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Contents
Part I: The Magic of Money Jars................................................5
Why You Need A Great Money Management System......................5
Your Money’s Many Jobs......................................................6
Introducing The Money Jars..................................................7
Wealthy, Rich and Financially Free.........................................9
The Beauty of Financial Systems.......................................... 10
First Things First............................................................. 11
Your Living Jar: ............................................................. 11
Your Freedom Jar: .......................................................... 12
Financial Freedom vs Retirement......................................... 12
Your Savings Jar: ............................................................ 13
Your Education Jar: ........................................................ 13
Your Play Jar: ............................................................... 14
Your Donation Jar: .......................................................... 14
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If you’re like most people, you find it’s easier to reach your goals when
you’ve figured out a way to make them happen effortlessly and naturally.
Reaching your financial goals is no different.
Most people crave the freedom that comes from having more money coming
in to their lives than going out; the challenge is how to make that happen as
easily, and as quickly, as possible.
The answer to this challenge lies in the way most people think about
money’s role in their lives. In addition, every human being grows up with
different thoughts, beliefs and attitudes about money and wealth creation
and many of those thoughts, beliefs and attitudes are unsupportive when it
comes to building wealth. It’s no wonder individuals and families struggle so
with their finances.
Before we get started, let’s get one thing straight...money generally doesn’t
buy happiness; but most of us quickly admit that having more money in their
lives makes life a little, and often a lot, more enjoyable.
Add to this the fact that most divorce is centered around financial issues,
more stress is caused by financial challenges and a good deal of physical,
mental and substance abuse is spurred by money, and it’s easy to recognize
money’s role in whether you create a world of struggle or a world of joy for
yourself.
Assuming that being successful with money would improve your life in
some way, let’s see how adding a little magic to your money management
system (or lack thereof) can help you reduce the financial stress you may
be experiencing and bring more joy into your life. Bringing your finances in
order generally brings a sense of peace and security to life because it gives
you the opportunity to enjoy the things that truly make you happy.
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Most people grow up thinking that money has one job...to spend, i.e., buy
things..
If you’re lucking, you learn that money has two jobs...to spend and to save.
If you’re really lucky, you learn that money has three jobs...to spend, save
and invest.
And if you’re really, really lucky, you were fortunate enough to grow up in a
financially savvy family and you learn that money has four jobs...to spend,
save, invest and donate.
What if, however, there were additional jobs for your money that, if put in
place properly, would allow you to live the most enjoyable life you could
ever imagine? Those two additional jobs are for education and play.
All of these jobs put together comprise a ‘system’ for managing your money
that isn’t just amazingly powerful, it’s downright brilliant. The use of smart
financial systems is one of the reasons financially free people become
wealthy, and stay wealthy.
And if you’re like most people, you’ve figured out that if you want to
BE wealthy, you must DO what wealthy people DO. Developing and using
effective financial systems is one of the many things wealthy people DO
incredibly well!
The idea of dividing your money into different categories according to use
(using envelopes, jars or bank accounts) and labeling them isn’t new; in
fact, the basic idea has been around for quite some time.
Peak Potentials is owned by T. Harv Eker and his programs have changed
literally hundreds of thousands of people’s lives over the years. Most people
would say he knows a thing or two about helping people go from financially
stressed to financially savvy. He teaches the Money Jar system because it
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works and it will work for you, too, if you’ll use it.
The Money Jar system, when used regularly, practically guarantees your
success because it makes what you do with your money effortless. It gives
you a way to know exactly what to do with every dollar that comes into your
life, without you having to think about it.
As with everything, the Money Jars are only effective if you start the system
and use it regularly. A few of the many values using Money Jars on a regular
basis provide include:
• It’s a system that anyone, regardless of income, can put into place
quickly and easily.
• It’s a system that works, if you work it. (The lack of financial systems is
one of the primary reasons poor and middle class people don’t ever have
enough money to do the things they really want to do in life.)
• Once you start putting money in each of the jars on a regular basis, the
accumulation of money helps motivate you to keep using the system. It’s
like a seed. You plant it in the ground and watch it grow each day, as long
as you continue to water and fertilize it, that is.
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There have been enough people in the world who earn minimum wages who
have grown wealthy over time simply because they developed a supportive
system that worked. This helps prove that it’s not always the amount of
money coming in to your life that matters; it’s the manner in which the
money is handled (or not) that matters. It’s what you DO with the money.
