17th-Week 6 Non Verbal Communication
17th-Week 6 Non Verbal Communication
COMMUNICATION
OBJECTIVES
By the end of the unit, learners should be able to:
a) Discuss the forms of non-verbal communication.
b) Explain the importance of non-verbal communication in
organizations Outline the importance of visual communication
c) Explain instances when it is appropriate to use various visuals
in communication
d) Explain the rules that govern the use of visuals/ graphic
communication
Non Verbal communication
Literally means communication without words involves all those
elements of the communication process not embodied in word.
NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION (N.V)
Non Verbal Communication or Body Language
-is the process of sending and receiving messages without using words,
either spoken or written.
The way in which people’s behavior (intentionally and non-intended) –
such as looking at the speaker or nodding and smiling-can convey
messages just as effectively as anything they might say.
It is a form of communication through which we communicate bulks of
our information especially emotional response not so much upon what
another person says but upon what one does.
i. Culture
ii. Context
iii. Age
iv. Gender
v. Religion
Culture: In terms of culture it varies a lot all over the world how
accepted and appreciated touching is.
Most American women shave their legs and underarms and use a variety
of lotions to keep their hands soft to touch.
Context: If someone has their arms crossed it may just mean they are
chilly.
Before jumping to conclusions, put the conversation and the individual
into the context of the topic, timing and other external influences.
Age: With age it is found that the younger the person the more they are
found to touch.
Gender: It has also been found that women will touch more than men.
Haptics:
-This shows that haptics means a lot more to women than men.
-Research reveals that a hug and 10 minutes of hand holding with a
romantic partner greatly reduces the harmful physical.
Functions/ Interrelationships between verbal and non-verbal
communication.
6.Contradict
Nonverbal messages sometimes contradict what we say.
-A friend tells us she had a great time at the beach, but we're not sure
because her voice is flat and her face lacks emotion.
- nonverbal contradict verbal communication
The senses – sight, hearing, touch, smell, taste, we observe and react to
appearance cloths objects, surroundings
Nonverbal signals can help to clarify the words we use and reveal the
true nature of our feelings.
Habits- desk untidy, sound- a sign laugh, clicking a timid knock all
indicate something about people.
Face
The face often gives the most obvious and powerful signals.
It is extremely expressive, able to present countless emotions without
saying a word.
Unlike other zones greatly influenced by cultural norms, facial
expressions are the most universal.
Specifically, facial expressions for happiness, sadness, anger, surprise,
fear and disgust are the same across cultures.
Eyes
The eyes can indicate thought processes or cognitive function.
It is important not to read too much into a lack of eye contact since it is
common for many people to glance away when they are thinking.
Eyes can also perform a monitoring function.
From interpersonal to public speaking situations, we can monitor our
communication effectiveness by looking at others and monitoring their
feedback.
In the virtual environment, the eyes are our key indicator as to the other
person’s engagement.
Since virtual meetings take place over one’s computer, it is easy to get
distracted with incoming emails and other ongoing work projects.
How often have you had another screen or program open during a video
call?
If you are in a virtual meeting with someone and you notice them
looking at other parts of their screen it can signal distraction.
If you are in a virtual meeting with someone that does not involve a
demonstration or screen sharing, a key indicator that they are doing
something else and not giving you their full attention is if they begin
typing or using their mouse.
Confirming that the timing of the meeting still works for all participants
is a great way to keep everyone engaged.
Prepare for virtual meetings in the same way you would prepare for an
in-person meeting.
Clear your desk of distractions, close extraneous programs, and focus on
the conversation.
Posture
Most times, a person’s posture conveys their overall attitude,
confidence, and physical wellbeing.
In a virtual environment, a person’s posture may also indicate the
engagement level.
In person, leaning or slumping indicates a lack of interest; however, in a
virtual environment, comfort and time of day significantly impact
posture. The more time an individual has spent sitting at a desk chair in a
mobile environment, the more likely that posture is a function of
physical discomfort and poor circulation than the topic at hand.
Take breaks, stand up, and stretch, particularly before important
conversations.
Head position
The position of your head tells a story and reflects intent or position.
Your head position in a virtual meeting is another key indicator of
interest and engagement in the conversation.
A person who is holding their head up with their hand is not as awake
and engaged as someone who has their arms at their side and head facing
forward.
When the head moves from a lowered position to straight or even
slightly raised, this is a sign of sudden interest or a need for clarity.
That movement indicates that the listener has been snapped back into the
conversation.
Use head movement as a cue to ask for questions or input from other
participants.
There are many reasons why people do not always say what they mean.
Understanding the entire meaning of any communication means not only
listening to what is being said, but also ascertaining meaning from the
unspoken.
