Personality
Personality
Personality
Personality :- The sum of total ways in which a person reacts which others. It refers to the set of
traits and patterns of thoughts, behavior and feeling that makes you.
Determinants of Personality:
Biological Factors:
Heredity: It means the transmission of the qualities from ancestor to descendant. Physical
stature, facial attractiveness, sex, Temperament, muscle composition etc are inherited from
one’s parents.
Brain: There is a general feeling that the brain plays an important role in the development
of one’s personality.
Physical features: An individual’s external appearance like height, weight, color, face
features etc may have a tremendous effect on his personality.
Family and social factors: The status of family in society influences an individual’s
perception about self, others, work, money etc. The family and social factors shape a
person’s personality through the process of socialization and identification.
Situational factors: An individual’s personality may change in different situation. The
demands of different situation call for different aspects of one’s personality.
Other Factors:
Temperament: Temperament is the degree to which one responds emotionally.A
Interest:
Character primarily means honesty.
Schema: It is an individual’s belief, frame of reference, perception and attitude that the
individual possesses towards management.
Passivity means behavior is controlled by external environment but in Activity controls its
behavior by itself.
Cheris Argyris’ Immaturity-Maturity theory:-
Cheris Argyris argued that the personality of an individual develops along a continuum from
immaturity as an infant to maturity as an adult. He identified seven characteristics in the
continuum as given in the following exhibit.
Agreeableness: It refers to a person’s ability to get along with others. High agreeableness
people value harmony more than they having their say or their way.
Emotional Stability: It focuses on an individual’s ability to cope with stress. The individual
with positive emotional stability tends to be calm, enthusiastic and secure.
Development of Personality:
Sigmund Freud:
The Oral Stage: It extends throughout the first year of life. The mouth is the body zone
through which biological drives are sought to be satisfied, e.g., thumb sucking by an infant
or biting when teeth erupt. The Freud said oral stimulation could lead to an oral fixation in
later life.
The Anal Stage: This stage is primarily related to developing healthy toilet training habits.
It makes him tidy and punctual. According to Freud, inappropriate parental responses can
result in negative outcomes. If parents take an approach that is too lenient then he
suggested that an anal-expulsive personality could develop in which the individual has a
messy, wasteful, or destructive personality.
The Phallic Stage: In this stage, a child becomes aware of gender differences. He or she
adopts the characteristics of the same-sex parent.
The latency period: Between the ages of six and the onset of adolescence, there is a
latency period. During this period the child loses interest in sexual matters and seeks the
gratification of the libido from the external world, curiosity, knowledge and so on.
Genital Period: Adolescence child had mature feelings and experiences pleasures from
sexual relationship with others.
Criticisms:
1. Lack of Empirical Evidence: Freud’s psychosexual stages were primarily based on his
clinical observations and case studies, rather than rigorous empirical research.
2. Overemphasis on Sexuality: Freud’s theory places significant emphasis on sexual
development and libido as the primary driving force behind human behavior.
3. Ethical concerns: Freud’s theories, particularly his emphasis on the role of early
childhood experiences and unconscious desires, have been criticized for their potential to
blame victims on trauma and overlook social and environmental factors that contribute to
psychological development.
4. Age-centric approach: Freud’s stages are linear and rigidly tied to specific age ranges,
which critics argue may not accurately reflects the complexities of human development.
5. Limited focus on later development: Freud’s theory primarily concentrates only
childhood development, particularly up to the age of five or six. It provides limited sights.
Erikson Stages:
Erikson criticized the heavy emphasis given by Freud on the sexual and biological factors
in developing personality. He felt that relatively more attention should be given to social
factors. Erikson was interested in how social interaction and relationships played role in
the development and growth of human beings. If people successfully deal with the conflict,
they emerge from the stage with psychological strength that will serve them for their lives.
If they fail to deal effectively with these conflicts, they may not develop the essential skills
needed for a strong sense of self.
Infancy: During the first year of life, a child resolves the basic crisis of trust vs mistrust. An
infant who is cared for in an affectionate way learns to trust other people.
