Hello ???

It was lovely to see your reply,How are you? I hope you are well and fine.I want to
tell you a bit about my self and i think this will define who i am and what i do
for living.I hope you'll tell me some more about youtself in your next mail. I
really like everything I read in your profile and my instincts tell me you are a
good woman..But here we are with you in
The States and me???, far away in the middle east(Iraq, Baghdad) on Peace keeping
with
the army...Too bad isn't it? well as long as we have life,we can still have time
for our selves in the near future,what matters is life,right?I do understand the
distance thing; I just truly believe that there are no boundaries as you seek your
life companion...

How do I set the ball rolling? Well i am an American I am Gary Miller Harris????, I
was born and bread in the town of Addison,Texas some 45 years ago??? by a British
..my parents met at the university..that was what i was told...

Talking about my family background am the only son of my late parents.That reminds
me of a good and lovely family we had together in the States. I have lived in
Addison, ever since i was brought up here by my late uncle to stay with him and
help in his Military interruption after finishing High School in Addison and study
mechanical engineering in a local community collage in Addison...

I later enrolled into the Marine Military Academy, Harlingen, Texas when i was
21years and graduated in 1975 as a Sergeant.Shortly after commissioning, I then
obtained a study leave to furthered my education in Defense Intelligence,sponsored
by the Military at the Marine University..

I have also been in and out Ramstien Camp in Germany that is where i was given the
post as a Colonel and that is where most Generals in every army are trained. I was
first stationed at the Royal Artillery Barracks,Woolwich in South East London, I
have been in the army for 24 years and i have been to many bases in USA to work
there as well as Germany,Afghanistan,Saudi Arabia and Iraq,..and trust me i have
seen and experienced being in the US army and i never regret joining the army.

I love life and still have some love to share with a special lady. Life can be
lonely without someone...I am a person who is very real when it comes to life and
its' issues.I wouldn't like to comment much but rather every one has an objective
of join dating site. I don't request for anything rather than loving and happy
committed relationship with someone special. Always thank God for granting me my
life..

I'm not a fighter and I don't argue, life's too short but I do walue friendship and
intimacy.Respect is one of the most requisite in a relationship, as are honesty
and commitment I believe either of us had in mind of meeting someone special online
but it has just come to pass with our personality description towards learning few
things about each other.

I'm ready to fall in love with someone special who ever that happens to be.. there
are few qualities which talks about a genuine woman in relationship, such as
faithfulness,loyalty, trustworthy, Honesty,respectful etc. I guess having those
qualities in relationship can really help a lot. I am not looking to fill a void in
my life, I am looking for my soul mate. I consider myself a very easy going person,
even tempered. I love to cook and a perfect evening would be to decide on a
wonderful menu and cook together while enjoying a fine glass of red wine and great
music.

I enjoy many type of music from easy listening jazz to classical to country western
especially kenny Rogers.I love to have adventures, large or small, and am looking
for
someone to share them with. I look into the future with hope and would like to
create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a
relationship with longevity and not just something which will end in just a blink
of an eye. I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day
enjoyable.

Honestly I've all that it takes to be a man, I don't really need anything from my
partner. maybe in terms of circumstances there might be some kind of help from each
other, helping to make things right.It's not all that easy meeting that right woman
with all those qualities which I'm dreaming of. I am a very sincere person who
laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased and who communicates openly and
honestly.I pride myself in being independent both emotionally and financially.

I have reached the point where I am looking for someone who is open to a new
friendship and maybe even a committed relationship. . I love life and would like to
live it to the fullest,but its not all that easy without someone to share those
life experiences with. I think two heads are better than one. I was married for 10
years but unfortunately,My partner died of cancer in the blood rendering me a
widower now..

Well I believe God has his own purpose for that... I am currently on a PEACE
KEEPING MISSION in Iraq (Baghdad) and will be home in some weeks or months and
that is one main reason why i joined the dating website even though its not safe
out here to be using the internet and everything i still had a thought about dating
since for a long time now i never went on a date and am about to go on long working
leave and want to have that special woman in my life so that when i come back on
from the long vacation Leave i can be with her till the end of the world.

I never knew how to do this online chat and it was my friend in the Camp who
introduced me to chating online and to send emails.... would love to hear your
voice but it's rather unfortunate we have a communication break down because we are
not allow to use Phones because of the enemies and self defence but we can use
only the internet that is the only form of communication for us in the Camp and
hope you can bear with me for
sometime...Looking forward to hearing from you soon..
Take Care

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