Personal-Development Notes
Personal-Development Notes
What is Development?
a progressive series of changes that occur in a predictable pattern as the result of
interactions between biological and environmental factors. (Salkind, 2004)
it is the act or process of growing or causing something to grow or become larger or more
advanced.
Physical Development
covers the growth of the brain, motor and sensory sills,
and even physical health.
Cognitive Development
covers our capacity to learn, to speak, to understand, to
reason, and to create.
Jean Piaget develop a theory of intellectual or cognitive
development. He suggests that children move through
four different stages: sensorimotor, preoperational,
concrete operational, and formal operational stage.
Stage Age Characteristics Goal
Motor activity without use of
Birth to 18 - 24 symbols. All things learned are Object
Sensorimotor
months old based on experiences, or trial permanence
and error.
Development of language,
memory, and imagination. Symbolic
Preoperational 2 to 7 years old
Intelligence is both egocentric thought
and intuitive.
More logical and methodical
Concrete manipulation of symbols. Less Operational
7 to 11 years old
operational egocentric, and more aware of thought
the outside world and events.
Use of symbols to relate to
Adolescence to abstract concepts. Able to make Abstract
Formal operational
adulthood hypotheses and grasp abstract concepts
concepts and relationships.
https://www.healthline.com/health/piaget-stages-of-development#stages
Psychosocial Development
includes our social interactions with other people, our
emotions, attitudes, self-identity, personality, beliefs, and
values.
Personality Development
process where a person learns set of
emotional qualities and ways of behaving
(table etiquette, sit properly and walk with
grace, dress appropriately and communicate
better)
image enhancement (skin care and make-up,
fashion and clothing, even body contouring,
modeling, beauty pageant, etc.)
Personal Development
process where a person reflects upon themselves,
understand who they are, accept what they discover
about themselves, and learn (or unlearn) new sets of
values, attitudes, behavior, and thinking skills to
reach their fullest potential as human beings.
Defining “Self”
In philosophical terms, it is the being, which is the source of a
person’s consciousness.
the agent responsible for an individual’s thoughts
and actions.
an intangible entity that directs a person’s thoughts
and action.
In, psychology, sociology, or religion, it is the
essence of a person: his thoughts, feelings
and actions, experiences, beliefs, values,
principles, and relationships.
SELF
includes a person’s life, purpose, meaning, and aspirations.
therefore, when we speak of the “Self”, we will describe it in
personality terms since personality is also referred to as the set of
behaviors, feelings, thoughts, and motives.
Knowing Thyself
Socrates maintained that the most important thing to pursue was self-
knowledge, and admitting one’s ignorance is the beginning of true
knowledge.
Personality
refers to the unique and relatively enduring set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts, and
motives that characterize an individual (Feist and Rosenberg, 2012)
Two key components of personality:
1. Uniqueness
2. Enduring or consistency
OCEAN
Openness to experience
Conscientiousness
Extraversion
Agreeableness
Neuroticism
Trait theories of personality have long attempted to pin down exactly how many
personality traits exist.
Earlier theories have suggested a various number of possible traits.
Gordon Allport’s list of 4,000 personality traits
Raymond Cattell’s 16 personality factors
Hans Eysenck’s three-factor theory.
However, many researchers felt that Cattell’s theory was too complicated and
Eysenck’s was too limited in scope.
As a result, the five-factor theory emerged to
describe the essential traits that serve as the building
blocks of personality.
Today, many researchers believe that there are five
core personality traits.
Evidence of this theory has been growing over the past
50 years, beginning with the research of D.W. Fiske
(1949) and later expanded upon by other researchers
including Norman (1967), Smith (1967), Goldberg
(1981), and McCrae & Costa (1987)
1. Extraversion
2. Agreeableness
3. Openness
4. Conscientiousness
5. Neuroticism
It is important to note that each of the five personality factors represents a range between
two extremes.
For example, extraversion represents a continuum between extreme extraversion and
extreme introversion.
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In the real world, most people lie somewhere in between the two polar ends of each
dimension.
1. Openness:
features characteristic such as imagination and insight, and
those high in this trait also tend to have a broad range of
interests.
tend to be more adventurous and creative.
People low in this trait are often much more traditional and
may struggle with abstract thinking.
2. Conscientiousness:
Standard features of this dimension include high levels of
thoughtfulness, with good impulse control and goal-directed
behaviors.
tend to be organized and mindful of details.
3. Extraversion:
is characterized by excitability, sociability, talkativeness,
assertiveness and high amounts of emotional expressiveness.
are outgoing and tend to gain energy in social situations.
People who are low in extraversion (or introvert) tend to be
more reserved and have to expend energy in social settings.
4. Agreeableness:
this personality dimension includes attributes such as trust, altruism, kindness,
affection and other prosocial behaviors.
tend to be more cooperative.
those low in this trait tend to be more competitive and even manipulative.
