Being Born As A Women

Being born as a Women
As a woman, I've never thought this way before, but recent events have made me realize that being a
woman is a burden. It seems like women, regardless of age, are constantly vulnerable. We can't
refuse, we can't resist, we can't speak out, and we can't defend ourselves. We're always worried
about hurting someone's ego or facing retaliation. Our reputation is always at risk, and it's incredibly
difficult to prove our innocence. A man suggested that women should carry condoms and
compromise with rapists, claiming that it's simply a physical need. Sex workers are even offering their
services as an alternative to rape. This is not the kind of society we want to live in. Even I, as a
woman, have experienced harassment and abuse, but I'm afraid to speak up because my parents
would limit my independence. Sharing my experiences would make me seem like I'm seeking
attention or being overly dramatic. Is it so?
The recent cases of sexual assault and violence against women in Kolkata, Bihar, Punjab, and Haryana
are deeply disturbing. While these cases have received significant media attention, they represent
only a fraction of the violence women face. Many women are victims of abuse and violence, with
their stories often going unnoticed. The fact that it took four years for a woman's parents to get
justice in a case with strong evidence highlights the systemic problems in the legal system. While the
perpetrators were eventually punished, the mother's suffering over the past four years is a testament
to the failures of the justice system. I suggest that the woman might have been better off if her
parents had chosen to terminate the pregnancy, as this would have spared her from the trauma and
violence she endured.
India has witnessed a surge in cases of violence against women in recent years, with rape being a
particularly heinous crime. The 2012 Delhi gang rape case, which led to nationwide protests and
significant legal reforms, highlighted the urgent need for stricter laws and better implementation to
ensure women's safety. Justice Verma Committee, established in the aftermath of the 2012 Delhi
gang rape case, submitted a comprehensive report with recommendations to strengthen laws and
improve the handling of sexual violence cases in India. The Justice Verma Committee, established in
response to the horrific 2012 Delhi gang rape, proposed a comprehensive set of reforms to
strengthen India's legal framework and improve the handling of sexual violence cases. The
committee recommended broadening the definition of rape to include a wider range of sexual acts,
imposing harsher punishments for offenders, and creating specialized fast-track courts to expedite
trials. It also emphasized the importance of protecting victims' identities and providing them with
necessary support. To improve the investigation and trial processes, the committee called for reforms
in the police force, proper evidence collection, witness protection measures, and judicial reforms,
including the appointment of more women judges. Finally, the report addressed the need to change
societal attitudes and cultural norms by promoting education and awareness, involving communities
in prevention efforts, and encouraging responsible media coverage. While some of these
recommendations have been implemented, significant work remains to ensure a safer and more
equitable society for women in India. And still the rape cases continue to get filed and piled up in file,
dusted in court room.
I'm not here to debate specific solutions or legal reforms. Instead, I want to emphasize the deep-
rooted damage that societal attitudes and practices have caused. The slogan "Beti bachao, beti
padhao" (Save the girl, educate the girl) is incomplete; it should prioritize a girl's safety throughout
her life. Our goal is not to see daughters born, educated, and then victimized. Despite committees,
marches, and protests, rapists remain fearless, undeterred by the threat of punishment. The very
purpose of punishment is to instill fear, but it seems ineffective in this case.
If we seek true justice, why should we wait for the slow and torturous legal process? I'll become an
advocate, but it's shameful to witness the law's failures. Sometimes, we must resort to drastic
measures to ensure justice, even if it means breaking the law ourselves.
People will demand solutions, but for whom? Should I suggest solutions for the victims or the
rapists? From diapers to bikinis and burkas, every other woman is a victim. But what is the uniform
of a rapist? How can I offer solutions when the question arises, it could be anyone. What do I stop
going out myself, staying at home, but a father or an uncle or a brother raped their daughter, niece,
sister, what do I stop being born? But then the monitor lizard was raped. Should I prioritize animal
rights or my own?
I'm writing this to people who want to be safe and make the place safer for their kids and family. You
know who's causing trouble. If a girl can't speak up, you can. At least it might make them hesitate
next time. I'm not saying we're not independent, but we're not mentally strong enough to speak up
after the damage is done. It can leave you breathless and unable to stand. You need someone to hold
your hand and keep you safe. There's no guaranteed way to prevent rape. You must take your own
safety seriously until society is ready to protect you. Be courageous and resilient. The challenge of
addressing sexual violence against women in India is significant, but it is not insurmountable. By
implementing comprehensive legal reforms, promoting societal change, supporting victims, and
emphasizing personal safety, we can create a safer and more equitable society for all. It is imperative
that we continue to advocate for justice, challenge harmful norms, and empower women to reclaim
their agency and dignity.

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