The Introduction to the Scrambler & Overview of the

Five Phases

Hey guys, Bobby Rio here, and welcome to Unlock the Scrambler Training
Program.
I am so incredibly excited to have you guys be a part of this. We actually just hit
our 50,000th student, who has learned how to use the Scrambler.
I'm so excited that you are going to be one of them.
Now, even if you're tempted to skip ahead into the seminar videos, it's really,
really, really important to watch this video first, because I'm going to give you a
map here.
This is going to be a map of the entire training program, so that you can
absolutely be sure you're going through it in the right way, and you're getting the
most out of it, so that you will get the same results as the other students. So
really quick, what we're going to cover in this video here is, first is I'm going to tell
you how to go through the program.

There's a lot of material, and I don't want you to get intimidated when you jump
into the training, and go, what do I go through first?

So the first question you guys say is, "Well how do I start?"

And one of the things that I always recommend starting with, is the attitude
videos. Because there's a couple of attitudes that really define the Scrambler,
and the more you ingrain these attitudes, the more all of this stuff comes
naturally.

Trust me, Rob and I had been teaching this now for a long time. We do multiple,
multiple one-on-one training sessions a week with our private clients. And we've
had feedback from literally thousands of clients over the past couple of years,
who are emailing us. And we know what works, we know how to do this in the
right way. The attitude section really helps you keep your balance, because a lot
of this is going to be something that may not come naturally to you. It didn't come
naturally me, it didn't come naturally to Rob.
And a lot of times you're fighting against your impulse. You have an impulse to
do the opposite of what is going to work. And the more you can ingrain the
attitude, the more your impulse will start to lean towards what does work. And
that's what we really want for you, because that'll be a lot easier to pull this off,
when your underlying attitude is working with you and not against you.

So the attitude is really about ... A lot of it is about getting rid of those nice guy
behaviors that really cripple us. We all suffer them, some of us more than others,
sometimes it comes out more when we really like a girl. But part of it is
recognizing those nice guy behaviors, and consciously eliminating them. And it's
not about not being a nice guy.

People think, I don't want to not be a nice guy. This is not about being a jerk or a
dick, or anything like that. I give you permission to be nice, but there's a
difference between being nice and being a "nice guy".

And in the attitude section, we're going to really make that clear for you, and
we're going to show you what you need to be projecting. What you need to walk
around projecting, so that women actually start choosing you. And a lot of times
the more you can naturally project this attitude, the less strict you need to be with
the Scrambler.

So really want you to watch the attitude videos. Then the seminar is broken up
into five sections. The five phases of the Scrambler.

And I'm going to tell you what those five phases are in a second.

Each video is somewhere around an hour long, where it takes us to dig into each
of these sections. And you want to watch them in their entirety, because we give
a lot of very concrete advice. And Rob and I know this because we do coaching
sessions all the time with guys, and a lot of times guys want to skip certain
videos. They're like, "I'll come back to that." And I'm like, "Every question you
have is answered there."

So, one of the other things that I wanted to say is first off, if you have any issues
with the members area, any questions about downloading, or you can't find
something, contact our support. We're here to help you. Sometimes it might take
a few hours to get back to you, because different hours and responses and stuff
like that. But I promise, you we'll always get a response. I am dedicated to
making sure that we make sure you get the most out of this. So don't hesitate to
contact our support.

There is a link in the members area that says, contact support. You can also
send a message to: [email protected]

So, you want to make sure that you go through this very, very thoroughly, and
put it to use. And get rid of your cynicism. A lot of guys are cynical. The people
that get results with this, are the ones that go, "I'm going to trust that this is going
to work."

When you trust it, and you don't second guess it, and go ... It works. Now,
another thing that people ask, and the reason I brought up that were both in
relationships, is because some people say, "Well, is this just about sleeping with
the girls? Is this just about having sex."

Because in the seminar, Rob and I talk quite a bit about getting a girl into bed, or
sleeping with a girl, or you've got to have sex.

And the reason we do that is twofold.

