Master The Art of Texting

Download as pdf or txt
Download as pdf or txt
You are on page 1of 30

‭BRIGHT GROWTH‬

‭Copyright © 2024 BRIGHT GROWTH‬

‭ ll rights reserved. This book or any portion of this may not be‬
A
‭reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express‬
‭written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief‬
‭quotations in a book review, crediting the author.‬

‭1st Edition: 2024‬

‭ he information presented here is for informational and educational‬


T
‭purposes only. It does not construe financial or tax advice‬

‭ opyright infringement: is the use of works protected by copyright‬


C
‭law without permission, infringing certain exclusive rights granted‬
‭to the copyright holder, such as the right to reproduce, distribute,‬
‭display or perform the protected work, or to make derivative works.‬

‭ he copyright holder is typically the work’s creator, or a publisher‬


T
‭or other business to whom copyright has been assigned. Copyright‬
‭holders routinely invoke legal and technological measures to‬
‭prevent and penalize copyright infringement.‬

‭ lso the sole purpose of this free ebook is to encourage and help‬
A
‭men to improve their overall life with the help of my tactics and‬
‭knowledge , do not use any information of this book without the‬
‭author's permission.‬
‭TABLE OF CONTENT‬
‭1 - What is the point of texting‬

‭2 - Fundamentals‬

‭3 - What is your purpose ?‬

‭4 - Being brief and direct‬

‭5 - Detachment‬

‭6 - Make it easy for her to respond‬

‭7 - Cut through the bullshit‬

‭8 - Emojis‬

‭9 - Calibration levels‬

‭10 - Memes & Gifs‬

‭11 - Balance of effort‬

‭12 - Lead the interaction‬

‭13 - Escalation games‬

‭14 - If she does not respond‬

‭15 - Detached urgenc‬‭y‬


‭BEFORE WE BEGIN‬
‭Do you see what I see?‬

‭I see people stuck to their phones.‬

‭ he pandemic only amplified this. During Quarantine, The‬


T
‭only form of communication with the outside world was via‬
‭a smartphone or laptop.‬

‭ nless you're a G like me, who went out and met people‬
U
‭anyway. Fuck the rules.‬

‭ nyway, the reality is that women have become more‬


A
‭receptive to meeting new people online- be it through‬
‭Instagram, via Tinder/ Bumble/ Hinge, etc.‬

‭ ven if you meet her in person, it's very important to be‬


E
‭good at texting, otherwise the attraction might just fizzle‬
‭away‬

‭Bottom line?‬

‭ ou have to be great at texting, or else you will miss out on‬


Y
‭a lot of experiences with beautiful women.‬
‭ ave a great personality in real life, and have an even better‬
H
‭text game that makes her wet, and gets hers anticipating‬
‭your next meeting.‬

‭ hen you apply the techniques laid out here you will‬
W
‭become UNSTOPPABLE.‬

‭ he beauty of messaging is that you can not have the best‬


T
‭body, the best voice, but you can make her imagine better‬
‭and wetter things just by the power of your game online.‬

‭Let's begin‬
‭What is the point of texting?‬

‭ o put it very simply- To set up a meeting between 2 or‬


T
‭more people.‬

‭ o elaborate - This "meeting" can be a date at a third‬


T
‭location, or her coming over to your place, or you going to‬
‭her place.‬

‭You also text women to BUILD UP the ANTICIPATION.‬

‭Understand that texting is like foreplay.‬

‭ ou show her that you're a high-value man who speaks‬


Y
‭womanese, and you make her wet by using the power of‬
‭wordplay.‬

‭ omen love it when guys have a better control on language‬


W
‭than they do. ( always tease her for her short vocabulary)‬

‭ ou build rapport through text so that she knows you're not‬


Y
‭a kidnapper or rapist who is going to harm her, but a real‬
‭guy who has value, and is fun and exciting.‬
‭ hen you use Wordplay to show her that you're not just a‬
T
‭simp, but a high value guy who she can have a great time‬
‭with, and who is going to make her moan in pleasure in bed.‬
‭Fundamentals‬
‭ he first belief I want to bust is that there is no such thing‬
T
‭as the "perfect text" or the "perfect text game" .‬

I‭ t's all about optimizing it. You can become near perfect,‬
‭but there will always be girls who don't like it, simply‬
‭because they're either too dumb to "get it" or just‬
‭disconnected from the trend.‬