Early Childhood: In the second and third years of life, a child begins to assert
independence. If the child is allowed to control these aspects of life that the child is
capable of controlling, a sense of autonomy will develop.
Play age: the four and five year olds seek to discover just how much they can do. If a child
is encouraged to experiment and achieve reasonable goals, he will develop a sense of
initiative.
School Age: from ages 6 to 12, a child learns many new skills and develops social
abilities. If a child experiences real progress at a rate compatible with his abilities he or she
will develop a sense of enterprise.
Adolescence: The crisis of the teenage years is to gain a sense of identity rather than to
become confused about who you are.
Early adulthood: The young adult during the twenties faces the crisis of intimacy isolation.
The sense of identity developed during the teenage years allows the young adult to begin
developing deep and lasting relationship.
Adulthood: During this stage, the adult face the crisis of generativity versus self-
absorption. Self-absorbed person ever develop an ability to look beyond themselves.
Mature adulthood: The person is developed as a highly mature person. He has gained a
sense of wisdom and perspective that can really guide the younger generations.
Socialization Theory: Person-Situation Interaction
Every situation is different and employees act or behave differently according to the
dominating situation. The differences may seem to a very small or the surface but when
filtered by person’s cognitive process, they can lead to quite large subjective difference
and diverse behavior outcomes. According to socialization theory, people are not static,
acting in the same way in all situation but instead are ever-changing and flexible.
Self-esteem: The way a person views the world depends a great deal on the self-concept
or image he has about himself. It reflects an individual’s degree of liking or disliking of self.
People with high self-esteem believe that they possess the ability they need to be
successful in their jobs.
Locus of control: it refers to an individual’s belief that events are either within one’s
control or determined by forces under one’s control. The people who believe that they
control their destinies are called internal where those who see their lives is being
controlled by outside forces is externals.
Authoritarianism: It refers to a belief that there should be status and power differences
among people in organisations. It tends to place high moral values on their beliefs and are
strongly orientated towards conformity to rules and regulations. It is likely to prefer
autocratic or directive leadership and would exhibit high respect for individual in positions
of authority.
Machiavellianism: Machiavellianism is personality trait that denotes cunningness, the
ability to be manipulative and a drive to use whatever means necessary to gain power. It is
one of the traits that for the dark Triad, along with narcissism and psychopathy. People
with high Machiavellianism manipulate more win more, are persuaded less and persuades
others more than do people with low Machiavellian.
Introversion and Extroversion: extroversion are gregarious and social individuals while
introverts are shy quiet and retiring.
Type A and Type B personality: People who are impatient, aggressive and highly
competitive are termed type A personality. But those who easy doing laid-back and non-
competitive are termed type B personality.
Perception
Perception is a belief or opinion often held by many people and based on how things seem.
Every person perceives the world and approaches life problems differently. The opinion
about ad the evaluation of a particular event differ from person to person. The reason is that
people behave on the basis of what they perceive reality to be and not necessarily as what
reality is. That is why perception is one of the most important psychological factors affecting
human behavior.
Nature of perception: Perception is the intellectual process though which a person selected
the data from the environment, originates it, and obtains meaning from it. Perception is a
basic cognitive psychological process. The manner in which a person perceives the
environment affects his behavior. Thus, people’s actions, emotions, feelings are triggered by
the perception of the surroundings.
Perception is a subjective process and different people may perceive the same
environmental event differently based on what particular aspects of the situation they choose
to absorb, how they organize this information and the manner in which they interpret it to
obtain an understanding of the situation.
Difference between Sensation and Perception
Sensation refers to the process of sensing our environment though touch, taste, sight, sound
and smell. As a result of the stimuli, we receive though these sensory organs from our
environment our sensory receptors get stimulated and send this information to our brain thus,
this process is known as sensation. After our five senses receives several stimuli that are
sent to our brain as nerve impulses, our brain interprets those impulses as a visual image,
sound, taste, odour, touch, or pain then perception creates in mind. Therefore, perception is
the indication of how and what a person thinks about his or her surroundings, and as a result
of how he or she understands and looks at the world.