Many people fear that communication will suffer as a result of this
relatively new virtual environment, but it does not have to have a
negative impact.
While a virtual environment does demand paying closer attention to
small indicators and subtle movements, remember you are
communicating to another human being.
Giving consideration to time and length, as well as our own habits can
bridge the virtual gap technology creates.
1.Eye contact
Functions of eye contact:
To seek feedback,
to inform others when to talk,
to signal the nature of the relationship
To compensate for increased physical distance.
2.Chronemics
How we perceive use and react to time / influence by culture e.g. In
some culture time is precisely expressed and observed strictly while in
other it is closely inter or flexibly punctuality speaks volumes about our
perceived status of the person with whom we are going to meet.
3. Semiotics
Involves communication through signs and symbols presentational
aspects of a piece of writing an essay report are part of semiotics
elements. We give credibility to professional writing than the writing
with no margins poor handwriting dog- eared pages and a general
careless and haphazard appearance
Others include traffic lights, no smoking signs, disabled access signs
road signs
Signs can be divided into icons, indexes, and symbols. Icon resembles
object it represents e.g. portrait photo is an iconic sign or disabled access
signs indicating steep
Index a casual link with object inter e.g. smoke-rep fire
Symbol is arbitrary lacks resemblance to object rep. or even a casual link
e.g. a dove is a symbol of peace
4.Kinesics
Kinesics is the study of how we use body movement and facial
expressions.
We interpret a great deal of meaning through body movement, facial
expressions, and eye contact.
Many people believe they can easily interpret the meanings of body
movements and facial expressions in others - it is almost impossible to
determine an exact meaning for gestures, facial expressions, and eye
contact.
We rely a great deal on kinesics to interpret and express meaning.
We know that kinesics can communicate liking, social status, and even
relational responsiveness.
Facial expressions are a primary method of sharing emotions and
feelings. For example, imagine yourself at a party and you see someone
across the room you are attracted to.
The study of bodily movements that form a part of non-verbal
communication is known as Kinesics.
Examples:
i) Facial expression: The face is said to be the mirror of the mind.
Whatever we feel is reflected on our face.
The face can convey energy, anger, grief, sincerity and a host of
other feelings and emotions.
A smile means friendliness, while a frown means anger.
A creased forehead shows worry while a raised eyebrow shows
surprise.
Hence, it is very important to exercise a check and control over our
feelings.
Although this is a difficult task, you can get positive results with
continuous efforts.
ii) Gesture: Gestures are small body movements that transmit some
message.
It can even be the transmission of specific information.
Some gestures may be conscious while others may be involuntary.
Some gestures have an almost universal meaning, such as a headshake
for a “no” or a handshake as a “hello”.
Then there are other gestures that may have regional meanings.
Strictly speaking, gestures are a part of body language because our head
and hands tend to communicate by themselves in their own way.
iv) Tone and pitch of voice: The tone and pitch of the voice are
important aspects of communication.
Tone means the manner of speaking, while the pitch means the level of
the voice.
The volume in which communication is made has the potential of
revealing the sender’s attitude.
The pitch can spell out the urgency, while the tone indicates the mental
condition.
v) Clothes: A man is often judged by his appearance.
His clothes play an important role in enhancing his personality.
Shabbily dressed people may cut a sorry figure.
It is vital for one to look professional and efficient.
Accessories also play a major role in non-verbal communication.
Clothes and accessories relate to physical as well as socio-cultural
characteristics.
Sometimes, clothes and accessories manage to live up to the
expectations of the receiver, while at times they send a message through
a violation of these expectations.
5. Paralanguage
The world of communication that involves signs, signals, pitch, tone and
fluctuations to convey meaning is paralanguage.
Para means ‘like’ or ‘akin’.
Paralanguage means “like language,” but not actually a language.
Anything that performs the task of communication as a language without
being a language in the conventional sense of the word falls within the
purview of paralanguage.
Paralanguage is used to describe a wide range of vocal characteristics
which help to express and reflect the speaker’s attitude.
It is non-verbal because it does not consist of words.
Verbal communication is concerned with the content of the message –
what is being conveyed? On the other hand, paralanguage is concerned
with the manner in which the message is conveyed – how is it being
conveyed?
Paralanguage depends on voice, intonation, pitch, pause, volume, stress,
gestures and signals.
Through pitch and volume variation, stress on words, etc. one’s voice
can convey enthusiasm, confidence, anxiety and the speaker’s mental
state and temperament.
Advantages of paralanguage
i) No oral communication is complete without paralanguage as it is
closely connected to language itself.
ii) To a large extent, paralanguage indicates the position and situation of
the speaker, whether in an organization or in society.
iii) It also reflects the speaker’s personality and background to a great
extent.
iv) Paralanguage is indicative of the mental state of the speaker.
