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RESTORATIVE JUSTICE IN CASES OF SEXUAL
HARM
Alexa Sardina, Ph.D. t & Alissa R. Ackerman, Ph.D. I
INTRODUCTION
T Alexa Sardina, Ph.D., is Assistant Professor of Criminal Justice, California State Uni-
versity, Sacramento and Co-founder of Ampersands Restorative Justice.
$ Alissa R. Ackerman, Ph.D., is Associate Professor of Criminal Justice, California State
University, Fullerton and Co-founder of Ampersands Restorative Justice.
1
2 CUNYLAWREVIEW [Vol. 25.1
dorm and hid in the shared bathroom. Alissa was a junior in high school
when she was raped by a young man after leaving a house party with him
to walk on the beach. Alexa reported her rape to law enforcement and
subsequently endured a trial that ended in a guilty verdict and a significant
prison sentence for the man who raped her. Alissa never reported her rape
and remained silent about her experience for 15 years. Despite their
different journeys in the aftermath of sexual violence, the authors'
experiences impacted both their lives in significant ways that ultimately
led to their career paths as sex crimes experts and restorative justice
practitioners. 1 Their individual and collective "survivor scholar"
experiences inform this paper.2
Part I summarizes the impacts of the criminal legal system on
individuals who have been sexually harmed, explaining under-reporting,
police interactions, and case attrition. Part II frames the reasons why post-
conviction sex crimes policies such as a registration and community
notification are ineffective at reducing rates of sexual offending or
addressing the needs of individuals who have experienced sexual harm.
Part III explains the root causes of sexually harmful behavior, which
range from individual-level to societal influences. Part IV sets the stage
for an introduction to restorative justice. The authors focus on the use of
restorative justice more broadly, before discussing how restorative justice
is different from typical criminal legal options for addressing harmful
behavior. The authors then briefly summarize the effectiveness of
restorative justice based on the available literature. Part V expands on the
authors' individual journeys to restorative justice as sex crimes experts
and rape survivors, before addressing the often unmet needs of people
experienced sexual harm and a researcher who studies sexual harm and/or the people who
commit sex crimes. The authors seek to always utilize person first language because it human-
izes individuals who have experienced sexual harm and who have perpetrated harm. Person
first language allows individuals to choose words for their experiences that suit them. Every
effort is made to refrain from using terms like "victim," "survivor," or "perpetrator." The au-
thors have chosen to use the term survivor for themselves, but throughout this article readers
will see the terms "individual who experienced sexual harm" and "individual who perpetrated
sexual harm." This language can be difficult to accept, but the authors maintain a restorative
perspective that values the humanity of all people. The authors believe that no person can be
defined by one experience or behavior.
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who have also experienced sexual harm. The authors explain the justice
needs of people who have perpetrated acts of sexual harm. Part VI focuses
exclusively on restorative justice as a tool to use in these instances,
including case studies and the limitations of restorative frameworks. Part
VII concludes with a renewed hope for a restorative future.
rape at some point in their lives.10 More than one-quarter of women who
identify as American Indian or Alaska Native and one in three women
who identify as multiracial report victimization in their lifetime."
Furthermore, women employed in the military, who live and/or work in
underprivileged environments, have a disability, identify as LGBTQ, or
are a student are also at a greater risk for sexual assault."
Acts of sexual harm against men do not get the same empirical
attention and emphasis as acts involving female victims, which creates a
false myth that men cannot be sexually victimized.13 Therefore, there are
fewer data sources to evaluate the extent of victimization against males.
However, 1 in 71 men surveyed report being raped in their lifetime.14 This
figure is significantly underestimated, as men who are sexually harmed
often do not disclose or report these experiences due to shame and
embarrassment. 15
10 MICHELE C. BLACK ET AL., NAT'L CTR. FOR INJURY PREVENTION & CONTROL & CTRS.
FOR DISEASE CONTROL & PREVENTION, NATIONAL INTIMATE PARTNER AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE
SURVEY: 2010 SUMMARY REPORT 2-3 (2011), https://perma.cc/ET9Q-5KXM.
11 BLACK ET AL., supra note 10, at 3.
12 McQueen et al., supra note 9, at 1.
13 See Scott M. Walfield, "Men Cannot be Raped": Correlates of Male Rape Myth Ac-
ceptance, 36 J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 6391, 6394 (2018).
14 BLACK ET AL., supra note 10, at 1.
15 See Marjorie R. Sable et al., Barriers to ReportingSexualAssaultfor Women andMen:
Perspectivesof College Students, 55 J. AM. COLL. HEALTH 157, 159-60 (2006).
16 CALLIE MARIE RENNISON, U.S. DEP'T OF JUST., BUREAU OF JUST.
STAT., NCJ 194530,
RAPE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT: REPORTING TO POLICE AND MEDICAL ATTENTION, 1992-2000 1
(2002).
17 Kamala London et al., Disclosure of Child Sexual Abuse: What Does the Research Tell
Us About the Ways that Children Tell? 11 PSYCH., PUB. POL'Y, & L. 194, 203 (2005).
18 See Manon Ceelen et al., Characteristicsand Post-DecisionAttitudes of Non-Report-
ing Sexual Violence Victims, 34 J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 1961, 1962 (2019); see RACHEL
E. MORGAN & JENNIFER L. TRUMAN, U.S. DEP'T OF JUST., NCJ 255113, CRIMINAL
VICTIMIZATION, 2019 8 (2020), https://perma.cc/UG68-7W6U.
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1 See Candace Feiring & Lynn S. Taska, The Persistence of Shame Following Sexual
Abuse: A LongitudinalLook at Risk andRecovery, 10 CHILD MALTREATMENT 337, 345 (2005)
(discussing the persistence of abuse-related shame and post-traumatic stress disorder
("PTSD") in survivors of child sexual abuse); see also Sable supra note 15, at 159; Judith
Lewis Herman, Justice from the Victim's Perspective, 11 VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN 571,
598 (2005).
20 Karen G. Weiss, Too Ashamed to Report: Deconstructingthe Shame of Sexual Victim-
ization, 5 FEMINIST CRIMINOLOGY 286, 293 (2010); world renowned shame researcher, Dr.
Brend Brown defines shame as "the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that
we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging-something we've experienced,
done, or failed to do makes us unworthy of connection." See Brend Brown, Shame v. Guilt,
BREN BROWN (Jan. 15, 2013), https://perma.cc/5PQH-5SSB.
2 Weiss, supra note 20, at 287.
22 See Maria E. Vidal & Jenny Petrak, Shame and Adult Sexual Assault: A Study with a
Group of Female Survivors Recruited from an East London Population, 22 SEXUAL
&
legal system often does more harm than good. They often encounter
individuals who are skeptical about their claims, diminish their
credibility, minimize their experience, are dismissive of them entirely, or
are generally insensitive to their experience. 2 8 This phenomenon has been
termed "secondary victimization," or "the second rape," 29 and includes
behaviors by criminal legal professionals and others that exacerbate the
trauma of rape and other types of sexual harm. 30
The fear of secondary victimization may also influence reporting.
For example, women who have experienced sexual harm are more likely
to report their experience to formal support services when their
experience conforms to that of a "real rape" (e.g., they were assaulted by
a stranger): when they feel that they will be believed, when they think that
the probability for conviction is high, when they have sustained injuries
to corroborate their claims of forced intercourse, or if a weapon was
used. 31 These findings align with Alexa's decision to report. She believed
that, because she was assaulted by a stranger at knifepoint, her claims
would be undisputable. A study using data from the National Violence
Against Women Survey examined the reasons that survivors gave for not
reporting acts of sexual harm to the police. The decision to not report was
attributed to a belief that the police could not do anything about the crime,
fear that they would not be believed, fear of retribution, and feelings of
shame and embarrassment. 32
Although many of the reasons given for not reporting experiences of
sexual harm are common across most racial groups, research suggests
minority women choose not to report for reasons that differ from those of
White women. Factors that influence reporting decisions among Black
women include economic status, "fear of White racism, degree of
adherence to a Black cultural mandate to protect Black [men] from
27 Id. at 2.
28 See, e.g., Debra Patterson & Rebecca Campbell, Why Rape Survivors Participatein the
CriminalJustice System, 38 J. CMTY. PSYCH. 191, 196-97 (2010) (discussing survivors' con-
cerns that police would not believe their reports of victimization); but see generally ANDREA
J. RITCHIE, INVISIBLE NO MORE: POLICE VIOLENCE AGAINST BLACK WOMEN AND WOMEN OF
COLOR ch.5 (Beacon Press 2017).
29 Rebecca Campbell & Sheela Raja, Secondary Victimization ofRape Victims: Insights
from Mental Health Professionals Who Treat Survivors of Sexual Violence, 14 VIOLENCE
&
of Victims Face Emotional and Physical Consequences, WASH. POST (Oct. 6, 2018),
https://perma.cc/H7SV-KNV3.
31 See Ethan Czuy Levine, Sexual Scripts and Criminal Statutes: Gender Restrictions,
Spousal Allowances, and Victim Accountability After Rape Law Reform, 24 VIOLENCE
AGAINST WOMEN 1, 3-4 (2017). By the 1970s and 1980s, all 50 states passed rape law reform
although the efforts "varied considerably in their capacity to protect victims," especially in
reducing the influence of the "real rape" stereotype. These changes included the removal or
lessening of requirements around victim resistance and corroboration, changing definitions of
rape or supplementing rape statutes with other offenses to address different forms of violence,
and a range of admissibility regarding the sexual history of victims. Unfortunately, research
suggests that these efforts have only minimally changed reporting, indictment, conviction, or
incarceration rates.
38 See Cassia Spohn & Katharine Tellis, The CriminalJustice System's Response to Sex-
commonly held beliefs that can be found in most cultures and are
fundamentally gendered. They underscore the reality that sexual violence
against women and children is, to an extent, condoned, and normalized.40
Examples of common rape myths are "only bad girls get raped"; "any
healthy woman can resist a rapist if she really wants to"; "women ask for
it"; "women 'cry rape' only when they've been jilted or have something
to cover up"; and "rapists are sex-starved, insane, or both." 41 Adherence
to rape myths results in social and cultural stereotyping and silencing of
survivors of sexual harm. 42 Rape myths may also impact people that
experience sexual harm who may blame themselves for not preventing
the harm or for not defending themselves. 43 In part, this is why Alissa
never reported her rape to the police. She had lied to her parents about
where she would be that night and had gone for a walk on a secluded
beach with a young man she had just met at a party. She could not defend
herself against a much bigger and stronger person and believed that she
"let her rape happen." For all these reasons, Alissa remained silent. Her
experience of non-reporting is common. 44
Police play a key gatekeeping role in the progression of cases
through the criminal legal system. They decide whether a crime has
occurred, the number of resources to dedicate to suspect identification and
apprehension, whether to make an arrest, and whether to refer the case to
the prosecutor's office. 45 It is therefore important to understand the factors
that influence police decision-making in cases of sexual harm. As
yone if they were under the influence of alcohol or drugs at the time of the offense. They
remain hidden survivors often because of self-blame due to perceptions that they are somehow
responsible for their victimization because they consumed alcohol or drugs. Additional re-
search indicates that women often do not report their sexual victimization because they do not
perceive themselves to be victims of rape. According to one study, only 27% of survivors
whose incidents met the legal definition of rape defined themselves as having been raped.
