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INTRODUCTION

CHAPTER 1 START WITH YOUR MIND

CHAPTER 2 FACING THE CHANGE

CHAPTER 3 MASTERING THE COURSE

CHAPTER 4 MINDSET IN ACTION

CHAPTER 5 MENTAL PROSPERITY

CHAPTER 6 MENTAL CONQUEST

CHAPTER 7 BODY AND MIND

CHAPTER 8 START WITH EVERYTHING


Welcome to Invincible Mindset!

This e-book is your essential guide to


cultivating a strong mindset that will
enable you to overcome challenges,
reach your goals, and build a life full of
success and satisfaction.

It's time to forge a strong mindset and


build the life you deserve!
CHAPTER 1
START WITH YOUR MIND

Motivation is the engine that powers


success; it requires daily refueling to keep
it running smoothly.
ZIG ZIGLAR
If you possess an "internal sense of
self-responsibility," it means that you
acknowledge how much you are
responsible for the quality of your life
and your achievements. Many people
tend to point fingers at others, blame
circumstances, or find justifications
when things don't unfold as desired.
Why don't you feel satisfied? It's
because you had a challenging
childhood! Why don't you enjoy
abundance? It's because you weren't
born with initial advantages or lost
your job due to personnel cuts.
Making excuses is easy, but it doesn't
lead anywhere.
The truth is that people have
overcome much more significant
obstacles than the ones at present,
regardless of who they are, and have
thrived, experiencing greater wealth,
happiness, and strength. So, what is
the most determining factor? You. And

more precisely, it's your mind. Your


mind is the source of everything. Your
beliefs, your focus, your concentration,
your mood—everything emanates from
there. Moreover, where your mind
leads, your body follows.
If you find yourself low on energy,
you might be inclined to consider
making changes to your diet or
exercise plan. However, in most
cases, it's your mind that requires
initial attention. Everything in life is
influenced by various interconnected
factors, whether we're talking about
relationships, your career path, or
your financial situation. How can
you search for your ideal job if you

can't leave your current one?


can you free yourself from How
overwhelming debt when you're in
such a complicated situation?
However, change must start
somewhere. And that transformation
begins with you. It all starts with
your mind. A more satisfying job
begins with the mind. A healthier
relationship begins with the mind. A
fuller life begins with the mind!
Here's a proverb to keep in mind:
"The grass is not greener on the
other side, it's greener where you
water it!"
CHAPTER 2
FACING THE CHANGE

Go confidently in the direction of


your dreams! Live the life you've
imagined.
HENRY DAVID THOREAU
All of this is very beneficial and
amazing, but how do you precisely
transform your mindset? How do you
regain control, restore your
happiness, and start living your life
in a way that satisfies and inspires
you again? The first step is to
identify the problem. What is not
working correctly in your mind in the
first place? And how can you
address these issues? Not to cause
alarm, but there may be aspects of
your mindset that require attention.
Don't worry, this is quite common
and is a sign of the times we live in.
I presume that perhaps you may
not feel fully content where you are
today. Maybe you're not entirely
pleased with who you are at this
moment. I sense this because
you're browsing through this book
at this exact second. If what you're

doing today satisfies you, great!


But if not, or if it could be better,
then it's time to make a change. I'll
offer some suggestions that might
guide you on what exactly you
should adjust.
-RESPONSIBILITY

The first problem that many of us have

is that we don't take responsibility


our actions, and we don't want to takefor
responsibility for our actions. Now,
we all know people who don't like to
assume responsibilities—blaming
others and making excuses for what
they've done. These are the people
with the external locus of control that
we've already discussed. But while
this may seem like an annoying issue
for the people around them, the reality
is that this is a much deeper issue that
affects them more than anyone else.
Because the complete refusal to accept

responsibility means that you also


reject your own autonomy and control.
Being afraid of responsibility can
make you feel less secure and

decisive in your everyday life.


When someone asks you to make a
decision, you often hesitate because
you don't want to bear the
responsibility of a potential mistake.

