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One thing that characterizes Catholicism is love.
If there is a distinctive sign between
catholic believers and non-Catholics, I think it will be love. For it was because of love that God the Father sent his only son into the world, and still because of this love that we were redeemed by our Lord Jesus Christ from our valley of sin. Still, because of this love that Jesus was praying for his persecutors and his haters, he was praying for those who had scourged His holy body. He prayed for those who had placed a crown of thorns on his head from which pearls of wisdom flowed. Became his followers we too are invited to do the same as he did. I considered this as one of our big challenges both as Catholics and candidates for the consecrated life as well. The challenges however became harder as we lived in this kind of society, where the truth seemed to be negotiable. Deus Caritas Est: God is love, become a very true recognition knowing that we cannot find love outside the divine circle, it’s only in Him that we find true love. A consistent connection with God will provide us with a heart that can love God faithfully, love our neighbor sincerely, and love ourselves wholly. The Gospel for this coming Sunday speaks about love. Maybe in some of our reflections, we wonder why Jesus kept telling us to grow in our love. Why does he continuously command us to do things with love? It is because the Lord knows how it is to become a human, a person filled with free will. For he knows how humans can act unfaithfully, both to God and his neighbors. Jesus knows perfectly how easy for a man to change his heart direction even within one second, man cannot be faithful unless he is being reminded again and again. The commandment to love one another is a constant reminder for us, however, this command has its challenges. To love one another is one of the biggest challenges of being Catholic. Nicholas Lohkam, a Franciscan friar writes” The biggest challenge of following Jesus is not to keep the commandments, not to be a successful preacher, teacher, housewife or auto mechanic. The biggest challenge of following Jesus is to become a lover, a person who loves as Jesus loves, humanly and gracefully”. How can we love people whom we don’t know? How can you love your neighbor who spreads gossip about you? A neighbor whom you caught while gossiping about your name? How can you love a man who killed your father and mother and cut their bodies into pieces in front of your eyes? It is difficult to love one another if we just lay in our capacity, thinking that we can do everything by our ability. But it will help us to love one another if we continuously beg God that he may give us his grace, grace that makes us grow in our loving relationship with one another. We are created to love and to be loved because our creator is a true love, our God is a God who loves everyone and everything. As Jesus’ followers, love must become our true identity, we must be known by our capability to love one another. This is what Jesus intended us to do as he says: “This is how all will know that you are my disciples if you have a love for one another”. Love moved us to forgiveness and reconciliation. Hatred erupts in quarreling and fighting. Love moves us to respect our differences yet binds our hearts together. Love moved us to respect our enemies and find ways of peace. Hatred moved us to kill our enemies and find ways of ever-greater destruction.
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