Perception Process:
Inputs: The perceiver comes across information, objects, events, people etc. in the
environment. These serve as the inputs of the perceptual process. Thus, perceptual inputs
encompass all stimuli that exist in the environment.
Perceptual Mechanisms: when the perceiver receives information, he tries to process it
though the sub-processes of selection, organization and interpretation.
Output: as a result of the perceptual process, the outputs that the individual gets are
changes in attitudes, beliefs, feelings, opinions etc.
Behavior: The perceiver’s behavior is shaped by the perceived output.
Perceptual Defence
It lays down an individual is likely to put a defence when confronted with some conflicting,
unacceptable or threating stimuli.
Outright denial: when the perceiver refuses the stimuli or information and sticks to his
perception.
Modification of data received: When the perceiver attaches another information to the
existing stimuli In order to give meaning to his existing perception or to justify his perception.
MOTIVATION
Motivation is the willingness of a person to make intense and persistent efforts to achieve
desired goals. Any idea, need or emotion that prompts a man into action. It can be known by
studying his needs and desire. It explains how and why human behavior is caused.
Nature of Motivation
Motivation is a personal and internal feeling. Motivation is a psychological phenomenon
which generates within an individual. Motives are the energetic forces within a person that
drives him to action.
Motivation produces goal directed behavior. It is a behavior concept that directs human
behavior towards certain goals.
Motivation is continuous process. Human needs are unlimited. Therefore, motivation is an
ongoing process.
Motivation is complex. Individuals differ in their motivation. Different people seek different
things or they work for different reasons. Moreover, goal-directed behavior does not always
lead to need satisfaction.
Motivation is system oriented. A person cannot be partly motivated. Motivation can be either
positive or negative. Motivation is different from job satisfaction.
Important of motivation
Higher Efficiency, Low absenteeism and turnover, Facilitates change, Human relations,
Corporate Image
Approaches of Motivation:
(1) Cognitive Models: (a) Content theories (b) Process Theories
(2) Non-Cognitive or Reinforcement Model
Content Theories: What motivates people?. The focus is on human needs and desires that
are internalized and give impetus to individual behavior. They suggest that manager
recognize the pattern of needs of individuals and then encourage behavior that results in
satisfying those needs. The unsatisfied needs of individuals are the starting point of
motivation. These theories are Maslow’s Need Hierarchy Theory, ERG Theory, Herzberg’s
Two Factors Theory, McClelland’s Theory of needs.
Based on the assumption that people Based on the assumption that people
are basically lazy and so shirk work like work as children like play
People do not take initiative. They like to People like to take initiative. They seek
be directed. self- direction.
People avoid responsibility whenever People assume responsibility gladly if
possible condition are favourable
For getting things done, people must be People do not require close and strict
supervised closely and strictly supervision for performing their jobs.
Autocratic style of leadership is likely to be Democratic or participative style of
more effective. leadership is likely to more effective
Applicable to illiterate, unskilled and lower Applicable to educated and skilled
level workers employee who occupy higher position in
the organization
Believe in mental sickness and so negative Believes in mental health and so positive
motivation of employees and intrinsic motivation of employees
Ouchi’s theory Z:
William Ouchi developed theory Z after making a comparative study of Japanese and
American management practices. A type Z organization has three major features: Trust,
Subtlety, Intimacy. Mutual trust between members of an organization reduces conflict and
leads to teamwork. Subtlety requires sensitivity towards others and yields higher productivity.
Intimacy implies concern, support, and disciplined unselfishness.
Mutual trust: mutual trust between employees, supervisors, work groups, unions and
management. A strong bond between organization and employees. Employees involvement.
Integrated organization:
Coordination:
Informal control system:
Human resource development:
Criticism of Ourchi’s Theory: Provision of lifetime employment to employees to develop a
strong bond between the organization and employees may fail to motivate employees with
higher-level needs. It merely provides job security and may fail to develop loyalty among
employees. Participation of employees in the decision making process is very difficult.
