Flirt & Earn Gifts:

Work From Home as a Phone Sex Operator

*Formally known as the PSO Starter Guide

Written By
Ellie Bou

Updated January 2018

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Any testimonials and examples used are exceptional results, which do not
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 Table of Contents:

• Introduction...6
• Chapter One: What is phone sex?...9
• Chapter Two: Making money with phone sex...13
• Chapter Three: Getting started with the right company...22
• Chapter Four: The good, the bad and the ugly...31
• Chapter Six: Getting paid with NF...35
• Chapter Six: Spying on the competition...38
• Chapter Seven: Your NF Account...42
• Chapter Eight: Setting up your Call listings and Rates...52
• Chapter Nine: Taking your First Call...60
• Chapter Ten: Keeping repeat callers...68
• Chapter Eleven: Giving more than just phone sex...70
• Chapter Twelve: Marketing and promotions...72
• Chapter Thirteen: Helpful links and steamy phrases...78
• Words from the Author...89
 Intro/Preface:

Hello my name is Ellie Bou and I would like to thank you first and
foremost for purchasing this phone sex operator guide. I know you will
receive plenty of value from it and I can guarantee that you will get your
money back in full within the first 30-60 minutes of your pso journey.

A little about me, I am a single stay at home mom of a beautiful 2 year old
girl who is going on 12 at the time of writing. We live in the beautiful city
Marietta, Ga which is just 20 minutes from Atlanta.

Our day usually starts around 9:30am and it's full of laughter, discovery,
Peppa Pig (TV show), playing and of course lots of crying! Like most moms,
I really enjoy each second that I am able to spend watching my daughter
grow and learn. But it's not that easy to do if you have financial obligations
that cannot be ignored like bills, groceries, and housing. So what's a mom
to do? Well work of course, and for the most part it requires travel and 8-hr
shifts at an establishment that makes you miserable. Especially when you
get texts from sitters about what new thing your child just did and you
weren't there to witness it first hand. Queue “Cry Me a River” by JT.

When I was introduced to phone sex, I was in a really dark place in my life.
I was border line considering being an escort or an exotic dancer. Not
because those were my dream jobs, but because I was drowning financially,
facing my second eviction, unemployed and no family assistance. During
dark times its very hard for some of us not to fall onto dark paths with the
promise of fast and easy money. Thankfully I was able to find safer
alternatives that allowed me to stay completely anonymous and still allows
me to work from the comfort of my home.

Many people have asked, “Why phone sex?” Out of all the jobs available in
the world that are “honest”, “morally sound”, and just plain “cleaner”. Well
simply put because I can make more money than if I were working retail,
fast food, and even corporate (on a good day). I live by the motto, “Work
smarter, not harder”.

While most retail associates earn (in my state) anywhere from $7.50-$10hr
(before taxes). I can earn 3-6x times as much in mere minutes. I'm a big
fan of working smarter and not harder. When I realized that I can earn
$40 for every 11 minutes that I work, how can I really go back to a regular
retail job that would pay me less than a third of that in an hour? I make no
apologies for being a phone sex operator-its completely anonymous
and I work from home. #DreamJob! At the end of the day, people have
phone sex all the time for free, I just made the decision to get paid for it.
Will you?

Can we agree that bills NEVER stop coming? So I had to make a decision
and quickly. One (of many) great thing is I work while my daughter sleeps.
This allows me to enjoy every second we have during the day. Yes, phone
sex gives you the freedom of flexible hours! Now before you run off as a
newly minted phone sex actress, I want you to learn a few things before
you decide that this is the career path for you. Please note that most of
your conversations will be sexually explicit (hopefully that was a given)by
married men. But some won't be, some calls you will get will be from lonely
men, that would just like to vent because they had a rough day or they are
lacking personal companionship and calling a phone sex line just makes
sense to them.

With that said, please try your best to mentally prepare yourself as much as
possible. For starters, it's probably be best to venture off and read through
a few erotic short stories, watch a few fetish related porn videos (to get
your vocabulary up to speed), as well as practice with a non-judgmental
friend or two. Lastly, prepare for a lot of laughter! I can count on one finger
how many times I actually got turned on during a call in all of my 7 years
as an adult phone entertainer. But I can't keep up how many times I
abruptly burst into laughter before I could press the mute button on my
phone. That goes to show you, from my experience of course, phone sex is
a lot of fun, especially since every second pays!
 Chapter 1: What is Phone Sex?

For the most part, when the topic of phone sex comes ups, most people
know what it is and has dabbled in this creative sexual act. I had my first
go at phone sex back in high school and for most people that's usually
when it is introduced. When did you first hear about phone sex?

Many people become habitual callers for various reasons like boredom,
loneliness, and even addiction. Others use phone sex to enhance their
current relationship in hopes of making it fun again once the honeymoon
stage wears off.

A lot of movies (Girl 6-Directed by Spike Lee), TV shows and even popular
songs (Phone Sex- Trina) have highlighted the act of phone sex. Which tells
us, it's actually quiet common. So common that even if you haven't dabbled
in it yourself, you're probably just moments away at having your first
steamy phone exchange. Also think back, have you ever overheard
someone having phone sex?
Phone sex, the way I define it, is an intense phone conversation that
uses sexually explicit words in hopes to both excite and create
sexual desire as both parties masturbate to the voices of each other
in attempt to reach a climatic finish. Now feel free to get a more
“textbook” definition if you want from Google.

But all you really need to know about phone sex when it comes to this pso
guide are two things:

1-People want it and look for it

2-You can get paid really well to do it.
Anything else is just filler.

You may still be asking yourself, with all the unlimited free porn and web
cam shows there are to gain access to, why would someone still want to call
and pay for a phone sex line? Sounds a bit outdated right? Like the times
before AOL? In my humble opinion, I believe there is a certain level of
intimacy that the caller gets with a good old fashion phone call that he can't
get with watching porn on his computer. There is just something about a
friendly, maybe even seductive voice on the other end of the line that
makes a guy feel desired, at the same time keeping his anonymity.

With the internet being a gateway to so many things from the good, the
bad and the ugly of this world, a lot of bored people have found their way
into this long standing form of sex. When people are bored, a lot of things
can happen, and depending if you're a glass half full or half empty kind of
person usually determines what kinds of things happen in your time of
sexual need.

If you were ever to do a keyword search on Google Keyword Planner (a free

online software that measures search volume of frequently searched
phrases in any industry), you'll see that the phrase “phone sex” is being
searched approximately 165,000 times per month. Along with related
search terms that have a few thousand searches.

With this in mind, there are a whole lot of bored, lonely and horny people
trying to “release” their inner sexual frustration. Are you due for your own
personal “release”?
When you are properly equipped with the right facts and stats, you can and
you will gradually see the income earning potential in this industry. So the
question becomes are you willing to learn more about it so you too can cash
in with phone sex?

Phone sex is very common in most everyday relationships and sexting has
even become a thing. (More on sexting later). After years of being with one
person, many people try to “spice things up” with phone sex among other
activities to bring back the burning flame of pleasurable desire. Others use
phone sex as a bridge when having to deal with their significant other being
out of town or overseas for extended periods of time.

Either way, phone sex is nothing new, technically has no rules and for the
most part, it is a whole lot of fun especially when doing it a loved one. To
make things even better, how awesome is it to know that you can get paid
for every minute a call last in this industry? Want to know more? Great!
Keep reading...
 Chapter 2: Making Money with Phone Sex

Anyone (yes men too!) trying to make money working from home should
consider being a phone sex operator (PSO). And of course you need to be
(18+) due to the mature content. But for the purposes of this manual, I
want to direct my focus on those of you who were are looking for a
legitimate work from home situation. As I write, many of people are
desperately looking to transition from a traditional 9-5 job or
unemployment as they endure their ongoing search for stable and reliable
income.

