Script
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Sing a song…. Assalamu’alaikum wr.wb
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Look!!!! There are some news(Read the news)
It’s really horrifying!
Because of that news, we as children do not want that news to happen to us!
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We are standing here because we want to know the majority of how parents treat their
children,to know how we feel, how they love us and how we want to be treated.
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We are 3R (Rizky, Rorry, Aru)
And we are from the mini research team.
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To know how parents treat us, we did a mini research using questionnaires as the data. The
questionnaire was done last november through google form. There were 18 questions and the
participants were 49 students from primary 6.
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So, we will talk about the introduction. The reason why we made this research, the data and
analysis that we’ve done before and the conclusion as well.
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What are our purposes of making this research and what are our goals?
● To know the majority of how parents treat their children.
● To know if children are comfortable with how parents treat them.
● To help negotiate parents and children about how they want to be treated.
● To make parents realise how dangerous mistreating their children is.
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Now, let’s move on the data and analysis to aim for our purposes.
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The majority of parents treat their children.
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First, the data showed that 81,6% of parents remind their children to pray. This is good
because according to the Hadith Said that “teach children islamic values and principles” will
increase the children's faith for our religion, Islam
As Muslims we need to teach our children islamic values and principles, it is appropriate for
parents to help their child develop faith in their children so that they can grow into people
who stick to the teachings of Islam.
It is explained that when the child is 3 years old, teach the Tawheed sentence "Laila Ha
Illallah" 7 times. Then, when the child turns 3 years 7 months old, teach the phrase
"Muhammadar Rasulullah".
In a hadith it is stated, "Open your children's tongues for the first time with the words
Lailaha-illaallah. And when they are about to die then say, Lailaha-illallah. In fact, whoever
the beginning and end of his speech is Lailaha-illallah, then he will live for a thousand years,
then no sin will be asked of him." (HR Ibn Abbas )
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Next, 32, 7% of parents always force to study, 53.1% sometimes force their children to study
and 14.3% never force them to study. According to Shamreena from Vocal Media’s article, it
says that forcing your child to study can cause emotional stress and burnout. Parents might
ask the student to study but don’t force us to study much.
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The majority of parents, 42.9%, don't get angry if their children get low grades, but some
still do. Parents should appreciate their grades even if it’s not the best because they’ve
already tried their best to do it. According to halodoc, if parents get mad at children it may:
1. Worsens the child’s behaviour problems
2. Changes the way the brain develops
3. Causes depression
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The majority of parents fortunately don’t hit or punch their parents when they do something
wrong. But there is still a very small percentage that hits their child when they do something
wrong. The parents that do this should immediately STOP!
It’s very bad. Physical punishment is related to a range of mental health problems in children,
youth and adults, including depression, unhappiness, fear and stress, feelings of hopelessness,
use of drugs and alcohol, and general mental (not being adjusted right).
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According to the data, the majority of parents want to know what happens in their children’s
day in school everyday, which is a good thing. As an example, if a child is experiencing
bullying, then the child will be comfortable sharing it with their parents and will report it to
the school. But parents need to know their limits because children also have privacy, and they
need to respect that.
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Now let's move to the next one. Children will be comfortable with how parents treat them.
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According to the data 81,6% of students dislike their phone getting checked by their parents.
Which means a majority of students don’t like getting their phones checked. But that doesn’t
mean parents shouldn’t check their child’s phone and filter the content out, because the media
is full of harmful stuff as well. So, parents still need to check their children's phone.
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The data showed that 83,7% of parents let their child make their own decision. This is a good
thing because it helps them feel like they have some power and control over what they do.
It’s a step in growing up and it helps children make good decisions and help them become
more mature.
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The next is to negotiate with parents and children how they want to be treated.
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According to the data, the majority of parents sometimes reward their child(ren) for their
good work /behaviour. It is a good thing because it makes their child(ren) feel appreciated for
their efforts.
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The data showed that 57,1% of parents sometimes ask their child to go out on the weekends.
This is a good thing because they can spend more quality time together, According to a study
by Jones extension program in 2017. Children’s who spends more quality time with their
parents, will be mentally and emotionally strong, they are also less likely to participate in
risky behaviours such as drugs and alcohol usage
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Next, how dangerous mistreating their children are.
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According to the World Health Organization, (WHO) physical mistreating of your child may
result in:
1. Death.
2. Severe injuries.
3. Impair brain and nervous system development.
4. Contribute to a wide range in non-communicable diseases.
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Now let's move on to the conclusion
From this research we can surmise thatIn conclusion parents at SDIA 52 still does some
mistreating to their children, for example hitting and getting mad at their children if they do
something wrong, sometimes does physical punishment,36,7% of parents sometimes still get
mad at their child because they got a low grade. Parent’s that still do this should stop because
it’s hurting their mental health and it can ruin their future, so parent’s please treat your child
fairly.
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That’s all from us. We hope parents and children have a good relationship now and then. We
really love you Mum and Dad. We believe you never hurt us.
Thanks for listening