5. Neuroticism:
a trait characterized by sadness, moodiness, and emotional
instability.
tend to experience mood swings, anxiety, moodiness,
irritability and sadness.
those low in this trait tend to be more stable and emotionally
resilient.
Ways to Measure Personality
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator
E or I (Extraversion or Introversion)
S or N (Sensing or Intuition)
T or F (Thinking or Feeling)
J or P (Judgement or Perception)
The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator
E or I (Extraversion or Introversion)
- how an individual prefers to channel his or her energy when dealing with
people, whether it is inward (introversion) or outward (extraversion)
S or N (Sensing or Intuition)
- how one prefers to process information, whether through the use of
senses such as being able to describe what one sees, or intuitively like
dealing with ideas.
T or F (Thinking of Feeling)
- how an individual prefers to make decisions, either thinking or using
logic and analysis, or feeling which uses the cognitive senses based on
values or beliefs.
S or N (Sensing or Intuition)
- how an individual prefers to manage one’s life, whether through judging,
which means a planned and organized life, versus perception, which has
more flexible approach to living.
Lesson 2a - Developing the Whole Person
Holistic Development (Week 3)
"The whole is greater than the sum of its parts."
- Aristotle
Holistic Development
Concept of Gestalt - something that is made of many parts and yet is somehow more than or
different from the combination of its parts; broadly, the general quality or character of
something.
Example: in music, a symphony cannot be defined by one of its notes alone, a car is made up of hundreds
of different parts.
Feelings
result from the emotions that were experienced.
Emotions
taken from the Latin verb, movare, which means to move or be upset or agitated.
defined by Smith (1973) as a descriptive term referring to variations in level of arousal,
affective state or mood, expressive movements, and attitudes.
Attitudes
person’s thoughts, feelings, and emotions about another person, object, idea, behavior, or
situation.
result of a person’s evaluation of an experience with another person, idea, behavior, or
situation based on his or her values and belief system.
Emotions
manifestation or acting out of the attitudes an individual has.
Values and Virtues
Values
values are a system of beliefs that adhere to the highest ideals of
human existence.
create meaning and purpose in a person’s life that often result in
personal happiness and self-fulfillment.
Virtues
descriptions of or adjectives that reflect a value.
Values
are usually nouns while virtues are the descriptors that usually mirror the value it
represents.
Values Virtues
Peace Peaceful, calm
Integrity Reputable, responsible, honest, trustworthy
Love Loving, caring, compassionate, gentle, affectionate
Respect Respectful, civil
Balance Objective, fair, harmonious
Adolescence Teachers and Identity vs. - Develops a sense of self - Feeling of confusion,
(12-20 years) Significant Role Confusion and identity. indecisiveness, and anti-
Others - Plans to actualize one’s social behavior.
abilities. - Weak sense of self.
- Develops the ability to
stay true to oneself.
Young Friends Intimacy vs. - Develops a strong need to - Impersonal, weak
Adulthood Isolation form intimate, loving relationships.
(20-25 years) relationships with a group - Avoidance of
of people or with another relationship, career, or
person. lifestyle commitments.
- Develops strong - May result in isolation
relationships. and loneliness.
- Learns commitment to
work with another person
or group.
Adulthood Community Generativity vs. -Creates or nurtures things - Self-indulgence, self-
(25-65 years) Stagnation that will outlast them, concern, or lack of
either by having children interests and commitments.
or creating a positive
change that benefits others. - Shallow involvement in
the world, pessimism.
- Creativity, productivity,
feeling of usefulness and
accomplishment, and
concern for others.
Adulthood Community Integrity vs. - Sense of fulfillment as - Sense of loss, contempt
(65 years to Despair one looks back in one’s for others.
death) life and develops feeling of - May result in regret,
wisdom. bitterness and despair.
- Acceptance of worth and
uniqueness of one’s own
life.
- Acceptance of the
inevitability of death and
transitioning
Social Development
happens during adolescence when adolescents desire for autonomy
and independence from their families.
their friends and peers become their primary influence, taking over
the previous role their parents had.
Self-identity or self-concept
evolves from an individual’s own set of beliefs and value system, in
the roles he has identified for himself, the responsibilities he
recognizes and owns, and the expectation others have on him.
1. Self-identity or self-concept
skills that can help the adolescent develop responsibility as a
preparation for gainful employment ahead.
2. Self-reliance
the ability to identify their own skills and knowledge, capabilities, and
resources to engage in meaningful activities and not rely too much on
others.
4. Social responsibility
should be able to see beyond themselves.
take into consideration the greater community around them.
see their role in improving and developing these communities, serving
as change agents.
5. Mature work orientation
develop pride in what they do
raise standard of excellence in the quality of their work.