There is a lot of money to be made as a PSO especially since you are

getting paid per minute and not by hour. Which means every second
(literally) counts and adds up really quickly. As a single mom of a beautiful
2 year old girl, working a 9-5 would not work for me. There is no way I
could be OK with missing out on my daughter's daily growth and milestones
because I was stuck behind a desk. Can you relate?

So for those of you single moms reading, here are 3 major reasons why I
feel that 9-5 jobs aren't ideal for us:

1. The need for child care: Finding safe, trustworthy, and competent
child care these days is almost like searching for a needle in a hay
stack. In the last month alone I've been up to my ears with potential
sitters and have yet to hire one that I can rely on. Good help is hard
to find.
2. Fixed Wages: A lot of my working single mom friends are on fixed
 wages, but life isn't so structured. Time and again my friends have
had family emergencies, unexpected car repairs or even surprise
expenses that are almost impossible to get a handle on because of
the limited funds. That's the problem with one source of income, it
has to be stretched out in so many different directions. But the gag
is... dollars don't stretch!
3. Traffic/Gas: The average commuter spends almost 20 hours in
travel time and in traffic to get to and from work on a weekly basis.
Now let's factor in waiting to fill up at the pump and the morning
coffee line and you could probably add in another 4 hours a month of
idle time being wasted while you aren't on the clock.

Now how does trading in those 24 hours for more family time, more leisure,
more travel, hell even more sex? How awesome does that sound? So here
is the burning question everyone reading really wants to know... How
much can you really make with phone sex?

Technically there is no cap to your potential earnings, and I can't really

claim a fixed number or even a range of numbers you can expect because
there are so many variables that have to be taken into consideration. Such
as:

1. How bad do your really want to work from home? I wanted to

work from home so badly that I ventured into a number of network
marketing ventures, online referral programs and so far, phone sex
has just been one of the few opportunities that has worked for me.
But you really have to want this. Get your mind set ready!
2. Do you have good work ethic? If you have it, blocking out set
 hours each day to work the phones will be on your priority list.
Treating this just like you would a regular 9-5 will be the difference in
you earning a few hundred dollars a month to a few thousand. 6
figures a year is totally doable. You just have to be hungry for it.
3. Will you be taking good notes from this guide? I'll be providing a
lot of tidbits in this training book that will allow you to seriously earn
stable income from home. Most people who are serious, take notes,
and those are the ones that end up stress free about money. So ask
yourself... How serious are you about your finances?
4. How many hours are you willing to work? The more hours you're
willing to put in, means more money earned. And best of all, with
phone sex, you make your own schedule so you are your own
boss. Since my daughter is on a schedule, I can easily block out
hours that I'll be accepting calls which works out perfectly for me.
5. How many calls can you keep for more the 7 minutes? Rule of
thumb, just from my own personal experience, if you can keep your
average call time around 7 minutes or more, your bills will always
stay paid. Let's do some math (10 calls a day at $1/min for 7 minutes
equals $70 x 20 days $1400/month). That is barely trying with 10
days off!
6. How much are you going to be charging per minute? You can
earn anywhere from $0.25/min-$9.99/min, but I've seen many
veteran phone sex operators charge a whole lot more for their time.
Anywhere up to $50/min.
7. Which categories are you going to be listed under? This matters
because some categories have more demand than others. Which
directly reflects on your earnings. Fetish categories are very popular,
so if you are an aggressive Mistress, a push over Submissive, and
 even a Kinky anything goes type of gal. You will do well as a PSO. But
other categories still make good money too. I just wanted to point out
the more popular categories.
8. How many repeat callers do you have and how often do they
call? Repeat callers will be your bread and butter when you begin
your new venture with phone sex. You'll need to make sure you cater
to them. Without repeat callers, I'll be honest, you'll have a tough
time-but that doesn't mean you have to stress over it. These kinds of
callers will come to you gradually so be patient.
9. Are you selling Audios, Videos and Pictures? With phone sex you
are not just selling “sex”, but a fantasy with each role you play. And
just like any actress should have a resume/portfolio. You can earn
even more by selling audios, pictures and videos if you want to
maximize your income potential. (These by far are not at all
mandatory-some pso's opt out of going this extra mile, but to each
their own.)
10. Do you have the right support around you? Working from
home has its pros and cons. One con is “loneliness” that comes with
it. You don't have the camaraderie of co-works hanging out during
lunch break or taking that 15 minute smoke break out back. But no
worries, email me, [email protected], and I'll add you to the
Facebook group with all the other ladies working from home who also
enjoy the art of phone boning (lol). Consider it your support group
where you'll be able to share, get advice and motivate each other.
11. How badly do you need a legitimate work from home job?
There are a lot of wolves in sheep clothing when it comes to work
from home jobs/business opportunities. But phone sex is the real
deal, and I have the proof you need to make up your mind on the
 following pages of this book. So read on!

Now all these variables have to be factored in before a realistic monetary

claim can be made. But with this in mind, I can show you current live
profiles of different women cashing in with phone sex.

*Please note that I chose these profiles at random. Also, you'll see later on
that there is a connection fee that the phone sex company collects for each
call that you get.*

With over 5200 (5)-Star ratings (This means over 1k+ people have called
her and each minute cost them $9.99), this young lady is earning
approximately $550/hr. At the time of writing, her profile is live, feel free to
look her up.

This phone sex operator is earning approximately $240/hr.

At the very low end, this PSO is earning an average of $20/hr.
Side Note:

This is a screenshot from Google.com

The following page has some real payment proofs of ladies in the FlirtyTalks
FB group:
 Chapter 3: Getting Started With the Right Company

There are 3 ways you can get started with phone sex. The traditional route
which would mean you leaving your house, putting your kids in day care
and then putting in hours at a call center in your cubicle (we talked about
this earlier in chapter 2 how that isn't the ideal situation, but again to each
their own). Or you can go the independent route and setup a designated
phone line yourself, get setup with an expensive pay per minute service/ or
collect customer credit card information yourself to get them to pre-pay for
a call. Then entertain calls that way. Or lastly (this is the best-of course
purely my opinion) work for one of the many already established phone sex
sites that will forward your customer calls to a land line or a cell phone of
your choice. This way you don't have to deal with any credit card stuff or
anything tedious that takes place behind the scenes of a phone sex
company.

The latter allows you to start working and taking calls in a matter of days!
Which ultimately means you'll be able to start earning money a lot faster! I
don't like the idea of leaving my daughter at a day care facility I've seen too
many of them on the news. But anyway...moving on.

I've done my share of phone sex with a lot of different companies that hire
PSO's, just do a Google search and the results are endless. But the one site
that I choose to focus on in the next few pages is purely the one I've made
the most money with, and continue to do so at the time of writing.
I've been with a phone sex site called Niteflirt.com since 2014, and I
absolutely love the way their site is setup for “flirts” to maximize their
earnings. A “Flirt” is NF's nickname for the phone operators who work on
their site.
Niteflirt.com, in my opinion, is one of the best sites to work for as a PSO.
Here are some of their stats:
For those who may need some help understanding this graph (which comes
from Similiarweb.com- a resource site that measures various traffic,
demographic and social popularity of established sites), Niteflirt.com
averages approximately 1.88 million+ unique visitors monthly to their site
via desktop which doesn't include the many hundreds of thousands, maybe
even millions that visit from their mobile devices.

The average visitor spends about 6+ minutes browsing, searching, buying

and talking to one or more of the PSO's available. And these stats are as
current as of November 2017. Now even if you don't decide to work with
NF, make sure you use their stats as a guideline when choosing to go work
for whatever other phone sex company you choose. Niteflirt.com is by far
one of the best phone sex companies to work for hands down. But I will
admit that they do have stiff competition with a site called TalktoMe.com.
More on that site later.