Unfortunately, modern life has made


it easier for us to avoid
responsibility. Technology largely
shields us, and many things are
simpler than they used to be.
If you believe you never do anything
wrong, then you also don't deserve
credit for things that go well. This also

means you have no control over your


life, and if you don't have control, you
can't change things in your favor. It's
not a matter of luck; it's a matter of
your actions.
Moreover, if you always avoid taking
responsibility for your actions, you're
likely to also evade responsibility in
other areas of your life. This leads to

avoiding commitments with other


people, which might make you feel
free in the moment, but in the long
run, you lag behind as those around
you build fulfilling relationships and
careers.
This also translates into being assigned
fewer important tasks at work because

someone who doesn't


responsibilities can't betake on If
trusted.
you're not responsible with money,
don't expect to earn much money
either.
In summary, acknowledging your
mistakes and taking responsibility will
allow you to have more control over
your life and build successful
relationships and careers. Avoiding
responsibilities will only keep you
stagnant.
-WE ARE IMPULSIVE AND REACTIVE

A major problem in modern life is that


we tend to act impulsively and
reactively. This has been exacerbated
by modern technologies and
convenience. Did you know that our
attention span has significantly
decreased in recent decades? The
main reason is often the time we
spend on the Internet. When we read
a blog, we usually jump from one
headline to another and sometimes
stop reading before finishing. We
often get information from sites like
YouTube or Twitter, where messages
are limited to just 140 characters.
When we find the information we
want, we tend to close the tab and
look for something new. The next
thing will be available within
seconds. We have become adept at
quickly searching for information,
but we often forget to train our
ability to focus and concentrate. This
problem is further exacerbated by
all the other things competing for
our attention and the instant rewards
we receive. We have immediate
access to all kinds of food,
entertainment, and gratification.
Much of this is free and can arrive
within seconds thanks to the speed of

the Internet.
attractive Adstouse
faces brightour
capture colors and
attention. Noise surrounds us
everywhere. All of this makes us react
constantly. Each of these distractions
leading to a reward triggers a
dopamine-related response in our
brain. Eating a sweet, checking
Facebook, playing a computer game,
or watching a video on YouTube
reinforce the same brain circuits
activated in people with addictions.
This affects our ability to control our
attention and make decisions about
what we want to do.
So, when we try to work on a long-
term project, it's not surprising that
the first thing we do is check
Facebook, make tea, or have a
snack. How can we break this
routine? One of the simplest
solutions is to try meditation.

Meditation teaches us to take


conscious control of our mind, to be
more present, and to avoid
distractions. This can help us be
more disciplined and focused, and
it can certainly reduce
procrastination and impulsivity.
-WE ARE LAZY AND TIRED

Another major obstacle to achieving


what we want and that makes us feel
unhappy is laziness. Most of us
know what we should do, but we
often lack the motivation to do it. We
always opt for the easiest short-term

option. This means that sometimes


we prefer to spend the evening on
the couch with a bowl of popcorn
watching our favorite TV series.
In the long run, laziness can hinder
your growth, which is essential for
happiness. If you're not moving
forward, you're moving backward.
Just as not exercising your muscles
weakens them, if you don't challenge
your mind, your brain weakens.
Sometimes, the lack of effort is not
due to laziness but to stress and
fatigue. Our lives are so busy and

stressful that at the end of


don't have the energy to do the day, we
something about it.

Many of us spend 30 to 90 minutes


commuting to work by train, bus, or
stuck in traffic. Then, we work in noisy
and crowded offices, dealing with
unsatisfied clients and meeting urgent

deadlines. This often leads us to work


late. The journey back home is usually
just as exhausting. To make matters
worse, many of us suffer from
malnutrition, are surrounded by bright
LED lights, and exposed to high levels
of noise and air pollution.
All these situations affect our body
and generate physical stress. This
puts us in a constant state of alert,
and our body doesn't differentiate
between physical and emotional
stress. This depletes our energy and
leads us to opt for fast food instead of
healthier options, and to skip our
exercise sessions. This stress can also
cause arguments with our partners
and take away time from being with
our children. The issue is not the time
itself but the available energy. Our
mental energy is limited, so the first
task is to find ways to recharge it.
This may mean working more
efficiently or even switching to a less
stressful job.
It's about creating space in your life to
stop reacting constantly and finding the
necessary calmness to make conscious
decisions and follow your path with
inspiration.
CHAPTER 3
MASTERING THE COURSE

