Pathological Narcissism
Pathological Narcissism
Pathological Narcissism
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T h e patient to be described entered psychoanalytic treatment at
the age of twenty-eight having been ill for a period of six years.
At this time he was single and lived at home. H e had numerous
complaints which included severe headache, dizziness, feelings of
exhaustion, dyspepsia, claustrophobic symptoms, and premature
emission. H e had already been under psychiatric treatment for
the previous three to four years, having been hospitalized twice
and undergone an analytic form of psychotherapy intermittently
during that time. H e did not reveal that he was taking sedatives
which had been prescribed some years before.
T h e illness declared itself when he left home to join the
Navy a year after obtaining an engineering degree at the Univer-
sity. Prior to the onset of symptoms he had been active physically
and mentally. H e had excelled at tennis and rugby footfall and
which took place after three months will now be described be-
cause it typified the pattern that was to emerge in similar cir-
cumstances over the next two to three years.
T h e patient was told of the impending break about eleven
days before it was due. During these eleven sessions he made not
one reference to the coming interruption of the analytic work.
His two principal preoccupations were symptoms of which he com-
plained bitterly and the fear of loss of control regarding sexual
and aggressive outlets. JVhen he returned to the analysis he
said that if anything he had felt worse, but he had given no
thought to the treatment. H e was quiet for the first three days,
being rather suspicious and negative in his attitude. On the fourth
day he reported a dream: “I am with a woman who is bald and
her daughter. I am trying to help her-she cannot accept this help
and I find myself weeping.” He recalled that while driving his
car the day before he found himself whistling a song called “One
Night of Love”-the theme of this song concerning separation
from a loved one. H e had forgotten to mention this in the last
analytic hour. H e had no other associations, but the transference
nature of the dream was amply confirmed by the analyst’s bald-
ness. T h e next day he reported that he found himself weeping
again. His associations led to memories of a period in the hospital
when he had felt wretched and then to his mother whose love he
had always regarded somewhat suspiciously. H e never could be
sure if she was sincere in her protestations of care for him. During
the next two sessions he continued to bring memories of childhood
with an emphasis on separation experiences.
T h e affective reaction to the break was denied admission to
consciousness until three days after the resumption. Even when
it did appear the patient isolated it completely from the person
of,the analyst. Even at this early phase of the treatment the ana-
lytic situation had become a potent stimulus for reactions within
the patient, thus betraying the presence of an already developing
transference neurosis. Interpretation of the transference and his
resistance against this emerging met with no success. He immedi-
ately went on to discuss his sexual difficulties as he had before
the break. T h e immediate stimulus for this was soon forthcoming.
H e had been having coitus with a new woman friend for some
weeks but could not reveal this. This too could be regarded as
a means of avoiding the transference. This pattern of acting with-
out talking about it first i n the analysis continued for several years
in spite of interpretation. I n the third year of the analysis he
suddenly announced that he had got himself engaged and arranged
the wedding date.
A somewhat different reaction followed the resumption of the
analysis after the second holiday break. H e reported a dream in
which he was with a woman therapist-she was rather untidy like
his mother-he intended to have coitus with her, but he had a
premature emission. H e feared this would spoil everything, but
she reassured him. This dream was indicative of the extent to
which the patient sexualized the analysis partly through his own
sexual conflicts, but also because of the interpretations of sexual
content which had been made to him during the previous months.
I n the following days he theorized about separation, about his
mother’s disinterest, and about being the unwanted eighth child
-again an undoubted reference to the holiday which had just
passed. As after the first break, no affective reaction occurred, but
he was again rather distant and less friendly i n manner.
As the analysis proceeded it became increasingly apparent
that this patient was incapable of accepting o r benefiting from
interpretations. T h e sources of some of his symptoms declared
themselves. His headaches, his dyspepsia, his need to lie down
before any exertion were based upon identification with his
mother and older sisters. Interpretation of this was met with the
same kind of incomprehension, and a similar reaction occurred
when efforts were made to make him aware of his feminine identi-
fications and the preference for passive sexual aims. Again he was
completely insensitive to any events or changes which occurred
either in the analytic room or immediately outside it.
Periodically the mother identification was replaced by an
identification with the father, and the patient would become
aware of an irritation with the analyst if he moved or coughed i n
the same way as his father tended to do. However, these reactions
were usually stifled at the time of their origin and reported a few
days later when the anger had disappeared.