***Disclaimer: I am not being endorsed by Niteflirt.com in any capacity

and I am also not an employee of theirs. I do not get paid or receive any
sort of compensation getting people like you (Phone Sex Operators) to sign
up to their site. This is not an affiliate promotion of any kind.***

So how do you get approved to take calls with NF? Well it's simple really,
once you type in their url (http://niteflirt.com) in your web browser scroll
down to the bottom of the site and select the link “become a flirt”. The next
few steps will be self explanatory (you will be creating a call listing) so be
sure to read everything carefully. There is absolutely no application fee
what so ever to start working as a PSO with NiteFlirt, but they do ask for
credit card authorization for age verification purposes. They will not charge
your card unless you want to add money to your account to have one or
more of your listings featured or to spy on your competition. (More on this
later). I've been with them for over 4 years and NF has always been good
to me the entire time and I've never had a discrepancy with them.
After you click on “Become a Flirt” You should see this screen (As of Jan
2018).
Side note: If you're a man, you can choose the option to talk to
men/women (same goes for women). Your choice, just use the drop down
menu to select your option.

Also be sure you're signing up as a “Flirt” and not a customer. Also read the
Member Agreement thoroughly and check it after you've done so then hit
continue.
*Confirm the phone number you will be using on this page to begin the
process of creating your listing. Skip over to Chapter 8 to see how to finish
filling out your call listing.
 Chapter 4: The good, the bad and the ugly with NF

Like I said before, NF has an established reputation for being one of

the go-to sites for phone sex. So for those of you new to this industry, that
comes in handy because they will organically send you calls to your call
listings. But I want to be clear, that you will not get that many calls
from NF. You will need to be able to pull your own weight in
addition to what you'll get freely from NF. I'll explain a little more what
I mean by pulling your own weight now.

With Niteflirt, it has its advantages and disadvantages like with anything in
this world. But one disadvantage that is top of mind is the process of self
promotion. Even though NF will not send you a myriad of calls, they do
allow you to feature your call listing for a fee. This fee depends on the
current bids of the other PSO's that are currently taking calls and what their
budget is for each potential customer to click through their call listings.

In other words, let's say that you are in a group of 5 ladies at a shoe store,
all of you have an event to go to and all have fallen for the same shoe. But
the catch is there is only 1 pair left. Yes, you all wear the same shoe size
and now the store owner tells the group that the highest bidder gets to buy
the last pair.

For those of you who are familiar with PPC (Pay Per Click) advertising,
Niteflirt's featured listing section is somewhat similar to that of Google
Adwords or Bing Ads platform. If those platforms are unfamiliar, it's OK, you
won't need to know about those for phone sex.
Another great thing about their featured listings section is if you place a bid
higher than the current 1st place listing, NF updates your call listing
position within 30 seconds on their website. When I used to do a featured
listing earlier on, I was able to start receiving calls within 2-3 minutes, but
now competition is getting a bit steep. It may take a bit longer to get calls
due to the number of ladies that may be on at any given time of day.

If you don't get calls, check to see if you've been “favorited”. This is a
feature that allows customers who see your profile/call listing and want to
save or “bookmark” you for a future call or email request. These are
goldmines, so don't frown if you just get favorites. You can always reach out
to them and give them a free 1 or 2 minutes, to entice them to call you.
When you do call you, the automatic prompt will inform you that you've
given the caller 1 or 2 minutes free. Use that time wisely to help them
decide if they are going to continue spending money with your or hang up
and call another operator. Sell yourself!

What's that saying? Money talks... A disadvantage is that if you're not yet
comfortable placing bids and promoting yourself via their featured listings
section, you'll have to use some alternative marketing and promotional
strategies to give your phone sex call listings some exposure.

1. Some have taken to the popular site SoundCloud.com and recorded

little snippets of dialogue to entice potential new customers.
2. Others blog about their phone sex journey and talk about callers that
stood out. You can even go old school with business cards and hit up
local bars and leave them in the men's bathroom. How you manage
 that is up to you. (lol)
3. Going to Craigslist and responding to some of the personals in the
men seeking women section is another great way to get the word out.
Just simply respond to their ad with something like “Nice cock, I bet it
gets really hard when it sees naughty pics. I just posted some on my
profile, can you take a look and tell me what you think?” Or
something like “I just started working as a phone sex operator, can
you tell me if your cock stands hard when you read my bio and see
my pics?” (Feel free to use your own wording.)

Whatever you decide, just know that with NiteFlirt, you'll have to do some
leg work to keep your phone ringing. Compared to standard phone sex
call centers, you will always get calls coming in without the need to
promote yourself, but you will not be able to choose which calls you
get. At the last call center I worked, I had to be well versed on a lot of
different call tags.

Call tags are the whisper messages you'll be notified of the sexual
topic/preference the caller wants you to act out as the conversation
progresses. Some common call tags are; ebony home alone, 18 and perky,
submissive housewife, Latina, naughty red head, dominatrix, and bondage
just to name a few. All this means is right before I accepted a call, I would
be alerted which character I was to play during the course of the call. I'm
sure you can already guess how this can go terribly wrong.

The call center I worked for only trained me once in a 45-minute crammed
session. The concept of winging it didn't bode well for me. To make matters
worse, all your calls would be averaged in, so it didn't matter if you had a
few 8 to 15 minute calls that would mean $0.85/min based on their pay
scale. The 1 to 3 minute calls you also had would be factored in which
would bring your pay rate down to $0.15-$0.35, basically just pennies per
minute.

Can you say OUCH? And that is exactly what happened when I received
calls for tags that I had no clue what to say. I hated the dominatrix calls
(still do) because I am more of a submissive naturally. So needless to say, I
got hung up on a whole lot working at call centers. Which did not help my
my finances.
 Chapter 5: Getting Paid with NF

Niteflirt allows you to choose how you would like to receive payment for
your calls a few different ways. By Check or Direct Deposit (Express Pay). If
you choose to get paid by check, you will receive it around the 10th of
every month for the previous month. I can't say much on this method of
payment only because I've never gotten paid by them via check.
With their Express Pay option, every morning between 3-5am Eastern time,
NF will debit your account of all your earnings as long as you have a cash
balance of $10 or more and begin the process of crediting the checking or
savings account you have on file. This is a daily occurrence (except for bank
holidays) and you will receive each payment approximately 7-10 business
days after each debit (sometimes sooner, 5-6 days).

You also have the option to keep a certain amount of money in your
account if you choose to use some of your earnings to fund future featured
listings (highly recommended) or call the competition to spy or get some
pointers. You just let NF know how much money you want left in your
account after each debit.
 Chapter 6: Spying on the Competition

When I first started on on my phone sex journey, I didn't have the luxury of
having someone hold my hand sort to speak, which would have saved me a
lot of guess work. I did get some training from one of the call centers that I
worked, but like I said that situation didn't last long because I was still left
with so many unanswered questions.

The day I came across NiteFlirt.com, I was extremely happy that I could
see all the girls that are currently available to take calls, what their call tags
were, and even what they were saying on their profiles to entice each
visitor to choose them as their PSO of the night. This gave me more
confidence that I could succeed in this industry because everything that I
saw these women were doing, I knew that I could do it too. The only
difference was they had a head start.
*Random Profile I chose to screen shot. She's been 18yrs old for the last 15
years. She must have found the fountain of youth. (lol)

When you first visit NiteFlirt, it would be in your best interest to take time
and get familiar with the site layout and navigation options. On the left
hand side of the site, you'll see categories, much like a porn site would
have, of the available women taking calls and what topics they are willing to
role play with a prospective customer. On the top right hand side, just
under the main horizontal navigation menu, you'll see an option to filter the
search results by featured, most rated, and by rate per minute.

