SikoFil Notes
SikoFil Notes
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Across Culture Values - seen and the unseen
1. Affective Autonomy- affirms that we are Sources of Filipino Transpersonal Worldview
responsible for all of our needs throughout our
lives - vary in different localities of the Philippines
Filipino worldview belongs to the animist - lipon ng mga paniniwala sa mga positibo at
model minimithing layunin na siyang ginagagamit
natin bilang batayan sa pagpili at pagtatasa
- sees the material world as "peopled" by a ng mga kilos, lalo't higit sa konteksto ng mga
variety of spirits alanganing sitwasyon (Yacat, 2017)
- conceiving these spirits as living normal
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- Sampung kategorya ng karaniwang Hanayan 1. Sistema ng Pagpapahalagang Pilipino
negatibong kilos na tinuturing na mga (Enriquez 1992)
relasyonal na paglabag
Jessica Cameron at mga kasama (2002)
1. hindi pagtupad sa pangako
2. malabis na reaksyon sa kilos ng relasyon
3. pagkilos na walang konsiderasyon sa
karelasyon
4. hindi pagrespeto sa antas ng intimacy na URI NG RELASYON BILANG SALIK: ANG
hangad ng karelasyon; PAPEL NG IBANG TAO (IT) AT HINDI IBANG
5. pagpapabaya sa karelasyon; TAO (HIT)
6. pagbabanta ng pangangaliwa - IT at HIT ay pamantayan ng interpersonal na
7. aktwal na pangangaliwa distansya
8. berbal na agresyon laban sa karelasyon - mga konseptong relasyonal o interpersonal
9. walang batayang pakikipagtalo (relational constructs)
10. karahasan laban sa karelasyon. - ang mga reaksyon ng mga tao sa isang
• Dalawang Karaniwang Tugon sa mga paglabag sa konteksto ng isang relasyon ay
ganitong paglabag (John Gottman, 1993) naiimpluwensyahan din ng tipo ng relasyong
1. sama ng loob o hinanakit mayroon: kung IT ba O HIT
2. galit o ngitngit - Type and Level of interactions:
3. Other emotions:
Kategorang IT Kategoryang HIT
o inis
o lungkot Pakikitungo Pakikipaglagayang-loob
o pagkapahiya Pakikisalamuha Pakikisangkot
• Dalawang motibasyon para sa tugon sa isang
Pakikilahok Pakikiisa
pagkakasala (Michael McCullough at mga
kasama, 1998) Pakikibagay
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6. Paniniwala na ang intensyon ng karelasyon ay Konklusyon ng Pag-aaral ni Yacat
para sa ikabubuti ng relasyon
7. Pagiging bukas sa paghingi ng tawad - Napag-alamang may ilang magkahiwalay na
epekto ang uri ng value na nilabag at tipo ng
Pakikipagkapwa tao relasyon sa ilang relasyonal na salik,
- Mas matindi ang pagkapahiya kung ang isang
Enriquez (1990) tao ay naging target ng paglabag ng
- pagkilala sa parehong tao pakikipagkapwa-tao kumpara sa paglabag ng
• pagtrato bilang tao pakikisama
• pagtanggap at pagbigbigay respeto - mas matinding inis naman ang
nararamdaman kung ang paglabag ay
Eric Julian Manalastas (2009) isinagawa ng isang IT kumpara sa HIT.