One is that we've been coaching guys long enough to know that a lot of what we
call nice guys, have a tendency to not try to sleep with a girl. They go on a few
dates with her, and they never pull the trigger. They never close the deal. And
they think that by doing that, it's actually helping their chances with her.

But the reality is that women expect things to happen fast when there's
chemistry. She wants to get swept off her feet. She wants to go back to her
friend, and go, "I don't know what came over me."

And that's part of it. And we'll talk more about this when we get into the
Scrambler overview in phase five. But the reason we stress sleeping with her, is
because ... It's part of it. If you're not sleeping with her, you're not dating her.
You're not in a relationship with her. You're friends with her.

No matter how good the connection is between her, sex is ultimately what
separates being friends with a girl, and dating her.

And a lot of guys need to hear that, because, like I said, we have a lot of students
over the years, and we know how easy it is to get validation from a woman, and
feel good about it, and think we're getting somewhere with her, because we're
talking to her and spending time with her.

But the reality is, until you actually consummate the relationship in a physical
way, it is just the friend zone. So that's why we stress that. It doesn't mean we’re
talking about sleeping with random girls and having one night stands although if
that's what you want to do with this, you're more than welcome to. But to get that
one girl, you do have to sleep with her. So we do stress that.

The 5 Phases of the Scrambler Overview

So now I want to give you a quick overview of The Scrambler, and I'm going to
erase this really quickly because I want to quickly talk about what you're going to
learn.

So, after you go through the attitude section and you have an understanding of
the attitude you should be projecting and why it's so important and how it makes
a lot of this other stuff that I'm about to explain to come naturally, you kind of
understand this.

So, the idea is when you meet a woman, you want to take her through five
phases and the length of time it will take you to take her through these five
phases depends on your specific situation.

What I mean by that is if you are deep in the friend zone with a woman, then the
amount of time that you're going to spend in phase one and phase two is going to
be longer than if it's a woman that you're just meeting. You can take her through
the phases faster, you'll understand in a second.

If you're dating a woman and things are going well already and you just want to
rope her in and get her even more attracted to you, then you can focus more on
phases three, four and five. You still want to do one and two ,and I'll explain all
this in a second, but a lot of guys always ask us, "Is my situation, how do I do it?"
And that's why I want you to understand what I'm about to tell you.

So, phase one of The Scrambler is all about giving her the feeling that she
doesn't have you figured out.

Because when you meet a woman, and it doesn't matter if this is a girl that you
were dating for a while, it doesn't matter if she works in your office and you
casually know her, it doesn't matter if you've been in the friend zone with her for
a really long time. Women really try to size up men pretty quickly. They try to
compartmentalize you. We all do this, we do this to women, they do this to us.
We try to get a mental picture of who that person is in our mind so that we can
go, "Oh, that's Tom. He's this type of guy." They put you in a box. And when
you're inside that box, they have you figured out in their mind.

And what happens is, so if you're in the friend zone with a girl and you're Tom the
friend zone guy, you're nice, you're always there for her, you're harmless. That's
the box she has you in.

Now, in order to move her into these other phases, you have to introduce
something that steps you out of that box just a little bit. Just a little bit, you don't
have to totally change anything about yourself, but you have to make her go,
"Hmm, maybe I don't know this guy as much as I thought I did." That thought has
to go through her mind. She has to go, "Maybe I don't have this guy as figured
out as I thought I did."

Because if she thinks she has you figured out she's not going to pay the
necessary attention to you that you need for the next four steps.

And like I said, in the seminar videos, we are going to talk exactly how to, what
we call it, a pattern interrupt. How to interrupt her pattern of thoughts about you.
We give you a ton of examples of how to do this, but I want you to understand
why you're doing it.