Go ahead and do your due diligence and browse through some of the
featured and top rated profiles to get a feel of what your profile should look
like to make sure that you set yourself up to receive as many calls as
possible. The awesome thing about NF is that there is no need to re-invent
the wheel. If you decided to create a call listing for the call tag submissive
housewife, you can easily browse through the profiles of the other PSO's
that have great ratings and gently take a few ideas from them.

***Important: Please do NOT steal, copy or plagiarize anything you see on

another PSO's profile page. You would not want that done to you, so please
have some respect for their hard work and their creativity. What ever you
do, do be sure it is your own original work.
 Chapter 7: Your NF Account

After setting up your profile with NiteFlirt.com, you will be redirected to

your “My Account” page. As long as you are logged in, you can always get
back to this page by hovering up to the main horizontal navigation menu on
the top of the NF homepage. Now in this next section, we will go over what
each option in the “My Account” does so that you know how to make use of
them to maximize your earnings. There are 5 main sections highlighted in
gray; My Availability, Snapshot, Flirt Center, Most Recent Contacts,
and Seeker Center. Let's start with My Availability.
**Be sure to open your browser to NiteFlirt.com and follow along as I help
you navigate and get familiar with your new work from home office.***

Under this section, you will have the option of selecting whether or not you
are available to take calls. If you are available, you will select the option
“Yes, taking calls”. This let's NF know that you are on standby for potential
customers to contact you. If you are not available to take calls then you will
select “Away, not taking calls”, to let NiteFlirt know that you are
unavailable.

You can also change which of your personal numbers you would like to get
your calls forwarded to. So if you have a land line and or a cell phone, you
can always take calls on either one. Also remember your numbers are
always kept private, the customers will never have access to your
personal home and/or cell phone numbers you have listed on your
account.

NF provides each flirt with an 1-800# and an extension for each call listing.
Do keep in mind that you are not required to be logged in for any certain
amount of time. So if you can only accept calls for 2-3 hours a day or 8-10
hours a day, NF is very flexible to your schedule. But with that said, the
more hours you are available to take calls, the more money you will make.
The next section is Snapshot.
In my humble opinion, this section is the most important out of all the 5
areas only because it hosts all of your sensitive information. From your
current earnings, to whether you are getting paid by check or direct
deposit, to managing your credit cards that are linked to your account. This
section is where you will go to update your payment options, view your past
transactions, even track if you can beat your previous weeks earnings. The
next section is the Flirt Center.
This section is yet another important part of your “My Account” page. Pay
close attention because there are a lot of moving parts here. First
up, the “My Listings” icon. This is where you will go to track all of your
listings, whether it be to edit, delete, record a greeting, and you can even
see your listings reviews and its current ranking position in its specific
category.

The “My customers” icon is your virtual address book of all your customers
that you've interacted with over the phone, via tributes (a.k.a tips) and
goodies and those that have favorited your listings. The “My Feedback” icon
shows you all your reviews and ratings for all your call listings. The “my
profile” leads to your main profile page (what the customers see when the
are browsing Niteflirt, which is different from your call listings page). Your
profile is your “get to know me and what to expect when you call me.” Your
profile will also showcase your top performing call listings as well as let
potential customers know if you are away or online to take calls. You also
have the option to completely customize both your profile and call listings
with HTML, do you remember MYSPACE?

Your call listings are basically the “Services” you provide with the character
that you play. So for example I could be a under the category Ebony-
Submissive, and have a call listing for race play for those dominate callers.
Then I can also have a call listing for Ebony-Phone with Cam for those who
want to see me live. For each listing, I can outline my do's and don'ts and
charge two different call rates for each.

On to the second row, you'll see “Mail” which I'm sure is self explanatory.
Click on this icon to see any messages you may have received since the last
time you were logged in. NF will also send you email notifications to the
email you have on file so that way you are almost instantly aware when you
get mail.

You will receive notifications when you get an email message from a
customer and when a customer pays a tribute (just a fancy way to tip you).
Other flirts will send you mail if you've ever paid them via phone call, or if
you bought a goody bag from them. You'll automatically be placed on their
customer list and you'll begin to receive emails whenever they have a
promotion going on or whatever info or requests they to send their previous
customers.

The “File Manager” icon will lead you to a section that allows you to upload
a variety of items that will contribute to you making as much money as
possible. You will be able to upload audios, pictures and videos to your
account. Once successful, you'll be able to send your customers messages
and payment requests for them to see or view the items that you uploaded
to your file manager.

The “Goodies” icon will also lead you to the file manager which will allow
you to also upload bundles, for example pictures. So if you have a set of 10
pictures you would like to sell of yourself in some sexy lingerie. You are able
to do so. Once your goodies are approved, they will appear in the “Find
Goodies” section of NiteFlirt.com.

Next up is the “Reports” icon. Here you will be able to get an overall view of
your stats when it comes to your performance on the calls you receive, the
stats on your affiliate promotions- should you choose to participate, and
your featured listing results if you are actively bidding. The “Featured
Listings” icon will show you what numbered position each of your call
listings are in compared to all the other active phone sex operators. It will
also tell you how well you are doing if you choose to pay for better
placement on the site.

When you click on “Send Offers” you'll have 5 options:

 Offer mail, which is by default, and is a good way to get your customers
to call you back again. Great for getting repeats since you can give away
free minutes.
 Regular mail allows you to send normal messages and you can also
include attachments if you'd like.
 Tribute mail is great for your customers to send you cash, their way of
saying they really like you.
 Payment Request Mail is for asking your customers to send you money.
This is great for those who are in the dominatrix role playing and have “pay
pigs”.
 Pay-to-view Mail is a great way to entice easy payments from your
customer by placing an image/s in an attachment and taunting them in a
way that they have no choice but to pay the amount your asking them in
order to see the images you've sent. This method has made me $75+ in
less than an hour!
The “Create Buttons” icon will allow you to get the code and the URL
needed for your “call now” and “buy now” buttons. Each button you create
will have it's own unique URL which allows you to easily identify where each
customer payments come from.

“Social Shouts” gives you pre written messages for your use on Twitter and
Tumblr to help you with your self promotions.

If you are familiar with affiliate marketing (the act of bringing customers to
a product or service you do not own in exchange for a commission), and
would like to bring even more money working from home. NiteFlirt has an
affiliate program that allows you to promote yourself or another PSO and
with each new customer that you bring them will earn you $50. They
explain their affiliate program in greater detail on their site (Help section).
So when time permits feel free to read further.

Now lastly, the “Flirt Help” icon allows you to get help as a Flirt, access
the community forums, or create a support request. This is as far as

I'll get into this section. Visit their site if you need further information. The
next section is the Most Recent Contacts area that shows you the last
calls and messages you received.
The Seeker Center hosts My Favorites, Leave Feedback, and the File
Player. The My favorites will list all flirts/PSO's you many have a thing for—
or just admire. In order to leave feedback, you must have made a call or a
purchase from one of the other flirts. And the file player allows you to play
the files that you've purchased via the “Find Goodies” section of NF.

Whoa! This section was really long. If you were able to get through it in one
sitting, kudos to you! Next up is setting up your call listings and deciding on
how much you want to earn per minute.
 Chapter 8: Setting up your Call listings and Rates

Realizing that my profile page and my call listings were two different things
took me some time to realize. But when I did, everything made much more
sense. You see, your profile page is what you will link to when you are out
and about doing your own self promotion. You will put this link onto your
business cards, your social media accounts and in your signature when you
are posting on forums.