- Malaki rin ang posibilidad na ang paglabag ng
- tumutukoy sa positibong pagtutunguhan IT ay hahantong sa desisyong wasakan na
kasama na rin ang pagtulong at mahusay na ang relasyon
interpersonal na komunikasyon - Subalit may mga pagkakataong mas higit ang
Pakikiramdam- tentatibong pagkilos na epekto ng uri ng relasyon, pagiging HIT o IT,
naglalayong makaiwas na makapanakit sa ibang kaysa uri ng paglabag
tao Kapwa and The Struggle For Justice,
Pakikisama- smooth interpersonal relations Freedom, and Dignity
The Shared Inner Self
Resulta ng Pananaliksik Kapwa- "fellow being"; unity of self and others
- recognition of shared identity, an inner self
Bigat ng Paglabag
shared with others
- walang tuwirang hiwalay na epekto ang uri ng - Shared Inner Self (SIS) is rooted in the deeper
paglabag at tipo ng relasyon sa pagtatasa ng concept of kapwa and dangal
bigat ng paglabag - kapwa is shared
- nagkaroon ng pagkakaiba sa pagtatasa ng - insider and outsider
mga kalahok sa bigat ng paglabag ng - non-members are still accommodated and fall
pakikipagkapwa-tao depende sa kung aling on ambigouos category
tipo ng relasyon mayroon kay A. Kung ang ▪ saling pusa- enjoys the privileges or
lumabag ng pakikipagkapwa-tao ay IT, special treatments
itinuturing itong mabigat na paglabag kumpara - tayo includes the listener; kami excludes
sa kung ang lumabag nito ay HIT. - Pakikipagkapwa- means accepting and
- Samantala, halos pareho naman ang bigat ng dealing with the person as an equal
paglabag ng pakikisama sa IT at HIT.
- Samakatwid, may pagiiba na dulot ang tipo ng A. Karangalan: Beyond Suferficiality of Hiya
relasyon, kung ito ay HIT o IT, sa pagtingin sa - closest translation is dignity
bigat ng paglabag ng pakikipagkapwa-tao. - Karangalan is about dangal and puri
Puri (praise)
Tindi ng Negatibong Damdamin - external manifestation of karangalan
- given in recognition of accomplishment
- matindi ang negatibong damdaming
Dangal
naranasan ng mga kalahok matapos ang
isang paglabag - recognized through rites or social approval
▪ parangal
- pinakamatindi ang naranasang pagkainis ng
- intrinsic quality of a person that allows one to
mga kalahok dahil sa nangyari
shine despite the grime of their appearance
- Pinakamababa namang mean ang natamo ng
- referred to as honor or self-respect
lungkot para sa mga kalahok
Pagpapanatili ng Relasyon B. Kalayaan: A Matter of Life and Death
- Kalayaan is the freedom and license to do as
- walang kinalaman ang uri ng values na one pleases
nilabag sa desisyon kung mananatili sa - Kalayaan means life itself
relasyon o hindi - the freedom to commit act (life) or the lack of it
- Mas 5agging matingkad ang epekto ng uri ng (death)
relasyon sa pagkakaiba ng desisyon kung ▪ determines whether a community survive
mananatili sa relasyon matapos ang isang or perishes
paglabag - The capacity to enact is not determined by the
parameter but rather by necessity
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Pakikiramdam: The Pivotal Aspect of Kapwa
C. Katarungan: In Unity and Beyond - pakikiramdam- feeling for another
- Katarungan-social justice - active process involving great care and
▪ indespensable condtion for peace deliberation manifested in "hesitation to react
- Katarungan is an Indictment that the law is not ▪ If I were in the other's situation how would
always just I feel?
