The Winner Effect
The Winner Effect
The Winner Effect
Ian Robertson
Acknowledgements ix
Foreword 1
1 The Mystery of Picasso’s Son 9
2 The Puzzle of the Changeling Fish 53
3 The Enigma of Bill Clinton’s Friend 95
4 The Mystery of the Oscars 136
5 The Riddle of the Flying CEOs 181
6 The Winning Mind 238
Afterword 277
Notes 285
Further Reading 295
Index 297
These two stories throw up questions that this book sets out to
answer. What makes a winner? Are people like Fred Goodwin
born to success, or is it a result of chance and circumstance?
Would Ursula M. Burns have been so successful if she hadn’t
been given the power of early management positions that kindled
abilities that might otherwise not have been realised?
Why do some people have an enormous drive to win, while
others shy away from success and power? What does power do to
people – and what about powerlessness? Do success and power
make you live longer and better – and if so, why? Is power really
an aphrodisiac and if it is, how and why does it have this effect?
The question of winning underpins almost every part of our
lives. Who wins is the factor that shapes our lives more completely
than anything else. Winning is a drive as powerful as sex, and we
all want to win, whether we are aware of it or not. Think of the
ambitions swirling around the desks of any office; consider the
emotions and skirmishes surrounding promotion and advance-
ment. In its more naked form, look at the parents howling at the
sidelines of the football pitch for the victory of their seven-year-
old darlings. What are they shouting for? Winning. And they
want it very, very badly. Why do we want to win so badly, and
what makes a winner?
That is the question that I aim to answer in this book. In the
first chapter, The Mystery of Picasso’s Son, I consider the ques-
tion of whether people are born into winning. This is not an
abstract question – it is something that everyone should consider
in relation to their beliefs about their own lives and, even more
importantly, those of their children. This is because believing that
you are born into success – that you are endowed with winner’s
qualities as opposed to earning your success – can leave some
people demoralised and psychologically crippled. Whether you
are a winner or not, in other words, can depend on your beliefs
about winning and these preconceptions can, through biasing of
the very firing of your brain cells, act as self-fulfilling prophecies.
I will challenge you to examine your own preconceptions
about what lies behind your own achievements – or lack of
them – and gauge what your own drive to succeed is. I will also
encourage you to explore how you react to success and, more
importantly, to failure, along the way explaining how your brain
mediates these key aspects of your psychological make-up.
Chapter 2 offers another mystery – that of the changeling fish
– and asks the follow-up to the question of whether we are born
to win: is winning a matter of chance and circumstance? Ursula M.
Burns is at great pains to reject any notions that her achievements
at Xerox have anything to do with her gender or background, but
would her success been quite so brilliant had she not been given
the opportunities of an enlightened employer? Did the positions
of status and power she was given by Xerox actually create – or at
least kindle – the qualities and abilities that led her to becoming
the twentieth most powerful woman in the world?
These are the questions that are raised in Chapter 2 and in
answering them I will visit the boxing rings of Las Vegas, combat
between California mice, and the lower rooms of the Olympic
Games. I will show how indeed the chances of winning are
shaped by many things, from home advantage to bodily posture.
The winner inside can be raised up or crushed by subtle uncon-
sciously mediated effects related to gender, race and age that we
are completely unaware of.
power that comes from success ‘go to the head’ of some people,
leading to strange and at times harmful behaviour? Is power, as
Henry Kissinger maintained, really an aphrodisiac, and if so,
why is there such a link between sex and power?
And do men and women respond differently to power? Is
it a coincidence that almost all of the world’s worst dictators
have been men, or is this simply a by-product of the fact that
few women have gained such political power? How do power
and morality intersect? Does power ennoble or corrupt, morally
speaking?
In Chapter 6 we get up close and personal with power,
addressing the question of what makes a winner at its most raw
and intimate level. Almost everyone has had some power in their
life – all human relationships have some element of power strug-
gle about them. In relationships where there is an imbalance
of power, for instance parent and child or older versus younger
sibling, does simply being in the more powerful role distort
some people’s behaviour? Is the beastly older sister, say, who is
so nice to her friends, obeying simple laws of power more than
she is displaying hypocrisy? Why can human beings display
such apparently inconsistent and contradictory behaviour, and
how do their brains deal with these contradictions? Is there
anything comprehensible about such wanton cruelty whether in
a marriage or a political system?
The questions of success and power are so personal and so
important in every aspect of our lives that we can get glimpses
of their operation in our own minds. From time to time in the
book, therefore, I will ask you to complete some exercises and
questionnaires which will illustrate these often unconscious
mental processes at work.
The answers to the questions of what makes a winner and
how power affects us are as important to the life of every person
as they are to the collective future of the human race. This is not
just an ethical or theoretical issue, but a very physical product
of the interplay between our self and its environment. By learn-
ing to be aware of these physical roots of power and success,
we can better learn to control how power affects us and those
around us.
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