Mary P. Koss, Hidden Rape: Sexual Aggression and Victimization in a National Sample of
Students in Higher Education, 55 J. CLINICAL PSYCH. 3, 22 (1987).
43 See Eliana Suarez & Tahany M. Gadalla, Stop Blaming the Victim: A Meta-Analysis on
Rape Myths, 25 J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 2010, 2011 (2010).
44 In the authors' experience working with individuals who have been sexually harmed,
more than half report that they have not or will not engage formal reporting channels because
they fear they will not be believed, they do not think the criminal legal system can or will do
anything to help, or they feel shame regarding the sexually harmful experience.
5 See Jessica Shaw et al., The View from Inside the System: How Police Explain Their
Response to Sexual Assault, 58 AM. J. CMTY PSYCH. 446, 446 (2016).
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"
When the person who caused the sexual harm was a stranger, the incident
was "more likely to be thoroughly investigated by police officers and less
likely to be considered unfounded." 5 8 Moreover, there is a significant
relationship between the presence of physical injury and the decision to
lay charges against an accused individual. 59
Investigations can also be traumatizing for those who report sexual
harm. Police investigators are often looking for gaps in a survivor's
account, parts of the account that do not make sense, and any motivations
there may be for giving a false report. 60 Thus, the ways in which these
questions are asked can leave people feeling blamed, rather than
supported and believed. Research supports the assertion that contact with
the police often leads to negative social interactions and which were
associated with an increase in symptoms of PTSD. 61
Rape myths may also impact prosecutors' charging decisions, which
are often based on legal factors, like the seriousness of the crime, the
offender's criminal record, and the strength of the evidence. 62 However,
several studies suggest that the rape myths and the stereotypes that
influence the decision-making of police officers also influence the
charging decisions of prosecutors. 63 As such, few rape cases are
prosecuted and without the participation of survivors, prosecuting acts of
sexual violence would be largely impossible. 64 Because so few cases
make it to trial, there is little available research regarding the experiences
of survivors as witnesses in the courtroom. However, some research has
examined how the demands of the trial process affects rape survivors,
focusing primarily on the emotional and psychological impact of the
practices of courtroom actors. 65 After experiencing questioning and
reporting to the police, a survivor may be fearful about retelling their story
during a criminal trial. 66 Many survivors are particularly concerned that
accusation myth stepped in to uphold the pervasive stereotype that married women
are theoretically incapable of being raped.
See, e.g., Morgan Namian, HypermasculinePolice and Vulnerable Victims: The Detrimental
Impact ofPolice Ideologies on the Rape Reporting Process, 40 WOMEN'S RTS. L. REP. 80, 99-
103 (2018); see generally Bonnie Stabile & Aubrey Grant, From Rape 'Myths ' to Roy Moore:
We Can't Continue to Blame Victims, THE HILL (Nov. 21, 2017, 5:00 PM), https://perma.cc
/L4SU-UWQX.
61 Sarah E. Ullman, Correlatesand Consequences ofAdult Sexual Assault Disclosure, 9
J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 554, 567 (1996).
62 Patricia A. Frazier & Beth Haney, Sexual Assault Cases in the Legal System: Police,
Prosecutor, and Victim Perspectives, 20 L. & HUM. BEHAV. 607, 609-11 (1996).
63 See Cassia Spohn & David Holleran, Prosecuting Sexual Assault: A Comparison of
ChargingDecisions in Sexual Assault Cases Involving Strangers, Acquaintances, and Inti-
mate Partners,18 JUST. Q. 651, 653 (2001).
64 See Cassia Spohn et al., ProsecutorialJustificationsfor Sexual Assault Case Rejection:
Guardingthe "Gateway to Justice ", 48 SOC. PROBS. 206, 220-21 (2001).
65 Konradi explains that:
[P]rosecutors may request significant psychological work from rape survivors to
sustain the state's case. Producing some emotions to appear victimized, suppressing
others to avoid the appearance of defensiveness or vindictiveness, and testifying
with a particular emphasis can all involve substituting another reality for one's own.
Denying their own reality is stressful for some rape survivors and leads them to feel
guilty and angry with themselves. When prosecutors provide little preparation or
primarily focus on rape survivors' self-presentations, they can unintentionally con-
tribute to the second assault on and re-victimization of rape survivors.
See AMANDA KONRADI, TAKING THE STAND: RAPE SURVIVORS AND THE PROSECUTION OF
RAPISTS 78-79 (2007)
66 See generally KONRADI, supra note 65.
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they will endure a traumatic and humiliating trial and still not receive
justice. Oftentimes, trials are traumatic not only for the survivor but also
for those that support them.67 Moreover, when continuances are filed, plea
bargains are offered, or when reduced sentences are negotiated, people
who have been sexually harmed may feel revictimized.68
Given the severity of sexual harm, it is not surprising that survivors
not only want to be believed, but they also want the significance of their
experience to be recognized. 69 For many survivors, the need for formal
acknowledgement of harm does not translate to a desire for harsh
punishments. Survivors are not always interested in the punishment or
suffering of the person that harmed them. 70 Rather, most survivors of
sexual harm want to see the person that harmed them take responsibility
for their behavior and to see that person "attempt to put things right."7 1
Overall, research with survivors of sexual harm supports the notion that
they want "meaningful consequences" for the perpetrators of these
harms.72
Alexa's experience with testifying is similar to the findings
mentioned above. After the prosecutor decided to file criminal charges
against the man who raped her, Alexa had to recount the night of her rape
in great detail many times to the prosecutor and others. Although this is
often a part of the witness preparation process, Alexa felt even more
anxious and fearful about testifying during the trial. While her doubts
about testifying grew, she knew that the case would fall apart if she chose
not to participate. During the trial, prior to her testimony, Alexa wanted
to run away to avoid being in the courtroom with the man who raped her.
During cross-examination, Alexa had to describe her experience again
with excruciating detail in front of a courtroom and jury of strangers. Her
parents were included on the defense's witness list and were not allowed
in the courtroom. During defense questioning, she felt like her credibility
67 See Alissa Ackerman, The Second Rape, BEYOND FEAR (Aug. 12, 2020),
https://perma.cc/3BRU-JX83 ("Stacey provides a unique perspective of this process [the trial]
and also highlights how trauma due to the rape impacted Alexa's ability to recall certain events
around that time.").
68 Clare McGlynn, Feminism, Rape and the Searchfor Justice, 31 OXFORD J. L. STUD.
825, 834 (2011).
69 Clare McGylnn & Nicole Westmarland, Kaleidoscope Justice: Sexual Violence and
Victim-Survivors'Perceptionsof Justice, 28 SOC. & LEGAL STUD. 179, 188-89 (2019).
70 Id. at 187. In the authors' practice, they often work with individuals who have been
sexually harmed who are seeking an apology, the ability to ask questions, true accountability,
and to ensure the behavior does not happen again.
71 Shirley Jilich & Fiona Landon, Achieving Justice Outcomes: Participantsof Project
Restore 's Restorative Processes, in RESTORATIVE RESPONSES TO SEXUAL VIOLENCE 192, 202
(Estelle Zinsstag & Marie Keenan eds., 2017).
72 McGylnn & Westmarland, supra note 69, at 186.
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was attacked and she was further traumatized. Overall, despite the
positive outcome of the trial, Alexa was left without a sense of closure or
justice that she hoped for.
While pre-conviction criminal legal processes can be traumatizing
and ineffective at meeting the needs of those that experience sexual harm,
post-conviction sex crimes policies can be equally problematic. In the
next section, the authors present a brief history of these policies and
document the research on why they are ineffective.
73 Karen J. Terry & Alissa R. Ackerman, A BriefHistory ofMajor Sex Offender Laws, in
SEX OFFENDER LAWS: FAILED POLICIES, NEW DIRECTIONS 50, 55 (Richard G. Wright ed.,
Springer Publishing Company 2d ed. 2015) (2009).
74 See id. at 55-58. Several cases spurred lawmakers to enact sweeping legislation target-
ing individuals who had committed sexual offenses. This was in part because of a moral panic
over a few highly publicized cases. Public outcry and fear prompted lawmakers to enact leg-
islation aimed at reducing sexual harm. There is a cyclical nature to sex crimes legislation
dating back to at least the 1930s and 40s. For example, the case of Albert Fish, a man who
claimed to have abused over 400 children, sparked a change in policing practices and new
"habitual sexual offender" laws. See generally Juliane Cunha, Albert Fish, Pedophile andSe-
rial Killer with Over 400 Child Victims, CASO CRIMINAL (Nov. 10, 2021), https://perma.cc
/83HN-VWLV; see also Lisa Marie Kruse, Sex offenders, Sexuality, and Social Control: A
Case Study in the Social Construction of a Social Problem 54 (July 13, 2017) (Master's thesis)
(on file with the Eastern Michigan University Digital Commons). In 1950, Paul Tappan wrote
about the problematic nature of sex crimes legislation and fallacies about people who commit
sexual offenses. His report holds true today, despite public paranoia and moral panic on this
topic. See PAUL W. TAPPAN, THE HABITUAL SEX OFFENDER (1950).
?5 Ira Mark Ellman & Tara Ellman, "Frighteningand High": The Supreme Court's Cru-
cial Mistake About Sex Crime Statistics, 30 CONST. COMMENT 495 (2015). Multiple court
cases, including McKune v. Lile, 536 U.S. 24, 33 (2002) and Smith v. Doe, 538 U.S. 84, 93
(2003) cite high rates of recidivism among people who commit sexually offences. Similarly,
lawmakers are on the record citing these statistics. For example, in 1996, U.S. Senator Kay
Bailey Hutchison (R-TX) spoke on the senate floor and stated:
We do know several unpleasant facts about sexual predators who prey on chil-
dren .... The repeat crime rate for sex offenders is estimated to be as much as ten
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was known for prior violent assaults, sexually assaulted and mutilated the
genitals of a seven-year-old boy. 76 Later that year, another man from
Washington, Westley Allan Dodd, raped and murdered three boys.7 7
These cases were the catalyst for the Washington State Community
Protection Act of 1990, which offered various ways to ensure community
safety. 78 While Washington state lawmakers were focusing their efforts
on state policy, another case prompted the implementation of federal
legislation.