The money jar system helps you KEEP more of your money!
Let’s look at the many distinctions between poor and middle class people
compared to wealthy people:
• Poor and middle-class people often get a second and third job
while rich people let their money (and other people’s money)
get the second and third job. They put their money to work for
them instead of them always working for money. This is called
“leverage” and leverage is a very good thing!
• Poor and middle-class people trade their time and energy for money
while rich people learn how to leverage or OPTEMize (other people’s
time, energy and money) to make them more money.
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• Poor and middle-class people want to know how much money they’re
going to make per hour while rich people want to know how many times
they will be paid for ever hour they work.
• Poor and middle-class people find excuses and reasons, and blame others,
for why things don’t turn out the way they ‘wish’ they would while rich
people take 100% responsibility for what shows up in their lives.
• Poor and middle-class people use the wing and a prayer method of
manifestation while rich people use proven universal principles to create
exactly what they want in life.
• Poor and middle-class people use the words, “I Know That!” because they
don’t want others to think they don’t know what they’re doing while
rich people constantly look for answers, opportunities and education to
help them reach their goals. Rich people constantly ask, “HOW can I...?”
and “I wonder why...?” Asking these questions brings the answer to light
because it keeps you focused on moving forward toward your goals.
The phrase ‘financially free’ refers to the state of having more than enough
money coming in each month in passive income from your assets than you
have going out in expenses each month while living your chosen lifestyle.
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They key here is that the money coming in is NOT earned income, i.e.,
money you’re trading your time and energy for.
Most poor and middle-class people spend years, and thousands and
thousands of dollars, building the ‘lifestyle’ before they have the passive
income producing assets to support it. All of a sudden they are stressed,
in debt, blaming, yelling and making excuses when they realize there is
nothing actually supporting this lifestyle.
Financially free people always know what their money is doing, where
it’s coming from, where it’s going, how much is where, doing what. They
develop systems for everything...because someone either took the time to
teach them or they learned by watching what other successful people did
with money.
The fact is, if you want to be financially free, you need to do what
financially free people do and ALL financially free people have financial
systems that got them, and keep them, financially free.
A great financial system allows you to know exactly what to do when certain
financial events happen in your life so you don’t have to think about what
to do with your money all the time. One of the most beneficial aspects of
having solid, well-functioning financial systems in place is that they help
keep your emotions from taking over.
We all know that people often spend money and make purchases out of
emotion more than anything else so if you can find a way to bypass most of
your emotional purchases, you have a better than average chance of short-
circuiting your hard wired brain that craves instant gratification, i.e., get
the deer now. I’m hungry!
The interesting thing is that it’s not that we are instantly gratified, it’s really
that we are gratified for an instant when we realize that what we bought
isn’t going to make us any happier in the long run.
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Wealthy people have financial systems for all myriad of financial situations:
regular paychecks, bills, investments, accounting, taxes preparation,
receipts, appliance manuals, payroll deductions, insurance, car
maintenance, house maintenance, mail, chores, rental property income,
business profits, bonuses, stock investments, dividends, and a whole lot
more.
It’s important to recognize that people don’t get rich first and THEN develop
systems. They become rich BECAUSE they spent time developing their
systems first.
The thing is, if developing and following systems will put you securely on the
path to that place we call financial freedom and will pretty much guarantee
your success, wouldn’t you want to develop a slew of them for yourself as
soon as possible?
The first important financial system you need to establish is a basic money
management system that automates what you do with your incoming and
outgoing financial resources.
Your Money Jars will be part of this basic money management system, in
other words, it will automate what you do with all of the money that comes
into your life, regardless of the source.
The jar system consists of the following categories, or jobs, for your money.
Note: you’re free to add your own once you’ve established the basic system
and it’s working for you.
• Living Jar
• Freedom Jar
• Savings Jar
• Education Jar
• Play Jar
• Donation Jar
Let’s look at each jar and its important role in your life.
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Your Living Jar money is the money that you live on each month. This
money pays your rent or mortgage, utilities, clothes, food, etc. Your credit
card payments are also paid with the Living Jar money. It also pays for a
few wants that you wish to make part of your daily life IF your income is
sufficient and the expenses work into your budget (your NEXT great tool).