Managers may dislike participation as it may hurt their ego and freedom. It suggests that an
organization without any structure. It may not be possible to develop a common culture in the
organization. Theory Z is based on Japanese model of management practices.
Equity Theory: The equity theory of motivation was formulated by J.S. Adams.
Assumptions: Employees of the organization experience strong expectations of justice,
balance, and fairness in treatment by the organization. Adverse effects on the person’s
motivation and performance on the job.
The equity theory of motivation helps in understanding both the causes and the likely
consequences of feelings of inequitable treatment among organization members.
Inputs: inputs are the efforts and skill that a member of an organization perceives that he
puts into his job.
Output: outputs are the rewards that the member receives from the organization and her job.
It is both financial and non-financial.
If input and output is equal there is no problem in the employees of the organization.
If the input and output ratios are in balance, the individual experiences positive feelings of
equity, fairness and justice. If they are not in balance feelings of inequity are generated in the
individual. If the ratio is less there is angry, hostile and frustrated among employees. When
ratio is more, a feeling of guilt in the individual.
There are four referent comparisons made by an employee.
Self-inside: An employee may compare his present position to a different position inside the
same organization.
Self-outside: an employee may compare his present position to a situation or position outside
the employee’s oragnisation.
Other inside: comparison with another individual inside the organization.
Other outside: Comparison with another individual outside the organization.
Six choices made in reference to any of the four situations are:
Changing inputs: The person may change his inputs to match his outcomes by lowering his
inputs (in the case of underpaid equity) or by increasing his inputs (in the case of overpaid
inequity).
Changing outputs: A person may attempt to change his outcomes by requesting a salary
raise or asking for a bigger office or a personal secretary.
Changing perceptions of inputs and outputs: a person who at first was feeling overpaid
in return for his input to the company could re-establish equity by distorting upward his own
inputs.
Changing the inputs or outcomes of others: the person may try to re-establish equity by
persuading the other persons to change their inputs or by changing his perception about the
inputs/outputs relationships of others.
Changing the comparison person: if comparing oneself with a specific person creates
feelings of equity, choosing someone else for comparison may result in avoid uncomfortable
feelings.
Leaving the situation: if a person perceives that he can’t get justice, she may seek transfer
to another department or location. In extreme cases, she may even leave the organisation.
LEADERSHIP
Leadership is the process of influencing the behavior of others to work willingly and
enthusiastically for achieving predetermined goals.it is the ability to induce subordinates to
work with confidence and zeal. It is the driving force which gets things done by others. A
leader interprets the objective of the people working under him and guides them towards the
achievement of those objectives. He also creates and sustains enthusiasm among them for
achieving organizational objectives.
Characteristics of Leadership
Leadership is a process of influence.
Leadership is related to a situation.
It is a function of stimulation.
Leadership gives an experience of helping attain the common objectives
A leader must have followers.
Leadership is working relationship between the leader and his followers.
A leader influences his followers willingly not by the force or coercion.
Importance of Leadership:
Setting goals in the organization.
Motivating employees.
Building Morale.
Creating Confidence.
Discipline.
Developing teamwork.
Facilitates Changes.
Manager VS Leader
Manager Leader
He drives and orders He coaches and advices
He depends on his authority He depends on his confidence and
goodwill
He engenders fear He inspires enthusiasm
He fixes blames and find faults He solves problem
He knows all the answers He consultant and seek advice
The work the work drudgery He makes the work a game
He believes “I”. He Belives in “we and you”
Formal Leader:
Formal leadership is a circumstance in which an individual is the officially recognized head of
a group or organization. The CEO of a corporation is an example of a formal leader. They
help to achieve organizational goals
Informal Leadership:
Informal leadership is when an individual does not have official status as a group’s leader,
but other group member see them as and consider them to be a leading force. Informal
leaders tend to be experienced and knowledgeable, so they’re the ones people seek for
answers and guidance. Often, they’ve earned the status of an informal leader by developing
strong relationships with the people around them and proving themselves, though actions to
be reliable and trustworthy. They help to satisfy individual goals with organizational goals.