In 1989, an 11-year-old boy named Jacob Wetterling was kidnapped
in St. Joseph, Minnesota and his body was not found until 2016, 27 years
later. 79 After his kidnapping, Jacob's mother, Patty Wetterling, advocated
for efforts to create and implement registration policies, both in
Minnesota and on the federal level. 80 This ultimately led to the passage of
the Jacob Wetterling Crimes Against Children and Sexually Violent
times higher than the recidivism rate of other criminals. Mr. President, we know that
more than 40 percent of convicted sex offenders will repeat their crimes.
Amber Hagerman Child ProtectionAct of 1996: Hearing on 58638, Before the Comm. On
ForeignRels., 104th Cong. (1996) (statement of Kay Bailey Hutchison). Statements that sug-
gest that people who commit sex offenses have high rates of recidivism appear to have
stemmed from an article in Psychology Today, a mass market magazine. The article states that
"nearly 80% of people who commit sexual offenses who remain untreated will go on to
reoffend." Robert E. Freeman-Longo & R. Wall, Changinga Lifetime of Sexual Crime, PSYCH.
TODAY, Mar. 1986, at 58.
76 See Terry & Ackerman, supranote 73, at 55; Associated Press, Man Gets 131 1/2-Year
Term for Sexually MutilatingBoy, N.Y. TIMES (Mar. 27, 1990), https://perma.cc/934M-84UD.
77 See Terry & Ackerman, supra note 73, at 55; Timothy Egan, Illusions Are Also Left
Dead as Child-Killer Awaits Noose, N.Y. TIMES, (Dec. 29, 1992), https://perma.cc/FXX5-
9YMT.
78 See Terry & Ackerman, supranote 73, at 55. While the Act is mostly known for allow-
ing for the civil commitment of "sexually violent predators," it also increased sentencing
lengths for all sexual offenses, mandated registration with law enforcement upon release from
incarceration, authorized law enforcement to notify, on a need-to-know basis that someone on
the registry was living in nearby, and required treatment for people who sexually offend and
compensation for those who have been sexually harmed. Norm Maleng, The Community Pro-
tection Act and the Sexually Violent PredatorStatute, 15 U. PUGET SOUND L. REv. 821, 822
(1992); Washington State's law, RCW 71.09-Sexually Violent Predators, also known as the
Community Protection Act of 1990, included 14 different provisions to protect Washingtoni-
ans from the likes of Earl Shriner and Westley Alan Dodd. Through this Act, Washington
State became the first in the nation to require community notification. WASHINGTON STATE'S
COMMUNITY NOTIFICATION LAW: 15 YEARS OF CHANGE, WASH. ST. INST. PUB. POL'Y (2006),
https://perma.cc/P9UW-L2G4.
79 About Jacob Wetterling Resource Center, JACOB WETTERLING RESOURCE CTR., ZERO
ABUSE PROJECT, https://perma.cc/HF2U-JAUQ (last visited Jan. 23, 2022).
80 Richard G. Wright, An Interview with Patty Wetterling, in SEX OFFENDER LAWS: FAILED
POLICIES, NEW DIRECTIONS, supra note 73, 69-77.
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81 See Jacob Wetterling Crimes Against Children and Sexually Violent Offender Regis-
tration Act, 42 U.S.C. § 14071 (1994).
82 Terry & Ackerman, supra note 73, at 50-65.
83 OurMission, MEGAN NICOLE KANKA FOUND., INC., https://perma.cc/EY7D-NH79 (last
visited Jan. 23, 2022).
84 Id.
85 Megan's Law, N.J. Stat. Ann. §§ 2C:7-1 to 7-11 (West 1999); see Megan 's Law, DEP'T
OF L. & PUB. SAFETY OFF. OF THE ATT'Y GEN., https://perma.cc/HTV6-7VXG (last visited Jan.
23, 2022).
86 Legislative History of FederalSex Offender Registration and Notification, U.S. DEP'T
OF JUST., OFF. OF SEX OFFENDER SENT'G, MONITORING, APPREHENDING, REGISTERING,
&
90 See generally Adam Walsh Child Protection and Safety Act of 2006, 34 U.S.C.
§§ 20901, 20911 (2006).
91 See id., §§ 20901-20931.
92 Who Are the People in Your Neighborhood?, supra note 87, at 149.
93 Alissa R. Ackerman et al., How Many Sex Offenders Really Live Among Us? Adjusted
Counts and Population Rates in Five U.S. States, 35 J. CRIME & JUST., Nov. 2012, at 1, 1
[hereinafter How Many Sex Offenders Really Live Among Us?]; Andrew J. Harris et al., Reg-
istered Sex Offenders in the United States: Behind the Numbers, 60 CRIME & DELINQ. 3, 3
(2014).
9 Who Are the People in Your Neighborhood?, supra note 87, at 151. Ackerman and her
colleagues worked with a computer programmer to build a program that would "scrape" all of
the publicly available registry data from each state website. They compared the raw count of
their database to the most recent count provided by the National Center for Missing and Ex-
ploited Children ("NCMEC") and found that their count represented 66% of the NCMEC
count.
5 Who Are the People in Your Neighborhood?, supra note 87, at 155. The study also
found differences in the types of information provided on registries.
96 See How Many Sex Offenders Really Live Among Us?, supra note 93, at 8; Harris et
al., supra note 93, at 11-21; see also Alissa R. Ackerman, National Estimates of Registered
Sex Offenders in the United States. Is Double Counting a Problem?, 40 AM. J. CRIM. JUST. 75,
80, 83-84 (2014).
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Sex Offender Significant Others, 43 AM. J. CRIM. JUST. 64 passim (2018); see also Danielle J.
S. Bailey & Lisa L. Sample, An Examination of a Cycle of Coping with StrainAmong Regis-
tered Citizens 'Families, 30 CRIM. JUST. STUD. 158 passim (2017).
99 See Kelly M. Socia et al., "BrothersUnder the Bridge": FactorsInfluencing the Tran-
sience ofRegistered Sex Offenders in Florida,27 SEXUAL ABUSE: J. RSCH. & TREATMENT 559,
560 (2015); see also Jill S. Levenson et al., Where for Art Thou? TransientSex Offenders and
Residence Restrictions, 26 CRIM. JUST. POL'Y REV. 319, 321 (2015); see also Jill S. Levenson,
Hidden Challenges: Sex Offenders Legislatedinto Homelessness, 18 J. SOC. WORK 348, 348-
63 (2018); see also Gina Puls, No Place to Call Home: Rethinking Residency Restrictionsfor
Sex Offenders, 36 B.C.J.L. & SOC. JUST. 319, 319 (2016). Residence restrictions prohibit
where people with sex offense convictions can live in relation to schools, parks, and daycare
centers. These restrictions range from 1000 feet to over 2500 feet. This means that many places
that would otherwise be available for people with sex offense convictions to live become un-
available. Some states have created "tent cities" for people with sex offense convictions be-
cause there are no other available options for them. See generally UNTOUCHABLE (Blue Lawn
Productions 2016) (documenting the homeless encampment in Miami-Dade County, Florida).
100 Though not generalizable, the Ackerman and Sacks study found that the strain of being
on the registry impacted self-reported non-sexual recidivism. Individuals with higher levels of
anger and strain were more likely to report drug offenses, property offenses, and other violent
offenses. This is consistent with General Strain Theory, which explains that people who are
not able to cope with life stresses and strains may be more likely to act out in criminal and
delinquent ways. Alissa R. Ackerman & Meghan Sacks, Can General Strain Theory Be Used
to ExplainRecidivism Among RegisteredSex Offenders?, 40 J. CRIM. JUST. 187, 188-91 (2012)
(noting that the general criminological literature suggests that successful reentry into the com-
munity requires stable housing, employment, and pro-social relationships); cf ADIAH PRICE-
TUCKER ET AL., HARV. INST. OF POL. CRIM. JUST. POL'Y GRP., SUCCESSFUL REENTRY: A
COMMUNITY-LEVEL ANALYSIS 30 (2019) (highlighting that current sex crimes policies make
maintaining stable housing, employment, and pro-social relationships very difficult for people
to attain).
101 See Alissa R. Ackerman et al., Legislation Targeting Sex Offenders: Are Recent Poli-
cies Effective in Reducing Rape?, 29 JUST. Q. 858, 858-87 (2012); cf J. J. Prescott & Jonah
E. Rockoff, Do Sex Offender Registration andNotification Laws Affect Criminal Behavior?,
54 J. L. & ECON. 161, 161 (2011) (explaining that notification may increase recidivism); see
Bob Edward Visquez et al., The Influence ofSex Offender Registration andNotification Laws
in the United States: A Time-Series Analysis, 54 CRIME & DELINQ. 175, 188 (2008).
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See Alissa R. Ackerman et al., The Experiences of Registered Sex Offenders with In-
102
ternet Offender Registries in Three States, 52 J. OFFENDER REHAB. 29, 29-45 (2013); see also
Keri B. Burchfield & William Mingus, Not in My Neighborhood:Assessing Registered Sex
Offenders' Experiences with Local Social Capital and Social Control, 35 CRIM. JUST.
&
BEHAV. 356, 356-74 (2008); see also Jill S. Levenson & Leo P. Cotter, The Effect ofMegan's
Law on Sex Offender Reintegration, 21 J. CONTEMP. CRIM. JUST. 49, 49-66 (2005); see also
Jill S. Levenson & David A. D'Amora, Social PoliciesDesigned to PreventSexual Violence:
The Emperor'sNew Clothes?, 18 CRIM. JUST. POL'Y. REv. 168, 168-99 (2007); see also Jill S.
Levenson et al., Meghan's Law and its Impact on Community Re-Entry for Sex Offenders, 25
BEHAV. Sci. & L. 587, 591 (2007); see also Cynthia Calkins Mercado et al., The Impact of
Specialized Sex Offender Legislation on Community Reentry, 20 SEXUAL ABUSE: J. RSCH.
&
TREATMENT 188, 188 (2008); see also Richard Tewksbury, Collateral Consequence of Sex
Offender Registration, 21 J. CONTEMP. CRIM. JUST. 67, 67-81 (2005).
103 See generallyMichael Wenzel & Ines Thielmann, Why We Punish in the Name ofJus-
tice: JustDesert Versus Value Restoration and the Role of Social Identity, 19 SOc. JUST. RScH.