Your Freedom Jar will quickly becomes your favorite jar because once you
create it, it can’t help but grow. Have you ever heard the saying, What you
focus on expands? This applies to your Freedom Jar big time. When you focus
on putting money in this jar, you become more and more aware of ways to
grow this money for later.
Your Freedom Jar represents the Number One financial habit of all financially
free people...Pay Yourself First! Rich people make sure they take care of
themselves FIRST, before they pay the rest of their bills. And they make sure
they are able to Pay Themselves First by developing sound financial systems
and strategies that guarantee they’ll be financially free sooner than later.
If you’ve ever heard the story, The Goose that Laid The Golden Egg, you’ll
recognize this jar as the Goose. And just like in the story, you need to
remember to never, ever kill your goose!
The money in this jar isn’t ‘spent’ per se, it’s invested into what we call,
The Three Pillars of Wealth™: real estate, businesses and the stock market.
These are also called assets and are critical to creating financial freedom
because the goal is to invest this money assets that will eventually pay you
enough Passive Income to live on when you aren’t working. (Earned income,
on the other hand, is money you trade your time and energy for. You’ll never
be free if you’re always trading your time and energy for money.)
Please notice that this jar is NOT called your Retirement Jar! There is a
HUGE distinction between being financially free and being retired.
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Rich Dad Poor Dad, is when the passive income from your assets exceed the
expenses of your ‘chosen’ lifestyle. You may choose to work when you’re
financially free...or not. It depends on what you want to do with your life.
Many financially free people work more than when they had actual jobs,
usually because they spend a ton of time volunteering.
Keep in mind that financial freedom day and retirement may happen at the
same time; the point is...they don’t have to! You could be 25 and financially
free if you play your cards right and invest your time, energy and money in
assets that provide you with adequate passive income to live on.
Part A is for saving up for things you want, like a car or a bike or new phone.
Part B is your Just in Case fund...just in case you get a flat tire, just in
case the dryer finally gives up the ghost, just in case Johnny bats a home
run through the neighbor’s beautiful front window or Karina decides to do
something nice for you and mistakenly washes your cell phone!
Financial experts recommend that you have between 3 and 6 months worth
of living expenses in this part of the Savings Jar. This money must be liquid,
or easy to get your hands on; a bank CD, money market fund or savings
account will do the trick.
This is where your new Money Jar system gets interesting. How many times
have you, or someone you know, said, I’d love to take that ____________
(class, seminar, workshop) but I can’t afford to right now?
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What if you always had money to learn new things? Remember back to the
Freedom Jar? How many of you actually know HOW to invest in one or more
of the assets listed above? Now that you have an education jar, you’ll be
able to learn anything and everything you need to move you forward.
Second only after the Freedom Jar, the Play Jar (rhymes with Yeah!) forces
us to enjoy the fruits of our labor on a regular basis. Just like holding onto a
bar of soap with all your might, money, too, has a tendency to slip from our
grip if we hold onto it too hard.
What if the addition of one new financial habit could be the promise of all
great things to come for you? Well, your new Donation Jar may just be that
habit. It will contain the money you use to help others and to make the
world a better place. You see, when you regularly donate your time, energy
and money to help others, it means that you have a belief that there is
plenty of whatever it is you need and want to live your life exactly the way
you wish.
As long as I’ve been alive, and as long as I’ve teaching others, the one
consistent thread that makes human beings feel alive and worthy, is helping
others. With your Donation Jar, you have the opportunity each month to help
others and feel great about yourself.
OK, there you have it...a powerful system for managing your flow of money.
In Part II, we’ll talk about how to divide your money into each jar and add
a few more distinctions that will help you create money management magic
in your life. Before long, you’ll be watching your money grow, wishing you’d
found the Money Jars a long time ago.
Just remember, you’re never too young or too old to start learning how
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money works so you can put it to work for you! However, if you wait too
long, you can’t take advantage of how money grows so beautifully over
time.
Note: If you’re thinking, even for a second, that you don’t you make enough
money to use this system, please don’t read any further. If you believe there
isn’t enough money...there will never be enough money. Period.
Enough money is rarely the issue...it’s finding the money you’re currently
waisting that is the challenge. Almost all of us waste a few dollars here and
there and even if you just put $1 each month in everything but your Living
Jar, it’s a start and that’s all you need to do...be willing to start!
