plaza Hotel membership growth. I'm proud of this
(bottom, left), site of this year's convention, was a past year. I'm even more excited about
short walk away from many of Philadelphia's the year ahead of us. We can have the
museums and historical landmarks. best year yet. Together we can do it."
OCTOBER 1982 17
PHILADELPHIA:
Toastmasters' Executive Director, In addition to Ty Boyd and Dr. Joyce (Region II); Scott Edwards, DTM,Lub-
Terry McCann, outlined several rules Brothers, the convention featured other bock, Texas (Region III); Edward Nygaard,
individual members must follow to help outstanding speakers and communicators, DTM, North Crystal, Minnesota (Region
their clubs — and our organization — including humorous speaker Dr. Herb IV); Tommy Richardson, DTM,Lafayette,
grow and achieve even more during the True, nonverbal communication expert Indiana (Region V); Jim Smith, DTM,
coming year: Dr. Arnold Abrams, speaker and radio Huber Heights, Ohio (Region VI); Lew
• Hook people into the program. Find as personality Suzy Button, speaker and Mutty, DTM,Concord, Massachusetts
many people as you can and try to help author Nick Carter, communications (Region VII); Charles Rooney, DTM,
them become more successful in their consultant Lou Hampton, and speaker Decatur, Georgia (Region Vlll); and
lives. and entertainer Dick Caldwell. Kenneth Rennie, DTM,Carlingford, New
• Become an idea-giver. Help new Many of Toastmasters' own top South Wales, Australia (Director-at-
members discover the value of becoming speakers also appeared. Ron Zeller, DTM; Large).
totally active in your club. Show the value Roy Fenstermaker, DTM; Nancy Ellen With business out of the way. Toast-
of belonging, participating and giving. Scott, ATM; and Hugh Burgay, DTM,all masters were ready to relax at that eve
• Induct them with flair. Make new participated in a panel discussion on club ning's neighborhood-style block party,
members feel they are joining an impor programming. Marcia Taylor Barney, which featured games, food, entertain
tant organization. DTM;John Whitmore, ATM;James ment and dancing in the Philadelphia
• Get them speaking. If you want people Beissel, DTM; and Ed Schrang, DTM, tradition. The following evening they
to learn, you have to get them immediately presented another panel on outside-the- returned to the ballroom for the elegant
in the program so they can see results. club programming. Evelyn-Jane Davis President's Dinner Dance, where William
• Make certain they grow.Help members Burgay also addressed the group, while Miller delivered his moving inaugural
become as much as they can possibly be. Toastmasters John Foster, Dr. Paul Loyd, address:
"The artist paints, the musician makes Chuck Waterman, B. Kalis, Ralph "In the past few years Toastmasters
music, the leader leads, the manager Rybarchyk and Art Gliner were featured International and its districts have forged
manages, the speaker must speak. If you in the "Communication Showcase." Two a brilliant record of success. We now have
want our organization to continue its more than 4,500 clubs and nearly 100,000
success track, help members to speak," members. Our educational accomplish
McCann concluded. ments have been equally spectacular.
Outstanding Speakers "This organization has "This organization has awakened from
In his keynote address, Ty Boyd also its sleep and riveted its hopeful gaze on the
emphasized the importance of good speak riveted its gaze on future. There are no bounds for Toast-
ing skills in the climb toward success, and a hopeful future." masters International, except as imposed
he told Toastmasters how to develop these by our lack of imagination.
skills. "We have established our goals for the
"Become the spokesperson of your year with particularity. They are not mere
industry," he said."If the sales manager or other Toastmasters delivered their wishes.
secretary won't take the job when they ask speeches for the final stage of judging for "But goals and plans are only the
for a speaker, raise your hand. Volunteer. this year's Accredited Speaker Program beginning of the journey. They must be
Perfect your communicating skills, for and were awarded the title of Accredited supported by sustained effort and deter
several things will happen. Speaker. They are Keith Frost, ATM, and mination at all levels in this organization.