450 (2006).
104 Michelle Meloy et al., The Sponsors of Sex Offender Bills Speak up: Policy Makers'
Perceptions of Sex Offenders, Sex Crimes, and Sex Offender Legislation, 40 CRIM. JUST.
&
races. 108 A 2018 study by Ackerman and Sacks that examined the number
and rate of minorities on U.S. registries found that 72% of people who are
forced to register nationally were White, while fewer than 27% of
individuals were Black. 109 Jurisdictions in the southern U.S. had the
highest percentage of Black people on their registries."' Black registered
citizens comprised less than 5% of people forced to register in twelve
jurisdictions, but in each of those jurisdictions the percentage of Black
people forced to register was still higher than the percentage of Black
people in the state population."
Simple percentages do not provide enough information to explain the
extent of disproportionate minority presence, so per capita rates are used
to paint a more accurate picture. In every jurisdiction but one, Black
people had a higher rate of inclusion on registries. 2 The research is clear
that post-conviction sex crimes policies place undue burdens on people
forced to register, making reintegration into the community extremely
difficult. This is exponentially harder for people of color, specifically
because of the disparate impacts across criminal legal processes.113
Post-conviction sex crimes policies are typically used in a "one size
fits all" fashion, which improperly consider all offenses and the people
who commit them as if they are dangerous and will inevitably reoffend.
This causes the public to erroneously conflate sexual offenses committed
against children by strangers with all other forms of sexual offending.11 4
While these kinds of crimes do occur, they are rare.11 5 Perpetuating the
myth that we must protect kids from strangers makes it more difficult to
prevent the types of sex crimes that actually do happen on a regular basis,
namely crimes between people known to each other: family members,
acquaintances, teachers, colleagues, and friends.116 Most importantly,
upholding the stranger danger myth denies access to and participation in
important conversations and educational opportunities regarding ways to
effectively prevent sexual harm.
Another false assumption about registries is that they include all
people who have sexually offended and will therefore keep society safe.
With almost a million people on registries, this is easy to assume.117 It is
important to note that most new sexual offenses are committed by people
who are not on registries.118 First, this is because most people who are
convicted of a sexual offense do not reoffend. 119 Studies consistently find
that people who have committed a sexual offense, especially those who
have been through treatment, typically do not reoffend.120 A recent meta-
analysis of treatment programs found that they reduced recidivism by
See Richard R. Zevitz, Sex Offender Community Notification: Its Role in Recidivism
116
and Offender Reintegration, 19 CRIM. JUST. STUD. 193, 205 (2006).
117 NAT'L CTR. FOR MISSING & EXPLOITED CHILD., Map ofRegistered Sex Offenders in the
22%.121 The second reason for this erroneous assumption lies in reporting
patterns and pre-conviction criminal legal processing which funnels out
most known offenses. As mentioned, for every 1,000 rapes committed,
only 25 people will be convicted. 122 This translates into similar numbers
for inclusion on registries. As such, only a small fraction of people
responsible for inflicting sexual harm will ever end up on a registry.
Current post-conviction sex crimes policies and practices were
enacted after several highly publicized cases where young, White children
were abducted, sexually violated, and murdered by strangers. 123 Despite
the literature that clearly indicates that the vast majority of people who
have sexually harmed will not reoffend, these policies have burgeoned
into a vast web of local, state, and federal policies that deny people who
have been convicted of sexual offenses the ability to live productive lives
in the community. Research has shown that these policies do not reduce
sexual violence, that they create more risk than they prevent, that they
disproportionately impact people of color, and that people who
experience sexual violence are not proponents of these policies. In
addition, they only include a small fraction of people responsible for
committing acts of sexual harm. Still, post-conviction sex crimes policies
remain a popular law enforcement tool.
Criminal legal processes that occur prior to conviction and post-
conviction policies for people who have been convicted of sexual offenses
both contribute to additional harm for survivors, their families, and
broader communities. They often do not meet the justice needs of any
person impacted by sexual harm, and have no impact on decreasing rates
of sexual harm. One reason for this is that meeting the actual needs of all
parties requires individualized or case-by-case practices and procedures
that large systems are not amenable to. Another reason is a lack of
understanding about the many reasons why sexually harmful or violent
behavior occurs in the first place. Section III explains the reasons why
sexual harm occurs.
121 Bitna Kim et al., Sex Offender Recidivism Revisited: Review of Recent Meta-analyses
on the Effects of Sex Offender Treatment, 17 TRAUMA, VIOLENCE, & ABUSE 105, 109 (2016).
122 The CriminalJustice System: Statistics, RAINN, supranote 35.
123 Terry & Ackerman, supra note 73, at 64.
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124 KAREN J. TERRY, SEXUAL OFFENSES AND OFFENDERS: THEORY, PRACTICE AND POLICY
72-73 (2d ed. 2013).
125 Tony Ward, Sexual Offenders' Cognitive Distortions as Implicit Theories, 5
AGGRESSION & VIOLENT BEHAV. 491, 502-03 (2000).
126 TERRY, supra note 124, at 71-73.
Id.
127
See Gene G. Abel et al., Complications, Consent, and Cognitions in Sex Between Chil-
128
dren and Adults, 7 INT'L J. L. & PSYCHIATRY 89 (1984) (highlighting a few of the common
cognitive distortions and "explanations" held by adults who have caused sexual harm to chil-
dren); see also Marvin B. Scott & Stanford M. Lyman, Paranoia,Homosexuality, & Game
Theory, 9 J. HEALTH & SOC. BEHAV. (SPECIAL ISSUE) 179 passim (1968); Gresham M. Sykes
& David Matza, Techniques of Neutralization:A Theory of Delinquency, 22 AM. SOCIO. REV.
664, 666-67 (1957).
129 See JUDAH OUDSHOORN ET AL., THE LITTLE BOOK OF RESTORATIVE JUSTICE FOR SEXUAL
ABUSE: HOPE THROUGH TRAUMA 28-29 (2015); see also Gresham M. Sykes & David Matza,
supra note 128, at 667-68.
130 Ward, supra note 125, at 493.
131 Ruth Mann & Clive Hollin, Self-reported Schemas in Sexual Offenders, 21 J. FORENSIC
PSYCHIATRY & PSYCH. 834, 846 (2010); Rebecca J. Milner & Stephen D. Webster, Identifying
Schemas in Child Molesters, Rapists, and Violent Offenders, 17 SEXUAL ABUSE: J. RSCH.
&
TREATMENT 425, 434 (2005); see Neil M. Malamuth & Lisa M. Brown, Sexually Aggressive
Men's Perceptions of Women's Communications: Testing Three Explanations, 67 J.
PERSONALITY & SOC. PSYCH. 699 (1994); see also Devon L. L. Polaschek & Theresa A. Gan-
non, The Implicit Theories ofRapists: What Convicted Offenders Tell Us, 16 SEXUAL ABUSE:
2022] RESTORATIVE JUSTICE IN CASES OF SEXUAL HARM 23
book that analyzed rape within cultural and political contexts. 132 She
asserted that acts of sexual harm, specifically the rape of adult women,
exemplified men's oppression of them, and that sexual assault was a
symptom of a patriarchal society that subjects women and reinforces male
supremacy and domination.133 Societal-level variables including social
norms that support rape, male superiority, and maintain women's
inferiority culminate in negative views toward women and adherence to
rape myths. 134 Men who rape are more likely to condone violence and
identify with a hypermasculine identity. 135 Most rapes are about power,
control, and opportunity-not sexual attraction or gratification. 136 In
essence, rape is often used as a means to control and dominate. 137
Like those who commit acts of childhood sexual abuse, men who
commit rape often experience feelings of worthlessness, isolation,
feelings of inadequacy, few or weak peer relationships, and difficulty
managing aggression. 138 In combination with psychological, societal, and
behavioral factors, childhood trauma and abuse can also play a significant
role in the etiology of harmful sexual behavior. 139 Childhood adversity
and trauma are often significant predictors of myriad difficulties in
J. RSCH. & TREATMENT 299, 310-13 (2004); Devon L. L. Polaschek & Tony Ward, The Im-
plicit Theories of Potential Rapists: What Our Questionnaires Tell Us, 7 AGGRESSION
&
VIOLENT BEHAV. 385, 392-99 (2002).
132 SUSAN BROWNMILLER, AGAINST OUR WILL 15-18 (1975).
133 Id.
134 Burt, supra note 41, at 229.
135 Laura S. Abrams, Ben Anderson-Nathe & Jemel Aguilar, Constructing Masculinities
in Juvenile Corrections, 11 MEN & MASCULINITIES 22, 26 (2008); Dominic J. Parrott & Amos
Zeichner, Effects of Hypermasculinity on PhysicalAggression Against Women, 4 PSYCH. MEN
& MASCULINITY 70 (2003); Angela P. Harris, Gender, Violence, Race, and Criminal Justice,
52 STAN. L. REv. 777, 785 (2000) (defining hypermasculine identity as an "exaggerated exhi-
bition of physical strength and personal aggression"); R.W. Connell, Masculinities and Glob-
alization, 1 MEN & MASCULINITIES 3 (1998); A. Nicholas Groth, Ann Wolbert Burgess,
&
Lynda Lytle Holmstrom, Rape: Power, Anger, and Sexuality, 134 AM. J. PSYCHIATRY 1239,
1240 (1977).
136 Groth, et al., supra note 135, at 1242.
137 Id. at 1240.
138 Gordon C. Nagayama Hall & Richard Hirschman, Toward a Theory ofSexualAggres-
sion: A Quadripartite Model, 59 J. CONSULTING & CLINICAL PSYCH. 662, 665 (1991); see W.
L. Marshall, The Role ofAttachments, Intimacy, and Loneliness in the Etiology and Mainte-
nance of Sexual Offending, 25 SEXUAL & RELATIONSHIP THERAPY 73, 76-77 (2010).
139 Ashley F. Jespersen, Martin L. Lalumiere & Michael C. Seto, SexualAbuse History
Among Adult Sex Offenders and Non-Sex Offenders: A Meta-Analysis, 33 CHILD ABUSE
&
NEGLECT 179, 188 (2009); Jill S. Levenson & Melissa D. Grady, The Influence of Childhood
Trauma on Sexual Violence and Sexual Deviance in Adulthood, 22 TRAUMATOLOGY 94, 101
(2016) [hereinafter Levenson & Grady, The Influence of Childhood Trauma on Sexual Vio-
lence and Sexual Deviance in Adulthood].