Though the basic cost of living differs from regions to region in each
country, some are definitely more expensive than others. Use the following
percentages as a guideline to begin establishing your Money Jar system and
you’ll soon watch your money grow faster than you ever dreamed possible:
* Why the higher percentage of money in the freedom jar for women? Well,
women live longer, end up, on average, divorced twice raising the kids, earn
less and have 14 fewer earning years because of kids and aging parents.
** Once your ‘just in case’ account is full, you can take the balance and put
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it into your Freedom Jar or use it to save up for whatever you’re saving up
for faster.
Now let’s go over the type of accounts you’ll need because, as you’ve no
doubt figured out, you’re probably not using actual jars (unless you want to,
of course!).
In addition, many families have an ‘extra change’ jar. It’s amazing how
quickly you can save money to spend on your next vacation or to put into
your Freedom Jar! For a family vacation, have the whole family put their
change in a big jar and watch the fun pile up.
Another way to save up money quickly is to have a jar where you put $1
bills or $5 bills when you have them in your purse or wallet. They are small
denominations so you won’t miss them yet they add up quickly if you create
a system to save them instead of spend them.
Here are the accounts you’ll need. Again, these are suggestions; there are
other options or ideas that will work perfectly fine for you. The important
thing is to develop this system so you’ll use it!
The account you use for living expenses is generally a checking account.
Whether you have a regular job, take monthly profits from a company or
receive some other form of regular income, you can put money into your
checking account three ways:
The money that goes into this jar isn’t necessarily an account, though it may
be. If you’re just starting your journey into the investment world, you may
use an actual savings account to accumulate money to get started. Once
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you have money to invest in the Three Pillars of Wealth, your Freedom Jar
money may look as follows:
Real estate: Money invested in the real estate pillar can take on many forms:
Stock Market: Money invested in the stock market pillar can take on many forms:
• Stocks
• Mutual funds
• Options
• Index Funds
• ETFs
• Bonds
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Remember that the purpose of your Savings Jar is really two-fold: a place to
‘save up’ for things you want to buy and a place to keep readily accessible
funds ‘just in case’ something happens (and don’t they always happen when
you least expect them?).
Note: there are several quality online banks that pay higher interest than
brick-and-mortar type banks. And always do your research before putting
your money in one of these institutes.
Also, if you’re not sure if you can really afford a new purchase that is going
to require payments (car, house, other larger purchase), pretend you’ve
already bought it for three months by taking the anticipated payment and
putting it in your savings account and living on what’s left. If it’s doable
after three months, then you can make the purchase knowing you can easily
afford it.
Most adults admit that they learned more after graduating from high school
and college than they ever learned in high school or college. This happens
for several reasons:
• As you enter the job world, technology, information and required skills
change rapidly and college courses may not keep up with these advances.
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• You may find that what you studied in college isn’t what you want to do
with your life in regard to supporting yourself financially.
• You realize you must get additional education to move forward with your
career or job goals.
Note: Your education jar is not for your children’s education, it’s for yours!
Your child’s education is part of your living expenses jar.
Put 10% of your income each month in a simple savings account so when you
have the opportunity to attend a seminar or workshop will provide you with
valuable skills to move forward in your profession or teach you a new skill to
change professions. This way you can easily pay for it. Save up this money
and use it whenever you wish.
The money for this jar can either go into its own savings account or it can be
added to your Living jar account where you know how much you have spend
each month.
Play with your Play Jar money every month, unless you want to save up for a
couple of months for something extra special. Here’s some ideas of what to
do with your Play money:
Massage, nice wine with dinner, anything but chicken for dinner, new songs
for your MP3 player, extra shoes not in your Living account budget, new art
supplies, present for a friend, new sheets for your bed, going to the movies
with a friend, date night with your significant other, and on and on it goes.
Remember, if you don’t enjoy the money you work hard for, it has a
tendency to go bye-bye and it’s not the buy-buy you might prefer! Believe
that there is always plenty to go around and there will be.
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Your Donation Jar can be a savings account or it can simply go into your
living expenses checking account where you write a check each month to
your favorite charity or donate it any way that feels right for you.
Here are some common questions that come up about your new Money Jar
System. As you will see, many of the answers fall into the ‘that depends’
category. Your financial goals are different and unique, just like everyone
else’s, so the perfect answer for you will depend on many things:
• What you have planned for yourself and your family in the short, and
long, term.