Styles of Leadership:
It refers to a leader’s behavior. Behavioural patterns which the leaders reflect in his role as a
leader is often described as the style of leadership.
(a)Autocratic or authoritarian leader: The leader gives orders which must be obeyed by
the subordinates. He determines policies for the group without consulting them and does not
give detailed information about future plans, but simply tells the group what immediate steps
they must take. He gives personal praise or criticism to each member on his own initiative
and remains aloof from the group for the major part of the time. Thus, under this style, all
decision-making power is centralized in the leader, He does not give subordinated the
freedom to influence his behavior.
(b)Participative or Democratic leadership: This style is also called democratic,
consultative or ideographic. A demographic leader is one who gives instructions only after
consulting the group. He sees to it that policies are worked out in group discussions and with
the acceptance of the group. A participative manager decentralizes his decision-making
process. Instead of taking a unilateral decision, he emphasizes consultation and participation
of his subordinates.
Some advantage of participative LeadershiP: It increases the acceptance of
management’s ideas. It improves the attitude of employees towards their jobs and the
organization. It increase the cooperation between management and employees. It leads to a
reduction in the number of complaints and grievances. It increases the morale of the
employees.
Free Rein or Laissez Faire Leader: This type of leadership means giving complete
freedom to subordinates. In this style, the manager once determined the policy, programs
and limitations for actions and the entire process is left to subordinates group members
perform everything. This mode of direction can produce good and quick results if the
subordinates are highly educated and brilliant people who have a sincere desire to go ahead
and perform their responsibility.
Paternalistic Leadership: Under this, the leader assumes that his function is paternal or
fatherly. His attitude is that of treating the relationship between the leader and his group as
that of a family with the leader as the head of the completely. He works to help, guide,
protect, and keep his followers happily working together as members of a family. He provides
them with good working conditions fringe benefits and employee services.
Likert’s Management systems and Leadership: Linkert developed a four level of
leadership effectiveness. Exploitative authoritative < Benevolent authoritative< Consultative <
Participative Democratic.
(a) Exploitative authoritative: Managers make work their decision and order their
subordinates to carry them order. The communication is highly formal. The subordinates
have absolutely no say in any matter in the organization. Such managers are highly
autocratic and believe in threats and punishments to get things done. They follow strict
supervision over their subordinates.
(b) Benevolent Authoritative: it is also autocratic but they are not exploitative.
Subordinates who meet or exceed their goals may be rewarded. Thus, managers adopt a
patronizing or paternalistic attitude towards obedient and faithful subordinates. They are
very harsh with the subordinates who do not carry out their tasks. In other words,
motivation is governed by the carrot and stick policy under this system.
(c) Consultative Authoritative: Under this system, the managers set goals and issue
general order after discussing them with the subordinates. They take only major decisions
and leave the routine decision to be taken by the subordinates. Subordinates are free to
discuss work-related matters with their superiors. Thus, there exists two-way
communication in the organization. More emphasis is placed on rewards than on
punishments to motivate the subordinates.
(d) Participative (Democratic): The relations between the managers and subordinates
are cordial and friendly. The communication system is completely open. The goals are set
and work-related decisions are taken by the subordinates. The group approach is adopted
in supervision and control. The managers are very supportive in their attitude towards the
subordinates. They not only use economic rewards but also try to give their subordinates a
feeling of worth and importance.
Leadership Continuum:
The manager makes a decision and announces it.
The manager sells the decision.
The manager presents ideas and invites questions.
Management presents tentative decisions subject to change.
The manager presents problems, gets suggestions and take decisions.
The manager defines the limits and asks the group to make a decision.
Manager permits subordinates to function within the limits defined by him.