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146 Cf HOWARD ZEHR, THE LITTLE BOOK OF RESTORATIVE JUSTICE: REVISED AND
REVISITED 42 (2d ed. 2015) (noting that people who have harmed have "an obligation to ad-
dress the causes of their behavior, but they usually cannot do this alone"). Based on the au-
thors' experience, the pre-education process helps people who have harmed to develop an
understanding of the causes of their behavior and the language to talk about those factors in
an accountable and responsible way.
147 See id. Criminal legal processes are concerned with whether a person is guilty of vio-
lating a specific criminal statute. This language is not utilized in restorative spaces, as the
focus is on the impact of the harm caused. For example, in a criminal legal process someone
could be convicted of perpetrating rape if the state could prove beyond a reasonable doubt that
a rape had occurred. The adversarial process might focus on the minutiae of the case. In re-
storative processes the focus remains on the impact of the behavior and the breakdown of
relationships. Restorative justice seeks to repair harm, while criminal legal processes seek to
affirm guilt.
148 HOWARD ZEHR & ALI GOHAR, THE LITTLE BOOK OF RESTORATIVE JUSTICE 33-36
(2003).
149 ZEHR & GOHAR, supra note 148 at 83-85.
150 ZEHR & GOHAR, supra note 148 at 18.
151 This is particularly true for people who have committed acts of sexual harm. See gen-
erally Bailey, supra note 98.
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152 See generallyBESSEL VAN DER KOLK, THE BODY KEEPS THE SCORE: BRAIN, MIND, AND
158 Mark S. Umbreit & Jean Greenwood, National Survey of Victim-Offender Mediation
Programsin the UnitedStates, 16 MEDIATION QUARTERLY 235, 236-41 (1999). See generally
Russ Immarigeon, Restorative Justice, Juvenile Offenders, and Crime Victims: A Review of
the Literature,RESTORATIVE JUV. JUST.: REPAIRING THE HARM OF YOUTH CRIME 305 (Gordon
Bazemore & Lode Walgrave eds., Criminal Justice Press 1999).
159 Sandra Pavelka, Restorative Justice in the States: An Analysis of Statutory Legislation
and Policy, 2 JUST. POL'Y J. 1, 2 (2016); MARK UMBREIT & MARILYN PETERSON ARMOUR,
RESTORATIVE JUSTICE DIALOGUE: AN ESSENTIAL GUIDE FOR RESEARCH AND PRACTICE (2011).
Common Justice operates the only non-profit pre-charge adult diversion restorative justice
program in the U.S, while The Sycamore Tree Project, a faith-based restorative justice pro-
gram that operates within prisons, is used here in the U.S. and in over 30 other countries. The
Sycamore Tree Project was developed by Prison Fellowship International. It has been in ex-
istence for over 20 years, with the UK and New Zealand as early adopters. The program brings
crime victims into prison settings to meet people who have committed crimes. Using a struc-
tured guide, a facilitator leads discussions on a series of topics related to the impact of crime.
160 Transformative justice ("TJ) is an abolitionist framework that views systems like pris-
ons, police and others as sites where significant amounts of violence takes place and as sys-
tems that were created to be violent to maintain social control. Mia Mingus, Transformative
Justice:A BriefDescription,TRANSFORMHARM.COM, https://perma.cc/2AHB-SCZM (last vis-
ited Jan. 23, 2022). Some TJ organizations include, INCITE! Women, Trans and Gender Non-
Conforming People of Color Against Violence, Generation FIVE, and the Bay Area Trans-
formative Justice Collective (BATJC").
161 Mimi E. Kim, From CarceralFeminism to Transformative Justice: Women-of-Color
Feminism and Alternatives to Incarceration, 27 J. ETHNIC & CULTURAL DIVERSITY IN SOC.
WORK 219, 226 (2018); Mimi E. Kim, Transformative Justice and Restorative Justice: Gen-
der-Based Violence andAlternative Visions of Justice in the United States, 27 INT'L REV.
VICTIMOLOGY 162, 169 (2021) [hereinafter Kim, TransformativeJustice and Restorative Jus-
tice]. Prison abolition is a term that is used to express opposition to the criminal legal system
and to measures that seek to reform and legitimize current crime control measures.
162 Kim, TransformativeJustice and Restorative Justice, supranote 161, at 162-72.
163 See Community Accountability: Emerging Movements to Transform Violence, 37 SOC.
JUST., no. 4, 2011-2012, at 1, 4-5; Donna K. Coker, TransformativeJustice: Anti-Subordina-
tion Processes in Cases of Domestic Violence, in RESTORATIVE JUSTICE AND FAMILY
VIOLENCE 128, 144-46 (Heather Strang & John Braithwaite eds., 2002).
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164 See Mimi E. Kim, Moving Beyond Critique: Creative Interventions and Reconstruc-
tions of Community Accountability, 37 Soc. JUST., no. 4, 2011-2012, at 14, 17 [hereinafter
Kim, Moving Beyond Critique] (discussing community accountability measures and trans-
formative justice have been used as harm-reduction in cases of gender-based violence since
the 1970s).
165 See ZEHR, supra note 146, at 38.
166 ZEHR & GOHAR, supra note 149, at 13, 22, 27, 37.
167 Id. at 25, 37.
Examples include Common Justice in Brooklyn and the Bronx; Project NIA and the
168
Community Justice for Youth Institute in Chicago; Restorative Justice for Oakland Youth
(RJOY) and Community Works in Oakland and San Francisco; the Community Conferencing
Center in Baltimore; and the Insight Prison Project in San Quentin, among others.
169 See generally Belinda Hopkins, Restorative Justice in Schools, 17 SUPPORT FOR
LEARNING 144 (2003).
170 Vermont Law School and The University of San Diego Center for Restorative Justice
are two such training and certificate programs. See Restorative Justice Degrees, VT. L. SCH.,
https://perma.cc/MC9E-NM4R (last visited Jan. 23, 2022); Restorative Justice, UNI. OF SAN
DIEGO, CTR. FOR RESTORATIVE JUST., https://perma.cc/RW3Z-XLT5 (last visited Jan. 23,
2022).
171 See Kim, Moving Beyond Critique, supra note 164, at 14-35 and accompanying note.
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broken? Who did it? What do they deserve? There are three main
philosophical arguments for current criminal legal processes. 172 The first
centers on retribution. From a retributive or just desserts perspective,
people who violate criminal statutes need to be punished because it is
what they deserve. 173 Deterrence, on the other hand, implies that
punishment will either stop an individual from committing another crime
or will stop others from doing so.174 Finally, incapacitation seeks to keep
the community safe from dangerous people.1" All of these notions are
centered solely on people who violate the law. There is little-and often
no-attention given to people who have been harmed by these law
violations. Yet, there is a growing body of literature that critiques system
responses to those who have caused harm and those who have been
harmed. 176
Restorative justice offers a framework that focuses on all people
impacted by harm. This includes people who have perpetrated harmful
acts, those who have experienced them, and others who have been
impacted by them. It asks a very different series of questions, and as such
offers distinctly varied outcomes. For instance, while criminal legal
processes are concerned with which criminal statute was violated,
restorative processes ask who was harmed. Instead of focusing on who is
guilty and what punishment they deserve, restorative processes focus on
the needs of the person who has been harmed and who is obliged to meet
those needs. Restorative processes achieve justice by involving those
affected by a harm in the process to collectively address the specific harm
at hand. 177 To make justice more healing, restorative, and transformative,
people who have been harmed must be satisfied with the process and
people who cause harm must acknowledge their actions. 178 They must
fully understand the impact of their behavior and must take steps toward
active accountability.179 Accountability measures to repair harm must also
address the reason for the harmful behavior.180 The final outcome seeks
172 See generally TERENCE MIETHE & HONG LU, PUNISHMENT: A COMPARATIVE
HISTORICAL PERSPECTIVE (1st ed. 2005).
173 See generally id.
174 See generally id.
175 See generally id.
176 See, e.g., Dale C. Spencer, Cultural Criminology: An Invitation . . to What?, 19
CRITICAL CRIMINOLOGY 197 (2011).
177 Based on the authors' experience.
178 Based on the authors' experience. Satisfaction with the restorative process means dif-
ferent things to different clients and is often based on their goals and expectation. Restorative
processes require that practitioners seek feedback on the experiences of their clients.
179 Id.
180 ZEHR, supra note 146, at 40-43.
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181 ZEHR & GOHAR, supra note 148, at 41 (noting how the word "closure" is not always
preferable for people who have experienced harm because it suggests that everything can be
placed in the past. The word does, however, capture a sense of being able to move forward
which is how it is being used here in a restorative justice context.).
182 See Williamson M. Evers & Vicki E. Alger, Restorative Justice is Unfair to Students
Who Want to Learn, INDEP. INST. (Sept. 2, 2020), https://perma.cc/LM2M-CD83 (offering a
typical view of the opposition to restorative options which is that restorative practices in
schools lead to a culture of leniency and a lack of accountability).
183 Daye Gang et al., A CallforEvaluation ofRestorative Justice Programs, 22 TRAUMA,
VIOLENCE, & ABUSE 186, 186-90 (2019).
184 Based on the authors' experience as restorative justice practitioners, they have learned
that no two restorative justice processes are the same. While all processes follow a set of values
and guidelines described elsewhere in this paper, each process focuses on the specific needs
of the individual participants in any given process.
185 Lois Presser & Patricia Van Voorhis, Values and Evaluation: Assessing Processes and
Outcomes of Restorative Justice Programs, 48 CRIME & DELINQ. 162, 171 (2002); see also
Mark S. Umbreit, Crime Victims Seeking Fairness, Not Revenge: Tow ardRestorativeJustice,
53 FED. PROBATION 52 (1989).
186 William Bradshaw et al., The Effect of Victim Offender Mediationon Juvenile Offender
Recidivism: A Meta-analysis, 24 CONFLICT RESOL. Q. 87, 89 (2006); Jeff Latimer et al., The
Effectiveness of Restorative Justice Practices:A Meta-analysis, 85 PRISON J. 127, 131 (2005);
2022] RESTORATIVE JUSTICE IN CASES OF SEXUAL HARM 31
Robin J. Wilson et al., Circles of Support and Accountability: Engaging Community Volun-
teers in the Management of High-Risk Sexual Offenders, 46 HOWARD J. 1, 5 (2005).