• Your personal preferences in terms of how to use the money in your jar
system.
• Your personal thoughts, beliefs and attitudes about money and wealth
creation.
Net pay.
You use your system to divide the money into your jars exactly as you would
divide the rest of your money up. This is why you have a system...so you
don’t have to think about it anymore. It’s automatic; you know exactly what
to do.
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Or...even better yet, take that bonus money and put it all in your Freedom
Jar.
It depends on how fast you want to be financially free. It you want this
to happen as quickly as possible, invest that money in assets as quickly as
possible.
Note: Again, this is why having a savvy financial advisor on your team is so
important. At times like this, they can help you determine the best place to
invest this extra money.
QUESTION: What’s the easiest way to move money from one account to the
others?
Since human beings thrive on convenience, it’s a great idea to have money
transferred from one account into the other accounts using ‘automatic
transfers.’ You can put in place through your banking institution.
If you receive a regular paycheck with a set amount each pay period, it’s
easy to contact your bank and set up automatic transfers into your other
Money Jar accounts.
If you don’t like the idea of having money automatically transferred and
would like to maintain more control over the transfers, it’s a simple process
to do this online from your home computer as well. Most banks, credit
unions and investment account companies (TD-Ameritrade, Scott Trade,
etc.) make the process easy.
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Again, the answer to this question depends on how quickly you want to be
financially free.
The fact is, the more money you put away every month into income
producing assets, the quicker you can work because you want to, not
because you have to.
QUESTION: What if my living expenses are more than 55% of my take home
pay?
That’s a great question. The answer, as you may have guessed, falls in that
‘it depends’ category. If you’re saying to yourself right now, “I can’t possibly
lower my living expenses. I have this to pay for and that to pay for,” here’s
another question to consider...Are you UNABLE or UNWILLING to reduce your
living expenses.
• Do you need two new cars with large monthly payments or could you
trade one of them in for a used car that would suffice for a few years?
• Could you rent out a room or two in your home or downsize for a period
of time while you get your finances handled?
• Could you workout outside and in your home instead of belonging to that
health club?
Again, the question you need to answer is, “What are you willing to do to
set yourself up for a life of financial security, freedom to have what you
need and want, and the joyful ability to provide for those you love and care
about?”
Once you answer this question, you will find a way to reduce your living
expenses to 55% (or less!).
Are there other options? Sure, you could get a second job, start an internet
business, start going to garage and yard sales to find stuff to sell on E-bay or
Craigslist...the opportunities are truly endless.
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QUESTION: What if I want to pay for things using a credit card to get miles
or points. Is this OK and if so, what is the best way to do it?
This is absolutely OK. As long as you’re able to pay the bill off in full each
month with the money in your jars, this is a great way to go on vacation for
FREE! Be sure to choose a card that gives you points but doesn’t charge a
yearly fee.
If you want to use the same card to get more points together, get one
account that will allow several card holders. Each person will have his own
sub-account and the purchases are divided up on the bill. Be sure to ask if
this is possible when you choose the card you’ll be using for this purpose.
Book Suggestion: How to Profit From Your Credit Cards by Curtis Arnold.
Simply use one credit card to pay for all your purchases. When the bill
comes, add up how much comes out of each jar, transfer those amount from
the proper account INTO your checking account (Living Jar account) and
write one check to pay off your credit card.
For example...Let’s say you used your credit card for a $100 donation to a
local charity, a $60 massage, a $10 CD, a $97 workshop and $400 to pay for
a new washer because yours finally died. Assuming you have online banking
set up, all you do it log into your account, transfer $100 from your Donation
account, $400 from your Saving’s ‘just in case’ account, $97 from your
Education account and $70 from your Play account into your Living account
and write the check or pay online. Pretty simple once you have it set up.
Now is it going to take a little figuring on your end? Sure, but isn’t being
financially free worth finally paying attention to where your money is going
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and how it’s working for you? You’ve been working for it for years; it’s time
you become the CEO of your own financial future so you can finally do, be,
have and create whatever you want for yourself.
One you have 3-6 months saved up, evaluate your current budget, goals and
progress to decide where to put the extra money you were putting in your
‘just in case’ account. Your Freedom Jar is always a great choice!
QUESTION: What type of Money Jar system works best for couples?