"For one, you'll learn more than you Fred Wienecke,DTM.J.Q. Warnick, DTM, It is important that every leader recognize
ever thought possible about your profes also earned the Accredited Speaker title at that the members want to contribute
sion or business. Second, you'll become a the Region VIll conference in June. through ideas, ingenuity,and involvement.
center of influence outside your occupa It is up to us to help them make their
tion. Third, you'll become the center of Selecting New Leaders contributions and steer them to the proper
influence inside your occupation, and your Although the speakers were the main objectives and goals. We must keep in
attraction for most of the Toastmasters mind that successful organizations are the
fellow employees will put you on their
shoulders and carry you all the way to attending the convention, some were ones that recognize the contributions of
success."
there to attend to the business of electing
officers and directors. These Toastmasters
Psychologist Dr. Joyce Brothers, this
campaigned for their favorite candidates EDUCATIONAL ACTIVITIES — Fourteen-
year's Golden Gavel recipient, offered year-old Sean McNevin (hottom, left) addressed
advice on interpersonal relationships. all week, talking with other Toastmasters
and distributing literature. When the votes Toastmasters during a discussion of Youth Leader
"If you're lucky, you'll live to a ripe old ship. Meanwhile, Toastmaster Paul Lloyd (hottom,
age. Are you prepared to enjoy it? Have were finally tallied during the annual
business meeting Thursday morning, right) demonstrated how to manage stress during a
you saved for your retirement years? "Communication Showcase" segment.
William O. Miller, DTM, was declared
Taken care of your health? Developed a
Toastmasters 1982-83 International
hobby or two to keep yourself busy?" she ATTENDING TO BUSINESS— President
President. Eddie V. Dunn, DTM, was
asked. "All of these things are important, William Hamilton, DTM, hosted the "Hall of
named Senior Vice-President, John Latin,
but not nearly as important as someone Fame" awards presentation (center, right), and
DTM, was named Second Vice-President
in whom you can confide. delegates cast their votes for their favorite officer
and Helen Blanchard, DTM, was named
"(Research has shown that) there is candidates during the annual business meeting
Third Vice-President.
one important difference between (old (center, left). Newly-elected president William
people) who are happy and those who are Delegates also elected the following Miller, DTM, was installed hy Immediate Past
unhappy. Each of the happy oldsters had nine Toastmasters to two-year terms on President William Hamilton, DTM (top, left).
someone to whom he could take his Toastmasters' Board of Directors: John Kenneth L. Bernard of Australia (top, right) was
hopes, his fears,his innermost thoughts Noonan, DTM, North Vancouver, British declared the "World Champion of Public Speaking"
and feelings. None of the depressed group Columbia, Canada (Region 1); Tomas far his inspiring speech "Enjoy Life — With
had such a friend." Esquivel, DTM,La Mesa, California Enthusiasm."
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PHILADELPHIA:
people and promote those contributions.
"I cannot stand here in your presence
tonight and be unmindful of the tremen
dous responsibility of this office. 1 know VI DISTBICTM
that education, growth, quality and under vQtfiCAGQLiAND
standing remain my high tasks. 1 also know
that mine is not the sole responsibility for
Toastmasters International and its destiny. BIST
You are the outstanding men and women
who faithfully and effectively serve this
organization. 1 am comforted knowing of
your dedication, abilities, and
commitment."
World Championship
The following morning Toastmasters
once again rose early for the convention's
dramatic ending — the "World Champion
ship of Public Speaking." Nine Toast-
masters competed for the coveted first-
place trophy. Although each member of
the audience had a judging form on which
to score the speakers, only the official
judges' ratings counted. Kenneth L.
Bernard of Deadline Club 3440-70 took Lou Hampton:"From Toastmaster to TV
first place with his speech entitled "Enjoy Screen" — "Know your rights (when you deal
Life — With Enthusiasm." Two second- with the press). You have the right to know what
place trophies were awarded. One was the theme or purpose of the interview is, what pre
awarded to Tine Thevenin of Daybreakers conceived ideas the interviewer has and what topics
Club 814-6 for her speech "1 Love he's going to cover. You have the right to refuse to
America." The other award was presented answer any questions you choose." Dr. Herb True:"The Best-Kept Secret in
to Guillermo Trejo, DTM,of Stone Toastmasters" — "Our needs, attitudes, morale,
Mountain Club 4144-14 for his speech emotions, environment and goals determine what
"Remember the Almo." Third place trophy we hear and understand more than what the speaker
was awarded to M. Arabella Bengson of says. So size up your audience in advance. Deter
Trillium Club 3419-60. Her speech was mine where they are now as opposed to where you
entitled "Serendipity." want them to be."