I‭ t's OK. Don't take it personally. Bad Text games contain‬


‭these major issues:‬

‭ long messages‬
-
‭- random texts‬
‭- too many emojis‬
‭- chody language‬
‭- being submissive,‬
‭- without a clear purpose.‬

‭You can remove all these from your game, and life.‬

‭The mindset that you should have is:‬

‭"How would * insert a high value guy you know * text back?"‬
‭ great example, and which I use, is how would Iman Gadzi‬
A
‭or Andrew Tate respond to these texts?‬

‭-To her shit tests?‬

‭-To her asking about what I'm currently doing?‬

‭-To her objections?‬

‭ ould he send long emotional paragraphs with emojis?‬


W
‭Would he care about being "polite"?‬

‭ ou have to take time to practice this until eventually, this‬


Y
‭will become your default mindset.‬

‭You have the power to do it.‬

‭The stuff in here is so rarely talked about in the soy world.‬

‭ he only thing you require to do is take CONSISTENT &‬


T
‭MASSIVE ACTION.‬

‭ et's start with the principles. Remember, these are not‬


L
‭rules, but to be taken as guidelines.‬
‭What is your Purpose?‬
‭Don't just text for the sake of talking to her.‬

‭ ftentimes, women will make you their "texting buddies" if‬


O
‭you overdo it.‬

‭ ou NEVER want to be available for her all day. You have‬


Y
‭your own life, and she is not even a priority.‬

‭ efine the purpose of texting. In most cases, it will be to set‬


D
‭up a meeting.‬

‭That is the primary purpose.‬

‭ t the same time, you text to check if the girl is weird,‬


A
‭boring, or interesting. You're not going to meet up with a‬
‭girl who isn't worth your time.‬

‭ ut, to prevent flaking, just setting up the meeting is not‬


B
‭enough. You have to make yourself memorable. You have to‬
‭stand out in her brain. You have to make her excited to meet‬
‭you.‬

‭Sexting is not a purpose. It is a supplement‬


‭Being Brief and direct‬
‭It's a sign of being of higher value.‬

‭You hold your attention, yet still, get your point across.‬

‭Ask yourself:‬

‭ ould Andrew Tate send long and personal texts to every‬


W
‭girl, or would he be busy hanging out with women and just‬
‭being himself?‬

‭ et into the habit of getting the point across with fewer‬


G
‭words.‬

‭Repetition is key.‬
‭Detachment‬
‭Neediness is repulsive.‬

‭ ou've probably heard it a million times, but hopefully,‬


Y
‭you've been applying it and staying detached.‬

‭Never put women on a pedestal.‬

‭ he drops the same load every morning as a chimpanzee‬


S
‭does.‬

‭This does not mean you put her down.‬

‭ reat her like you would any random stranger who you are‬
T
‭interested in knowing if they are worth your time.‬

‭ eedless to say, you are ready to walk away at any time‬


N
‭before, during, or after the interaction if you see that it‬
‭doesn't fit in your reality and is not in alignment with your‬
‭goals. Some To Do's:-‬

‭ Be direct‬
-
‭- Qualify her‬
‭- Be persistent, but detached.‬
‭- Be bold, women forgive the bold, NEVER the weak.‬
‭ uys who become "attached" start behaving like a simp,‬
G
‭where they think 10 times before sending something, and‬
‭whether it is safe or not.‬

‭FUCK THAT.‬

‭ hen you let go, your mind paradoxically comes up with‬


W
‭much better responses, and your text game flows.‬
‭Make it easy for her to‬
‭respond‬
‭ ame is Sales, and the first rule of sales is to make it easy‬
G
‭for the customer to respond back- to take some action.‬

‭ imilarly, when you text her, you make it easy for her to‬
S
‭reply back, especially in the initial stages, where she won't‬
‭invest as much into you as she would once you've built‬
‭rapport.‬

‭ he probably gets tons of messages on her Social Media and‬


S
‭dating apps, so you must be easy to talk to.‬

‭ ee man, once you meet her in person, you can show your‬
S
‭A-game, and then she will be hooked.‬

‭ he won't be able to get enough of you, but before that, you‬


S
‭have to play the less-exciting game.‬

‭For example,‬

I‭ f she says‬‭"Hey, how are you?"‬‭and you reply with‬‭"I'm‬


‭good"‬
‭ ou've made it hard for her to reply back because you've‬
Y
‭effectively CLOSED the conversation loop.‬