Too many of us are not living our


dreams because we are living our
fears.
LES BROWN
How can you regain control over
your emotions? There are two key
aspects to consider: physiology
and mindset.
Physiology refers to the fact that
your emotions are actually an
extension of how you feel
physically. Emotions like happiness,
sadness, anger, and fear don't
primarily arise from your mind but
from your body. These emotions
are connected to sensations such as
hunger, fatigue, warmth, and cold.
The purpose of your emotions is to
prompt you to take actions that help
you feel better. For example,
example, when
you haven't eaten enough, youryour
blood sugar level drops, which can
trigger the release of cortisol, the
stress hormone. This signals that

something
motivates youneeds to change
to seek food. and
When you eat, your blood sugar
level rises, making you feel happy
and satisfied, and encouraging you
to rest. Eventually, serotonin converts
to melatonin, the sleep hormone. In
summary, how you feel is often
related to your physical state, and
this, in turn, influences your way of
thinking.
.
So, if you feel anger, could it be
because your body is not in its best
state?
It's possible. You're more likely to feel
angry because you've had a bad day.
And you're likely to feel angry due to
physiological reasons, such as:

Not having slept


Feeling mild pain. enough.
Not having eaten enough.
Having eaten inappropriate foods.
Do you get the idea? One way to
change your emotions and regain
control is to recognize this. First,
understand that if you feel angry, it's
probably due to physical reasons and

that it will
as bad pass. At least, it won't look
afterward.
Secondly, try to do something about
it. Eat something. Sleep. Follow
your own natural rhythms and work
when you are naturally most
productive. Harness the cycles of
the day and keep your circadian
rhythm in order.
By the way, the circadian rhythm is
a biological pattern of
approximately 24 hours that
influences our bodies and is
affected by factors such as light,
temperature, and day and night.
At the same time, look for ways to
directly control your physiology. The
best way? Breathing. If you learn to
breathe properly (using abdominal
breathing to fill the lower lungs and
then the upper), and if you take slow
and controlled breaths, you can

reduce your heart rate and calm


entire body. This will shift your your
nervous system state from "fight or
flight" to "rest and digest." Try it the
next time you feel very stressed,
agitated after an intense workout, or
just need to calm down: your heart
rate will decrease, and your mind will
become more serene.
CHAPTER 4
MINDSET IN ACTION

No one can make you feel inferior


without your consent.

ELEANOR ROOSEVELT
We have working memory. What is
working memory? It is a type of

memory we use to temporarily store


information while solving problems.
. For example, if you're doing
complex mental calculations, you use
working memory to hold onto the
numbers you need temporarily.
Similarly, if you have to remember a
phone number before writing it
down, your working memory stores

that number
can write it. in your mind until you
From an academic perspective,
working memory is understood as a
part of memory that allows for the
temporary storage of information but
with limited capacity. There are many
theories about how working memory
works exactly and which parts of the

brain are involved. However, in


general terms, it is believed that areas
such as the frontal cortex, parietal
cortex, anterior cingulate cortex, and
parts of the basal ganglia are crucial
for its functioning. This memory
enables us to hold onto information
while we need it, even if it's not
necessary to memorize it in the long

term.
It is used, for example, when your
boss asks you to arrive an hour earlier
to work the next day. You keep this
information in your memory only for
the necessary time, i.e., until you have
complied with the request to arrive
early.

Working memory is the capacity to


store and use information specifically
related to the performance of a task. It
refers to a type of memory that is in
constant operation. It is often
considered as a temporary storage
that eventually gets emptied or
transferred to short-term or long-term

memory.
However, it has recently been
discovered that working memory is
actually a form of attention. When
you use "working memory," you are
simulating something in your mind,
like imagining yourself saying a
number or seeing an image, so that
the information persists even after it
has disappeared from your senses.
Working memory is used in many
situations, such as remembering the
topic of a conversation or tracking the
position of players on a sports field. It
is also crucial in writing to keep
concepts in your mind while you
write.
The good news is that you can
improve your working memory by
training your focus. And if you train
your working memory, your
concentration ability will also
improve.
So, how do you train your working

memory? The simple answer is by


using it. Activities like playing chess
involve simulating future moves
before they happen, which
strengthens your working memory.
Reading and playing computer
games are also excellent ways to
enhance your working memory and
can benefit your decision-making and

focus as well.
CHAPTER 5
MENTAL PROSPERITY

Change your thoughts and you change


your world.

NORMAN VINCENT PEALE


Is it possible to visualize yourself as a
wealthy person? I'm here to tell you
that not only is it possible, but it's one
of the best opportunities you have to
make a lot of money.
Many of us dream of living in a large
and luxurious house in a sunny
location, envision ourselves wearing

stylish clothing that exudes power


confidence, and wish not to have to and
make difficult decisions due to
financial constraints limiting our
lifestyle.
If this sounds familiar to you, then it's
time for a change. And, as with
everything in life, that change starts
with you and your mind. If you want to

be wealthy, what are you doing about


it? Is there a possibility that you might
be on the wrong path?
Ask most ordinary people on the street
what they would need to do to
become wealthier, and 97% of them
will respond the same way: get a
better job. And they are correct in
saying that, as a better job will likely
increase your income, at least to some
extent.
However, the truth is that this is not the
whole story. Moreover, it's not the
most important part of the story.
Prosperity and salary are not directly
related. There is a connection, but it's
weaker than commonly believed.