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William O. Miller, DTM:1982-83 Inter
national President — "In the past few years
Toastmasters International and its districts have
forged a brilliant record of success. This organiza
tion has awakened from its sleep and riveted its
gaze on a hopeful future. There are no hounds."
Suzy Button:"Adam's Rib to Women's
f Lib" — "The ultimate challenge is reaching beyond
yourself to bring out whatever greatness is in you.
You can do that by opening the door to your mind
and raising your awareness level in any area that
Dr. Arnold Abrams:"Body Language and interests you."
Nonverbal Communication" — "Eye contact
is absolutely critical. It shows attentiveness. Look at
your audience. If you have their eyes, it means
'continue.' You must read the eyes of your audience."
OCTOBER 1982 21
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Identifying and correcting articulation problems.
emember how you loved to make binations th, sh and any others with which
faces when you were a child? You you may have problems. In each column
ff V would scrunch up your face in an
ugly grimace or stick out your tongue,
then curl it up inside your mouth as far
MAKE write the sound that occurs when you
combine the consonant with the vowel
sound at the top.
back as it would go. So, starting with h, you'd get: bee, bay,
If you're having trouble articulating
clearly, you might want to start making
faces again — doing exercises that will give
you control over your tongue and lips and
FACES bah, bow, boo. Using the hard k sound for r
you'd get: kee, kay, kah, kow, koo. Do this for
all the consonants.
Now read your list aloud. Are there any
make your speech clearer and crisper. sounds you have trouble getting out right ?
Like most people, you probably have
some sort of articulation problem. You
may be adding sounds that aren't supposed
AND Are you unsure of some sounds ? Recite
the list to friends, particularly fellow
speakers. On what do they say you need
to be in a word, such as pronouncing the I to work ?
in calm. You may be substituting one sound
for another, such as switching the It in little
for a d sound, so that it sounds like some
thing you'd serve soup in.
SPEAK After you've identified your problem
you can Icxjk at the list of sounds in the
accompanying article and work on the
areas in your mouth that make the trouble
some sound. Youll notice that your lips
You may have the opposite problem:
omitting sounds. Do you say "hunnerd"
instead of "hundred"? Do you drop the g
at the end of words like running, falling and
CLEARiy and tongue do most of the work, so these
will be the areas you must exercise the
most.
So if you're having trouble articulating to showing you how to improve your Because a good speaking voice is a vital
your words, don't get mad or get even — speaking voice. Vocal relaxation is essential tool in public speaking,Toastmasters Inter
for good speaking, and Your Speaking Voice national has incorporated Your Speaking Voice
start making faces.
offers a six-step method for relaxing your into its New Member Kit — the set of
Mark Bruce is a writer and
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Do you speak too softly? A common who joins a Toastmasters club. It replaces
radio announcer based in
cause of poor speaking volume is failure Chairman IZOOl, which remains available as
Eureka, California. He's
to breathe properly. The manual features a catalog item.
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dozens of shows, worked for ume, along with a set of exercises for pro for purchase through Toastmasters Supply
a singing telegram company, jecting your voice forward. Catalog. The price is $3.00 per copy (plus
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and, impressions. and jaw. To overcome poor articulation. speaking voice!