Your profile page will be the standard “About me” in most online social
websites. Your call listings are the different types of calls you're into role
playing. So for example, if you are a Mistress and you want to humiliate
Sissy Boys, you will have a listing for that. If you are a Lonely Housewife
and you want to talk to men who like unavailable women, you will have a
call listing for that. If you are an Anything Goes type of gal and you want to
get down and dirty you'll have a listing for that as well.

Keep in mind, you don't actually have to be married to put up a call listing
for a lonely housewife. I have one, and I'm not married. The callers will call
you because you are a visual fantasy of what they want to act out, so if you
are claiming to be a housewife on one of your listings, make sure that you
live up to that during the call.

For example:

Customer: “Hey beautiful, what have you been doing all day?”
You: “Oh nothing much really, my husband has been out of town this
week, and I've been having some much needed fun with my plumber.”
Customer: “Hmm, you've been a naughty little slut while your husband is
away haven't you?”
You: “Yes I have, but can this be our little secret? I promise to suck that
hard cock of yours if you do.”

So when a new customer visits your profile URL on NiteFlirt, they will see
you (hopefully you have some awesome pictures, does not need to
be professional, but clear and HD are preferred-stock/fake images
are allowed) and your little blurb about yourself, along with the call
listings that you are willing to role play.

Now... How do you set up your call listing?

Step 1: Go to your “My Account” page and clicking on the icon “My
Listings”. Then over on the top right click on the “Create a Live Listing”.
Right next to it, you can see the option for “Create a Recorded Listing”,
more on that later on.
Step 2: Choose your Topic. So by default “Find Women” is highlighted so
that you can see what the other available topics are:

1. Women home alone: [Sex/ Oral Sex/ Mature/ Anal Sex/ Sex Toys/
BBW/ Housewives/ Latina/ Ebony/ Asian]
2. Phone with Cam: [ Women Home Alone/ Anything Goes/ Mistresses/
BBW/ Couples/ Ebony/ Lesbian/Bisexual]
3. Fetish: [Fem Dommes/ Submisive Women/ Foot and Shoe/ Financial
Domination/ Feminization/ Smoking/ Lingerie & Stockings/ Leather &
Latex/ Spanking]
4. BDSM: [Mistresses/ Submissive Women]
5. Anything Goes
6. Fantasy: [Roleplaying/ Other/ Girls Next Door/ Kinky Wives/
Lesbian/Bisexual/ Anything Goes]
7. Other
8. Couples
9. En Espanol
Once you've selected the topic that you want your call listing to be listed
under. You can move on to...

Step 3: Create your Listing. You will then be prompted to Choose a Title
that will briefly describe what conversation you will be having.

Some examples:

Neglected Housewife wants to Play.

(Submissive Women)

Pay Pigs Wanted for Spoilage!

(Mistresses/ Financial Domination)
 Love wearing Panties Sissy boy?
(Mistresses/ Feminization)

I love Big Dildos, Cum See!

(Phone with Cam/ Anything Goes)

50 Shades of Ties And Knots.

(BSDM/ Couples)

Once you have figured out your headline, you will have to describe your
service. This is where you really have to “sell yourself”. The words you write
here will be the reason a customer who is just “looking”, will get super stiff
and be ready to pull out their credit card to call you and not another PSO. If
you get stuck, just browse through the call listings in your same topic. After
you've written your blurb about your service, you will then scroll down to
see the option to “Name Your Price”.

NF's default price per minute is $1.99 but you can always increase it or
decrease it as long as its more than $0.25/min. For all of my new PSO's,
I like to advise them to start off at $0.99/min just to get their feet wet
and so that their profile looks more appealing especially since starting off
you will not have any star ratings for customers to go off of. After 90 days
of steady calls, gradually increase your prices. If you click on “Calculate how
much of this price you will earn”, you'll see NF calculator. So
feel free to play around with different prices to see how much you'll actually
be earning once the fees are taken.

Once you've decided on how much you want to earn per minute, go ahead
and add a photo with your listing so that your chances of getting your first
call increases. NiteFlirt has certain rules when it comes to the types of
photos you can upload in this section, so be sure to read their Photo Policy,
before you add a picture that will be in violation which will take more time
away from you being able to get calls to make money.

All that's left now is to click OK and within a few hours to a day or so, NF
will email you when your call listing has been approved. Once you get that
email, you are now officially able to receive calls. Just be sure that you have
selected “Yes, taking calls.” in your “My Account” page.
Side Note: In the event that you only want to make certain listings
available, click on the “Availability” Link on it to change it so that the listing
is only accepting “Mail Only” and not calls. I like to use this option in the
event that I am not able to do a live cam show because I'm away from my
computer, but I still can take live calls.
 Chapter 9: Taking Your First Call

Now for the fun stuff. Taking your first call can be a bit nerve wrecking for
some, especially if this will be the first time you've ever considered having
phone sex. So a word of caution, please do NOT let your first call with NF to
be the first time you have to attempt to exchange sexually explicit words. It
may not end too well. But on the upside, you might realize that you're a
natural. Even so, don't risk it. Having a non-judgmental partner that you
can practice with is key. And from experience, there will be lots of giggles
more than dialogue. It's OK, that's normal.

Let's examine taking your first call with NiteFlirt. As I stated before in a
previous chapter. You will be assigned a designated NF 1-800# along with a
unique extension for each call listing you make. So upon getting a new
customer, NF will call your personal number on file (which will never be
known the the customer). When you answer you'll hear an automated
message telling you that there is a customer calling for your listing (they
will tell which one and also remind you how much money you'll be earning
each minute).

At anytime during this automated call you can always press “1” on your
phone to accept before the message prompts you to do so. I like to wait
until I know which call listing the customer is calling for. I've accepted the
call before I knew what listing they were calling about and it didn't last long
because I went in blind sort to speak. Once you've pressed “1” to accept
the call, there is no turning back. You will be prompted to introduce yourself
and from then on, the clock is ticking. With phone sex, the longer you can
keep the caller on the line, the more money he spends and the more money
you make.

Side note: Any caller that spends more than 15 minutes talking with you.
Two things are a given.
1. He really likes you.
2. He'll be more likely to call you back over a customer that only spends
2-3 minutes with you.

When you answer the call, always confirm your username so that the caller
is reassured that they've got the right person. Some people are calling from
the 1- 800# and not from the NiteFlirt website. So that means they are only
going off your recorded teaser intro and may not have a clue what you look
like since they can't see your profile.

During the initial call, I like to say “Hi, this is **my user name**, I'm so
glad you called. What's your name?” Simple enough huh? But now certain
call tags require a bit more aggression. If you have a listing for as a
mistress or dominatrix you would say something like this. “This is Mistress
**user name**, what kind of slave are you?”. This greeting wouldn't
require the name of the customer because as a mistress, every customer is
a slave, or a worthless piece of **fill in the blank**.

As a submissive greeting a good starter would be “Hello Master, how can I

please your cock today?” Now of course these are some examples and you
are free to venture off and make each of those greetings your own, but if
you need a starting point, those are perfect. Let's move on to the actual
conversation. Since these phone sex conversations can go in an infinite
amount of ways, I'll just give you some pointers from my personal
experience.

Going with the first greeting: “Hi, this is **my user name**, I'm so glad
you called. What's your name?” I will typically be the one to lead the
conversation as much as possible unless you sense that the customer wants
to lead. After I get their name, I like to repeat it in the next few sentences
as much as possible so that I can remember it for the duration of the call.

When you use their name during the call, you are sealing in their mind that
you guys are very familiar with one another and with phone sex, this gives
the illusion that in reality sex with you is possible. Because if you think
about it, you are more likely to have sex with a person whose name you
know.

Here is an example: “Oh Peter, I'm so glad you called, you know Peter, I
just stepped out of the shower and I'm wet all over. Can you dry me off
Peter?” Here's another example: “Hey Mike, I'm glad you called, How was
your day Mike? Did you do anything fun today Mike?” I like to ask the
customer how their day went because this is the easiest way to get
your call to 3-5 minutes without talking about anything sexual.

