common residence, economic cooperation and reproduction. It includes adults of both sexes at least two of whom maintain a socially approved sexual relationship and have one or more children of their own or adopted, of the sexually co- habiting adults. A family is a group of related kins linked by blood and umarriage who occupy a common household and usually characterised by economic cooperation and solidarity. Giddens (2010) defines a family as a group of persons directly linked by kin connections, the adult members of which assume responsibility of caring for children A family is an exclusive relationship in which members identify themselves as related, usually by ancestry, marriage or adoption and are committed to one another emotionally as well as financially. The family provides the earliest socialisation of the child It predetermines the social class the child will be born into. Teaches the child the basic knowledge and skills that the individual will need to develop as a human being – the language, the material phenomena around, the use of things in the environment, one’s deportment in social interaction, one’s identity, operational rules and roles in the family. The family teaches gender roles right from the start thus shaping individuals in terms of attitudes and behaviours concerning males and females according to the prevailing culture. Families are universal – there are elements of marriage, sex, and raising up of children ie feeding, provision of shelter etc Families are supposed to be permanent Families are dynamic – experience changes Composition of the family is universal, it comprises of the man, wife, children and close relatives. NB – Members of a family may or may not occupy a common household. The basis of association is both biological and social A family is a universal social institution of society, present in every community from simple to complex in one form or the other. 1. Nuclear Family/Monogamous family It consists of one husband and one wife at a time with their children It does not include any other person/relatives The man takes the wife to his domain It is common in the west and in Zimbabwe urban. It is characterised by weak ties with relatives of the wife and husband. It covers the parents of the couple and their children, brothers and sisters of the parents, brothers and sisters of the couple, grand great children of the couple. Is made up of one or two generations living together under one roof or in close proximity. Is composed of divorced or widowed parents who marry to raise their children together. Children in this family structure are strangers to one another Often relationships are tense and suspicious hence they do not share educational materials. Each parent helps his /her own child with educational resources. The man marries more than one wife He controls the entire household He brings them all to his domain It is practiced in various parts of Africa and Muslims ( Islamic ) The Holy Koran allows Muslims four wives at a time depending on their finances and other considerations. Is the most common family structure in the world Power and authority are held by the husband/father or the eldest male family member The man can have one or more than one wife at any given time and has control over them and their children. It consists of one husband and one wife at a time A woman takes her husband to her home Power and authority are exercised by the woman/ female spouse. Children of the marriage customarily belong to the wife/woman A woman marries several husbands at a time and brings them to her domain and exercises control over the entire household Children of the association belong to the woman and her lineage Is a form of matrilineal household and the opposite of the polygamous family Several men marry by arrangement, several women The women, children and form the family When the children grow up, the males automatically become husbands and females become wives Terms such as brothers and sisters are not used on biological grounds. A single parent family is headed by one parent who meets all the needs of the children Could be a woman or man Causes: Divorce/separation
Death of one spouse
By choice A single parent family is a viable alternative to marriage for working mothers because they have the financial resources to care for their children. Is a type of family whereby both parents are deceased or separated and a child below the age of 18 is responsible for the welfare of younger brothers and sisters In some cases one parent is deceased and the remaining parent is ill This is a challenge to the typical family structure ( homosexuality is a challenge to society ) They have adopted children as they cannot have children of their own. 1. Structural Functionalist Functionalists say that the family exists in every society. Talcott Parsons argues that families are functional and necessary in society to maintain order and stability Families allocate roles to their children according to ascribed cultural beliefs and customs Functionalists identified five basic functions of the family: 1. Reproduction; families ensure that the population of society is replaced. The family gives children first instructions of the norms Children are taught the language, values, customs and skills needed to be productive members of their society The family is the primary educational institution It reinforces values and customs taught in schools by helping children with homework and providing educational materials eg books etc The family gives the individual specific social identity ie; social class, racial or ethnic identity and religious affliation Social class, race or ethnicity influences the quality of one’s education, health care and housing. The family provides food, shelter, education to its family members Functionalists describe the family as a “haven in a heartless World” – a private place where family members can be themselves; even at their worst selves, without bring ridiculed and where they can express their feelings and receive love and affection. NB: From the functionalist perspective, families are weakened when other social institutions fail to reinforce or support family functions ie laws that support families to dissolve – such laws devalue family life and relationships
Divorce can be a corrective measure for poor
marriage choices to seek more compatible partners – thus improving the quality of marriage. Critics argue that by depicting the family as a “Haven in a heartless World”, functionalists mask the tension and violence thar often occur in families
The family is dysfunctional for women
Most important social functions of the family
favour men ie inheritance, ownership of property etc The socio – economic status of the family is of paramount importance for the socialisation of its children within the framework of societal demands. The socio – economic status of parents determines children’s status Membership to classes affects: The child’s performance The child’s type of school the child goes to The qualification that enables one to enter an institution of learning. Feminists look at gender inequality within the family They consider the relationship between husbands and wives as similar to the relationship between capitalists and workers The boy child is favoured in the family when resources are scarce he continues with school while the girl child is withdrawn and works for the family Male members of the family like capitalists enjoy greater rights and privileges Interactionists concentrate on the dynamic interaction within the family. Parents and children construct the family through their daily communication eg daily roles assigned to children have an attached meaning, type of toys given to boys and girls, comments given to boys and girls etc. 1. Discuss ‘the Ideal pupil’ concept in the family. 2. Discuss educational implications of children from: a) Nuclear family b) Compound family c) Extended family d) Single parent family e) Child headed family 3. Discuss the Conflict perspective views on the family.