24 THE JOASTMASTER
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commercials for special flights, added des is "protecting" you by hiding the fact that your in-person customer be thinking?
tinations, new services. you're at your desk. But clearly, this prac First, he or she may wonder just how
I answer a request to hold quickly, tice simply damages your image in the much importance you're placing on this
saying "I'm calling long distance," or "Do minds of callers. meeting. Next he may wonder. Shall I
you take phone orders?" Of course those To make sure your phone is answered repeat my last point, after this phone call
replies don't stop a recorder. But they properly, make a call to your own phone is over? Finally, the person may begin to
often get action from a phone operator. every now and then. If your voice is think that maybe he or she should take
The solution is clear: If you are getting recognizable, then have your spouse, a his business elsewhere.
more than two or three calls a day which friend or an associate call you while you But the alert reader might now be
you or your staff has to start by putting listen in on another phone. Make sure thinking that this technique of blocking
the caller on hold, you need to expand your calls are being answered the way you phone calls conflicts with the first tip in
your phone service. Get someone else in want them to be — quickly, pleasantly, this article — answer your own phone!
the office to answer when you are already honestly, in a style that helps, not hinders, Not really. Answering phones is not an
on the phone. Or, as a poor alternative. your business. exact science. It's an art. It's creative. You
Rude Behavior have to adapt these tips to your situation.
• Don't answer the phone when you're Try to answer your own phone as often
talking with someone in person. as you can; block your phone when your
The serious misusers That's about the same as letting some other duties require you to.
one march into your office and barge into • Don't leave one call to get involved
are the people for whom a conversation. It's an undesirable inter with another call.
the telephone serves ruption if it's by phone or in person. It's How you handle such a situation is a
discourteous, distracting, despicable. matter of balance and judgment. Certainly
OS a lifeline. How can you block such interruptions? there are situations when you're talking
Most people stop in-person interruptions on the phone with one person, you get
by closing the office door. You can do the another call, and there's no one around to
same with your phone. "Close" it to in take that second call for you. What should
switch on a tape recorder which answers coming calls during the time you're meet you do then?
your phone automatically. ing with someone. Remember that the caller you're talking
• Don't ask "Who's calling?" in answer If you have a secretary, tell her, as you to got there first, and that ancient guide
to "Is Mr. Smith in?"
begin an in-person conversation, "No calls, "first come first served" still makes sense.
The publisher of one of my visual aids please." Besides blocking interruptions, But if that conversation has been going on
for learning public speaking breaks this that action has an additional benefit: It for some time — say five minutes or
rule on every call. At first I thought he impresses your visitor, making him or her longer — the caller may understand if you
was recognizing my voice and trying to feel that you're giving your full attention say "I've got another call. I don't want to
avoid me. But I checked with a few other
to his words. cut you short, but would you mind if I
people who do business with him and If you don't have a secretary, or if he or leave you for a moment just to get that
found it was standard procedure in his she, too, is busy on a project that shouldn't caller's name and number? I'll be back
office.
be interrupted, have the switchboard oper with you immediately." Such an explana
There's little a caller can do. I ask, "Is ator, an assistant, or someone else on the tion is certainly better than the usual "I
he in?" The reply is usually persistent: staff take your phone calls for you while got another call — hold please," and a click
"Who shallI say is calling?" Sometimes I you're meeting with a client. Have the as the line goes dead for a while.
pretend I didn't hear and say, "I'm sorry, I person taking your call jot down just the Again, you need to be concerned about
didn't quite hear you. Is Mr. Smith in?" name of the person calling and his or her your timing. Even a carefully stated expla
Frankly, I lose this game more often than phone number. Then be sure you call back nation of why you're leaving the line prob
I win, but sometimes it's fun to play. Most promptly — certainly the same day, better ably won't be accepted well if you make it
of the time, however,I simply get madder within an hour or so. in the first minute of a call. If two calls do
and madder, trying to conceal my anger, Consider the opposite of blocking calls: come to you in quick succession, it may be
of course. your phone interrupting your guest repeat better to just let that second call ring,
But there is something you can do if edly or even occasionally. Maybe you are rather than desert the call you've just
you're using this technique. Stop it. Maybe one of those talented people who can keep started.
you have an eager secretary, assistant or track of both the in-person conversation Self-Analysis
other staff member who thinks he or she and the telephone calls. But what might Another technique used by many busi-
OCTOBER 1982 27
Because few offices record phone calls, the line. My immediate thought is. This
and because many people take but limited outfit just wants to screen its calls. It
notes about their phone conversations, seems to use the machine to get time to
statements made on the phone may be decide whether or not to answer the call
considered less binding than written state live. That is, of course, an insult to callers.
ments. That leads many people to give Another misuse of electronic answering
Gear your club vague, marginal, questionable information devices is by the many people who try to
for growth with... on the phone. They seem to feel they can be creative in giving callers the taped
give approximate figures, for example, instructions. I've called businesses which
then confirm them later. Or people on a
Anniversary phone often pass the buck — the call — to
others, taking less responsibility than they
told me such things — on their tape
machines — as "This is Alice, my automa
tic answerer..." Another said,"Lucky you!
