2nd qtr REVIEWER IN PERDEV

Personal relationship - is a form of relationship closely linked to a person

and which can only be important to that person.

ATTRACTION- it is a force that unites people and can grow into an

attachment which eventually leads to commitment. It is the action or power
of evoking interest, pleasure, or liking for someone or something.
Build proximity and similarity to sustain a relationship.

Most people would claim that they are attracted to someone after a few
seconds of their first encounter. April Masini, who also gives ABC
Entertainment News relation advice, wrote books like Date Out of Your
League, suggests that females are naturally attracted to men who exude
affection and passion and seem to live a fascinating life. Heterosexuals
tend to be attracted to men with traditionally masculine features including
muscle body, square jaw, straight nose, and narrow eyes, physically or
emotionally.

There are many factors that lead to the growth and maintenance
of healthy and acceptable relationships, including:

1. Mutual respect. Will he or she get to know how smart and why you
are? Will your partner listen to you when you say you are not happy doing
something and then instantly back off? Respect in a partnership means
that each partner trusts and respects the weaknesses of each other and
will never question them.

2. Trust. You talk to a classmate, and your partner wanders about. Is he

going to lose his cool, or is he going to keep walking, because he knows
you are never going to cheat on him? Often it's normal to get a little
jealous; jealousy is a common feeling. But how a person reacts when he
feels jealous is what matters. Though you trust each other, there is no
guarantee that you will have a healthy relationship.

3. Honesty. This one goes hand-in - hand with confidence, because when
one of you is not honest, it is difficult to trust another. Have you ever
caught your partner in a total lie? Like when she told you that she / he was
occupied with homework, but it turned out that she / he was talking to
friends? You're going to have a lot of difficulty believing the next time
she / he says she / he has to work and the trust will be on dangerous
foundations. 4. Support. It is not only in difficult times that you should be
supported by your partner. Usually, when the whole world is falling apart,
we thought that this is the only time we need support from others. Even in
your best, you still need support and when time gets tough, your
significant other should still be there. For instance, your partner should be
there when you find out that your parents are breaking apart and he/she
should also rejoice with you when you get a great score.

5. Fairness/Equality. You need to have a give and a take in your

relationship. Do you take turns deciding what kind of food to eat? Are you
going out with your friends as a partner as much as you stay out with your
friends? If it is not a fair balance, you will know. When a relationship
transforms into a power struggle, with one party trying to get his or her
way all the time, changes get really fast.

6. Separate identities. In a stable relationship, everybody has to make

compromises. But that does not mean you should have the feeling that
you are losing yourself. You both had your own lives when you started out
(families, friends, interests, hobbies, etc.) and that should not change. You
should not pretend to like something that you do not like, or give up
seeing your mates, or give up something that you love. And you should
also feel free to build new abilities or interests, make new friends, and
move forward.

7. Good Communication. Are you going to speak to each other and

share the feelings that matter to you? Don't keep your emotions locked up
because you are afraid your partner does not even need to hear about it.
And if you need some time to think about something before you are ready
to talk about it, you will be provided some space by the right person to do
that.

10 Things That Are Unacceptable in Any Relationship

1. Cheating If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship,

cheating should be out of the question. Many people will say infidelity is a
deal-breaker. However, others will decide to stay with their partners after
an affair, and, under the right circumstances, it is possible to heal the
relationship. If you do decide to maintain the relationship, your partner
says they will never cheat again, and they do, it’s likely that they will
continue to break your trust.

2. Putting you down No one has the right to make you feel bad about
yourself. Whether blatant or subtle, if your partner criticizes your looks,
your hair, your laugh, your intelligence, or anything, they’re not worth
your time.

3. Not supporting your dreams In a relationship, you should be each

other’s cheerleaders. When you feel discouraged, they should tell you all
the things you’re doing right. If you feel like running out of options, they
should ask what he can do to help you reach your goals.

4. Controlling You should have a life outside of your relationship, away

from your partner. It is not their place to tell you who you can see, when
you can see them, what to eat, or how to dress. This controlling behavior
can be a warning sign of physical abuse and should be taken seriously.

5. Lack of communication You will never be able to grow together if you

don’t discuss your wants and needs. You both need to feel comfortable
openly expressing your feelings, good and bad, otherwise you might begin
to resent each other.

6. Unnecessary sacrifices Compromise is a must in a relationship, but if

you feel like you’re giving up everything, while your significant other is
sacrificing nothing, something’s not right. Have you heard someone say
they got rid of their pet because their fiancé didn’t like cats? Or quit their
job, left their family, and moved to other places for someone who wouldn’t
do the same for them? These should serve as your red flags or warning
signs that there is something wrong in how your significant other treats
you.

7. Unreliability When your cellphone is not working, you need advice, or

you’ve just had a bad day and need a hug, do they come to your aid? If
they’re not there for you when you need them the most, think twice: why
are you with them?

8. Forgetting the memorable day There’s a stereotype that men

always forget anniversaries and birthdays. Whether that’s true or not, it’s
not okay. It’s normal for something to slip our minds, but your man (or
woman) should remember those little things that are important to you.

