Self Management Skills Notes - II
Self Management Skills Notes - II
Self-Management Skill
Self-awareness :
Ask for honest feedback. Think about your daily interactions and how you
handled situations well or could have handled them differently.
Responsibility :
Stay current with best practices and read up on new information always.
Prepare yourself for new changes, so that you can transition seamlessly.
Stress Management
What is Stress ?
Stress can be defined as our emotional, mental, physical and social reaction to
any perceived demands or threats.
Stressors are the reason for stress.
Stress is a part of everyday life. There are many instances when stress can be
helpful.
The stress created by assignment deadline can motivate you to finish the
assignment on time. But when experienced in excess or for a long period of time,
stress can harm our emotional and physical health,
The ultimate goal is to strike a balance between life, work, relationships,
relaxation and fun.
ABC of stress management
Step 1 – Be aware that you are stressed. (Signs of Stress such as Headache)
Step 2 – Identify what is causing you stress. (Find the Reason for stress)
Step 3 – Apply stress management methods (Take time to relax)
Management Techniques
Time Management
Physical exercise and fresh air
Healthy diet
Positivity
Organizing academic life, no delaying
Sleep (7-8 Hours)
Holidays with family and friends
Ability to Work Independently
If you can become a calm and relaxed person, you will be have the ability to work
independently, which means.
Emotional Intelligence is the ability to identify and manage one’s own emotions, as well
as the emotions of others. It is generally said to include at least three skills :
Emotional Awareness : The ability to identify & name one’s own emotions.
Harnessing emotions : The ability to harness & apply emotions to tasks like
thinking & problem solving.
Managing emotions : The ability to regulate one’s own emotions when necessary
& help others to do the same.
Being self-aware means that you can identify your strengths & weaknesses. Self-
awareness, therefore, will help you in converting your weakness into strength & strength
into an exceptional talent.
Knowing yourself
Techniques for Identifying strengths & weaknesses
Finding Strength – Think of anything that you are always successful at.
Finding Weaknesses – Point out the things you find difficult to do.
Difference Between Interests and Abilities
Interests – Things that you like to do in your free time that make you happy.
Things you want to learn or would like to do in the future.
Abilities – An acquired or natural capacity. Enable you to perform a particular job
or task with considerable proficiency.
Self – Motivation
Self- Motivation is simply the force within you that drives you to do things.
Self- Motivation is what pushes us to achieve our goals, feel happy and improve
our quality of life.
In other words, it is our ability to do the things that need to be done without
someone or something influencing us.
Types of Motivation
Internal Motivation – We do things because they make us happy healthy & feel
good. Such as dancing, singing etc.
External Motivation – We do things because they give us respect, recognition &
appreciation. Ex. Vedant participate in a 100m race and won a prize. This
Motivated him to go for practice every morning.
Qualities of Self Motivated People
Goals are set of dreams with a deadline to get them. Ex. I want to complete my class
10th syllabus till mid-Jan.
Goal Setting is all about finding and listing your goals and then planning on how to
achieve them.
Specific – Goals should be well – defined and clear. They should answer the
“What”, and “How” questions.
Measurable – Goals should have criteria or indicators that allow you to track
progress and determine when the goal is achieved.
Achievable – Breaking down big goals into smaller parts will make the goal
achievable.
Realistic – Goals should be realistic and attainable. Ensure that your goals are
challenging but within reach.
Time bound – A SMART goal should have a timeframe by when the goal needs
to be achieved.
Time Management
Time management is the thinking skill that helps you to complete tasks on time. Make a
good guess at how long it will take you to do something. Make a daily timetable. Submit
homework and assignment on time. Not waste time during the day.
Organize
Prioritize
Control
Track