Month! might if they were talking with the caller
in person.
I'm out, but my super-duper tape recorder
will help you instead."
Your club can receive these For example, 1 just telephoned the local Recorded messages that put down the
awards for membersjoining sales office of one of the world's largest caller are another type of misuse of tele
in October, November and manufacturers of copy machines — a phones. One tape told me,"We're really
December: company you see advertising on television very busy here right now, but if youll
frequently, bragging about their "service." leave your name and number, well call
1 called to get the figure I've seen the you between four and five this afternoon
• 5 New Members — Banner
company use in many of its ads — the cost — that's the only time we handle phone
Ribbon
of writing a memo. 1 asked not for the calls."
• 10 New Members — "Best figure, but for the phone number of the The best message to put on your
Speaker of the Day" Award company's corporate headquarters, so 1 automatic answerer is brief, simple and
• Top Club In Each District — could talk with a public relations repre direct. You should make no attempts at
Special Banner Ribbon sentative. My call was bumped to three cleverness, explanations or other embel
people, and not one could tell me the lishments. You'll probably get the most
Presented by Your District Gover number to call. The last one said,"We just favorable reactions — or at least the few
nor(Minimum of 5 New Members use a company phone line, direct. 1 don't est negative results — by recording this:
to Qualify) know what number you can call them on." "This is the office of Jane Jones. Please
And they made no effort to find out, to leave your name and phone number, and
Use Anniversary Month to help your call me back, or to have their public rela
club growl(New, reinstated and dual tions staff call me.
members count; transfer members do not
That answer they gave me is, of course,
qualify.) Machines often produce
a copout. Perhaps 1 got it because 1 didn't
seem to be wanting to buy one of their a harmful impact
machines, so the small-town sales staff
ness persons receiving a second call is to quickly dumped me. Their company missed on a caller.
tell the first caller "I've got another call. Let out on a chance for a good mention is this
me take it and 111 get back to you later." important international magazine!
That might be accepted by close friends or Many staffers hedge their answers on I'll call you back just as soon as 1 can.
long-term business contacts. But even they the phone with slippery statements —"As Thank you."
might well feel uncomfortable if you say far as 1 know..." or "To the best of my Now, how might you start avoiding
that. knowledge..." or "The last 1 heard on those seven undesirable practices on your
The best technique: Have someone else that was..." phone calls? Breaking bad habits — old
ready to take your calls when you're Such lines leave the speakers with habits — can be difficult. But here's a tech
already on the line. Or, again, have an plenty of options to cover their tracks nique that works for many people: Post a
automatic device ready to switch on. later, when accurate or additional facts list of those phone practices you want to
However, if you're often faced with a are pinpointed. discontinue. Post it right next to your
call coming in while you're already on the Certainly youll face many situations in phone, so youll see it every time you
phone,answer these questions to yourself, which you don't have the information handle a call. We could print a nice, neat
honestly: right at hand in the middle of a phone call. list here, for you to cut out and post —
• Am 1 talking on the phone too much, Then your answer should be "1 don't that would make the task quick and easy.
too often or too long ? know, but 111 find out and call you back." But if you take the time to write out the
• Am 1 keeping my calls on the subject, Or,"That's not handled by our office, but list yourself — by reviewing the points in
without wandering into yesterday's ball- I'll have the right person call you — or, if this article, then jotting down the key tips
game, or this weekend's concert? you prefer. 111 give you her phone in your own words — you're much more
• Am 1 getting too many calls? Do 1 number." likely to use and remember them. And if
need an assistant? Taped Messages you do post your own list, chances are
• Am 1 making too many calls? Could • Don't misuse an electronic telephone higher that in just a week or so youll find
1 eliminate some without much of a loss? answering device. yourself to be a much more effective user
Combine calls? Write more notes, memos, Today a growing number of offices of the telephone. Try it and see! That is,
letters, to my callers? ranging from one-person operations to try it and listen!
