Consignment 2
Consignment 2
I am a nice, friendly lady who likes meeting new people who share similar
interests. The more two people think the same, the better the match.
My name is Sandra Smith. I was born in Wisconsin on June 4, 1981. I have lived in
Virginia Beach since I was four. I am the only daughter of my family and have
struggled to survive on my own. I got a brand new Escalade Jeep when I turned 22. I
have always been a very active person. I cheered for six years, danced for five,
before I got into catering jobs. I have a four-year-old daughter, Isabella, living
with me.
I have been single for about two years and have never found a true relationship
after I got separated from my daughter's father. I met him in school, and I took
care of him a lot. Later, things went well for us until we lived together as a
couple. But then, I discovered the type of guy he was.
I have been hurt a lot in the past, and I don't like to remember this silly story,
but I like to tell you part of it because I see you as a caring and truthful fellow
to talk to.
I got a catering contract in Germany for about six months, and I left to work, not
just to be lazy. After I got the work done, I was paid about $100,000. I never knew
this would happen, and I sent him $70,000 to get a new house for us and start a
good business together.
I didn't tell him yet when I was coming home, just because I had been hearing some
rumors about him. My flight arrived at night that day, and I had to wait till
morning before I got home. And on my getting home, I caught him red-handed with my
friend Mary in the same apartment we rented, having sex. I fainted and spent about
three days in the hospital before I woke up. After then, our relationship was not
working out well again, so we had to put a stop to it.
Can you tell me a little about you as well, and your relationship?
I lost my father in a fatal accident on July 26th, 2008, and that has been a bad
day for me... sad, sad, sad, remembering this, and after this, my mother and I
struggled hard to survive because my mom had cancer for about 14 years. I lost her
as well on February 9th, 2012.
I know what caused her death was because of my late father's family; they treated
us badly because they wanted all of Dad's properties from us, and my mom said no,
they could only get part of it, not all.
Well, I will say my father was the best man I have ever loved. He is so caring,
loving, God-fearing, respectful, and responsible. But I trusted and believed in
God, and I know God is doing His things in His own way. I have learned to be a
strong woman and hardworking, just like my mom.
What do you do for living? What do you do for fun? How do you find it easy to live
alone with no woman with you, who does cooking and home cleaning?
For me, I have not been finding it easy again now to live alone because I like to
see someone I love beside me and share feelings and talk to... you know what I
mean.
I enjoy exercising daily, which either involves weight training or aerobics. I
think it is important to exercise and eat very healthy meals. I love to go out
dancing, to nice romantic dinners, and shopping at large malls like the Mall of
America.
I enjoy romantic music and slow dancing as well as fast dancing. I prefer romantic,
attractive, affectionate men. I believe that romance is a very important part of
the relationship. I enjoy men who are confident with themselves and are not afraid
to express themselves in a diplomatic way.
I think it is very important that two people want the same thing in a relationship.
I believe that this should be discussed and communicated clearly when two people
first meet. I do not believe in wasting my time or the other person's time because
life is too short.
I believe each person should be allowed to be who they are and be free to give
their best for each other's mutual benefit. I do not like controlling men who do
not communicate well and have agendas or excessive previous baggage. I like men who
I can have a good conversation with.
I like men who are interested in exercise and physical fitness. I like men who read
to improve themselves and find value in self-help books. I also like men who are
either spiritual but not necessarily religious.
I also enjoy attending a good church that leaves you feeling better about yourself
when you leave. I have been on lots of dating sites, but I don't think I will ever
do that again. I met a guy from the Netherlands; he only wanted my money after that
he wanted my money I just need to trust you more and think maybe we can plan for
meeting and know each other better and see if things will work out for us. I don’t
want to get hurt again, please.
How sure am I if you are truly ready for a good relationship, not like others? I
just need someone that will help me out, even just a friend, not necessarily a
relationship, and I will give him some of it. I have tried all ways to talk to the
lawyer to help me out, but he said no. He wants good for me as the promise he made
to my father before his death.
If you will help me out, I can talk to him and you can also talk to him as husband
and wife. Just don’t let him know we live far away. Please, you have to be truthful
with me.
After I talk to him, I will give you his contact or email so you can talk to him.
Please be honest with me and don’t let anyone know about this, just because of
Dad’s family—they may try to get this again. Thanks for being honest and caring.