‭Instead, you can reply with-‬

‭"I'm fantastic, just came back from a run"‬

‭ ow you've not only given her a chance to build upon the‬


N
‭fact that you like to go out for jogs and sprints, but you've‬
‭displayed value, in the sense that you're a physically active‬
‭guy who gives a fuck about his body and health.‬

‭Women love that.‬


‭Cut through the bullshit‬
‭ he problem with many guys is that they take the "friend"‬
T
‭route before asking a girl out or making their intentions‬
‭known.‬

‭This is the wrong take.‬

I‭ f you're on a dating app, this should be especially obvious‬


‭to you, because she wants it.‬

‭ acilitate "it"- It is meeting up and potentially having sex‬


F
‭with you.‬

‭Be unapologetic in your intentions.‬

‭This increases your SMV (Sexual Market Value) in her eyes.‬

‭You are not afraid to go for what you want.‬


‭Emoji‬
‭Do you think Iman Gadzi sends emojis to girls?‬

‭99% of the Emojis break the sexual tension.‬

‭The same goes for "lol".‬

‭ hese are 2 that you should keep to a MINIMUM. and by‬


T
‭minimum, I mean 0 or 1 per conversation.‬

‭ hey are rapport seeking as well- you seem very under‬


T
‭confident about what you have to say, and you simply‬
‭cannot handle the tension.‬

‭ haha" is another one that easily gives away your‬


"
‭validation to the woman.‬

‭ emove them from all your conversations for a few weeks,‬


R
‭and notice the difference.‬

‭ nother benefit of this will be that your stress tolerance will‬


A
‭increase because you will be forced to handle greater‬
‭tension in your conversations.‬
‭Calibration Levels‬
‭You have to be bold but in a socially intelligent way.‬

‭You don't rush the process.‬

‭You play the long game.‬

‭You excite her.‬

‭You push her and you pull her.‬

‭ ou don't push too hard or pull too hard because you know‬
Y
‭she will sense the neediness and go away.‬

I‭ f she needs more rapport building, you take a step back and‬
‭genuinely have a conversation where you get to know her‬
‭deeply.‬

‭ he biggest sin is not being direct, but the next biggest‬


T
‭would be being too crude and uncalibrated.‬

I‭ f she shit tests you, you don't get nervous, but you master‬
‭it, and flip it back on her.‬
‭ ou show that you've been through this a thousand times,‬
Y
‭and she can't shake you off.‬

‭ ou are here for the win, and you are ready to walk away‬
Y
‭anytime and do it all over again with the next girl.‬
‭Memes & Gifs‬
‭Memes are big right now.‬

‭ hat you can't say to a girl even after a lot of comfort is‬
W
‭built, you can say via a meme, INSTANTLY.‬

‭ ou could send the most sexual meme and she will still be‬
Y
‭receptive to it.‬

‭ f course, some form of rapport has to be built, and she‬


O
‭needs to see you as the "fun, sexual, cocky guy."‬

‭ hat's obviously no problem for you because you will take‬


T
‭action on the gold that is in this course.‬

‭ evelop a collection of memes that you can send at‬


D
‭different times of the day.‬

‭There is literally an unlimited supply of memes right now.‬

‭ ou can follow nugget on Instagram. It regularly posts‬


Y
‭sexual memes that you can just forward to her in the DMs.‬

I‭ t's personal and easy. However, don't become her "meme‬


‭dealer".‬
‭ end one every 2 days or something like that, and follow it‬
S
‭up with a conversation, because actual texting is always‬
‭more important‬‭.‬
‭Balance of effort‬
‭ ou ensure that you don't double text, when she is single‬
Y
‭texting.‬

‭ ou ensure that your investment levels are less than her‬


Y
‭investment levels.‬

I‭ nitially, you might have to invest more than her, but once‬
‭you have hooked her in, you make HER invest in you.‬

‭Don't send long messages. Keep the length less than hers.‬

‭Girls subconsciously pick up on all this.‬

I‭ f you have to convey an important point across, then you‬


‭can send a longer message, but it will be an exception.‬
‭Lead the interaction‬
‭ ou facilitate the conversation, and more importantly, you‬
Y
‭lead it and escalate.‬