Another way to prolong the call is to get them to describe each action they
want in detail as well as repeating their requests back to them in question
form. Example:

Customer: “If I were there with you, I would take my thick 9.5 inches of
white meat and pound you from the back so hard and good.”
You: “Oh really **customer name**, I love the way that sounds, would I
be on all fours- doggy style **customer name**?”
Customer: “Oh yes, I'm going to give you this hard cock doggy style, I bet
you'd like that you kinky slut.”
You: “I would love that **customer name**, please give it to me hard
doggy style, are you going to pull my hair too?”
Customer: “I'm going to walk you my slutty little bitch as I pull your hair
as your leash.”

Sometimes you will get a call and the quality of the customer's line isn't
that great. If that happens you are going to have to do you best to ask the
customer to either speak up, repeat what they have said or ask them to call
back. I would never risk the last option, because chances of them calling
back are slim to none, especially if they are not a repeat customer. When
you get a call like that, do your best to ask the customer to speak up, but I
wouldn't ask them more than twice during a call so that they don't get
frustrated and hang up which will cost you money, and some might even go
as far as to leave you a bad review. Do your best to avoid bad reviews as
much as possible.

If you ever encounter a request that the caller wants and you're not familiar
with it, just re-state it in question form and ask them for details.

For example:

Customer: “Mistress, I want you to humiliate me.”

You: “I bet you do, tell me about the last time someone humiliated you.”
Hang ups are a part of being a phone sex operator. There is no getting
around it. But for the most part, when a customer hangs up on you, don't
get your panties in a bunch because sometimes you received the call by
mistake. Customers are human and 8 out of 10 times the callers are horny
men, and with that in mind, they might miss-dial especially if their other
hand is busy.

Now after every call, go ahead and log into your Niteflirt account and send
your caller a “thanks for calling message”. Make sure to include “can't wait
for you to call again” and add a personal touch with a free naughty photo
(which is completely optional, not mandatory at all-but if the caller just
spent $50+ on you, definitely consider it.). You can probably even squeeze
out some extra money by sending a pay-to-view request with a picture of
some creamy or wet panties with the caption “you did this to me during our
call”. Again optional, and it doesn't have to be your panties.

Men are visual beings and the more you can be visual with your customers,
the more money they will spend with you. When sending your customer a
message after a call, ask for a review (if they didn't leave one) so that it
will help your overall ratings and rankings on NF. The more stars you can
get under each call listing, the more potential callers you will get.
 Other Tidbits to Note:

Phone sex is mostly about getting the caller to cum. That is why they called
you, to get off. So always remember that you're playing a part in his sexual
fantasy and there is no script. Be quick on your feet and get comfortable
with how the conversation is going. Chances are, no 2 calls will ever be the
same. Don't be afraid to say the first kinky things that comes to mind. More
often than not, it will turn them on. Also do your best to follow their lead. I
can't tell you how many times I've barely talked and the guy did all the
work for me.

I should also mention, even though the goal of the call is to get the caller
off, try your best to prolong the sexual aspect of the conversation as long
as possible unless you notice the caller getting impatient. You want to make
sure you can milk him for as much money as possible.

The big difference from an amateur pso and a veteran pso is that the
veteran has an arsenal of items at the ready to make sure the caller has the
best experience. Having a few toys at the ready is a great way to have the
caller become a regular. Men love noises that make them believe you are
actually really into the conversation just like the are. So using a vibrator
against your cheek to amplify the sound is a great way to get them excited.
No vibrator? Use an electric toothbrush. Also using various items like
lollipops, ring pops, are great for sucking an licking sound effects. Use a jar
of jelly (specifically for phone sex use only) to make the caller hear how wet
your pussy is.
 ***Important***
Never talk about things that you could get arrested for in real life:
(bestiality, child pornography, drugs, incest (including in-laws or anyone
related to you by marriage), necrophilia, rape, sex with minors and
molestation.) Also refer to NiteFlirts help section to keep up with their rules
and restrictions on topics that are not allowed.
 Chapter 10: Keeping Repeat Callers

As you get deeper into your phone sex journey, you'll quickly realize that
the bulk of your monthly income will come from repeat customers
(regulars) that just cannot get enough of you. You have serenaded them
with your sultry voice and they are addicted and at your mercy. If you can
manage to get at least 30-90 of these customers to be your regulars, you
are an instant millionaire.

But let's be honest, right off the bat, it's unlikely for you to have an arsenal
of that many repeats. Even so do not fret, for the 2-5 that you gain once
you become a flirt, be sure to take really good care of them. Because just
having 2-5 repeats could mean a steady income of $200-$500 on a monthly
basis. So how should you take care of them? With giveaways and other
trinkets of course.

NiteFlirt allows you to do giveaways at your discretion. When the time is

right, and the customer truly deserves it, you can giveaway free minutes so
that way the customer gets a “discount” sort to speak for their on-going
patronage with you. (I also use free minutes if I missed a customer's
call.) Along with free minutes, you can give away freebies like naughty pics
of yourself, mp3 clips that you've customized especially for them and as
well as teaser videos if you're into that kind of stuff.

Going above and beyond for your repeat customers is an excellent way to
show them that you truly do appreciate their loyalty (especially If a
customer ends up spending $500-$1000 over a period of time) and will also
ensure that you have an edge over the other flirts that may not be doing
what you are. Also feel free to let your repeats know when your birthday is
so they can surprise and spoil you with items from your Amazon Wish list,
Gift Cards and even NF tributes.

Even before you get in over your ahead and you realize that you have a
steady 20-50 customers calling you for phone sex, sometimes it'll be hard
to keep up with who is who. We're only human, so NiteFlirt gives you to
tools that will help you take notes on each customer after a call so
that way you can always reference it during a call.

So if one customer likes a certain position you can make them feel special
by recalling the last time you both had phone sex and say something like
“Oh Peter, last week you made my pussy so wet when you had me face
down and ass up, can you fuck me hard like that again?” Being able to
recall such explicit details will not only turn Peter on, but he will fall deeper
into the illusion that you both are really sexually intimate.
 Chapter 11: Giving More than Just Phone Sex

I really enjoy being a Flirt/PSO with NiteFlirt.com. They not only give you so
many options to maximize your earnings when it comes to phone sex. But it
doesn't stop there. Not only can you earn great income with live phone sex
and through messages you send your customers. You can also earn income
when you are not available to take calls. NF allows you to create a library of
merchandise that you can sell while you are away living your life. You can
actually record yourself having a one-way phone chat.

By doing this, you allow potential customers to purchase a sample of what a

live conversation with you would be like, and also give your repeat
customers their daily dose of you while you can't be actively on the phone
with them. Not only can you record your steamy phone conversations, but
you can also sell your kinky fetish videos and sexually explicit videos. You
can do this by linking out from your NF profile or call listings and leading
the customer to your own personal site, or where ever your videos are
located.

Now of course, not everyone that gets into phone sex is going to be
comfortable putting themselves out like that, and that is fine, these are just
other avenues that are available if you choose to venture off. Most PSO
veterans don't like leaving any kind of money on the table, so if they can
monetize something they will not hesitate to charge the customer a pretty
penny for whatever it is. Many flirts also sell access to their social media
accounts. Its quiet easy to get your customers to buy into your social media
profiles once you've captivated them. So go ahead and sell your Instagram,
Snapchat and Skype usernames. PSO's are charging any where from $1 to
as much as $10 to gain access to them on different online platforms.