If you're looking for an equation that


tells you how to become rich, it would

be more
you earn like this:you
- What Prosperity
spend. = What
Managing your expenses is a
crucial factor for your financial well-
being. Controlling your spending

and ensuring it aligns with your


income is essential to maintain a
healthy financial balance. Here are
some additional suggestions for
managing your expenses:

-Budgeting: Create a detailed monthly


budget that lists your income and
expenses. This will give you a clear view
of your finances and allow you to
identify areas where you can save.
-Prioritize expenses: Classify your
expenses into categories, such as
essential expenses (rent, food, utilities)
and non-essential expenses
(entertainment, shopping). Prioritize
your needs before your wants
.
-Cut unnecessary expenses: Identify
expenses that could be eliminated or
reduced. This might include eating out
less, canceling unused subscriptions, or
seeking deals and discounts when
making purchases.
-Automatic savings: Set up an
automatic transfer of your income to a
savings or investment account. This will
help you save consistently without
having to think too much about it.

-Emergencies: Establish an emergency

fund to cope with unexpected


expenses, such as car repairs or
medical bills. Having an emergency
fund can prevent you from falling into
debt.

-Price comparison: Before making


significant purchases, compare prices
and look for deals. Research can help

you get a better deal and save money.


-Pay off debts: If you have outstanding
debts, work on paying them off as

quickly as possible. Debt interest


can be costly in the long run. rates

-Financial discipline: Practice self-


regulation and discipline in your
purchases. Avoid impulsive buying and
make informed purchasing decisions.

-Long-term planning: Consider your


long-term financial goals, such as
retirement or home buying. Ensure you
are saving and investing appropriately
to reach those objectives.
-Seek financial advice: If you don't feel
confident about managing your
finances, consider seeking the help of
a financial advisor or taking financial
education courses.

Remember that effective expense

management can free up money for


saving and investing, helping you
increase your wealth over time.
Maintain a healthy balance between
enjoying the present and planning for
the future.
.
CHAPTER 6
MENTAL CONQUEST

Action is the foundational key to all


success.
PABLO PICASSO
Having a goal is like having a
destination in mind. It gives you
something to aim for and typically
provides structure and direction, which
is often lacking when you don't have a
goal.
So, if you think of a goal as a

destination and life as a journey,


becomes evident that without a goal, it
you're likely to feel lost. How can you
get to where you want to be if you
don't know where you are?
Therefore, one of the most important
aspects of developing a successful
mindset is identifying the goals you
want to achieve.
However, to do so, you must also
understand how to formulate an
effective goal, as not all goals are
created equal, and indeed, a "bad
goal" can be detrimental. In this
guide, we will delve into what makes
a goal good or bad and what you can
do to increase your chances of
achieving your objectives in the
shortest time and with the least effort
possible.
Yes, a goal can be bad, and there
are several reasons for it. First and

foremost, a goal can be bad if it


remains vague and is used as a form
of self-deception. Often, what we call
"goals" are not really goals but rather
dreams. They are ideas we like but
for which we are not taking real
actions to achieve. We are often told
that setting goals and visualizing
them constantly will help us achieve

what we desire and achieve great


success. However, scientific research
paints a different picture.
Instead of helping us get to where we
want to be, it seems that setting goals
too vaguely actually hinders our
chances of success.

The problem lies in the fact that we


often remain daydreaming about
what we want and visualizing it but
do not take real actions to achieve it.
In fact, having a goal and visualizing
it can create a false sense of
accomplishment that prevents us from
taking action.
In a surprising study, it was found
that talking about a goal could make
it less likely for you to achieve it. For
instance, if you want to lose weight,
keeping that desire to yourself might
be more effective. When you share
your goals with others, sometimes
you feel like you've already done
something, and that can dampen
your motivation to take concrete
actions.

This is a problem because if you


perceive yourself as someone who is
already fit or a non-smoker, you're
likely to feel that you don't need to
make significant changes to your
lifestyle.
You perceive yourself as if you were
already that person, so you might
wonder why bother making changes.