You're doing it because if she doesn't have that thought, "Maybe I don't know him
as well as I thought I did.", then she's closed off to new information about you.
You want to open up a window. A window of opportunity so to speak. If you ever
think about maybe a girl that you had known and you kind of thought of her as
one way, and then all of a sudden a new piece of information comes out and
you're like, "Whoa, that's not how I expected her." An easy example of that is if
you watched American Pie. There's the band camp girls, nerdy band camp girl,
and then she talks about sticking a flute up her pussy, and then you're all a
sudden like, "Whoa, this girl's not the nerdy, like who is this girl?"

All of a sudden that changes.

Well, that's an extreme example, but it's like you don't want to be pigeonholed
into a certain type of guy. You're not just the quiet guy. For a while I was the quiet
guy. I'm naturally introverted, so women would get to know me and I would just
be kind of the quiet, safe guy to women, and I knew that I had to disrupt that.
Because if I was just the quiet, safe guy, they were never going to be able to feel
that intense attraction.
They had to believe, "Oh, maybe there's other levels to him." I've talked about
this idea of three dimensionalizing yourself, becoming the difference between
Luke Skywalker, who is one-dimensional and Han Solo who he's a little bit good,
a little bit bad, you're not quite sure about him, but he's the one who everybody
gravitates towards.

And you have to have that element of she's not quite sure about you, and that's
what we're showing you how to do in phase one. That needs to be there.

Phase 2

Then phase two is about establishing a more balanced level of power. So one of
the things Rob and I say is, when two people get together, one person tries
harder, and the person who tries harder holds less power. And what happens a
lot of times when a guy is really attracted to a girl, whether he's just meeting her,
whether he's in a friend zone with her, whether he's been dating her, is if he feels
like she's a little bit better than he is, or he really, really likes her, he tries harder
and he gives her all the power.

And when a woman has all the power, she slowly loses attraction to you, if she
was ever attracted you in the first place. If you give her all the power right off the
bat, it will almost be impossible for her to get attraction to you in the first place,
and that's why whether or not you're trying to change a woman's opinion of you
or you're meeting a woman for the first time, you want to keep everything we
learn in phase two in practice. She should be investing as much in you is you are
in her, it should be equal. And ideally she should be investing a little bit more in
you.

And funny, my girl, she said to me, she even said it one time. She goes, "I want a
guy that I feel is a little bit above me."

And all girls do. They want it. They're not going to necessarily say it, but they all
want a guy that they feel like is a little bit above them and they have to try to
impress and they have to try to work for.

So in phase two, what we do is, we introduced this concept of breaking rules.

Rules are all these underlying dynamics that exist between you and a woman.
And a lot of times without you even realizing it, you tilt the rules in her favor, you
give her more of the power.

So then the balance of power is like this, you're here, you're here. Now, if you're
in a friend zone situation, the first thing you have to do before you can move into
the next three phases is you have to, at the very least, even it. You have to even
it, because if she sees you as being below her, it's really, really hard to get her
through the other phases of The Scrambler. So you want to even it. You got to
get her to even level. Then at even level now you can start actually slowly
making it so that she's now looking up at you and that's when you know it's time
to move into the next level.

And that's why I said that the timeframe changes. So, if you're meeting a woman
for the first time, if you're out and you're like, "Hey, I want to use this on a brand
new girl.", it's pretty easy to get through phase two because you're going to be
aware of this. You're not trying to reverse damage, you're starting fresh with a girl
and you go, "Okay, I know this. So right off the bat, I am going to position myself
where she's putting in a little bit more effort than I am." So that I'm slightly, this
isn't about being above women, but it's about being slightly above them so that
she's working more for your attention than you are for hers. It's got to be there.

We show you exactly how to do that in the phase two videos. Like I said, if you're
in the friend zone, that could take a little bit longer. It always happens though.

There's a beautiful moment, a really beautiful moment that every guy who uses
The Scrambler goes through. And I get this email at least a few times a week
where a guy goes, "It's happening." And you know it's happening, the dynamic
changes. All of a sudden, you were always the one putting in more effort and you
were always the one texting, and all of a sudden you just notice, bam, you've got
all the power.

And that's when you move to phase three. The game's not over at that point. A
lot of guys think the game's over, but that's when you keep moving her along to
phase three.