The average I've seen flirts charging for a Skype is between $3-$5. So just
on the low end, if you get 20 new customers that purchase your Skype user
name for $3 you're looking at $60-$100 potential monthly income without
even including your live phone sex earnings. (That alone gives you a great
return on the money you spent on this book...ijs.)
 Chapter 12: Marketing, Promotions & Consultations

Remember early on when I said that you'll need to pull your weight if you
decide to use NiteFlirt as your main source of phone sex money? Well, I'll
give you a bit more options into how you can market and promote your new
found phone sex services. Now the difference between PSO's that
make a lot of money and a little bit of money is one thing. Self
branding.

If you are like me and you've made the clear decision that you are never
going back to working for an asshole boss, dealing with bumper to bumper
traffic and missing out on the milestones your children achieve, then you
must take being a phone sex operator seriously. Because at the end of the
day, when your asshole boss decides to cut your hours or even let you go,
he/she will not care if you need to pay your bills, feed your kids and keep a
roof over your head.

With that said, that is what fuels me to go above and beyond as a phone
sex operator. I refuse to ever let my child's welfare hang on the decision of
someone else who will tell me what I'm worth. OK, moving on from my little
emotional rant, branding yourself as a phone sex operator isn't as hard as
you might think. Especially when using NiteFlirt, all the tools are pretty
much included once you've been accepted. But here a few things I'll
recommend for newbies.

1. Have an attractive and pleasing profile on NF. That is your first

impression to new customers in most cases and you want to make it a
 good one. So if need be, learn a few HTML coding for web design or
send me an email: [email protected] if you want me to “pimp it
out”. (Use that as your subject line.)
2. Be willing to put yourself out there. I would never tell anyone to
brand themselves under their real birth name when it comes to this
industry, but whatever your username is on NF, make sure you use it
everywhere that you want your customers to follow you. That way
they can tell you apart from all the fake profiles. (That really happens
when you've created a name for yourself- just think about how many
fake celebrity social media accounts there are these days).
3. Be willing to make videos. Now I'm not talking about porn videos,
or solo masturbation videos-which by the way sell really well if you
have nice little following. But teaser videos that give potential
customers a sample of what your services are. Many people are
camera shy, so if you don't have the guts to get in front of the
camera, just make a text and image slide show presentation with
PowerPoint and do a voice over so the viewers can hear your voice.
4. Post to classified sites like Craigslist.com and Backpage.com. There
are too many horny men in the world that use these sites to look for
sexual encounters. So with sex on the brain, they are your ideal
customers.
5. Business cards never go out of style. Feel free to print yours out
from a site like Vistaprint.com, they are always doing promos on bulk
business cards. Go out to a few bars and lounges and subtly leave
them where your customers will find them. One PSO told me she
would go to any establishment that had a mens bathroom and she
would just open the door and throw the business cards in there.
Sounds funny? But it works, she's averaging $5,000 a month as a
 phone sex operator.
6. As I mentioned before, social media marketing is great. You can
use tools like Hootsuite.com that allows you to schedule out your
posts from various social media accounts. This way you don't have to
manually Tweet several times a day. You have a life to live. So why
not automate things when the option is available.
7. Lastly forums, just do a Google search “Adult Forums, Fetish Forums,
Sex Forums”, “ or any relate search term, and you will be bombarded
with a boatload of forums that you can sign up to and recruit new
customers. But be sure to read their rules about self promotion and
affiliate links (NiteFlirt.com will pay you $50 for each new customer
you refer), a lot of these forums are extremely strict with their
advertising policies.

As with most things in life, we generally go through 3 stages when learning

something new.

1. Stage 1: Acquire the Proper Knowledge: For the majority of you

reading, many of you have either never dabbled in phone sex or even
thought it was possible to get paid to have phone sex by working
from home. With this new found knowledge, you have just armed
yourself with a new source of income. You can now “potentially” make
some money since you are aware of phone sex but that isn't enough
going forward.
2. Stage 2: Devising the right Strategy: All successful people make sure
they develop a strategy that will allow them to achieve their new
found goals. Without this strategy, you just have a plan and there is a
big difference between the two. You see, a strategy is what you want
 to do to reach your end goals. A plan shows you how to move from
point A to point B which will support your strategy and ultimately help
you get you to where you want to be.
3. Stage 3: Going ahead with Execution: I will be honest here, this last
step is usually the hardest for most people, and this step alone is why
there are two groups of people in the world 2% and the 98%. The 2%
of people have mastered this stage and this is one major reason why
they are truly successful in all their endeavors. So don't just sit home
with the new knowledge of phone sex. Put this manual to work in you
life and grow your finances, but you have to take immediate ACTION!

In other words, once you acquired knowledge and devised the right
strategy you're literally just moments away from success in anything you
do, but you actually have to take action-consistent action! So what does
that mean for you? It means once you've read the very last words, GET
STARTED, TAKE ACTION, MAKE MOVES-RINSE and REPEAT!

***As a bonus...for purchasing and finishing this book. I'd like to hear
from you and help you get started with your new journey as a phone sex
operator. But there is a catch. You need to take the first step and email me
here: [email protected] with the subject “Im serious about taking
action”. For every one who does and writes an honest review of this book,
they will get added to my super secret Facebook group so they can mingle
with all the other ladies who also started with their phone sex journeys.***

But all in all, you have been fully equipped with the tools you need to
succeed in phone sex. I really wish, this book was available for me when I
first started. It would have saved me a lot of guesswork and a lot of
frustration. So thankfully, I've taken action and I've compiled my learned
knowledge so that I can share it with you. Happy huh?

Niteflirt may not be for you, if you are more comfortable working for a call
center that is okay too. Just know that your pay will be a lot lower, but the
call volume will more than make up for it. So go ahead and do your own
research and apply to other phone sex companies. One advantage you have
is this manual, consider it your secret weapon to high call times.
Private Sessions: I offer Phone Sex Consultations! After reading this
book thoroughly, email me so I can add you to our Facebook Group,
and we can also setup a day and time for your phone consultation.
Each PSO that has done their consultation with me has gone on to
make $3k+ in their 1st 90 days phone boning. My consults are $199
and it includes the following:

Get 1.5 hour of Q&A- Ask me anything session!

1. Find out what kind of PSO you are to maximize your earnings
immediately.
2. Learn all my phone techniques that constantly keep me earning $50-
$100 an hour!
3. Find out some of my covert marketing techniques to get regular
clients.
4. Ask me what I write on my $20, $50 & $100 bills that gets me paid
BIG!
5. Learn strategic ways to keep your callers on the line longer so you get
higher payouts.
6. Find out what the sweet spot is when it comes to your per minute pay
rate.
7. Discover whether you are a submissive or dominate pso to lessen
your call hang ups.
8. Learn how to set up your pso profile without using your real picture to
get calls.
9. I'll let you in on different ways to earn money even during your off
days.
10. And so much more!
 Chapter 13: Helpful Links, Resources and Phrases

http://Niteflirt.com
http://SimilarWeb.com
http://Clips4Sale.com
http://FetLife.com
http://SoundCloud.com
http://Craigslist.com
http://Backpage.com
http://HootSuite.com
http://Vistaprint.com
http://Pornhub.com
http://ManyVids.com
http://Chaturbate.com
http://Myfreecams.com
http://Collarspace.com
https://CuckoldMarriage.info/
http://FindaMunch.com
http://Dominatrixguide.com/domguide.htm
http://humansexmap.com
 Websites to Sign up as a Phone Sex Actress:

Niteflirt.com: In order to get started as a PSO on this site, you'll need to

sign up and click on “Become a Flirt”. Then choose the “create new listing”
option. Once there you'll just follow the steps.
iFriends.net: This site gives you the option of web camming as well as
taking calls. Great if you are very comfortable being in the nude. (I was
also a cam girl, so if you want to explore this option and have any
questions, feel free to ask me in the Facebook group.)
TalktoMe.com: A competitor of Niteflirt.com, I've heard good things, they
have some decent traffic and a lot of NF flirts can be found on their site.
 Get Paid to "Sext" :