- Elements recognized by Katarungan - seen as a golden rule
▪ Karapatan (rights) The Centrality of Pakikiramdam in Behavioral
▪ Katotohanan (truth) and Interpersonal Domains
▪ Katwiran(reason) ❖ biro-lambing-tampo
▪ Kapayapaan (peace)
▪ Pagkakaisa (unity) -consesus; - Biro (a joke/tease)
accommodative ▪ most relevant to the domain of the surface
D. The Value of Kagandahang Loob: value of hiya
Reciprocity or Nobility - Lambing (sweetness/ fondness)
- Kagandahang Loob ▪ where pakikisama is operative
▪ Shared inner nobility - Tampo
- Manifested through act of generosity; ▪ frequently associated with perceived
kabutihan (external) disregard for utang na loob
- Must be spontaneously out of goodness of ▪ felt in the face of a supposedly
heart; kabaitan (internal) unrecognized or unreciprocated utang na
Beyond Pakikisama: Equity and Fairness loob
- katarungan is fairness (justice) Internality-Externality of Pakikiramdam
- includes the idea of "appropriateness" ▪ paki- a request or plea
- Majority should be heeded instead of the ▪ damdam/ ramdam- to feel
powerful minority ▪ Pakidama- external in character
Katotohanan and Katwiran: Truth and Reason ▪ Damdam- internal-recognition of one's
- Katotohanan shields one from false loob and person's individuality
accusations The Compliant Filipino
▪ untarnished truth - Pakikiramdam forms a triad: Hiya-Utang na
▪ core of katapatan (honesty) Loob-Pakikisama (accommodative values)
- Katwiran implies rights The Moral Dimensions of Hiya
▪ justifies the case - Hiya is a social character (Sibley)
Pagkakaisa: Justice in Unity or Consensus ▪ It does not consider the affixations
- katarungan operates at the highest level of - Internal Aspects:
social interaction ▪ value of karangalan
- pagkakaisa implies consensus or agreement ▪ intensity of personal's emotion of hiya
- normative conditions - External Aspects:
- pakikisama and pakikibagay is the ▪ penetratres pakikisalamuha or pakikitungo
compromised norm ▪ voluntary, conscious, or involuntary
Kapayapaan (Peace): Consequence of
Katarungan as Unity The Filipino Self Image and the Blessings of
- passive acceptance Utang na Loob
▪ Diyos na ang bahala sa kanila - Utang na loob-gratitude
- there are different levels of justice - refers to the value which moves to recognize,
▪ some just nakikibagay with the unjust respect, promote, and, at times, defend the
implementation of the legal system basic dignity of each person
The Filipinization of Personality Theory Elevating the Status of Pakikisama
- Personality vs Pagkatao (Personhood) - pakikisama-companionship/esteem
▪ Pagkataong Filipino-shared humanity and - Smooth interpersonal relationship
the kapwa psychology of the Filpinos - One of the many interpersonal level of
- Due to the colonial mentality, Fillpino Filipinos
language is merely seen as tables ▪ building block for higher interpersonal
- Language has its own logic level
▪ hence it may lead to incorrect
interpretation
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The Confrontative Filipino Filipino values (4 Categories)
Bahala Na: Determination in the Face of 1. Surface values (Top); can be accommodative
Uncertainty or confrontative
- Fatalism here is being understood as a a. accommodative-hiya, utang na loob,
passive acceptance of life, indicated by a pakikisama
dislike for planning and taking responsibility b. confrontative-bahala na, lakas ng loob,
for one's action pakikibaka
- Bahala na is a combination of both Fatalism 2. Pivotal Values (Middle)-pakikiramdam
and Determination a. biro-lambing-tampo
- it operates in a situation which is full of • tampo only exist on establish or
uncertainty and lack of information thought so to be established
▪ risk taking despite the uncertainty and relationship
possibility of failure • HIT category
- it operates to encourage or rise 3. Core Values (Middle)-Kapwa/Kapwa
determinations Psychology
▪ it spurs inherent abilities to bring about a. concept of shared inner self
needed change 4. Foundation of Human Values (Bottom)- Socio-
- Indications of acceptance and knowing political (a-c) and Inner self (d)
limitations of one's self a. kalayaan
- bahala na reflects the improvisatory b. karangalan
personality of Filipinos c. katarungan
▪ allows one to cope and be comfortable d. kagandahang Loob
amidst the situations
Lakas ng Loob: The Inner Resource for
Change
- rash judgment
- it is among the seven most highly valued
characteristics
- a key factor in realization of pagbabagong
dangal
- It enables one to face difficulty, even death
- It is a damdamin necessary for actualizing the
good
- Hindi lamang sa sarili nakakabuti kundi pati na
rin sa iba
Pakikibaka: Cooperative Resistance
- level of fusion in a common struggle, in face of
injustice and exploitation
- aspect of kapwa-oriented worldview that
awakens the Filipino's consciousness of
present-day realities
- motivates one to struggle and break away
from the injustices and exploitation
- pakikibaka is a valid na aspeto ng
pakikipagkapwa
• pakikisama is taken also as a motive for
pakikibaka
• pakikisama (implies adjusting one's
individuality) = pakikibaka
• it affirms one's conviction as part of one's
beings
• it recognizes meaning of cooperation and
concerned action in resistance