Phase 3

So, the next phase is about the good stuff. Because The Scrambler is not like it's
a game of just manipulating women, there's got to be good stuff. The problem is
that it can't be all good, all good, all good, all good, because we all know that
women need a little bit of drama. They need to chase the guy, they need that
uncertainty to really fall for you.

But it can't only be that, there's got to be a deeper level that she's like, "This guy
gets me. I have such a connection to him. I feel like he just understands me like
nobody else does." And that's what we teach you how to do in this phase.
Phase three is when we show you some ways to give a woman that feeling of, he
gets me in a way that nobody else does. The thing is, and this is really important,
you can't go to this phase until you've done this, because if you do all this without
having more power than her, she's not going to appreciate it. You're going to be
her fan. She's going to like it, but she's not going to fall in love with you. She's got
to see you, because if some girl that we had absolutely no respect for saw us as
the king of the world, we'd feel good about it, but it wouldn't be enough. We have
to respect the girl. And when you respect her, all of a sudden everything that
we're going to do in phase three, is going to be so powerful that she's not going
to want to be around any other guy. And if she's seeing another guy, she's going
to constantly be going, "He doesn't get me the way this guy does."

You're going to be attached in her mind as seeing her in a way that other people
don't. And it's going to convince her that you're the guy for her. "He just gets me,
he understands me, we have this connection." That's all the things that she's
going to be feeling around you.

People think connection, "Oh, I always hear from guys when they first start
working with me. We laugh at the same jokes we get along." That's like surface
level shit. What you're going to learn here is the deep level stuff. This is what
causes somebody to go, "I am in love." We're going to show you how to do that.
Once you do that though, again, everything is a balance.

So you got phase three ... Phase three, she's going, "This guy gets me. He
understands me like no other man. I am the woman I want to be when I'm around
him." All of that. But now you can't let her get too comfortable with that because
when we know we have something, remember the cat on the string. The cat is
dangling above the strings, the string is dangling above the cat's head, the cat
goes crazy trying to catch it. The string drops in the cat's lap, the cat gets bored
and walks away.

Phase 4

So, if you look at it like this is, phase three is the string. Phase four is how you
keep dangling it. You're giving her this feeling of, "He gets me, he knows me in a
way that no other guy does. He understands me. I love the way I feel when I'm
around him."

But if all of a sudden she goes, "Okay", that's great. The appeal of that is going to
lose. There is a psychological concept of unpredictable rewards. It's the reason
gambling is so addicting is because it's unpredictable. The high you get from
gambling, you never know when it's going to come, and that's what you learn
how to do in phase four, is you're dangling that string so that she doesn't know
when it's going to come. She loves it, but it's not guaranteed. It's not like she's
like, "I have him." Because we always say, once a girl knows she has you, it's
over. This is how you dangle the string. That's how you keep it dangling.

Phase 5

Then phase five is all about the intimacy. Because what guys always say, "Well,
this is all great. I understand it psychologically what I'm supposed to be doing,
but what do I say to her when I'm with her? How do I act around her?" In phase
five, that's what we talk about. How do you close the deal with her, how do you
get physical with her? How do you take things to a physical level if you haven't
already?

There's also a workbook called The Lust Workbook, and this is really great,
especially if you're meeting a girl for the first time. Say you're on a dating site,
you're on Tinder, and you're like, "I want to use this on a Tinder girl." And you get
a date with her.

The lust breaks you down, how to have the perfect date. How to create attraction
on a date. How to move her into being attracted to you, feeling comfortable with
you.

What kind of questions to ask her, what kind of stories to tell. All of that is
contained in the Lust guide. You'll find that there's a link to download The Lust
Guide in phase five. Right under the phase five video, you'll see it. There's
workbooks also for each of the five phases.

So, like I said, phase five is all about that. It's all about, "When I'm with her, how
do I act? What do I say? How do I close the deal? How do I go for the kiss?"

All of that, we've got you covered in phase five.