‭ ou keep it lighthearted and flirty, and then at times, you‬


Y
‭take it deep and full of sexual tension.‬

‭ ou take her on a rollercoaster ride of emotions, where she‬


Y
‭cannot grasp you.‬

‭ tay away from topics like Politics and religion- they don't‬
S
‭end well.‬

I‭ f she takes the conversation that way, give her very little‬
‭attention and deviate her to your topic of choice.‬
‭Escalation Games‬
‭ uilding upon the previous point, here's a great game that‬
B
‭you should be playing with girls because it breaks the ice‬
‭and will help you escalate without much effort.‬

‭ lay the questions game (After building a good level of‬


P
‭rapport)- where you ask each other general questions, and‬
‭then you escalate it slowly and steadily.‬

‭The only rule is that you cannot ask yes/no questions.‬

‭The key for you is to have a list of questions prepared.‬

‭ emember to keep them exciting and on the positive side,‬


R
‭because she will relate those feelings with you.‬

‭Eg-‬

‭1st -‬‭What's your favorite place to go when you're‬‭happy?‬

‭2nd -‬‭When was your first kiss‬‭?‬

‭3rd -‬‭When did you lose your virginity ?‬

‭4th -‬‭What is your go-to sexual position ?‬


‭5th-‬‭What is your wildest fantasy and so on‬‭.‬

‭ he will escalate with you, and you both will connect with‬
S
‭each other on intimate topics like Sex, which is essential.‬

‭ ecause to fuck a girl, you have to start talking about‬


B
‭fucking first.‬

‭ lways escalate the conversation to the point that she feels‬


A
‭very comfortable and open to be intimate with you.‬
‭If she does not respond‬
I‭ n most cases, you will not even bother to check because‬
‭you are so busy dominating your purpose.‬

‭ ut in the rare cases that you do have some time on your‬


B
‭hands, and your text game was relatively good, where she‬
‭was reciprocating until she suddenly disappeared.‬

‭ ere is a good way to respond. It is a little extreme, but if‬


H
‭you set the correct vibe, and she genuinely forgot to text‬
‭back, you will get a reaction out of her- a good one.‬

‭"Dear diary, the cute girl vanished. Should I call 911?"‬

"‭ Hey, I'd like your advice. I met this interesting girl, but she‬
‭seems to be mute"‬

‭"If you're this quiet during sex, I'm friendzoning you."‬

‭ ee what we did there? We called her out, and when this‬


S
‭pops up on her phone, she will open it and reply, because‬
‭it's also a neg ( a kind of push)‬
‭ lso, learn to innovate this line. The exact words don't‬
A
‭matter as long as you end it with a negative line for her,‬
‭which shows your detachment and nonchalance.‬

‭ emember, you're a cool, chill guy who is screening this‬


R
‭girl to see if she's worth your time.‬
‭Detached Urgency‬
‭ emember that time when your friend asked you to go out‬
R
‭with him, but you said "no" because you knew he was‬
‭always available?‬

‭You are that friend, and that girl is you in this situation.‬

‭ ne of the mistakes guys make is that they show that they‬


O
‭are always available for the girl.‬

‭ he takes you for granted, and even if she is interested in‬


S
‭meeting you, she delays it because she knows you will‬
‭"always be there for her".‬

‭ et her know you're leaving town or that you are going to be‬
L
‭busy with your business after a certain deadline, so she has‬
‭to decide. Because it's now or never for her.‬

‭What is scarce is respected. Become scarce.‬

‭ his does not mean you become needy. You assert your‬
T
‭deadline.‬

‭You are the prize.‬


I‭ f she decides, good for her. If she doesn't- it's her loss.‬
‭Your life remains the same- FUCKING AMAZING.‬
‭FINAL THOUGHTS‬
‭ he goal has always been to STOP the brainwashing of Men‬
T
‭worldwide into becoming simps- because that is the REAL‬
‭Pandemic.‬

‭ e sure to keep applying the techniques that you've learned‬


B
‭here.‬

I‭ recommend going over this texting bible at least 3 times,‬


‭make notes, and keep beside you when you text women- at‬
‭least initially so that you can quickly refer and accordingly‬
‭reply (or choose to leave her on read)‬

‭ hen you know you are truly high value, you automatically‬
W
‭say the right shit. Trust me.‬

‭Till then, Keep Winning, Brother‬

‭-‬ ‭Bright‬

You might also like