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    Modern Dating Academy -

    Dating App Templates

    Copyright - FitXFearless Dating


    My 3 Step Filter Process
    For New Dating Leads
    You should be way too busy working on yourself to just go out
    with any girl that says yes. It should be because she passed your
    filtering process. Be more selective.
    FILTER #1: COOPERATION TEST
    ● Ask yourself, “How cooperative is this girl?”
    ● I don’t care where you meet her (IG, dating app, in person, etc),
    you still ask yourself this question
    ● Is she taking 10 hours to respond to your message?
    Automatically disqualify
    ● Is she giving dry responses? Automatically disqualify
    ● Does she let you pick the place for the date?
    ● This is how you save yourself from stress, getting flaked on, and
    dealing with general BS from women
    ● A woman who makes it through this filter is much less likely to
    flake and you’re much more likely to sleep with her on the first
    date
    FILTER #2: AVAILABILITY TEST
    ● Does she actually make herself available to you?
    ● You might have women who pass the cooperation test and are very
    responsive with you, but she might not pass the availability test
    ● This happens when you give her your schedule and she
    ○ “Needs to get back to you…”
    ○ “Will let you know…”
    ○ Etc
    ● This means you automatically disqualify her
    ● Can you see how just with these 2 filters, you’re much more likely to
    only deal with high quality, high interest women?
    ● She needs to be willing to make herself available to you within the
    week. If she does, then you can move on to filter #3…
    FILTER #3: EXCITEMENT TEST
    ● After she passes the first two tests, now you want to see how excited
    she is to talk to you by doing a quick 5-10 min facetime with her
    ● If you’re truly high value, then the idea of wasting 2 hours with a low
    interest chick instead of getting extra sleep should annoy the hell out
    of you… That’s why we’re going to make SURE she’s high interest with
    this step
    ● Use this facetime to let her see your face, your mannerisms, and the
    way you talk… and more importantly, to see how excited she is to talk
    to you
    ● Is she open? Is she asking you questions? (Keep in mind she may be a
    little shy in the beginning which is normal)
    ● This is also how you’ll avoid a horrible date because you’ll know
    before hand if she’s even enjoyable to talk to
    UNDERSTANDING
    DATING DYNAMICS
    INVITE HER OVER FIRST TO SEE HOW
    ATTRACTED SHE IS TO YOU
    ● I’m trying to save you guys time
    ● After you’ve gone through the filtering process say this
    to her: “Hey I’m busy with work, how about we get to
    know each other at my place?”
    ● I’m not saying she MUST come over. I’m saying we’re
    doing this to gage just how attracted she is to you
    ● Because, if she is willing to come straight over, why
    bother taking her on a date
    ● If she needs a date first to get more comfortable, that’s
    fine. We’re just gauging it. You have nothing to lose
    DINNER DATES ARE NOT AN OPTION
    ● If you listen to women, you’ll hear a whole lot of “rules about dating
    that aren’t true like “He must take you to dinner”
    ● Too many women are suckering 3-5 dudes a week out of a free
    dinner and you’re NOT going to be one of them
    ● Most of the guys they go on dinner dates with are guys they don’t
    even want to sleep with. They just want the free food
    ● If a girl even mentions dinner, disqualify her. She’s either:
    ○ A “rules girl”
    ○ She doesn’t find you that attractive and she’s trying to get more of an initial investment
    ○ She’s been sleeping with a lot of guys too quickly and now she wants them to give her
    more
    ● Girls who are actually in your rotation that you sleep with can get
    all the nice dinners they want because they’ve already proven
    themselves
    8+ WOMEN GET BOWLING, POOL, OR A
    WORKOUT
    ● Let me make this very clear, this is MY strategy
    ● If you’re a guy who hasn’t been laid in a while then you may be
    in a position when you take what you can get… But i’m not take
    a 7 or below on a date
    ● If you put in the work to be a 10 then you should have high
    standards (the same way a woman who is a 10 will have higher
    standards)
    ● This is just fair. A hot girl is not going to come straight over to a
    guy’s place that she sees as a 5
    ● If a girl is truly an 8 or a 9 then it’s only fair that she gets a date
    ● A 7 is lucky to even be with you if you’re truly a 10
    PLAN THE LOGISTICS OF SEX
    ● Stop going on dates 50 miles from your house
    ● Stop leaving it up to women to escalate
    ● Women WANT to be seduced and it’s your responsibility to
    lead her
    ● She will never submit to you if you don’t lead
    ● If you don’t plan the logistics of sex really well, you won’t get
    laid
    ● A lot of guys would get laid more if they just picked a date spot
    that was near their house
    ● Give her an excuse to go back to your place and make it easy to
    get there. Not making her drive 20 miles away
    3 DATES MAXIMUM
    ● I’m trying to save you from heartbreak, being flaked on, and being used
    ● Don’t bother waiting more than 3 dates to sleep with a girl (if it takes longer she’s just not into
    you like that)
    ● And that 2nd date needs to be back at your place
    ● If she’s not down to come back to your place by the 2nd date, she’s done. You guys aren’t kids.
    This is normal and she should be willing to at least come over to cook you dinner or something
    ● And if she doesn’t want to sleep with you by that 3rd date (at your place again) then it’s done
    IMPLEMENT THESE
    STRATEGIES AND WATCH
    YOUR DATING LIFE IMPROVE
    1 on 1 Coaching With FitXFearless
    If you have any questions about dating, style, female nature, social
    media, etc…

    Hit the link below to book a call with my team:


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