Gift Assignment

NAIROBI PENTECOSTAL BIBLE COLLEGE
WANZUA CENTER
ASSIGNMENT BY: GIFT WAMBUA
0746816830
PAPER SUBMITTED IN PARTIAL FULFILMENT OF COURSE:
BASIC CHRISTIAN COUNSELING
ON
30TH AUGUST, 2024
TO
JOHN MUNGAI
LESON 1
Q1. Describe the characteristics of an effective:
a. Christian Counselor
1. A good Christian counselor follows the teachings of the Bible.

This means that they will seek to help you find healing and wholeness in Jesus Christ. They
will also look to the Bible as a source of wisdom and guidance for your situation.
Additionally, they will pray with and for you, providing spiritual support as you work
through difficult issues. If you’re looking for Christian marriage counselors who follow the
Bible, be sure to ask about their beliefs and approach.
2. They express selfless love.
A good Christian counselor is someone who shares the love of Christ with others through the
counseling process. This love is expressed in a number of ways, but it always involves a
selfless commitment to meeting the needs of others.
A Christian counselor views their clients as precious children of God, and they strive to help
them experience all the joy and peace that comes from a relationship with Christ. They are
also willing to sacrifice their own time and resources to ensure their clients receive the help
they need. In short, a Christian counselor expresses the selfless love of Christ through their
counseling ministry.
3. They never give advice that they don’t apply to themselves.
A Christian counselor would never give advice that they don’t apply to themselves. After all,
how can they expect clients to follow their advice if they’re not living it out?
Good Christian counselor strives to live according to the principles they espouse. In doing so,
they provide a testimony of hope and grace that can inspire others to do the same. At Impact
Family, our firm belief is that Christian counselors are responsible for leading by example.
4. They tell the truth, even in difficult situations.
A Christian counselor is committed to telling the truth, even when it is difficult. This can
sometimes be a challenge, but it is essential to their job. Christian counselors believe that
truth is ultimately what will set people free from their struggles. They also believe that God is
sovereign and capable of using even difficult truths to accomplish His purposes.
b. Counselling session
 Building trust between the counselor and the client.
 Counselor should not rush to draw conclusions in the session.
 Both the counselor and the client should be active in listening and responsiveness.
 There shouldn’t be emotional attachment between the counselor and the client.
 The counselling process should be collaborative. The counselor does not fix the
client; the work requires interaction and commitment from both parties.
Q2. In half a page, discuss the purposes of counselling.
Uncovers the source of suffering.
Sets goals for improved quality of life.
Develops a treatment plan.
Provides a supportive and safe place to discuss problems, concerns, and mental health issues
in a confidential setting.
It can help you to deal with stress, provide treatment for anxiety and treatment for depression.
Counselling can provide you with the opportunity to reassess or set new goals in your life and
help you to gain clarity and direction.
LESSON 2
Identify other 3 issues in the old and testament (apart from the ones already listed in
this lesson) and search for relevant scriptural verses that could be used to counsel them.
- You may use a bible concordance to help you do the work.
a) Suffering
Isaiah 53:3, Matthew 16:21, romans 5:8, Luke 24:26, 1st Corinthians 12:26, Hebrews 13:12,
1st Peter 2:20
b) Relationship and marriage issues

Romans 7:2, 1st Corinthians 7:33, 1st timothy 4:3, 5:14, Ephesians 5:23, 1st timothy 3:2,
genesis 2:24, proverbs 5:18, proverbs 31:10, Ecclesiastes 9:9
c) Drug and alcohol

Ephesians 5:18, Isaiah 5:22, genesis 9:21, proverbs 23:21, 1st peter 4:3, Galatians 5:21, 1st
Corinthians 6:10, 1st Corinthians 5:11.
LESSON 3
Q1. Discuss one of the issues above giving examples from your experience where
applicable.
Job Loss
Losing your job can cause shame, grief, disappointment, guilt, and self-defeating thoughts. In
addition to the negative impact on your self-esteem, you have to worry about your
finances and a new job. Your daily routine has changed abruptly, which can be difficult to
adapt to—especially if you’ve been at your job for a long time. Here's how to cope with job
loss:
Don’t ignore your feelings: For some people, losing a job feels like losing a loved one. You
might feel shocked, sad, depressed, angry, or any combination thereof—all normal. Feel your
feelings instead of bottling them up.
Learn to accept your situation: Try to focus on the things you can control, such as your
reaction, attitude, and forward movement. Losing your income and benefits could mean
major lifestyle changes, so take charge of your finances: Make a budget and get help from a
financial advisor.
Reach out to your network: You might feel alone in this, but you aren’t, and you don’t have
to deal with this by yourself. Connect with friends and family. Job loss is common; sharing
your experiences can help you understand your situation better and learn from others.
Q2. Describe the counselling process that you would offer to Martha who has just lost
her husband and is undergoing grief. In your work explain:
a) How you will attend to her as she comes in.