I n the first month of the analysis he had related that his
fantasies and affects the patient was neither better nor aware of
any particular concern about the analyst. T h e day following the
announcement of the Christmas break which ended the third
year of the analysis he dreamed as follows: “I am traveling in a
van with two men which knocks a child down. I weep.” H e said
that his brothers had been to a funeral the day previously. During
the next sessions he talked about the luck of those who were fit
enough to go on holiday and about his symptoms. I t is of interest
that an affective response took place, although only i n the dream
and not in waking consciousness.
IYhen he returned to the analysis after the Christmas break
he showed many signs of depression including a loss of sexual
interest and a difficulty in having emission. H e reported a dream
i n which a dentist tells him that his teeth are bad and will all
have to come out. H e felt depressed in the dream. I n part the
depression was related to his father having taken ill, but the in-
fantile (transference) aspects appeared to be the most important
factor. A further dream supported this hypothesis. I n this dream
a man he knows dies; he finds himself waiting in the man’s house.
H e admitted reluctantly that a day or so previously he had been
with his nephew and the man who appeared in the dream. T h e
latter kept talking to his nephew and the patient was an,v and
rather jealous. H e remembered also that he had been kept waiting
before the last session. T h e man in the dream was a kind of ideal
for him and he would have liked to emulate him.
It is appropriate at this point to relate that the patient’s male
friends possessed capacities the patient would have liked to pos-
sess. One friend was a giant of a man and the patient would have
liked to have had a similar physique. I t pleased him to think what
this friend could do to people if he wanted. At one stage of the
analysis the patient reported a fantasy which he had had at a
football match of flinging aggressive football spectators onto the
field as if he were Superman. Another friend was aggressive in
manner and provocative. T h e patient admitted that he found a
pleasure in the way this second friend behaved.
There could be no denying the unconscious death wishes
against the idealized analyst, but in view of the powerful resistance
no attempt was made to interpret this material. I t seemed reason-
need to provoke his wife and was unable to feel much about the
analyst. At the same time he complained about his wife and about
her unpredictability. H e could not be sure that she would not
reject him. H e was stimulating her and being reacted to in a way
he was afraid to do in the analysis. H e did to her what he felt the
analyst was doing to him. He was convinced that he could never
trust his wife’s reaction and therefore he found it hard to forgive
her after a quarrel. T h e sadistic fantasies which underlay this
material emerged i n dreams and explained the resistance against
the transference neurosis. He wanted closeness but feared it be-
cause of the destructiveness which would appear if he was frus-
trated and the dread of retaliation. An advance was made when
the patient recognized his pleasure in cruelty.
It was toward the end of the fourth year of the analysis that
the patient finally came to produce transference fantasies which
explained so much of his inability to feel in the analytic situa-
tion. After the summer break in that year the patient revealed
once again his sensitivity to the analytic situation (the transference
neurosis) the significance of which was still utterly unconscious.
H e described transference dreams in which his passivity was
clearly manifest. I n one dream he was in a barber’s shop. T h e
barber was a big man and he felt apprehensive. His associations
led to a barber of school days who was bald and wore spectacles.
I n the second dream of the same night he came across a car crash
i n which a man and woman were injured. A day or so later he
had a postcoital dream i n which a woman was stabbed in the
chest, he wakened u p with a pain in that region of his body.
These passive feminine identifications continued and found
expression i n later dreams which revealed the patient’s uncon-
scious attitude i n the transference. H e dreamed that his father’s
housekeeper was going blind and deaf. H e felt sorry for her. This
exemplified his own refusal to acknowledge any perception of the
analyst as a person in much the same way as i n childhood he had
denied the sexual relationships of the parents. No attempt was
made to interpret this inverted oedipus complex which now
appeared so glaringly in the transference.
It was through material of this kind that a beginning could
be made in the analysis of his resistance against the transference
the analyst, but from time to time there were superimposed upon
this superego attitudes which again betrayed the presence of a
narcissistic ego ideal.
The patient’s narcissistic transference fantasies were used as
a defense against the emergence of the transference neurosis. This
patient provides a good example of the type of patient Glover
(5) describes in whom the transference neurosis is not a spontane-
ous manifestation which the patient gradually comes to recog-
nize in himself. This man although showing all the signs of an
existing transference neurosis was refractory to all attempts at
making this psychical constellation conscious. Interpretations were
rejected because of the narcissistic nature of the transference.