However, it's important to remember


that self-complacency can be a hurdle
to personal growth. Even if you

already consider yourself fit


smoker, there's always room foror a non-
improvement and ongoing work on
your well-being. Maintaining a
mindset of continuous improvement
will allow you to reach higher levels
of success and well-being instead of
settling into self-imposed
complacency.
Visualizing a goal or a dream can
sometimes have a similar effect.
When we imagine ourselves being
rich and repeat the story that one day
we'll achieve it, we can lose the
motivation to take action. From our
brain's perspective, we've already

achieved that goal.


While the comparison to Auschwitz is
strong, it is true that mere
visualization or affirmation of a goal
is not enough. Real work is necessary
to achieve success. In life, work is not
free, and dreams only come true
when accompanied by concrete

actions.
If you desire financial freedom, you
need to change your focus and take
actions to achieve it.
CHAPTER 7
BODY AND MIND

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to


one’s courage.

ANAIS NIN
It is true that many people have
experienced the frustration of starting
a new fitness program or diet plan,
only to abandon it after a few days or
weeks. Blame is often attributed to
external factors, such as choosing the
wrong program, unfavorable

genetics, or any other excuse.


However, the harsh truth is that
blaming external factors is a sure way
to ensure that significant changes do
not occur in your life. To make a real
difference in your life, you must take
responsibility. This involves
developing a sense of internal control
and acknowledging that the

responsibility rests on you.


Even the least effective training
program can make a difference if you
stay committed. Even if you have
unfavorable genetics, making small
changes to your habits, like running
once a week or cutting out one snack
a day, can still make a difference.

While it's important to choose an


appropriate training program and do
your research, the key is to stop
blaming external factors and take
responsibility for your own health and
well-being. Personal responsibility is
crucial for achieving significant results
in any area of life.
It's true that lack of responsibility and
procrastination are common obstacles
for many people in their pursuit of
goals, whether it's losing weight,
improving their fitness, or achieving
any other kind of accomplishment.
Constantly postponing the necessary
actions to reach those goals can be a
significant issue.

It's important to recognize that there


will never be a perfect moment to

start working on your goals. Life


of obstacles and challenges, and is full
waiting for all conditions to be ideal
can lead to perpetual inaction.
Absolutely, your understanding is
spot on. Learning to live in the
present (kairos) and taking action,
even when circumstances aren't
perfect, is essential. Taking
responsibility and acting are
fundamental steps to achieving

success in any endeavor. You must


be willing to accept that hard work
and dedication are necessary to
reach your goals. Additionally,
having a clear purpose aligned with
your mind can be a powerful
motivator to keep you focused and
committed throughout your journey to
success.
CHAPTER 8
START WITH EVERYTHING

What you do speaks so loud, that I


cannot hear what you say.
RALPH WALDO EMERSON
It is true that a comprehensive
approach to improving your life

involves adjustments in various


aspects, but starting with small
changes and gradually building from
there can be more manageable and
effective. Here are some additional
steps to begin your self-improvement
journey:
Set clear priorities: Identify the
most important areas of your life
that you want to improve and
establish priorities. This will help
you focus on what is essential.
Create a plan: Develop a plan to
achieve your goals. Break down
your objectives into smaller,
achievable tasks, making it easier
to track your progress.
Keep a journal: Maintaining a
journal can help you track your
goals and progress. It's also an
excellent way to reflect on your
experiences and emotions.
Seek support: Share your goals

with friends, family, or even a


mentor. The support of others can
be crucial in maintaining
motivation and accountability.
Learn to say "no": Learning to say
"no" to things that are not aligned
with your goals will allow you to
have more time and energy for
what is truly important.
Develop resilience: In your self-
improvement journey, you will
face challenges and setbacks.
Learn to be resilient and
overcome obstacles without
getting discouraged.
Celebrate your successes:
Acknowledge your achievements
and celebrate your victories, no
matter how small. This will motivate
you to keep moving forward.
Be consistent: Consistency is key to
seeing lasting results. Stay
committed to working on yourself
over time.
Find satisfaction in the process:
Instead of waiting to achieve your
final goals to be happy, find
satisfaction in the process of
personal growth and
improvement.
Be flexible: Life is full of changes
and unexpected challenges. Learn
to adapt and adjust your goals as
necessary.
Remember that improving your life
is a continuous journey, and there

is no definitive finish line. The


important thing is to enjoy the most
process and stay focused on what
makes you feel healthier and
happier. Keep moving forward and
working on yourself, and you will
see how your life transforms
positively over time!

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