(But a warning: A phone call, even cross large corporations are letting machines
country, is almost always less costly than answer their phones. But those machines Leon Fletcher is an emeritus
writing. Some analysts claim it costs up often produce a harmful impact on a caller. professor of speech at Mon
around $9 for an office to mail a short One local business that 1 phone often terey Peninsula college and
memo — counting dictating or writing has such an automatic tape recorder author of more than 215
time, typing time, filing, paper, postage, answering its phone. But the staff listens puhlications.
and such.) in at the same time! The machine tells me
• Don't give slippery, copout replies to dictate a message; 1 start to give it my
on the phone. name and suddenly a live voice comes on
28 THE TOASTMASTER
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Philadelphia:
An End
and a Beginning
Everyone runs on a different schedule, of many of the preliminaries. Evelyn stage and keep the proceedings running
I suppose, depending on the ways in Robinson headed up a great hospitality on schedule. Long hours are the norm
which we must organize our lives. Most and information committee, and scores for this group, and their professional
of us on the World Headquarters' staff of others from throughout the district ism always shows through. So,as far as
think of convention week as both the helped, many of them taking a week's I'm concerned, Larry Langton, Nancy
end of the year and, at the same time, vacation from work just to assist us. Langton, Marcie Powers, Don Smith,
the beginning of the next year. A convention as massive as ours Tom Dell, Debbie Horn, Flora Wiley
Once the last, lingering details from needs all the help it can get and the and,of course,Terry McCann rightfully
Philadelphia (like paying the bills, writ Franklin Plaza Hotel staff did a remark deserve to take a bow. Toastmasters
ing thank-you notes and unpacking our able job. Convention services manager Will Tolles and Gene Selig were always
return shipment of materials) are com Frank McShane,catering manager An there with their cameras to do their part
pleted, life at 2200 North Grand will tonio Sedrin and audiovisual wizard by recording the memories of this special
again revolve around upcoming revi Franklin Anderson kept things moving week.
sions in the club and district officers' at all times. Shortly after last year's convention, I
materials, new advanced manuals and But, even more than personnel and remember receiving a letter from a Toast-
details to be worked out already for next arrangements,a convention like ours suc master who said,"I'm almost afraid to go
year's San Diego convention. ceeds(or faiJs) largely on the basis of its to Philadelphia if it affects my life as
But before we close the book entirely educational program and guest speakers. profoundly as Phoenix did." This year's
on the "Philadelphia Story" there are a Highlighted by the appearance of Dr. convention affected everyone involved
few loose ends to tie up. If you were in Joyce Brothers, we had an outstanding and how could it not? Amassing the
Philly, you've probably already looked at array of speaking talent covering topics collective energy of 1500 Toastmasters
our wrap-up article in this issue, but if as wide-ranging as Lou Hampton's ses can be positively awesome, and it's this
you weren't there and didn't bother to sion on television presentations to Arnold energy that keeps the spirit of these
read the convention story, take a minute Abrams' program on body language. I conventions alive from year to year.
to turn back to page 16 and see what was particularly impressed by the large Philadelphia is history...today there
you've missed. At the risk of sounding number of speakers — such as Suzy are phone calls to make to San Diego
immodest, this convention was the best Button, Ty Boyd, Nick Carter, Dick and a time for new beginnings.
we have ever presented. Caldwell and Herb True — who stayed
Overwhelming thanks are in order to with us for all or at least a major part of
an outstanding group of District 38 Toast- the week, visiting with our members,
masters: co-chairmen Grafton Dickson enjoying themselves tremendously,and
and Frank Swiacki and an "all-star"com truly becoming a part of our group.
mittee of past district governors John The unsung heroes of any convention
Foster, Russ Bruno, Jim Beissel, Paul are the Toastmasters' staff. Most of us
Cathey and Ginny Goodrum who was try to fade into the woodwork as
our organist for the week. Past Inter much as possible, do our best to make
national Director Tom Marra took care each presenter look his or her best on Alan LoGreen
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