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Healing Emotional Eating Pt 2.

Learning to Sit with Your Feelings


It can be overwhelming to figure out what you’re feeling when you aren’t hungry,
but want to eat, or when you’re in the middle of a meal and have had enough to
satisfy your physical hunger, but you want to eat more of the delicious food. For
some people, however, this situation can be a challenge that offers them a window
into their inner world.
One of the keys to becoming an Intuitive Eater is being willing to take the time to try
to figure out your emotional triggers, so that eating is connected to hunger and
satisfaction rather than your feelings. It’s important to pause – to take a time out – to
tune into these feelings. Even if you eventually choose to eat when you’re not
hungry, or continue to eat when you’re full, a five-minute time-out can change the
distracted and chaotic eating experience into a more mindful one.
Use the Deconstructing Eating Behaviors worksheet when you find that you are not
physically hungry but still want to eat. Before you put any food in your mouth (or any
more food), set a timer for 5 minutes. Find a comfortable position – sitting or lying
down – in a quiet place, without distraction. Explore any feelings or emotional
triggers you are experiencing that might be causing your desire to eat and do this
journaling activity.

What are you feeling right now?

When the timer goes off, take a moment to ponder if you still have the desire to eat.
If your answer is yes, ask yourself, what do I need – at this moment – to deal with my
current feelings? Since your body isn’t hungry, you don’t need food. Just notice the
answer when it arises. Don’t judge it or determine that you can’t have what you
really need. What do you really need?

Adapted from "The Intuitive Eating Workbook," by E. Tribole and E. Resch, 2017
E.g. If you are feeling lonely and need connection, you might call a family member
or go to a friends house. If you need some alone time you might go on a walk or a
drive.
Repeat this time out practice whenever you need it.
If your desire to eat continues to be overwhelming and you choose to eat, feel free
to do so without judgement. Don’t think that choosing to eat after the time-out
exercise is a set-back. You are still making progress. The fact that you even took a
time-out is a step forward. In the past you went directly to the food to deal with your
emotions. It takes time to build your emotional muscles and begin to find other ways
to deal with your emotions then by eating. Have grace with yourself.

Adapted from "The Intuitive Eating Workbook," by E. Tribole and E. Resch, 2017

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