9. Self-destruction Sometimes we fall for people who are in rough

situations. Though it can be difficult, it’s important to be there for your
loved ones during these times and encourage them to seek help if
necessary. However, if they are engaging in destructive behavior that is
negatively affecting you, and they refuse to seek help, you might want to
consider leaving. There is only so much you can do, and it is not your fault
that they are not willing to help themselves.

10. Not caring about friends and family When you want to build a life
with someone, you have to accept every part of them, including the
people they care about. Your partner not making an effort to get to know
your loved ones can cause a major strain on your relationship.
The most effective way to establish a positive connection with another person in terms of
interpersonal attraction is by sharing common interests, values, and goals.
When two people express mutual love their relationship will grow and become stronger.

The family should maintain the trust in each member, avoid dishonesty.
Through one's honesty he/she gains the trust of his/her loved ones.

Roles of an efficient leader

- show enthusiasm - set example
- assume and do responsibility - show empathy
- be sensitive to the need of others – active listener

Roles of an effective follower

- a can-do attitude - courage to participate

- a collaborative approach - courage to challenge
- he passion to drive personal growth - courage to serve and subservient

Followership means when people express words, actions, respect, and support
to a leader.
To become a great leader, you must be a good follower.

Mini-surveys are carefully focused on a specific topic. It contains only

fifteen to thirty questions. It is given to a small sample of twenty-five
to seventy people. It usually uses more closed than open-ended
questions; that is, they use questions that force the respondent to
choose from a small set of alternative answers, rather than inviting a
freely expanded comment. Use short, simple sentences of less than
sixteen words.

Steps in conducting a mini-survey

Step 1: Clarify Your Objectives
Step 2: Find Out What Else Has Been Done
Step 3: Choose the Respondents
Step 4: Develop the Questions

Guide in writing questions: The Do’s and the Don’ts

The following guidelines for writing questions were adapted from the work
of cross-cultural research experts Brislin, Lonner, and Thorndike (1973),
who created them to help in translating questions from one language to
another. But they are useful even when you do not have to translate.
1. Use short, simple sentences of less than sixteen words.
However, sensitive questions may require a softener.
2. Use the active rather than the passive voice: "Should the
teachers discipline the students?" rather than "should discipline be carried
out by the teachers?" 3. Repeat nouns instead of using pronouns: "When
the teacher saw Memorandum, he was terrified." Who was terrified?
4. Avoid metaphors and colloquialisms: "Earl and Eljim agreed, but
Eloise thought that was a horse of a different color."
5. Avoid the subjective mode, such as verbs with could and
would: "If the school could improve its security system, would people
send more girls?" Avoid vague words such as "nearer," "often," and
"frequent." "Would you like to live nearer to Baguio?"
6. Avoid possessive forms where possible: "Mila's sister took her
request to her teacher." Whose request, whose teacher?
7. Use specific rather than general terms: The chief, the teacher,
rather than the authorities, the soccer club, the debating team, rather
than extracurricular activities.
8. Avoid words with two different verbs if the verbs suggest two
different actions: "Should villagers attend and challenge the teachers at
the parent-teacher meetings?"

Home-school partnership occurs through the processes of cooperation,

coordination, and collaboration to enhance learning opportunities,
educational progress, and school success for students in the academic,
social, emotional, and behavioral domains.
School-community partnerships can intertwine many resources and
strategies to enhance communities that support all youth and their
families. They could make schools better, strengthen neighborhoods, and
lead to a noticeable depletion in young people's problems. Building such
partnerships requires visioning, strategic planning, creative leadership,
and new adoptable roles for professionals who work in schools and
communities.

Partnerships should be considered as connections between schools and

community resources.
The partnership may involve the following: 1. utilization of school or
neighborhood facilities and equipment or giving out other resources 2.
collaborative fundraising and grant applications giving assistance 3.
mentoring and training from professionals and others with special
expertise 4. information sharing and dissemination 5. networking
recognition and public relations 6. shared responsibility for planning 7.
implementation and evaluation of programs and services; 8. expanding
opportunities for internships, jobs, recreation, and building a sense of
community.

Family relationships, or relatives are people we are connected to through

some form of kinships, such as parents, brothers and sisters,
grandparents, aunts and uncles or step-parents. The family includes
siblings and parents you may see every day growing up, and other
relatives such as cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents you may not
see frequently. Friends are people we are not related to but choose to
interact with.
A friend is a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of
mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or family relations. Friends
are people we trust, respect, care about, and feel that we can confide in
and want to spend time with. Friends are close to you whom you can
confide in.

Acquaintances are people you may encounter oftentimes but are not
friends or relatives. For instance, they may be a neighbor who lives in
your road, a work colleague or someone you have seen a few times at a
social event but do not yet know well. Acquaintances are persons whom
you know slightly, but who is not a close friend.

The primary role of a parent in a child's life is to transfer a positive legacy to the child
NUCLERA FAMILY - a household composed of a married couple and their three children.
SINGLE-PARENT FAMILY - the child lives with only their mother and no other adult figures
present in the household.
EXTENDED FAMILY - a grandparent, their son, daughter-in-law, and grandchildren all living
together and sharing daily household duties.

FAMILIA- is the Latin word for family