187 Restorative justice conferencing (RJC) using face-to-face meetings of offenders and
victims: Effects on offender recidivism and victim satisfaction. A systematic review. Studies
on the effectiveness of restorative justice have measured satisfaction among people who have
been harmed, reduction in repeat offending for violent offenses, ability for people who have
been harmed to deal with trauma and post-traumatic stress, and compliance with formal sanc-
tions. People who have been harmed and have participated in restorative justice experience
less anxiety about further victimization, less fear of crime overall, and less anger about their
specific harm. See generally Caroline M. Angel et al., Short-Term Effects ofRestorative Jus-
tice Conferences on Post-TraumaticStress Symptoms Among Robbery and Burglary Victims:
A Randomized Controlled Trial, 10 J. EXP. CRIMINOLOGY 291, 292 (2014); LAWRENCE W.
SHERMAN & HEATHER STRANG, RESTORATIVE JUSTICE: THE EVIDENCE 8 (The Smith Institute
2007); Lawrence W. Sherman et al., Effects ofFace-to-FaceRestorative Justice on Victims of
Crime in Four Randomized, Controlled Trials, 1 J. EXPERIMENTAL CRIMINOLOGY 367, 371
(2005) [hereinafter Four Randomized Controlled Trials]; HEATHER STRANG ET AL.,
RESTORATIVE JUSTICE CONFERENCING (RJC) USING FACE-TO-FACE MEETINGS OF OFFENDERS
AND VICTIMS: EFFECTS ON OFFENDER RECIDIVISM AND VICTIM SATISFACTION. A SYSTEMATIC
REVIEW 5 (David Wilson eds., The Campbell Collaborations 2013).
188 See generally JAMES BONTA ET AL., SOLICITOR GEN. CANADA, RESTORATIVE JUSTICE:
AN EVALUATION OF THE RESTORATIVE RESOLUTIONS PROJECT 29 (1998); James Bonta et al.,
An Outcome Evaluation of a Restorative Justice Alternative to Incarceration, 5 CONTEMP.
JUST. R. 319, 319-38 (2002); Bradshaw, et al., supra note 182, at 94; Jeff Latimer et al., supra
note 186, at 137; William R. Nugent et al., Participationin Victim-Offender Mediation and
the Prevalenceand Severity of SubsequentDelinquentBehavior:A Meta-Analysis, 2003 UTAH
L. REV. 137, 164 (2003); Nancy Rodriguez, Restorative Justice at Work: Examining the Im-
pact ofRestorative Justice Resolutions on Juvenile Recidivism, 53 CRIME & DELINQ. 355, 374-
75 (2007); Lawrence W. Sherman et al., Are Restorative Justice ConferencesEffective in Re-
ducing Repeat Offending? Findingsfrom a Campbell Systematic Review 31 J. QUANTITATIVE
CRIMINOLOGY 1, 20 (2015).
189 SHERMAN & STRANG, supra note 187, at 88-89.
190 Mark S. Umbriet, Robert B. Coates & Betty Vos, The Impact of Victim-Offender Me-
diation: Two Decades ofResearch, 65 FED. PROBATION 29, 31 (2001).
191 Caroline M. Angel et al., supranote 187, at 295-96.
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The rapes that the authors experienced in 1999 lead them on very
different paths. Alexa immediately reported her rape to the police. This
began a lengthy process during which Alexa was interviewed several
times by law enforcement and prosecutors. Alexa had misgivings about
testifying. However, she was often encouraged by those involved with the
case to testify to protect the community from the man who raped her.
Alexa also testified because she believed that it would help her heal and
move on from the experience. Unfortunately, even though the man who
raped her was found guilty and received a lengthy sentence, the unusual
result did not mitigate the significant impact the criminal legal process
had on her mental health and well-being.
Alissa did not tell anyone about her rape. Both the acute and chronic
mental health impacts of the assault and the silence were devastating.
Still, she remained silent about her rape for 15 years. In 2014, Alissa
began opening up about the experience, because as a criminal justice
professor and sex crimes expert, she felt like a fraud not owning her
experience. Disclosing her rape had additional acute mental health
outcomes, including flashbacks and nightmares that returned after many
years. One of the first people she disclosed to was Dr. Jill S. Levenson,
her colleague and friend who is a therapist who works with both survivors
of sexual violence and individuals who have perpetrated it. 193 In 2016, she
asked Alissa if she would be willing to speak to the men in her treatment
program as "Alissa, rape survivor." It was this initial conversation and
subsequent work together that led Alissa on a path toward embracing
restorative justice. Further conversations with Alexa and the opportunity
to participate in vicarious restorative justice process ("VRJ") sessions
brought Alexa to a similar journey.
As sex crimes researchers, survivors, restorative justice participants
and restorative justice practitioners, the authors have learned that a
holistic approach to addressing harm is necessary if society ultimately
seeks to help survivors to heal and to decrease the overall occurrence of
sexual harm. Both authors found their most profound moments of healing
ida. She began her career working with survivors of sexual violence. Her therapeutic practice
mostly focuses on individual and group therapy with men who have been mandated to treat-
ment after a conviction for a sexual offense.
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194 See JUDITH HERMAN, TRAUMA AND RECOVERY: THE AFTERMATH OF VIOLENCE-FROM
states she now knows how many seconds there are in two hours because she counted the sec-
onds on her clock during her entire rape. See Thordis Elva & Tom Stranger, Our Story ofRape
and Reconciliation, TEDWOMEN (2016), https://perma.cc/D526-QGEY.
34 CUNYLAWREVIEW [Vol. 25.1
199 See generally Rebecca Campbell et al., The Impact of Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner
Programson Criminal Justice Case Outcomes: A Multisite Replication Study, 20 VIOLENCE
AGAINST WOMEN 607 (2014) (illustrating that the traditional legal system is not designed for
this process through research showing that most cases at the six SANE sites never led to crim-
inal prosecution due to high rates of case attrition that begins early in the investigation pro-
cess). See also Shaw, supra note 45, at 454-55 (finding that fewer than 30% of cases are re-
ferred for prosecution and that police are less likely to complete an investigation if they
believed the victim was becoming uncooperative, incompetent, or weak. These are common
presentations of acute and chronic trauma.).
200 See Herman, supra note 19, at 574; see also VANDIVER ET AL., supra note 56, at 68.
201 See Herman, supra note 19, at 574.
202 Id.
203 See id. at 585.
204 OUDSHOORN ET AL., supra note 129, at 27.
205 Herman, supra note 19, at 585.
206 Id. at 574.
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and defense attorneys ask. Thus, their testimony does not accurately
represent their stories.
Alexa remembers that part of the reason she was fearful about
testifying was the possibility that she would say something that conflicted
with her initial report to law enforcement. During the preparation process,
she was told that this could be a way that a defense attorney could
discredit her during the criminal trial. As such, Alexa still feels that her
testimony does not adequately communicate what she experienced the
night she was raped.
The ability to reconnect with and tell one's story can also help a
person reconnect with their bodies and with other people. 2 07 Bessel van
der Kolk explains that traumatic experiences often leave people
speechless because they are unable to find words to describe the feelings
and sensations that overwhelm their senses when they think about a
traumatic experience. 208 Finding the right language leads to self-
awareness and healing. 209 That language often involves metaphors related
to the body itself. This is because trauma impacts the mind, body, and
spirit.210 It can affect every layer of the body, from the cellular and
physiological to the psychological. 21 1 Simply put, the brain remembers
what the body tries to forget. 212
If someone experiences trauma and does not or cannot take the steps
necessary to heal from that trauma, it can overtake their body and their
brain. 2 13 Therefore, long after an experience of sexual harm, a person may
not feel safe in their own skin. This can result in chronic pain in the body,
including chronic pelvic pain, muscle tension, headaches, and other
psychosomatic issues.2 14 It can also result in total disconnection and
dissociation from the body. 21 5 Bessel van der Kolk explains that trauma
survivors often become experts in numbing because the body sensations
that arise from trauma are often too overwhelming to process. 216 The
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215 VAN DER KOLK, supra note 152, at 91.
216 Id., at 90-91.
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217 Id.
218 VANDIVER ET AL., supra note 56, at 75.
219 Asaf Caspi et al., Relationship Between Childhood Sexual Abuse and Obsessive-Com-
pulsive Disorder: Case Control Study, 45 ISR. J. PSYCHIATRY & RELATED SCI. 177 (2008).
220 VANDIVER ET AL., supra note 56, at 75.
221 Caitlyn Hamilton, Trauma, Sexual Assault and Eating Disorders, NAT'L EATING
DISORDERS ASS'N, https://perma.cc/5FNU-2AX7 (last visited Jan. 23, 2022).
222 Colleen M. Lang & Komal Sharma-Patel, The Relation Between Childhood Maltreat-
ment and Self-Injury: A Review of the Literature on Conceptualization and Intervention, 12
TRAUMA, VIOLENCE, & ABUSE 23, 25 (2011) (explaining that self-harm is common among
survivors of sexual harm, with the strongest association between self-injury and child sexual
abuse); Mireille Cyr et al., Clinical Correlates and Repetition of Self-Harming Behaviors
Among FemaleAdolescent Victims of SexualAbuse 14 J. CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE 49, 51 (2005).
223 Lang & Sharma-Patel, supra note 222, at 28.
224 SelfHarm, RAINN, https://perma.cc/SZJ5-WJVU (last visited Jan. 23, 2022) [herein-
The authors both speak publicly about their alcohol and drug abuse
in the aftermath of rape. 229 Like many other survivors of sexual violence,
Alexa struggled with anorexia for many years following her rape. Alissa
also struggled with self-harm for many years and attempted suicide twice
in the three years following her rape.
People who have unresolved trauma or those who have a diagnosis
of PTSD may live in a state of constant hyper-arousal, acute
hypervigilance, or complete dissociation from the body. 230 Both the
authors, for example, experience hypervigilance and an overly sensitive
startle response. Something as loud as fireworks or as quiet as an
unexpected whisper can trigger a trauma response in them. With an
overactivated trauma response, the brain is less likely to properly interpret
cues. 231 This may lead to the inability to determine that something could
be dangerous or, at the other extreme, that everything is a threat.232
Sexual trauma shapes the way one connects with and thinks about
themselves and others. 233 It can impact how one processes emotions and
how they behave. 2 34 Understanding these impacts and the unique ways
they are experienced by individual survivors, including helping survivors
to understand these impacts in themselves, can aid in the healing
process. 235 There are many additional needs that people who experience
sexual harm may seek to address. 236 First and foremost, they need to feel
safe and secure, both physically and emotionally. 237 This requires
consistent and authentic relationships that help survivors regain trust.2 38
People rarely lie about experiencing sexual harm and rates of false reports
robiology of trauma to make better sense of their experiences. In particular, reading The Body
Keeps the Score, supra note 152, and Trauma and Recovery, supra note 194, changed the way
the authors thought about their experiences.