6. Personal responsibility
be fully responsible for their own decisions and actions by owning
them.
become aware of the consequences of their decisions and own the
results.
There are special challenges faced by adolescents which result from the
changes that are happening to them.
These challenges are also related to the crisis during the adolescence
phase as theorized by Erik Erikson concerning identity and role
confusion.
If this crisis is not resolved, it will continue to persist and may continue
even into adulthood.
3. Group belongingness
An adolescent wants to belong.
Choose your social groupings wisely.
Healthy and wholesome organizations whose objectives
aim to help individuals develop themselves are better
choices. They respect the individuality of each person
and would not lure them into doing something that goes
against time-honored human values.
6. Roles
Adolescents must learn to integrate all their roles and it should be clear that these
roles are related to the tasks expected of them.
Discipline and time management can help in balancing the different roles an
adolescent has.
Example: Who is Malala?
7. Material Poverty
Some adolescents struggle hard to be able to have education.
Example: Efren Penaflorida; pushcart classroom
Dynamic Teen Company
9. Career Choice
In pursuing a career, look at what you love to do and are
passionate about.
10. Relationships
Maintaining a healthy relationship require a certain level of
maturity.
stress.
Causes of Stress
The situations and pressures that causes stress are known as stressors.
We usually think of stressors as being negative, such as an exhausting work schedule or a
rocky relationship.
However, anything that puts high demands on you or forces you to adjust can be
stressful. This includes positive events such as getting married, buying a house, going to
college, or receiving a promotion.
For some reason, our right and left hemispheres control the
‘opposite’ side of our bodies, so the right hemisphere controls our left
side and processes what we see in our left eye while the left hemisphere
controls the right side and processes what our right eye sees.
Whole Brain Theory
How does the Whole Brain Theory enhance the learning process?
It has been observed that brain dominance leads to thinking preferences
that influence and improve learning styles.
Each quadrant has a set of preferences in terms of learning.
Lesson 6b - THE POWERS OF THE MIND
Mind Mapping (Week 12)
"Your mind is your greatest power. Use it well."
- Aneta Cruz
Mind Mapping
Your short-term memory can only hold 7 bits of information at a
time-revision helps reinforce your learning to help you prepare for
your exams.
Within 30 days, we only remember 20% of the information learnt.
Without revision you will have wasted 2 years of your entire life.
Research shows that active revision techniques such as making mind
maps, revision notes or practicing past papers is the most effective way
of preparing for an examination.
Mind Mapping
Mind Mapping
Your short-term memory can only hold 7 bits of information at a
time-revision helps reinforce your learning to help you prepare
for your exams.
Within 30 days, we only remember 20% of the information
learnt.
Without revision you will have wasted 2 years of your entire
life.
Research shows that active revision techniques such as making mind maps, revision notes
or practicing past papers is the most effective way of preparing for an examination.
Mental Health
includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. (According to National
Institute of Health)
Successful performance of metal function resulting in productive activities, fulfilling
relationships with other people, and the ability to change and to cope with adversity
(According to 1999 US Surgeon General Report on Mental Health)
3. Autonomy
deals with one’s capacity to separate one’s identity form other significant
persons like parents, lovers, and special friends.
the capacity for self-direction and having a clearly defined role identity
lack of autonomy can lead to co-dependence and relational conflicts
4. Competence
the perception of one’s capacity to effectively perform a function
or activity using specific skills and knowledge, achieving the
desired results at a given time
responsibility is a major underlying factor for competence
a competent individual produces trust with those he deals with;
accepts changes and is resilient.
5. Intergenerational Independence
refers to the relationships between individuals who belong to different
generations but may be living separately as independent, autonomous
persons during a specific period of time
E.g.: relationships between parent and their grow-up children, bridging
the gap created by the “empty nest” phenomenon.
1. Anxiety disorders
cause people to respond to certain objects or situations with fear
and panic.
some anxiety disorders come in the form of phobias like
agoraphobia, acrophobia, claustrophobia
List of Phobias: https://www.healthline.com/health/list-of-phobias#treatment
2. Mood disorders
one of the more problematic forms of mental health issues has to
do with a person’s mood, particularly depression is more likely
who suffer depression are more likely to commit suicide.
WHO estimates that 1 million lives are lost to suicide every year
3. Eating disorders
due to regarding being thin as the standard of beauty
a. anorexia (extreme fear of gaining weight)
b. bulimia (purging or vomiting the food that a person eats in
order to remain thin)
Emotions
Impulses to act, the instant plan for handling life that evolution has instilled for us.
Parts of the brain involved in the creation of emotions: the amygdala the neocortex, and
the frontal lobes.
https://gostrengths.com/what-is-an-amygdala-hijack/
Lesson 9 - Personal Relationships (Week 17-
18)
"Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement, all success, all
achievement in real life grows."
- Ben Stein