Well, that often depends on the couple’s prior financial arrangement. Some
couples commingle their finances from the get-go while others have a joint
account for household expenses as well as their own savings and investment
situations.
Since one of the most common reasons couples separate and divorce
is differing financial belief systems and philosophies which lead to
disagreements and disharmony over money, it’s important that couples
develop a system that supports their relationship.
Resentment can easily build when one partner spends more than the other
on personal things or spends more than is budgeted by the couple. Because
of these situations, it’s great for the couple to have its own set of money
jars. An exception to this may be if only one person works, supporting the
couple, while the other stays home.
Note: In this case, it is critical that both partners in the relationship have
the same amount of play money to enjoy each month!
Having a couple’s set of Money Jars also helps you plan for the future and
create cohesive financial goals together.
This is where the couple’s Play Jar comes in. If each partner has the same
amount of money to play with, resentments are much less likely to occur.
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Step One: Call your bank and ask about setting up multiple accounts. Then,
if this is possible, ask them to set up four more accounts (assuming you
have a checking and savings account already). Many banks allow (and often
encourage) you to set up new accounts online as well.
Step Two: Create one of those things called Budget! And it doesn’t have to
be fancy. If you’re one of the many people who think ‘jail’ when you hear
the B-word, I invite you to reconsider. Think of a budget as just another
power tool to help make your dreams come true. Often, when you reframe
your previous about a budget, you find that you actually start to enjoy
working on, tweaking and evaluating your spending.
Step Three: Once you have the beginnings of a budget set up, determine
the starting percentages you’re going to put into each of your jars. And
remember, you can have one or more specialty jars in your choose, just
make sure the basic jars are handled first.
Step Four: Call the bank or go online and set up automatic transfers
between accounts. Generally this means set up transfers between your
checking account and the other accounts.
Step Five: When you’re ready, start learning how to invest your freedom jar
money using the money in your education jar! This is where the fun begins!
This next step usually takes a some time and energy on your part but the
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For many of you, the idea of putting your finances in order causes you to
cringed. There may have been a little piece of you who went screaming into
the bedroom, climbed under the covers and now refuses to come out and
play.
If this is you, please know...you aren’t alone. It’s one of many adult’s biggest
challenges when it comes to moving forward financially.
Follow along and you’ll see this next part isn’t nearly as challenging as you
think it will be. It’s actually your ‘thinking’ that makes it difficult!
This is one of those projects that might be easier with a friend or partner.
Find someone in your life who is supportive of your new quest for financial
independence and is willing to help keep you focused while you take on this
next part.
I can promise you this…if you DON’T do this next piece; you will never get
anywhere financially. You will never reach your dreams and you’ll never be
free. If you don’t put your financial papers in order, how will you EVER know
where you are?
And if you don’t know where you are, how will be EVER be able to get where
you want to go? You have to know where your money IS in order to tell it
where you want it to GO and what you want it to DO.
First, create a designated space in your home that will house all of your
financial papers...
• Bank statements
• Investment statements
• Real estate files
• Taxes
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If these things are a bit spread out over your house or in a variety of boxes
or bags, it very important to get them all in one place.
And if you’re one of those people who doesn’t open the envelopes, it’s time
you opened them.
Put every statement and legal document in it’s own file, label with black or
blue ink or use a label maker if you want it to be really neat.
Once you get all of your papers in order, you can move on to the next step.
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Your WHY is what drives you, supports all of your financial choices and
decisions, moves you toward or away from your stated goals.
You see, just because you SAY you want something for yourself, it doesn’t
mean your subconscious agrees with you or supports that goal. This is why
it’s so important to do what is often referred to as The Inner Work, before
you layer on The Outer Work which makes up the bulk of this e-book.
Book Suggestion: Again, one of the best books written about financial belief
systems is T. Harv Eker’s Secrets of the Millionaire Mind.
The following questions will help you start to uncover what’s really driving
your financial life:
• What did your parents say about money and people with money?
• What did your parents do with money, i.e., how did they handle money?
• What did your parents model for you around money?
• What kinds of experiences did you have with money as a child?
• Were the experiences you had with money as a child positive or negative?
• Did your family talk openly about money or not at all?
• What did your parents actually teach you about money?
Once you begin to explore what creating the current financial YOU, you can
then begin to take control and choose the new financial YOU.