243 OUDSHOORN ET AL., supra note 129, at 27. Oudshoorn and colleagues provide the ex-
amples of a male survivor experiencing an erection or ejaculation during an assault and of a
female survivor experiencing an orgasm while being abused. It has been our experience that
education goes beyond these physical explanations. For instance, helping a survivor to under-
stand the freeze response as a completely normal reaction to sexual trauma helps put them at
ease. Similarly, explaining how individuals react differently in different situations helps sur-
vivors to feel less alone.
244 Based on the authors' experience, naming unhealthy coping mechanisms and engaging
conversation with clients who have experienced sexual harm around these coping mechanisms
is critical. Ultimately, it is up to the person who was harmed to address any unhealthy coping
strategies. Discussions around tools to use and healthy coping strategies can begin the ac-
countability process for those who have been harmed.
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245 Anthony R. Beech & Ian J. Mitchell, Intimacy Deficits/Attachment Problems in Sexual
Offenders: Towards a Neurobiological Explanation, in 1 THE WILEY HANDBOOK ON THE
THEORIES, ASSESSMENT, AND TREATMENT OF SEXUAL OFFENDING 187 (Douglas P. Boer ed.,
2016); JILL S. LEVENSON ET AL., TRAUMA-INFORMED CARE: TRANSFORMING TREATMENT FOR
PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEXUALLY ABUSED 4 (2017); TERRY, supra note 124, at 57-58, 67, 106.
246 ACKERMAN & LEVENSON, supra note 195, at 68.
247 W.L. Marshall et al., Empathy in Sex Offenders, 15 CLINICAL PSYCH. REV. 99, 109
accepting responsibility for the harm, taking the steps to understand why
they behaved in such a harmful way, and making a commitment to do the
hard work necessary to ensure it does not happen again. The need to be
believed, absolved, and vindicated can also be addressed by
acknowledging what happened without excuses or justifications for the
behavior. The need to have a voice and feel empowered can be met by
listening, demonstrating remorse, and validating the experience. Finally,
the need for information and options can be met by answering any
questions the survivor has and sharing the steps one has taken and will
continue to take to ensure that their behavior is different in the future.
Restorative justice provides the opportunity and the space for all these
needs to be addressed in a safe and meaningful way.
As with restorative justice more generally, cases of sexual harm can
take many forms. Each case is handled with the same care and values
related to authenticity, transparency, honesty, and a common humanity,
but no two cases are the same. This is because no two people have the
same needs or goals and because similar needs and goals may be
addressed in distinctly different ways. It is important to be mindful that
restorative justice is not for all people, 249 but that most people who engage
in the process are satisfied with the results.
In the following section, the authors begin by talking about stepping
into restorative justice. They share Alissa's experience of participating in
and then co-creating the vicarious restorative justice process ("VRJ") for
cases of sexual harm. The authors then share Alexa's experience of
participating in a vicarious accountability circle process with Alissa. They
go on to discuss the typical forms of restorative justice in cases of sexual
harm, including victim-offender conferencing, circle processes, and VRJ.
The authors provide a case example of a victim-offender dialogue that
Alissa facilitated, including written comments from those participants
provided after their restorative justice process. Lastly, the authors share a
short case example of a VRJ process.
offenses. Alissa knew she had an opportunity to help the participants gain
insight into how their actions may have impacted the people they had
harmed simply by approaching them with vulnerability and respect. This,
in turn, allowed the men to model that same vulnerability. What Alissa
was not prepared for was the healing impacts this experience had on her
personally. Here, she describes the experience:
My body was visibly shaking as I took my seat at the front of the
room. The door, my escape, was to my right, Jill sat to my left.
The men sat in a circle of chairs taking up the rest of the room. I
was both terrified and intrigued. This was the first time I was in a
room full of people who had committed sexual offenses without
the security of my title, Dr. Ackerman. My fear was not because
I was seated in a room of men who have perpetrated sexual
violence. It was directly related to my promise to be open,
authentic and vulnerable. Still, the men were far more terrified
than I was. Having never had to sit face-to-face with someone
who had experienced sexual violence, I am sure they were
expecting my anger and wrath, not my honesty and a common
humanity.
At the end of the session, a man who had served 20 years in prison
for a violent rape that was very similar to Alissa's asked if he could give
her a hug and she immediately hugged him.250 It was such a genuine
expression of understanding and healing for them both. The night after
this session, Alissa was able to return to the place where she was raped
and make peace with it. This would not have happened without the
healing dialogue that had occurred just 24 hours prior. Approaching
difficult conversations in this fashion allows all parties involved to feel
seen and heard. While this experience was not originally envisioned as a
restorative justice circle process, that is exactly what it turned out to be.
That initial experience in 2016 led to Alissa and Dr. Levenson writing a
book on the use of VRJ for cases of sexual harm. It has also led to Alissa's
participation in and facilitation of VRJ processes with over 500 people
who have been convicted of sexual offenses.
In 2018, Alissa was asked to create an accountability circle for a man
who had committed a rape 20 years ago. Alissa asked Alexa if she would
be interested in participating and Alexa jumped at the opportunity. Alexa
talks about her experience of participating in this circle as profoundly
healing, unlike a criminal trial. She says that she had told her story many
times, but telling the story in the accountability circle was the most
250 AlissaR. Ackerman, The Importance of Connection, TED (Oct. 2018), https://perma.cc
/MF39-ZSFE.
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important time she ever told it because it gave her the opportunity to tell
it to the person that needed to hear it the most-a person who had
committed rape. 1 Together, the authors have participated in and
facilitated VRJ processes in multiple states. 52
251 Alissa Ackerman, Episode 13: Get Curious, BEYOND FEAR: THE SEX CRIMES PODCAST
(Nov. 11, 2020), https://perma.cc/2RF8-ZWNG.
252 The authors have facilitated and/or participated in VRJ processes
in California, Florida,
Minnesota, and Oregon. The authors have served as restorative justice facilitators in the com-
munity, in treatment settings, and in prisons.
253 See, e.g., Gordon Bazemore & Twila Hugley Earle, Balance in the Response to Family
Violence: Challenging Restorative Principles, in RESTORATIVE JUSTICE AND FAMILY
VIOLENCE 153, 177 (H. Strang & J. Barithwaite eds.); Donna Coker, EnhancingAutonomy for
Battered Women: Lessons from Navajo Peacemaking, 47 UCLA L. REV. 1 (1999); Kathleen
Daly, Professorial Lecture at the School of Criminology and Criminal Justice at Griffith Uni-
versity: Seeking Justice in the 21st Century: The Contested Politics of Race and Gender (Apr.
21, 2005); James Dignan & Michael Cavadino, Towards a Frameworkfor Conceptualizing
and Evaluating Models of Criminal Justice from a Victim's Perspective, 4 INT'L REV.
VICTIMOLOGY 153 (1996); Barbara Hudson, Restorative Justice: The Challenge ofSexual and
Racial Violence, 25 J. L. & SOC'Y 237 (1998); Barbara Hudson, Restorative Justice and Gen-
dered Violence: Diversion or Effective Justice?, 42 BRIT. J. CRIMINOLOGY 616 (2002); Mary
P. Koss, Blame, Shame, and Community: Justice Responses to Violence Against Women, 55
AM. PSYCH. 1332 (2000); Mary P. Koss et al., Expanding a Community's Justice Response to
Sex Crimes Through Advocacy, Prosecutorial, and PublicHealth Collaboration:Introducing
the RESTORE Program, 19 J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 1435 (2004); Mary P. Koss et al.,
Justice Responses to Sexual Assault: Lessons Learned and New Directions, in UNDOING
HARM: INTERNATIONAL PERSPECTIVES ON INTERVENTIONS FOR MEN WHO USE VIOLENCE
AGAINST WOMEN 37 (Mona Eliasson ed., 2004); Einat Peled et al., Choice and Empowerment
for Battered Women Who Stay: Toward a ConstructivistModel, 45 NAT'L ASS'N OF SOC.
WORKERS, INC. 9 (2000); Laureen Snider, Feminism, Punishment, and the Potential of Em-
powerment, in CRIMINOLOGY AT THE CROSSROADS: FEMINIST READINGS IN CRIME AND JUSTICE
246 (Kathleen Daly & Lisa Maher eds., 1998).
254 Annie Cossins, Restorative Justice and Child Sex Offenses, 48 BRIT. J. CRIMINOLOGY
359, 361 (2008). Cossins re-analyzes data from previous studies on child sexual abuse and
restorative justice and finds that there is not enough evidence to support restorative justice
options in cases where juveniles have committed a sexual offense against another child. In
practice, the authors do not use restorative justice with children who have been sexually
harmed but do take cases involving adult survivors of child sexual abuse.
255 Based on the authors' experience.
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256 See also LORRAINE STUTZMAN AMSTUTZ, THE LITTLE BOOK OF VICTIM OFFENDER
265 All case examples use pseudonyms when necessary and some facts are edited from
actual experiences in order to protect the anonymity and confidentiality of participants.
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process. After Jocelyn chose the chair and the exact place in the room
where she felt the safest and in control, both Alissa and Ronnie sat down.
Jocelyn and Ronnie exhibited body language that communicated that
they were tense and uncomfortable. Nonetheless, Ronnie asked if he
could read a letter he had written to Jocelyn to begin the dialogue. Jocelyn
agreed and listened intently to Ronnie's admission of rape and full
accountability for his actions. As Ronnie spoke, Jocelyn's visceral tension
relaxed, and she seemed far more comfortable in her skin. Jocelyn then
had the opportunity to share all the ways that this rape had impacted her.
She spoke through tears as she described the acute manifestations of
trauma in the direct aftermath of the rape, and then detailed the more
chronic and insidious impacts on her physical and mental health over
time.
The formal dialogue lasted approximately three hours, at which point
Jocelyn and Ronnie asked Alissa to leave. There was more they wanted
to discuss without the formality of a facilitator. This speaks volumes
about the actual dialogue process, as Jocelyn felt safe enough to be alone
with the man who raped her years prior.
Here is what Jocelyn noted about the process: 266
My RJ experience may have been a little unconventional in that I
reached out to the person who sexually assaulted me . . .. [u]p
until that point, he had been in denial that he had raped me. He
apologized right away and we started exchanging messages and
preparing for a restorative justice session with Alissa.
As part of our preparation, we were tasked with coming up with
agreements about the meeting. After exchanging messages online,
we ended up agreeing to talk by phone. It was during one of our
phone conversations that he told me had talked to Alissa. He said,
"I told her 'I raped Jocelyn."' It was the first time I had heard
those words. I think many survivors have the experience of
knowing they were raped and not having anyone be accountable,
which is crazy-making. I often felt like I was lost in my thoughts
about the rape and was worried that I had somehow made it up.