COMMUNICATION
Communication may be defined as an exchange of facts, idea, opinion, or emotions to
create mutual understanding. In the words of “Koontz and O’Donnell”, Communication is
an intercourse by words, letter, symbols, or message and is a way that one organization
member shares meaning and understanding with others. Communication is crucial for
management because the success of an enterprise depends on how effectively its employ
understand one another. Communication is a managerial skill which is essential for
effectively leading and motivating people at work.
Nature of Communication: It has two basic objectives. To transmit message, ideas or
opinions. To create an impression or understanding in the mind of the receiver of
information.
For communication feedback is crucial. It is not effective if it does not produce the desired
response.
Importance of effective Communication: As Chester Barnard remarked, ‘the first
executive function of management is to develop and maintain a system of communication.
Better planning, effective operations, decision making, controlling, motivation, better
human relations, coordination.
Two-way communication One-way communication
When receiver provides feedback to the Feedback is totally absent. A policy
sender. For instance, giving an instruction statement from the top executive is an
to a subordinate and receiving its example of one-way communication.
acceptance is an example of two-way
communication.
Principal of communication: 7c of communication- completeness, conciseness,
consideration (stepping into shoes of others), clarity, concreteness, courtesy, correctness.
Process of Communication:-
(a) Extra Personal Communication: Human beings interacts with non-human entities.
(b) Intrapersonal communication: Communication happens when we communicate with
ourselves.
(c) Interpersonal communication: When we taking a bunch of people.
(d) Organizational communication: Communication that happens within an organization is
termed organizational communication.
(e) Mass communication: When communication is with a large audience then it is termed
as mass communication.
Types of Communication:
(a) Formal Communication: Formal communication follow the route follow or laid down in
the organizational structure or enterprise. Communication is based on authority
relationship. There are four types of formal communication.
(1) Downward Communication: It represents the flow of information from the top level to
the lower level of the organization. The purpose is to communicate policies, procedures,
programs and objective and to issue order and instruction to the subordinates.
(2) Upward Communication: Upwards communication refers to the flow of communication
from lower level (subordinates) to higher levels (superiors) of authority. Feedback has
become all the more necessary due to the growing tendency towards delegation and
decentralization.
(3) Horizontal Communication: It implies the exchange of ideas and information among
people at the same level of authority. Such communication is helping coordinating the
activities of different department or divisions of the enterprise.
(4) Crosswise or diagonal communication: It means communication between persons who
are neither in the same department on the same level of organizational structure. It cuts
across departmental lines. It generally takes place when members cannot communicate
effectively through other channel.
(b) Informal communication: Informal communication or grapevine arises from the social
interactions of people. It is the expression of their natural motivation to communicate. Its
speed is very fast compared to formal communication.
Distortions may appear in the transmission of such message through the grapevine in the
form of rumours and gossip. When the employees are unable to communicate the
required information to higher authorities because of barriers then they may resort to
informal channels of communication.
Merits of Informal Communication: It helps in achieving better human relation in
organisations. It links even those people who do not fall into official chain of command. Its
speed is very fast as it is free from all barriers. It serves to fill the possible gaps in formal
communication.
Rumour is the most undesirable feature of the grapevine and it has given the grapevine
bad reputation. The best approach in dealing with rumours is to get its causes, rather than
try to kill them after it has started.
(c) Verbal Communication: Oral/Speech, Written. Language is used to communicate
emotional and feelings and to share information and meaning. Oral communication is a
medium of transmitting meaning by means of sounds produced by our vocal organs.
Writing is medium of transmitting ideas, information, meaning, etc by means of graphic
representation of sounds which are made on a surface using some tool of writing or by
typing on machines.
Why oral communication is most frequently used? We need not be literate to speak.
Human beings are born with a language acquisition device (LAD) which disposes them to
learn a language when they grow up on a social-cultural environment. It is faster and
economical.
(d) Non-Verbal Communication: Kinesics: movement of gesture body language to
communicate with each other. Proxemics- way of communicating through your distance
from other or the study of physical space in interpersonal relations. Proxemics has four
zones, intimate zone extends just to 18 inches (one and a half feet). Personal zone
stretches 18 inches to 4 feet. Social zone is radius of 4 feet to 12 feet, relationships are
more formal and official people are more cautious in their movements. The situation
involves less motivation and more planning. Public zones start from 12 feet and may
extend to 25 feet (politician).