Welcome her and give her a reassuring hug.
b) How will you carry out the counseling process?

Validate feelings. It is important to make it clear that you understand the person's feelings.
Ask open questions. Don’t ask leading questions or “yes” and “no” questions
Paraphrase responses. When you are trying to get to the core of their problems, try giving a
short summary of what you think they have told you. This will demonstrate that you are
listening and might help them get a better grip on what is bothering them the most.
Reflect their feelings. When you get a sense for how they feel, verify that you have correctly
understood their emotions. This is a way to demonstrate that you are listening and that you
have developed an emotional connection.
c) What homework assignment you will give her.

Goodbye Letter: This worksheet is a writing exercise that allows one to describe the person
they are grieving, unforgettable memories with that person, and lessons learned from the
relationship. It will help build positive meaning associated with the lost relationship and
begin moving toward closure.
d) How you will wind up your session
Explore the feelings and the potential sense of loss for her. Discuss positive and negative
reactions to ending the relationship and the therapy. Focus on and emphasize the gains and
progress she has made. Help her recognize the positive changes.
LESSON 4
Explain 3 factors (other than the ones listed above) that you think couples should
embrace to keep the family bond stronger.
a) Spending quality time together

Having more time together increases the bond between couples because it gives them an
opportunity to learn and appreciate each other’s personality.
b) Cultivating Honesty
When one is honest to the spouse it is easy to be honest to the other people. Honesty is a
fundamental factor that builds trust. When there is trust, love is encouraged to increase.
c) Work on accountability
Many people nowadays don’t want to be accountable to each other leading to individual
secrets more so on money matters. Couples ought to tell one another their whereabouts, how
much money they earn, what they want; it’s good to inform your partner when you are going
out so that they feel they are part of you.
LESSON 5
In half a page or more, explain the role of secular psychology in Christian counselling.
Secular theorists provide insights on human behavior as a result of their research and
practice. These insights are helpful to the Christian counselor when they are compatible with
the insight provided in God’s word.
It focuses more on imperially therapeutic concepts such as cognitive – behavioral therapy or

talk therapy. These types of therapies can help individuals gain insights into how their
thinking affects the behavior and explore new coping strategies for dealing with life issues.
LESSON 6
What other effects (other than the ones listed in this lesson) do you think that
technology and globalization are likely to have in Christian counseling services in the
future?
 With the use of technology, clients are able to connect with their therapist in a more
comfortable way. They can see their therapist's facial expressions, which may lead to
a greater sense of empathy and understanding.
 Studies have shown that counselors can utilize Information and Communication
Technologies (ICT) and Virtual Learning Environments (VLE) to support students
with learning disabilities and provide effective guidance and counseling in
educational settings
 Technology also provides a level of anonymity that can help reduce the stigma
associated with seeking mental health care.
 Another effect is the personalization of care. Digital tools and platforms offer tailored
interventions, matching therapeutic techniques and strategies to individual client
needs.

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NAIROBI PENTECOSTAL BIBLE COLLEGE

ASSIGNMENT BY: GIFT WAMBUA

PAPER SUBMITTED IN PARTIAL FULFILMENT OF COURSE:

BASIC CHRISTIAN COUNSELING

30TH AUGUST, 2024

Q1. Describe the characteristics of an effective:

1. A good Christian counselor follows the teachings of the Bible.

b) Relationship and marriage issues

c) Drug and alcohol

a) How you will attend to her as she comes in.

b) How will you carry out the counseling process?

c) What homework assignment you will give her.

d) How you will wind up your session

a) Spending quality time together

It focuses more on imperially therapeutic concepts such as cognitive – behavioral therapy or

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