Having him admit that he knew it was rape and say that it
happened freed me from the self-doubt I had been experiencing
for twenty years.
The work we did to prepare for the restorative justice session and
the meeting itself was both intense and powerful. Coming face to
face with the person who hurt me all those years ago and hearing
him say he was sorry and be accountable for his actions, shifted
things for me. A few months after we had met up for our meeting,
I realized that I no longer felt like my identity was tied up in my
experience of the rape. He had apologized and demonstrated to
me that he was actively making changes in his life. The sting of
the encounter (many years ago) had dissipated. There was simply
nothing left for my psyche to hold onto or process anymore. The
experience had been validated and he had taken responsibility. I
was free of the guilt that had been swirling in my head for two
decades about all the things I could have or should have done
differently. I finally got it. It wasn't my fault.
Ronnie wrote a reflection as well 267 :
I've been married for 14 incredible years, I have two beautiful
children, and I raped someone 20 years ago. Confronting my past
sexual transgressions wasn't just about how the survivor would
heal or how I dealt with my emotions. It came, and still comes,
with an incredible burden that I placed on my wife and children.
I'm one of a very large group of males who have committed
sexual assault and rape and buried it as deep as I could.
In 2018, three days before the Super Bowl, the survivor reached
out to me on Facebook. I knew she was going to reach out at some
point because she confronted me about the rape the day after it
happened. Back then, I was a typical adolescent male, and like
many men in society today, I denied all culpability. As soon as
she reached out, I did a little research and quickly realized the
impact that I had on her all this time.
I did it, I raped her. It was a fact now. For the next few months, I
felt like I was walking around with a jersey that said "rapist" on
the back.
After the survivor reached out to me, I knew I had to confront it.
I felt compelled to reach out and apologize. There was this utter
disgust in my stomach that I could not bury. I didn't know what
would happen at that stage, but I couldn't live with myself
knowing exactly how she felt and still denying it occurred like I
did 20 years ago.
I remember exactly what I was doing when I received that
Facebook message. I was at a burrito joint picking up some food
for my children and I did everything I could not to show my
268 See generally KAY PRANIS, THE LITTLE BOOK OF CIRCLE PROCESSES: A NEW/OLD
APPROACH TO PEACEMAKING (2005).
Based on the authors' experiences.
269
270 Based on the authors' experiences. In most instances when the authors engage in re-
storative processes, they will not reach out to a survivor on behalf of someone who caused
harm. Restorative justice should be survivor driven.
271 See ACKERMAN & LEVENSON, supra note 195, at vii-viii.
272 The authors have participated in and facilitated VRJ sessions in the California prison
273 See Marie Keenan & Estelle Zinsstag, Restorative Justice and Sexual Offenses: Can
PATTERNS OF VICTIMIZATION AND OFFENDING 230, 334 (Karen Heimer & Candace
Kruttschnitt eds., 2006); see generally Kathleen Daly & Dannielle Wade, In-Depth Study of
Sexual Assault and Family Violence Cases, PartII: Sibling Sexual Assault, Other Sexual As-
sault, and Youth-Parent Assault, S. AUSTL. JUV. JUST. AND CRIM. JUST. RSCH. ON
CONFERENCING AND SENT'G (2012); Kathleen Daly et al., In-Depth Study of Sexual Assault
and Family Violence Cases, S. AUSTL. JUV. JUST. AND CRIM. JUST. RSCH. ON CONFERENCING
AND SENT'G (2007); SHIRLEY JULICH ET AL., AN EXPLORATORY STUDY OF RESTORATIVE JUST.
AND SEXUAL VIOLENCE (2010); McGlynn et al., supra note 277; Clare McGlynn et al., Seeking
Justice for Survivors of Sexual Violence: Recognition, Voice and Consequences, in SEXUAL
VIOLENCE AND RESTORATIVE JUSTICE: LEGAL, SOCIAL AND THERAPEUTIC DIMENSIONS (Marie
Keenan & Estelle Zinsstag eds., 2016).
280 See Cossins, supra note 254, at 365.
281 See Sarah Curtis-Fawley & Kathleen Daly, GenderedViolence andRestorativeJustice:
The Views of Victim Advocates, 11 VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN 603, 607-08 (2005).
282 See Herman, supra note 19, at 597-99 (finding that survivor's views of justice do not
ers Accountable, 989 ANNALS N.Y. ACAD. SCIs. 384 (2003); Mary P. Koss, Expanding a Com-
munity's Justice Response to Sex Crimes Through Advocacy, Prosecutorial,and PublicHealth
CollaborationIntroducing the RESTORE Program, 19 J. INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE 1435
(2004); McGlynn, supra note 68, at 825; McGlynn et al., supra note 275.
286 There is an existing body of literature that focuses on disproportionate presence of
Black and Brown people and systemic racism in the United States' criminal legal system. See
MICHELLE ALEXANDER, THE NEW JIM CROW: MASS INCARCERATION IN THE AGE OF COLOR
BLINDNESS 16 (2012).
287 Howard Zehr is known as the father of modern restorative justice. His updated and
revised The Little Book on Restorative Justice acknowledges systemic racism and questions
whether we have done enough within the field of restorative justice to not perpetuate the prob-
lems we see within the criminal legal system. ZEHR, supranote 146, at 14. Similarly, The Little
Book ofRestorative Justicefor Sexual Abuse makes a similar acknowledgement. OUDSHOORN
ET AL., supra note 129, at 5.
288 See TREVOR FRONIUS ET AL., WESTED JUST. & PREVENTION RSCH. CTR., RESTORATIVE
JUSTICE IN U.S. SCHOOLS: AN UPDATED RESEARCH REVIEW 9, 19 (2019).
289 Common Justice, based in New York City, and Impact Justice, based in Oakland Cali-
fornia, are two such organizations. Common Justice is the only organization to focus on com-
munity-based solutions to violent felonies in adult courts using an equity lens to address racial
inequities. Their website states, "Racial inequity drives violence. That means that any strategy
to advance safety must advance equity as well." About Common Justice, COMMON JUST.,
https://perma.cc/Y9VK-UCGW (last visited Jan. 23, 2022). Danielle Sered, the executive di-
rector of Common Justice, is the author of Until We Reckon which grapples with dealing with
violence from an abolitionist perspective. DANIELLE SERED, UNTIL WE RECKON: VIOLENCE,
MASS INCARCERATION, AND A ROAD TO REPAIR (2021). The Restorative Justice Project at Im-
pact Justice is the only program of its kind to partner with local communities across the coun-
try to offer technical assistance and training to address harm using pre-charge diversion pro-
grams. Restorative Justice Project: Partneringwith Communities to Address Harm Through
Dialogue, IMPACT JUST., https://perma.cc/S6YM-5DAH (last visited Jan. 23, 2022).
290 A new edited book, ColorizingRestorative Justice: Voicing Our Realities, was released
in 2020. This book highlights the experience of non-White restorative justice practitioners and
scholars. The twenty authors collectively and individually call out the contradiction between
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294 Even the most progressive prosecutorial offices in the nation have limitations to restor-
ative justice when it comes to sex offenses. To illustrate, instead of restorative approaches to
sex offenses, the goal in the Brooklyn District Attorney's Justice 2020 plan is to, "[e]nhance
prosecution of cases of gender-based violence, including acquaintance rape and sexual assault
cases." ERIC GONZALEZ, BROOKLYN DIST. ATT'Y'S OFF., supra note 293, at 35.
295 See ZEHR, supra note 146, at 14.
Based on the authors' experience. There have been cases where the authors have ceased
296
working with clients who have harmed because they were not progressing in taking true ac-
countability for their behavior. Similarly, some people who have experienced harm will not
be ready for a restorative process. Some individuals are oriented toward retributive justice.
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297 See Campbell, supra note 26, at 31; Rachel Kate Bandy, The Impact of Sex Offender
Policies on Victims, in SEX OFFENDER LAWS: FAILED POLICIES, NEW DIRECTIONS, supra note
73, at 358-79.
298 See generally Mary P. Koss, Restoring Rape Survivors: Justice, Advocacy, and a Call
to Action, 1087 ANNALS N.Y. ACAD. Scis. 206 (2006). The article highlights that individuals
who have experienced rape feel that their legal needs are not met due to justice system issues
such as attrition, retraumatization, and disparate treatment across gender, class, and ethnic
lines. Empirical data presented in the article supports each issue and concludes that the current
justice options are inadequate.
299 See id.
300 See Spohn & Tellis, supra note 38, at 170.
301 See McGlynn & Westmarland, supra note 69, at 186.
302 See Tarana Burke & Brent Brown, Introduction to YOU ARE YOUR BEST THING:
VULNERABILITY, SHAME RESILIENCE, AND THE BLACK EXPERIENCE i, xvii (Tarana Burke
&
behaved in ways that are antithetical to one's own moral compass and
values.
Restorative processes are, by their inherent nature, survivor-
centered. This means that the safety needs of the person who has been
harmed must be addressed first and must be prioritized throughout the
process. This includes simple things including where the survivor will sit,
where the process will occur, and who will speak first. It also includes
discussions about intended outcomes and accountability measures. Being
survivor-centered puts the person who was harmed in the driver's seat.
They have control over the timeline of the process and input on all aspects
of the process. This does not mean that survivors can engage in behavior
that stigmatizes or punishes the person who caused harm. The restorative
process is centered on doing no harm. Survivors who engage in this
process understand that it must be safe for all parties for it to be effective.
Finally, restorative approaches to sexual harm must be evidence-
based. The evidence for restorative justice and sexual harm is limited but
growing. The available literature does suggest that people who engage in
restorative justice to address sexual harm are satisfied with the process.30 5
The evidence also suggests that restorative justice reduces rates of
reoffending and builds empathy.30 6 However, as restorative practices in
this field grow, it is imperative that practitioners, organizations, and
scholars alike make a commitment to evaluate the impact of their
programs effectively and honestly across multiple domains, including
participant satisfaction, follow through on accountability measures, and
rates of reoffending, among other factors
As experts in the field of sexual violence, restorative justice
practitioners who specialize in cases of sexual harm, and rape survivors
who have navigated restorative processes, the authors of this piece
wholeheartedly believe in the possibilities of a restorative approach to
sexual harm. This can only happen if everyone has a seat at the table.
Instead of an "us vs. them" mentality, we as a society must lean into
difficult dialogues, which requires stepping outside of comfort zones. A
culturally responsive, trauma-informed, evidence based, and survivor-
centered process is possible. A world restored from sexual harm is
possible.