Chronemics: The study of the use of time to communicate is known as chronemics. In the
professional world, time is a valuable resources.
Haptics: The language of touch for communication.
Paralanguage: it is the way meaning is conveyed by how we say things while speaking.
It includes speed of speaking, pitch, voice modulation, breaks or pauses.
Oculesics: it is the study of eye movement, behavior, gaze and eye-related non-verbal
communication.
Communication Network: formal communication networks are circle, chain, wheel, all
channel free and ‘Y ‘channel. Informal communication networks are single strand, gossip,
probability, Cluster.
Emotional Intelligence
Emotion is something what you are experience at a particular moment in a given situation.
Emotion is a subjective Feeling.
Positive emotions Negative emotions
Love/affection, Happiness/joy, Surprise Fear, sadness, Anger, disgust, shame
Intelligence is the ability to understand, learn and think.
Emotional intelligence: It is ability to understand, use and manage our own emotions in a
positive way to relives stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others and
overcome challenge. EI helps to build relationship with people. Emotional intelligence
refers to emotional awareness and emotional management skills which provides the ability
to balance emotion and reason so as to maintain long-term happiness.
Importance of Emotional Intelligence:
A High EQ --- Positive Feeling --- General Happiness
Low EQ --- Negative Feeling --- General Unhappiness
A high EQ --- High Perspective --- Behavior – Rational
A low EQ --- Wrong Perspective --- Behavior – not rational
A high EQ – Empathy
A low EQ – Self centered
Some myths about Emotional Intelligence: It is sometimes treated as being nice to
others which is not true. It does not mean giving free rein to feelings. There is a myth that
men have higher emotional intelligence than women. It is also myth that emotions
intelligence is fixed genetically and develops only in early childhood.
Goldman’s dimensions of Emotional Intelligence in the workplace:
Self-awareness: It is understanding self and knowledge of true feelings at the moment.
Self-Management: it means managing one’s own emotions.
Self-Motivation: To remain self-motivated and optimistic in any given situation.
Empathy: To feel the pain of others.
Social skills: These include the ability to read social situations and smoothness, in
interacting with others and forming network.
How to manage emotions: Self-awareness, Cooperation, managing emotions, resolving
conflicts, Empathy.
Models of emotional intelligence:
Ability model: Emotional abilities: emotional perception, emotional use, emotional
understanding, emotional management
Mixed Model: Self-awareness, Self-regulation, social skills, Empathy, Motivation
Trait model: The trait model is most recent model of EI given by Petrides. Petrides asserts
that there is no standard profile of an emotionally intelligence person.
Interpersonal Relations
Attitude: The way that you think, feel or behave. An attitude may be defined as the way a
person feel about something a person, a commodity, a situation or an idea. It expresses
an individual’s positive or negative feelings about some object.
Features of Attitude: it affects the behavior of an individual by putting him/her ready to
respond favorably or unfavorably to thing in his/her environment. Attitudes are acquired
though learning over a period of time. Attitude are invisible as they constitute a
psychological phenomenon that is observed directly. Attitude are pervasive.
Components of Attitudes: Informational or cognitive component – Affective or Emotional
component – Behavior component (Attitude).
Attitude and Beliefs: Beliefs means what you think is true even though it can’t be proven.
Attitude means the you express yourself in thoughts, words and actions because of your
values and beliefs.
Sources of Attitude:
Direct Personal Experience:
Association of Attitude: A new attitude object may be associated with an old attitude object
and the attitude towards the latter may be transferred by former to later.
Social Learning:
Formation of Attitude:
Psychological Factors: perception, ideas, beliefs, values, information etc.
Family Factors:
Social Factors: Societies differ in terms of language, culture, norms, values, beliefs etc.