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are young. This way they’ll be able to move out, and stay out, when they’re
ready to go it on their own.
The system is exactly the same as the adult version; after all, you are raising
adults, not children! There is a bit of additional figuring required which
involves the actual allowance money and method, but once you start The
Ultimate Allowance and set the kids up with their own jars, you’re in the
process of raising some very financially savvy adults.
Here’s some questions concerning the money jars right out of The Ultimate
Allowance to help you get started.
QUESTION: Do you have to use actual jars and if yes, what kind?
You can use any kind of container you wish; however, it is important that the
jars or containers be clear (see-through). The visual accumulation of money
is critical in a child’s ever-expanding world of money and its meaning in the
world. As she puts money into the jars, and watches it accumulate, she is
encouraged to add to the jars even more.
And if you haven’t started saving and investing yet, now is a perfect time
to start, right along with your child. You will enjoy seeing your money grow,
too! Believe it or not, your child won’t be disappointed, embarrassed or
upset that you’re just starting out. It’s us who have these emotions. Your
child will love to do this with you and have you to celebrate with as you
both learn together how to save and invest your money over time.
We’ve seen chilren use Zip-Lock bags, plastic peanut butter jars and more.
Kids are creative and have fun labeling and decorating their jars. It’s a
great family activity. Just make room on that dining room table, put on
some music, gather markers, tape, paper and any other art supplies you
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have around the house and have at it. The important thing to do is to make
learning about and managing their money fun and exciting...not a ‘have to’
sort of thing because Mom and Dad said so.
QUESTION: What if my child is afraid that someone may take the money out
of his jars?
If your child is fearful of losing his money, it’s an issue that should be
addressed immediately. The fear that he may lose the money he saves is
very unhealthy. A child who develops this emotion about money or has an
experience where his money is taken or stolen by another, may grow into an
adult who doesn’t trust others when it comes to money, or maybe anything
else in life, for that matter.
As a last resort, get the child a small safe or something with a lock, or
better yet, start his first saving’s account at a bank close by so it’s easy for
him to deposit his money on a regular basis.
QUESTION: What if my child is older and doesn’t want to keep jars in his
room? Are there other options for older kids and teens?
The best answer is to set the child up with his or her own set of jars just like
yours...six accounts at a bank.
Otherwise, if your child or teen is computer savvy, and he has at least one,
and preferably two, bank accounts; one checking and one savings account,
you can do the following: (Make sure they are accounts with no fees.)
You can set this spreadsheet up to automatically tally the totals as he adds
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and subtracts money to and from his jar accounts. Another idea is to set up
the spreadsheet to automatically divide the money into the jars, or columns,
using simple calculations based on percentages you put in the program.
When he wants to “spend” his jar money, he simply takes the money out
of the appropriate bank account (jar) and makes an adjustment in the
jar column. You can also keep track of these accounts by hand, using this
spreadsheet and a calculator. For a copy of a blank spreadsheet you can
begin with, download one here:
www.ultimateallowancebook.com/UAB/spreadsheetjars.xls
For a simple example of how one to set up your jars using an online bank,
download this file: www.creativewealthintl.org/downloads/UAB/INGJars.pdf
Also, a great jar to keep in your home is the classic Spare Change Jar. You
can keep one of these jars individually or as a family. Start the simple habit
of putting all of your change from your pockets or wallet in this jar each
evening. You’ll be surprised at how quickly it adds up.
Financial freedom takes work...there’s no doubt about it. And don’t let
anyone convince you it doesn’t. Sometimes it comes quickly, sometimes
it takes a little longer. But regardless of the time it takes, it is your
responsibility...and ONLY your responsiblity...to make it happen for yourself.
You truly are the CEO of your own life. Now go be the boss and know that
with the proper systems in place and ongoing financial education, AND a
little tenacity and patience, you, too, will be financially free sooner than
you think.
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Find smart people who resonate with you...the philosophies and value that
are most closely aligned with yours and study these people.
To your best...
Elisabeth Donati
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www.CampMillionaire.com
www.CreativeWealthIntl.org
www.CreativeWealthforWomen.com
www.UltimateAllowanceBook.com
www.CreativeCashForKids.com
www.CreativeWealthPrinciples.com
www.FinancialColoringBooks.com
Blogs:
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www.UltimateAllowanceBook.com
www.CreativeWealthPrinciples.com
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