I t is worth recalling that the efficacy of interpretation is al-
ways dependent upon a transference which is object libidinal in
nature. The patient is thus willing to consider the interpretation
out of regard for the analyst; this prevents an immediate rejection
of the latter’s communication. The initial reception of an in-
terpretation is therefore dependent upon a positive relationship
between patient and analyst. I n this particular case the patient’s
self-preoccupation only permitted a narcissistic relationship with
the analyst. There was in fact no real relationship-no real wish
to please the analyst and thus give attention and interest to what
he said. Interpretation could only become effective after the analy-
sis of the resistance imposed by the patient’s narcissistic disposi-
tion.
As long as this patient could believe that the analyst was
without feeling, as long as he could dehumanize the analytic situa-
tion, he could deny the possible impact of his drives and affects
upon the analyst and their possible repercussions upon himself.
While he maintained this narcissistic defense he was completely
preoccupied with himself through the agency of his symptoms.
Self-concern protected him against an awareness of what he might
be doing to his objects-the analyst, his wife in the present, and
his parents and siblings in the past. T h e analysis of the narcissistic
defense led inevitably to the conflicts which had been internalized
through introjection. These conflicts operating at different instinc-
tual levels were libidinal and aggressive in content as the material
described above indicates. Each introjection was gradually replaced
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The case described above illustrates the operation of narcissism
as a pathological process. Reference was made at the beginning of
this paper to the fact that narcissism is a concept which describes a
normal developmental phase of the ego especially in its libidinal
aspects. Pathological narcissism implies something more. It de-
scribes the situation where narcissism is employed with defensive
aims. According to Glover (6), pathological narcissism is a condi-
tion which arises when there is a “defensive exaggeration of nar-
cissism’’ which disturbs normal function and leads to mental
suffering. This criterion was fulfilled in the aforementioned clin-
ical material.
Pathological narcissism has, as Glover (6) mentions, a psy-
chotic or near-psychotic connotation, and this is a matter which
requires investigation. Are the mental processes which fall within
the concept of pathological narcissism akin or similar to those
which underlie psychoses or are they quite different? Before in-
vestigating this question further it is important to recall that the
sexual deviations are also characterized by the presence of patho-
logical narcissism. However, it would be misleading to consider
that identical processes are taking place in neuroses of the type
described above and patients with sexual deviations. T h e nar-
cissism in the latter g o u p is particularly obvious, especially in the
area of the object choice. I n these cases the sexual aberration
crystallizes the narcissism within itself. The object and the self
are not clearly discriminated at an unconscious level. Bak (2) has
shown that the narcissistic object choice in sexual deviations is
similarly defensive in aim. T h e self is loved because objects in
infancy were disappointing. Object-relation conflicts usually with
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her belief that the man was in the hospital. She was always expect-
ing to meet him. Quite soon after this she told the interviewer
that he was seeing this man before coming to see her. This revela-
tion was followed a little while later by the announcement that it
was really her father who was reading her mind and speaking to
her although it was through the man’s voice. This caused her acute
distress. She would become confused and mixed up, not knowing
what to believe. She usually refused to report what the voice was
saying but often muttered, “It’s all lies.”
Her distress increased; she believed that the man was in the
ward above the one in which she was resident. TYhen she walked
up and down the ward she heard his footsteps upstairs. She would
say, “What’s going on?” but would not express herself further. I t
seemed as though everything that was happening i n the ward was
significant. Any noise was meaningful-she looked for micro-
phones i n the consulting rooms and was constantly searching for
the man. One day she said that she was sure that she had seen him
at a window. Eventually the interviewer was also reading her
mind. She oscillated between the conviction that he knew every-
thing that was happening or that he did not believe that she heard
a voice at all. She became hostile but never openly accused the
interviewer of persecutory intent.
Summary
An attempt has been made in this paper to utilize the concept of
narcissism to demonstrate the psychopathological processes envis-
aged as occurring in different mental states. The concept of patho-
logical narcissism is defined, and the forms it may assume in
neurosis, sexual perversion, and psychosis are described with the aid
of clinical data. The concept of pathological narcissism may be
useful in examining the relationship between neurosis and
psychosis.
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