Organizational factors: The nature of the job, factory or office layout, fellow workers,
quality of supervision, monetary rewards associated with the job, trade unionism, informal
groups, organization’s policies and practices.
Economic Factors: economic status in the society, rate of inflation in the economy,
government’s economic policies, and the country’s economic conditions.
Political factors: ideologies of the political parties, political stability, the behavior of the
political leaders affect the attitude of the people.
Cognitive Dissonance: Cognitive means mind and Dissonance means when we hold two
thoughts that are inconsistent with one another, basically that is dissonance. Dissonance
leads to inconsistency. Cognitive dissonance refers to any incompatibility that an individual
might perceive between two or more of his attitudes or between his behavior and attitudes.
Inconsistency leads to discomfort.
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy: It is the process by which a person attempts ( consciously or
sub-subconsciously) to convert his attitudes, beliefs and expectations into a reality.
Job Related Attitude:
Job Satisfaction: It refers to an individual’s general attitude towards his job. High level of
job satisfaction gives positive attitude. And dissatisfied person gives negative attitude.
Job Involvement (Job specific): It measures the degree to which a person identifies
psychologically with his job and considers his perceived performance level important to his
self-worth. High job involvement means lower rates of labor turnover and absentism.
Organizational Commitment:
Transactional Analysis:
It refers to a method of analyzing and understanding interpersonal behavior. When people
interact, there is a social interaction in which one person responds to another. The study of
the these interactions between people is called transactional analysis.
Ego states: An ego state is a pattern of behavior that a person develops as he grows up
based on his or her accumulated network of feeling and experiences There are three types
Parent, Adult, Child.
Parent Ego: Parents are little strict, judgmental, overprotective, dogmatic, rule -making,
upright, distant.
Adult Ego: It is based on reasoning, seeking and providing information. A Person
interacting with adult ego views people are equal, worthy and responsible human beings. It
is based on rationality.
Child ego: it constitutes the emotional, creative, spontaneous, and impulsive components
of personality. It is characterized by non-logical and immediate actions which result in
immediate satisfaction.
The ego state are not tied to one’s chronological age. In course of daily interactions, adults
are likely to display all three ego states though one state may predominate. Conversations
often are a mixture of reactions from the parent, adult and child. Each ego state has both
positive and negative features. We can find out the ego state that is in control by carefully
observing not only the words used but also a person’s tone, posture, gesture, and facial
expressions.
There are four types transaction
(a)Complementary Transactions: There are complementary transactions when the ego
states of sender and receiver in the opening transaction are simply reversed in the
response. Here, the message by a person gets the predicted/expected response from
other people. Open communication.
(b) Non-complementary transactions: it occurs when the stimulus and response lines are
not parallel. This happens when the person who initiates the transaction expecting a clear
response but does not get it.
(c) ulterior transactions: Ulterior transactions are the most complex because the
communication has double meaning. It is like blocked transactions, are undesirable.
(d) Gallows transaction: it is signified by inappropriate love or a smile in transaction. A
smile in response to a person’s misfortune may serve as gallows transactions.
Life Positions: It is the basic beliefs or assumptions that we hold about ourselves and
others, which are used to justify our decisions and behaviors. Positive Life positions- I am
ok & you are not ok, I am ok and you are ok. Negative life positions – I am not ok and you
are not ok, I am not ok and you are ok.
I’m not ok – Here, people tend to feel bad about themselves and see the world as
you’re not ok miserable. People with this life position tend to give up. They don’t trust
(worst life others and have no confidence in themselves.
positions)
I’m not ok – Here, people often feel that others are generally more competent than
you are ok they are and generally have fewer problems. They tend to think that
they always get ‘the short end of the stick’.
I’m ok – you’re Here, people tend to watch others closely because they think no one
not ok can be trusted to do things as well as they can. There are often
dominated by their crucial parents.
I’m ok – you’re This position is considered as the optimal and healthy position. People
ok occupying this position will hold the belief that all people are innately
worthy and valuable. People occupying this position are collaborative
and accepting of themselves and others.
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