A discerning listener can derive the right conclusions from the pitch,
tone and speed of a message.
This can often be very useful.
Limitations of paralanguage
i) Paralanguage is ‘semi’ or ‘like’ a language.
It is not language by itself. Therefore, not all the advantages associated
with actual language can be attributed to paralanguage.
ii) Paralanguage involves the drawing of conclusions on the basis of a
number of peripheral (side) attributes.
Such drawings of conclusions need not always be right. In such a case,
they may also serve to create undue bias.
This, in itself, makes paralanguage misleading or confusing at times.
ii). Personal space: Personal space extends from 18 inches to four feet
where we have normal conversation with friends, colleagues and
associates.
It is used in informal talks and impromptu discussions in which one may
not be averse to taking important decisions.
iii). Social Space: This can be anywhere between four feet and 12 feet.
It reflects a formality of relationship. It also reflects a lack of
spontaneous behaviour. An individual’s responses are more collected
and well thought-out. Social space reflects reason, planning and control,
usually associated with business communication within a formal
relationship.
iv). Public Space: This starts from a distance of 12 feet. One has to raise
one’s voice to be heard. There is a lack of personal feelings and an
added sense of detachment.
7. Haptics
Haptics is the study of touch.
Touching is governed by aspects like;
- gender, for example women touch more than men do,
-age, children touch more than adults do,
- relationship, people who are relating intimately will touch more.
Those who don’t have positive touch in their lives are less healthy both
mentally and physically than those who experience positive touch.
8. Silence:
Silence speaks louder than words.
It lays down the relationship between communicators and their attitude
towards each other.
Silence shows the inability to converse further.
A student who has not done his homework will stay mum when the
teacher asks him for it.
SUMMARY
Importance aspects
Non-verbal communication is continuous-there are no turns
N.V can be both intentional and unintentional sometimes we change
postures touch our faces tap our feet unconsciously or gesture as we talk
over the phone.
We can frown or shake head or nod to communicate intentionally
N.V communicate conveys emotions not ideas
It is our primary means of conveying emotion e.g. our enthusiasm,
tiredness, anger passion.
It provides cues not facts
It can be ambiguous and not always essay to judge accurately, accuracy
increases as we know each other better, knowledge provides a baseline
so that we are aware when there are deviations from the norm
It should be read as clusters
It is important to take in the whole picture. E.g. it is not always that
standing with hands on the hips, feet apart signals determination or
closed arms defiance consider the facial expression e.g. whether smiling,
frowning, level of tension, spatial r/ship etc.
VISUAL COMMUNICATION
This refers to graphic communication, its used to express relationship
between things e.g. age and height, to express unusual shapes and
complicated movements.
2.Flow Charts
Charts are diagrams that do represent the flow of information or
activities from one part to another which are connected by arrows.
Feedback
3.Tables
This is a representation of some statistical information, in a manner that
will be easily understood and mostly using numeric representation.
Example
Category Non-Citizens Citizens Totals
Senior Staff 15 13 28
Junior Staff 25 26 51
Totals 40 39 79
4. Linear Graphs
This is a diagram that represents information using loci points which are
the joint points between the X and Y axis.
Rainfall
30
20
10
0
Rainfall
From the above graph we note that as rainfall increases, the yield also
goes up.
When line graphs are drawn accurately it is easy to locate the values of a
point along the line.
Large figures as those represented in millions can be drawn to scale.
4.Bar Charts
Bar Charts are representations of information using Bars.
The points of intersection are indicated by use of bars.
For example:
Comparison of rainfall
120
100
80
Rainfall
60 Maximum
40 Minimum
20
0
1990 1992 1994 1996 1998
Year
The tallest bar shows the highest rainfall while the shortest bar indicates
the lowest rainfall recorded.
5.Pictographs
These are information represented in the form of figures or symbols.
The value for each figure is indicated by either the size or the number of
figures shown.
Pictographs are usually interesting and easily understood.
Example:
Jan
Feb
Mar.
= 1000 Units.
6.Pie Charts
These diagrams present information in a circular form.
It is easy to estimate percentages in such diagrams.
This is often used when it is necessary to show the relationship of a part
to a whole.
It is preferable not to use too many segments in the pie rest the impact is
lost.
Shading may be used to focus special attention on a single segment.
They should be used to show simple relationships because when they are
complex they become had to interpret.
In a school it can be used for gender representation (two that is male and
female) but not for individual performances representation in class (say
class of forty students)
7.Models
A model is a replica of an actual object; it is used when an object is:
Too small to be seen e.g. a human cell
Too inaccessible to the eye e.g. a human heart
Too large to be displayed e.g. a building
Models are effective as they show how something looks like and they
are three dimensional
REVISION QUESTIONS