Niteflirt.com: Recently (As of Late 2017) Now has text/chat options. Pays
$0.46/per volley (msg sent from customer-*at the time of writing)
ExtraLunchMoney.com: This site allows you to sell texting, skype shows,
cam shows, videos and pics.
ManyVids.com: This site primarily focuses on selling videos, so if you are
open minded and don't mind being on video, this site will help you earn
really good money. The models who sell text messaging on here use KiK or
Snapchat.
 Other phone sex (or related) companies that hire
(Sorry, I cannot vouch for them-Do your own research)

AdultPhoneJobs.co.uk
AdultStaffing.com
LipService.net
PhoneStars.com
PSOJob.com
PhoneSex-Moms.com/aboutus.php
Phonesexop.com
Phone-Sex-Employement.org
PhoneEntertainers.net
SexyJobs.com
Telepayusa.com
WeCanHireYou.com
VirtualSexWork.com
 Setting the Scene with Phone Sex:

1. Public Place (Beach, Library, Zoo)

2. More than one partner (Swingers Club)
3. Risky environment. (Likelihood of getting caught is high)
4. Out in Nature. (The park, the woods, out on the lake)
5. Being sexually dominated unexpectedly.
6. Being sexually dominating towards your partner.
7. Role playing (being a celebrity or fictional character)
8. Bring objects into the mix (food, toys or articles of clothing)
9. Going through various kama sutra sex positions.
10. Same gender sex

How to Fake an Orgasm over the Phone:

1. Think back to your last orgasm and reference that. Everyone orgasms
differently. But there is how I do it over the phone.
2. When the phone call is nearing the end and the caller wants me to
cum for him, I gradually increase the pace of my breathing while
slowing down the words I say to him. As I end each word I am
simultaneously moaning and gasping.
3. Then I rinse and repeat and get louder and louder.
4. Finally I make a “I'm releasing sound” with a slow “hmm baby that
was sooo good, you made me cum so hard.” Or at least something
close.
5. Always remember to have fun, and practice makes perfect!
 How to Give Blow jobs (fellatio, head, or oral)

1. Set the scene: (In the kitchen, car, bathroom, at a party, at his
parents house, at a wedding etc...)
2. Give him different sensations: (you just sipped on ice cold water,
gulped some hot coffee, a peppermint is in your mouth, you have ice
cube chunks in your mouth.) Keep your mouth wet and moist and you
lips soft and warm.
3. Take Action: Use your warm manicured hands, stroke is thighs, caress
his balls, lick his balls, tease his nipples, grab his hips, stroke with
one hand, hold firm with the other hand at the bottom of his shaft on
top of his balls and your warm wet mouth covers the tip of his cock
and follows the gliding motion of the stroking hand.
4. Action continued: Flatten your tongue on the back side of his penis,
and firmly move down his shaft until you reach his balls. Flick them in
a circle with your tongue. Slide back up his dick and pull away to kiss
his belly.
5. Be sure to mention how your jaw is locking up, and your cheeks are
sore because your sucking his cock so hard. Don't forget to mention
how you'd like him to cum in your mouth so you can swallow his load.
 40 Handy Phrases for a Call

1. Hmm... I hope your cock is hard

2. How bad do you want to fuck me?
3. Do you want to fuck me?
4. I want to ride that big cock now!
5. Hmm....(caller name) do you have your cock in your hand?
6. I love the way you feel inside of me
7. I love the way you fill up my tight pussy
8. I love the way your thick cock spreads my pussy open
9. My pussy is so wet, do you want to taste?
10. Can I be your fuck slut?
11. Can I be your cum bucket?
12. Sounds like you need your dick sucked.
13. My pussy is throbbing and begging for your cock.
14. Do you like the way my tongue feels on the tip of your cock?
15. Fuck my mouth good baby.
16. I'm going to sit on your face and drown you with my pussy
juices.
17. I want to be your dirty little office slut
18. Hmm... I love being your dirty little whore
19. You want me to spread my ass so you can fuck me doggy... (moan
yes)
20. I'm rubbing on my clit because I'm ready for you to fuck me
deep.
21. I'm your slutty little whore Master.
22. I want to ride your cock as you grab my titties.
23. I just can't wait to cum for you
24. I bet you want to titty fuck me with that hard cock.
25. Hmm...YES! Finger my tight little cunt so deep.
26. I want to wrap my warm tongue around that cock and make you
ooze pre-cum.
27. Tell me how bad you want me
28. Hmm...Yes! Fuck me in my ass and pull my hair.
29. I want you to fuck me so hard that the neighbors call the cops.
30. What dirty things do you want to do to me?
31. Where do you want to cum?
32. How does my pussy taste?
33. Tell me all your dirty little thoughts.
34. Hmm...Baby that was great, I've got to go clean up now (how
to end the call).
35. OMG You are soo BIG!
36. I want you to shoot your load over my big ole titties.
37. I want you to titty fuck me so good.
38. Slip and slide in that pussy.
39. You turn me on so badly.
40. Ho do you want me to cum for you?
 Learning the BDSM Terminology:

1. A Sub (submissive) is addressed as Slave, Scum, Loser, Bitch or

whatever the “Dom” (dominant) desires. The entire existence of a
Sub is to worship, obey and make the Dom happy.
2. A Dom is addressed as (Mistress, or Goddess.)
3. A male Dom is addressed as Master or Sir. (He can also decide if he
wants to be called something else.)
4. Not all Masters and Mistresses are mean/cruel to their Subs.
5. Some common requests from a Dom are: (boot licking, household
chores, sex servitude, cross dressing for entertainment, and asking
them to do something impossible so they can punish them for not
completing the task.)
6. Rewarding the Sub is also common practice. (Let them touch their
body, rub their feet, bathe them or have oral sex with them.)
7. ***Important *** During any session, do not request the caller to
inflict permanent injury, that will cause pain, bleeding of any body
part, asphyxiation, piercings or any permanent body damage.
 Example Call:

Sub: Hello Mistress

You: Hello Slave, what dirty things have you been up to?
Sub: I've been stroking my cock today without your permission Mistress
You: That's grounds for punishment Slave, are you ready to serve me well
today?
Sub: Yes, Mistress, How can I serve you?
You: I want to dress you up really pretty today. In a pink tuto and some
black heels. I'll also put a collar around your neck so everyone can know
that your my slutty slave.
Sub: Yes if that is what you want.
You: Yes Who?
Sub: Yes Mistress, Sorry Mistress
You: Now you know I have to punish you right?
Sub: Yes Mistress, I messed up Mistress.
You: Now I have to get my paddle and turn that slutty ass of yours hot
pink as you prance around in your pink tutu.
 12 Example Ways to Humiliate a Small Penis:

1. Are you president of the itty bitty dicky committee?

2. Toddler penis gang
3. Where is the rest of it?
4. Issa shrimp dick
5. I thought you were showing me your thumb.
6. Ha! My clit is bigger.
7. Nothing worse than your pubes being longer than your penis.
8. This is what happens when you over cook sausage
9. Vienna sausage looking dick
10. Did you file for disability? You'll def qualify.
11. I didn't ask to see your thumb
12. Condoms aren't made that small.
 Final Words From the Author

So what's next for you? Well Sign up to NiteFlirt.com of course. Or if you

don't want to go with NF, that is cool too. Do a Google Search for “phone
sex operator jobs” and one by one go through and apply. But make sure
you get their stats from SimilarWeb.com to make sure they are worth your
time and effort. A good rule of thumb, if the site can't keep their visitors
browsing for at least 5-7 minutes, don't bother with them.

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